Jan. 9, 2019

Whats Your Next? And How Will You Make It Happen?

Whats Your Next? And How Will You Make It Happen?

What will you do with your one, precious life? Full of “nexts,” you get to decide daily just what comprises this life of yours. It’s easy to get pulled down by the sheer momentum of everyday life. It takes dreaming about the life you want and all its...

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What will you do with your one, precious life? Full of “nexts,” you get to decide daily just what comprises this life of yours. It’s easy to get pulled down by the sheer momentum of everyday life. It takes dreaming about the life you want and all its “next steps” and then striving to make it so. If you’re UP to something, there’s a very good chance you will need help, guidance, or support to bring it into fruition. In this episode, Extra Mile Shawn Anderson and I talk about the vitality going for our dreams in life gives you, and how you can find catalysts to make them come true. We urge you: do something worthy of your one precious life.

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There are some people that make their
work just another thing they have to do,

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and there are those that make their
work something that they want to do.

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Welcome to Working on Purpose with your
host Elise Cortes. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration from those
people who have found deeper meaning and

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personal connection to their work life.
It's beyond nine to five. It's working

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on Purpose. Now Here is your
host, Elise Cortes. I'm your host,

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Elise Cortes, joining you live from
Dallas, Texas home base for me.

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You've been tuning in for a while. You know this program is all

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about how people create more meaningful and
productive personal and work lives and equipping leaders,

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insight organizations to cultivate meaning and purpose
to elicit passion, inspired contribution,

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innovation, and persevering performance. I
talk with my guests to draw on their

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expertise and share my own experience consulting, speaking and developing workforces across the globe.

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In these weekly comes. It is
my intention that you derive value you

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can immediately apply to your personal and
work lives. So I invite you to

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listen in from that vantage point,
and it is my fervent hope that you

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come alive with the possibility of living
with passion, working on a purpose and

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seeing just how big and fulfilling your
life and work can be. And if

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you do catch fires, I like
to say, and you know I want

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to leave you without a support line. Your call to action you should write

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We'll get you taken care of.
Back to the program with us this

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week for a special New Year's Day
send off is Sean Anderson. Let me

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say a little bit about him,
because you got to get this for what

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we're talking about today. He is
a number one ranked motivational author, unlimited

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thinker, and lifetime entrepreneur with the
history of inspiring others. He's a seven

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time author. In fact, he's
also the creator of Extra mile day a

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day, recognizing the power we each
have to create positive change when we go

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the extra mile. Sean walks his
talk. Besides having inspired tens of thousands

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through his speaking and writing, including
an inspirational speaking tour in the Philippines attended

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by twenty thousand attendees, Shawn's built
a million dollar company, pedled a bike

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solo across the United States twice,
and created adventures in more than forty five

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countries, including having walked border to
border across six of them. We'll be

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talking today about the importance and glee
of pursuing your next that next thing in

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life that you that you get you
bolting out of bed in the morning,

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running strong after your dream, and
what you can do to make sure that

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next actually come to fruition. He
joined today from Marina del Rey, California.

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Sean, welcome back again to Working
on Purpose. That's my privilege to

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talk to my favorite podcast radio host
in the entire world, Elise Cortes.

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Oh wow, you know you got
to expand your circle a little bit,

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Sean, No, man, I
just you know, I just flocked with

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the ego And who's better than a
Lae Cortez? Right, Well, we've

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been on a few times now.
I think this might be number four,

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right, think, but it's just
so much fun. We've got to keep

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going back. Okay, lucky me, right, Yeah, So let's kick

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it off. Let's talk about this
amazing thing called life. So as far

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as I know, and maybe you
know differently, but we only get one

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shot at this thing, and so
today we're talking about what we do with

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that one precious life that's full of
nexts, how we're going to make it

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happen. So by next, of
course, when I think about next,

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I mean the next adventure, the
next move, relationship, great idea,

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exercise, goal, job level in
your career, whatever it is, Right,

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that's the next. What do you
think? So good? Yeah,

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I'm absolutely with you. Let's go
Okay, well, I want to start

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this conversation really presencing some of your
next because I think it's great to open

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the minds of possibility for our listeners, because next might be hard to think

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about it if you're just sort of
stuck where you're at right now. So

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you are a man of many of
those next and so let's just start seven

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motivational books. The Extra Mile Day, Extra Mile America. I remember as

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well, and these forty five international
adventures. So the first thing I got

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to get and I know a little
something about your background from our conversations,

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but where did all the ideas come
from for these nexts? You know?

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I think it starts with just asking
yourself one question, what do I want

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to do with my life? You
know, because if you can answer that

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question really honestly and truthfully, from
there, you have a starting point of

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being able to really live that life. And you know you said it,

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we get one life. Life is
short. So this mysterious, amazing adventure,

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I don't want to leave it not
having not having really experienced it,

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not having really lived it, not
having really achieved those those goals, those

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whispers in my heart, those things
that I want to create. So that's

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what always prompts my next is,
Sean, what do you want to do?

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What do you want to do now? What do you want to do

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next? So that's amazing. That's
a lot of energy. I've always known

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you to have a lot of energy, and I got to share that.

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For me, Why do I believe
in next? There's a couple of reasons.

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One, it just feels great to
be up to something. It helps

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me feel alive that I'm actually I'm
doing something like that. But two,

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from the vantage point of scholarship and
just research, what we know by looking

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at the well being studies is that
achievement is one of those really important things

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that goes into making us feel great
about ourselves and our lives. And so

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I've looked a lot at the literature
around well being, leadership, inspiration,

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passion, purpose, and Martin Seligman, among others, talk about the importance

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of achievements. So that next thing
isn't It isn't something that we made up.

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It's well known, and there's a
lot of not just the people that

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are crazy like you and I,
Sean, but everybody needs some kind of

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achievement in their lives well. And
I think when you start to remove the

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what's next for you your life,
life starts to suffer in a lot of

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ways. I mean, it's documented
that Olympic Olympians once the Olympics is over,

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they're not quite sure what to do
next. They go into a state

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of depression because their purpose has been
taken away. You take people who have

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who have been healthy and gone to
work and then all of a sudden they

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retire and they don't have a what's
next, and all of a sudden,

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their health starts to fall falter,
their attitude starts to falter. It's because

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I believe at our core that we
are driven by purpose. I believe that

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when we have purpose, we have
the chance to live passion. And when

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those two things come together, passionate
purpose, passionate purpose, man, that's

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when the whole world opens up to
us. I completely agree, as you

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know you and I can finish these
other sentences these days in that way.

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But I want to talk to a
certain number of people out there, and

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I want to make sure we all
know when we say this that I've been

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in this number of people. So
in my work, Sean, when I'm

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out and about talking to people,
or are doing programs inside organizations, or

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just talking to people in the grocery
store, I see people all the time

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who when I ask them, how
are you, they'll say, is it

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Friday yet? And so they've come
to really get in on the idea that

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they're just kind of secling through their
lives. They're waiting for the weekend to

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beginning whenever it is. They're not
actually working, and I understand there's nobody

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home behind those eyes, there's the
lights around, that nobody's home kind of

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thing. And I've been one of
those people, Sean. I mean,

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I know what it feels like not
to go for your dreams and instead live

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a quiet life of desperation and frankly
be depressed by living in that state by

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not going for what I wanted.
So I know what this feels like.

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And a big reason I'm doing the
work that I'm doing is to be able

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to help people find that passionate purpose
again because it makes such a huge difference

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in our lives. Well, that's
right, and it goes back to that

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thing that you said at the very
beginning. To the best of our knowledge,

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we get this one life. And
when we really understand that, we

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really under when we really understand the
shortness of life, a limited number of

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years, months, days, breaths
that we have. Man, we should

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be inspired by our day. We
shouldn't be waiting for a Friday. But

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I got to tell you, there's
some great adventures to be had on a

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Monday. There's some really cool people
to meet on a Tuesday. Wow,

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the ideas that you can create on
a Wednesday and Thursday, every single day

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is unique and special. If you
choose it to be. Of course,

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you can wait till Friday. You
can live one day a week, and

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I'll tell you what, at the
end of your life, I got to

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believe that you're going to be wishing
that you had to live those other six

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as well. Completely agree. In
fact, a couple of months ago,

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I think it was well, it
was just before Thanksgiving, Sean, I

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had on a very interesting guest in
my radio show, and when she reached

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out to me to ask could you
be on? At first I turned her

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down because she's an undertaker. She
is the owner and operator of a place

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called Cornerstone Funeral Services in Oregon.
And the more I thought about it,

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Sean, the more I realized,
Wow, who's got a better vantage point

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on this thing of life then somebody
who handles death all the time, somebody

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who understands that life comes to profound
ending whether or not we plan it or

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not. And we had the most
amazing conversation about just that. She was

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the most zesty undertaker I could possibly
imagine meeting. Wow, that's really cool.

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Can I ask what one thing you
took most from that conversation with her?

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Gosh, there were several several several. A couple of things would be

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that I did ask her about,
you know, can you give us an

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example of someone that you've met who's
really really lived a good life, lived

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life well. And she talked about
a man who had lost six people and

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just a span of a few years, and that yet he still was able

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to live with such gratitude and such
such effervescence and passion and just enjoy all

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of this encounters. So that's one
she also talked about, She's what she's

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doing for a living is her calling. She said that she lost her mom

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when I think she said she was
in her early teens, maybe eleven or

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twelve something like that, and went
on a quest was a funeral crasher and

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went around looking at all the sorer
of funerals to see how they were done,

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and was just obsessed with how people
handle death and finally realized this was

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her path. And so, you
know, it was kind of amazing to

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imagine that this was her calling and
that's how she sees it. Wow.

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Well, you know, I'm really
grateful that there are so many different people

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in the world that are so different
from me, that are so different from

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you, because that's what really makes
the world super cool in my opinion.

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That's that's why I travel to all
these countries, because I get a chance

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to see so many people who are
so different, doing so many different things.

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And from all those people, we
have a chance to really learn and

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to evolve and to transform and to
become our best person. And oftentimes it's

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when we really reach out and extend
ourselves to other people and learn from new

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people that we we will discover at
a deeper level what our next might be.

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I think when it's the books that
we read and the people that I

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meet that I've changed my life,
that have helped open the door to,

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you know, the possibility of what
my next might be. To that end,

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I would really love it, Sean, if you could share with our

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listeners the way that you do your
walks when you go, like, I

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know, you just finished your walk
from in Italy this summer, and you

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have a very particular approach to that
whole process that would probably make a lot

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of people really uncomfortable, and it's
on purpose. Will you tell us,

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well, I have walked across six
countries in the last four years, Spain,

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Portugal, Italy, seven hundred and
fifty miles around Shakoku, Japan,

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England and Ireland. And you know, when I set out on a day,

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when I start first off, first
off, once I arrive in the

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country, when I get to my
starting point, I do not take other

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transportation. It's just not possible.
You've got two feet, You've got the

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backpack on your back, and that's
what you're going with. You know where

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your end date is and you know
when you got to get their bias.

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So you try to get as many
miles in as you can. Although each

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day I have no clue how many
miles I can really go. I have

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a rough idea of where I want
to make it, and I pray to

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Goodness that I can find a bed
to sleep. But man, that's what

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I do. I set out.
I walk as fast and as hard as

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I can during the day. When
I get to a town, when it's

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around four o'clock, I start looking
for a place to sleep. That's how

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it goes. I don't know where
I'm going to sleep. I don't know

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where I'm gonna eat. All I
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walking as well and as fast as
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phenomenal. And there's a rationale behind
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I just think that honestly, the
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to the spontaneity of where I can
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unlimited type, this unlimited hype purpose
within myself. If I just keep walking

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and going, I just think new
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in life, and that's why I
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be. But you know what,
I'm open to the flexibility of having to

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get to that goal. I don't
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I know where my next is going
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open to just letting my best self
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get there on these walks, you
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a lot. You know, when
you don't know where you're going to sleep,

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and you don't know where you're going
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a vegetarian and I and in some
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vegetarian to find food. But man, you just go. You trust yourself,

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you believe in yourself, and the
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The more you're going to find that
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to do, and that gives you
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that I say, in my heart, I believe I can do that,

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you know what, I sincerely believe
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that I've now had. I love
how you generated that, Sean, I

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completely agree. And it's that thing
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what you think maybe you can do
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out that I think is just so
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days we'd love to do something like
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your approach for people that really need
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really scary for them, and I
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a part of what you just discussed. You know. It's so interesting,

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though, is as we go through
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living the life we planned at HG
eighteen. Because the structure that we try

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to apply to life life has such
a deep, dark humor that you know

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that's going to blow our structure up
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So it's it's it's it's it's good
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But I don't think that we want
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and the vitality and the energy and
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so much that we forget what a
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You know what I'm going to do
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my next is going to take my
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breathe the air and just just be
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and and and the more that we
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will we will gain for life.
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for life, the more that we
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the more we don't want to waste
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to create. Are what's my next? I completely agree with that, And

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as you know, I mean,
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my talks and my programs is this
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what you said, go out on
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Go looking for them. They're out
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and to experience them. But they're
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is a great example of the simplicity
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in a way that build your passion, fuels your passion, and gives you

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something to be inspired about. I
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this word called fascination. I think
the more that you become fascinated by conversation,

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the more that you become fascinated by
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fascinated by nature, I think,
the more that you'll become fascinated by all

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the possibility that is really truly open
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become, if you really want to
think and explore, what's your next I

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challenge people to go out at night
time on a clear night, look up

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at the stars and just realize,
Wow, this universe that we belong in

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is so infinite. It's just infinite, And why do we choose to think

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so small when we belong to something
that is so infinite impossibility? So,

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you know, when people are struggling
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do next, and this goes back
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I say, just go take a
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the country, but why not just
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we see the possibility of nature,
we see the possibility within ourselves. Agreed

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and a great point to take us
on our first break, Sean. I'm

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Alis Cortez your host. Run there
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motivational author, unlimited thinker, and
lifetime entrepreneur with the history of inspiring others.

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A seven time author with the latest
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He's also the creator of Extra Mile
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we each have to create positive change
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development catalyst. She designs and delivers
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My guest is Sean Anderson. He's
a number one rank motivational author,

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unlimited thinker, and lifetime entrepreneur with
the history of inspiring others. Seven time

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author. He's also the creator of
the Extra Mile day a day, recognizing

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the power we each have to create
positive change when we go the extra mile

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and he walks his talk. Besides
having inspired tens of thousands through his speaking

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and writing, including an inspirational speaking
tour in the Philippines attended by twenty thousand

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attendees, Shawn's built a million dollar
company, pedaled a bike solo across the

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United States twice, and created adventures
in more than forty five countries, including

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having walked border to border across six
of them. I'm Elise Cortes, your

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host. Wow, I feel I
feel both tired and also energized by having

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said all that about you. Love
that Sean. Thank you. Lise.

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Yes, I love how you walk
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like I try to do as well. Cool. Yeah, So you know

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what's great about having you in my
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us are of the belief that life
is best when we're connected to people we

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care about and we're going for something
meaningful and worthwhile. So what I want

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to talk about next is why don't
we go after the lives that we want

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and run hard after our dreams.
What's missing for people that we don't do

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that. It's that semi truck that
hits us called life. It's living.

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It's the responsibilities that we live with
every day that wear on us every day.

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It's the It's the having to go
to the eight to five job and

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wake up in the morning and take
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and go compete in the traffic and
get into work and realize you forgot to

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do this report and having the boss
say things to you, and then having

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to drive home in the traffic and
realize that you forgot to buy milk and

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eggs and you have to go to
the store. I mean, it's exhausting.

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Life can be exhausting and and and
eventually life takes its toll. It's

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like the Grand Canyon, you know, the Grand Canyon looks like it looks

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because over time it it just took
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And if we if we don't,
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awareness that life can beat us down
to our knees, we never have the

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chance to pop up and really live
any kind of purpose at all. You

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know What's I completely agree with that, of course, and I think we

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forget about the possibility of our of
our lives. And just this morning,

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I was reading one of the one
of the feeds that I get about just

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the World News, et cetera,
and they were the author was talking about

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whatever you might believe about Elon Musk. This guy is up to big things

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in life. I mean, this
guy is not one of those people going,

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you know, should I pack my
lunch today or should I maybe go

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out and catch Chinese? He's you
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I mean, it's just it's amazing
what this man is up to.

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And but you know, in between
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as you say, this thing called
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do what I do, and I
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is. I think people need a
constant reminder of how amazing their lives and

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work can be. And I know, especially for me, the work realm

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is really important because we spend at
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so that if that's if our lives
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to be meaningful to us, you
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with just really finding this joy in
living. I mean, just this real

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appreciation, this gratitude for just having
the chance to live this mysterious adventure.

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I mean, if we can't feel
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I don't think that we could ever
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that deeper purpose to do something really
difference making. And if we wake up

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in the morning and if joy or
gratitude or hope or anything positive isn't running

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through our veins, man, I
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is not going to be all that
positive either. It's living life to the

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best is first off, realizing that
we have the power and the choice to

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live life to our best and if
we don't really acknowledge that and do things

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towards that goal every single day,
you know, we're never going to find

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our deepest joy, We're never going
to experience our deepest gratitude, We're never

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truly going to even understand what this
word purpose means. Yes, absolutely,

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absolutely, and yet still you are
someone. You are the human spark plug.

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I think we talked about one time. I think it's in your bio

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someplace. I love that. That's
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that emanates from you, Sean is
seems to me like unquenchable. So I

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know a lot about what you just
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you are so tire in the work
that you do, and I know that

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for you, you will not rest
until you have helped people across the globe

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live their best life as many as
you possibly can. Where does that energy

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come from? For you? You
know? Because I know what it is

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when people don't clap for you.
I know what it is when people don't

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cheer you on, and when people
say you know a leash, you can't

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do it. At least you're not
good enough. At least I'm so sorry.

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But you don't have enough talent to
do that. I know what that

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feels like, and I know that
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a five million, ten million,
one hundred million voices just like that.

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But I also know that all that
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one voice of somebody else that says, Elise Cortes, you are so amazing,

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you are so powerful, you are
so dynamic, You've got so much

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talent. Man, the world should
be juiced because by your words, I

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mean so, I just want to
be that guy. I want to be

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that guy that gives people just a
little bit of hope, because when we

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feel a little extra hope, I
feel then that we've got a chance to

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really believe in our own potential.
Because if we don't ever, if we

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can't ever believe in our own potential, how in the world is anybody else

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ever going to believe in our potential. So I just want to be that

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guy that says, you know what, you are good enough? Not only

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are you good enough, but you're
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and I have talked about this before, but I might as well go ahead

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and repeat this story now because it's
a perfect example of what you've just talked

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about. There's the notion of people
being able to see us for a person

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bigger than we see ourselves to be. That is so incredibly important and useful

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in life. And you know where
that started for me was when I was

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nineteen and I got fired by my
boss. Remember that story, Roland?

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Do you remember that? John?
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I was nineteen years old, love
working for this guy. I was just

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admin assist commercial real estate development?
Was this business? Eighteen months in I

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I just was having a ball.
He's bigger than life, great to work

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for. I was making eight hundred
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four. It was all the money
in the world. And one day,

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on the way out the way up
to lunch, he literally swings the door

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open wide and over his shoulder.
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you got to get out of here, go see the world, get an

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education, but before you go,
hire your replacement. And you know that

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was amazing for me because I sat
there paralyzed the whole time he was gone,

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wondering did he just fire me?
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just merrily, like as if we
hadn't even had any conversation at all.

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I stopped him as he was bolting
back to his office and I said,

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hold on just a second, did
you just fire me? And he

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said, absolutely, be a crime
to keep you here. So before that

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interaction, Sean, it did not
occur to me that I could go to

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college. I just didn't wasn't on
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was a possiblity for myself. And
you know, I've got a bacher's,

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two masters, and a PhD.
So I think I did the education thing,

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the travel thing. I've lived in
Spain, in Brazil, and I've

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presented in most of the Continent's still
much more I want to do, and

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of course that doing something with my
life that's a forever ongoing thing. But

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what a gift he gave me by
seeing me as somebody I could be versus

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who I thought I was. Then
well, you know, that's such a

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brilliant story. And I know that
you're really close to finishing your first book,

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and if you don't have someone to
dedicate it to, I think we

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might be hinting at him, right, Yep, that's already in there.

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In fact, I want to give
a quick shout out to him because he

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was on my show back in late
July. So here he is now,

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fast forward, eighty two years old
and Sean he's invented his own folding travel

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chairs called the Interlude and he did
that because he wanted to keep traveling right

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and he needed it to stop and
rest, and he couldn't find anything on

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the market that really worked for him. So he was like, well,

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I'm a civil engineer, I can
figure this out. And he made his

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own and I'm so proud of him. I could bust Sean and he is

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so now I'm cheering him on.
It's such a great thing. Well,

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our passion and purpose only grows old
when we let it grow old, right,

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That's exactly right. So I actually
had him on the show back then

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we were talking about it, and
he's now launched it and his name is

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Roland Hartle. It's called the Interlude
Chair. For those of you who are

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here to check it out anyway,
It's just it's splendid. So that whole

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thing of I love that you want
to be that one person who says,

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yeah, go for it. What
a great way to walk through life.

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You know, I just think that
we're all here to do something amazing and

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brilliant. I believe that. And
it's not doing something and brilliant and amazing

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for ourself, but really it's really
doing it's making the world better and reaching

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out and doing something amazing brilliant for
someone else. You know. I'm big

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on I'm big on doing my best
to try to create miracles for other people.

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And we all have that power to
create miracles for other people. Sometimes

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it's just what we might say to
somebody who needs it at that right moment.

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It's sometimes what our effort given to
somebody might mean at that right moment.

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It might be what we give to
an organization that's so desperately faltering and

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needing just a little bit of extra
money to get it through the month,

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you know. And I think it's
a powerful goal for all of us to

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just think about, how can I
be a miracle for someone else. We

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spend so much of our time selfishly
looking for miracles to make our life better,

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But the real secret to making your
life better is to go be a

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miracle for someone else. Oh my
gosh, speaking of that, Oh my

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gosh. Okay, so one of
the things that I have come into understanding,

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Sean, is when I'm sure you
have had this exact same experience many

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times over, but this has been
happening to me more and more recently as

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I'm out speaking and I'm talking about
what will you do with your one precious

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life? How do you create them
that's going to be nourishing for you?

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How will you cultivate passion and inspiration, live and work from purpose and lead

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from purpose? How will you do
all that? What happens is hopefully sometimes

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people get really turned on by that, And I've seen this happen again and

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people are like, I'm so inspired. This is what I see a possibility

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for myself. So what I got
really present to lately, Sean, is

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that I started thinking about this as
they were sharing their reactions and what they

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got from the conversation, and I
was so worried that when they left that

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room that they would walk back into
the life that you talked to us about

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before, all the traffic and the
laundry and the food and the job and

444
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everything else, and that beautiful spark
that had gotten ignited would get snuffed out.

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And so that's the reason that I
started these online communities to help people

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catalyze their passions into reality. That's
exactly why I did that. I had

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this amazing example of somebody Sean,
I mean, I hope, I know,

448
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I ever forget this talk about getting
to be part of somebody's world.

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This woman reached out to me after
I spoke last and I think it was

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November, and she sent me this
amazing email and she talked about how she

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had, up until that point,
thought her life was pretty good. You

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know, she had she had a
family, she had a decent job,

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she'd been promoted several times. But
she realized that she wasn't really living as

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much and fully as she could,
and she wasn't fulfilled. And the reason

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that she wasn't fulfilled is she knew
she could do more with her life,

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but she wasn't doing it. And
her particular experience was she endured some like

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eighteen years ago, this horrifying,
traumatic, life changing experience, and she

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spent the last several years really coping
with that, healing from that, and

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now has gotten to a place where, you know what, it's enough healing,

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It's enough being embarrassed by that.
I want to go talk about my

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experience to help other people heal and
empower them to go after what they want.

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And that was so cool, Sean, it was so cool. You

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know, we've talked a lot about
this subject What's My Next, and I

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was thinking about it because you just
brought this this thing up to Oftentimes,

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if life does knock us off the
track of what we want to do,

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of where we want to go,
if where we want to live, of

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00:31:15.960 --> 00:31:19.279
what we want to experience, we
need those little reminders to keep us on

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track. And that's why, you
know, I hope people really take note

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00:31:22.839 --> 00:31:27.400
who are listening to the show that
you know, I know a lease really

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well, and I think if somebody
truly wanted a great accountability coach, a

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great mentor advisor or counselor to help
keep them on their track to achieve their

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what's my next? Man, I
just encourage you so much to connect and

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with the Lease and people who've got
that kind of passion, because because it's

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it's it's it's when you fill your
day with with that, you keep growing,

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you keep moving forward. And so
I know a least have special programs,

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and I really hope that people hook
up with your programs. At least

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I if people want to make a
difference in their lives. It's just not

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something that we can talk about.
It's something we have to take action towards

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every single day. And you definitely
help people do that well, thank you

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00:32:15.200 --> 00:32:17.519
and likewise, and I absolutely agree
with that. And I know for me

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too, right, I always have
to be working with people, yourself included,

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to keep me accountable to what I'm
up to. And you've helped me,

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Oh my gosh, head neck,
shoulders, move earths basically the last

484
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year and a half that I've known
you. And I tell all you just

485
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all the time. You know,
everybody needs a coach or some something to

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keep them on track toward what they're
up to. Because back to what you

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00:32:40.680 --> 00:32:45.000
said about that, just the sheer
momentum of life will pull on you.

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You've got to find some way to
fortify yourself. And so you know what

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I did was I created these various
online communities and they're from five dollars a

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00:32:52.359 --> 00:32:55.400
month to fifty dollars a month depending
on what you're up to, and it's

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easy. They're on Facebook. But
that's how I created them, was to

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be able to give people access to
a community into a set of tools ongoing

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00:33:04.440 --> 00:33:07.039
to be able to help them tap
into another community, to keep them on

494
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track, keep them inspired, keep
them nourished, and in some cases accountable

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for what they say they really want
to do. You know, I really

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applaud that. You know, if
we all look back at how we grew

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and how we learned when we were
younger, it's because we had, you

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know, an accountability system in place. We had a mother, a father,

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a teacher or whatever. We had
someone that encouraged us to get up

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in the morning and go to school, and to do our lessons and to

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00:33:30.119 --> 00:33:34.000
do our homework and to keep moving
forward. And as we get older,

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though, you know that that accountability
starts to become more and more upon ourselves

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00:33:37.200 --> 00:33:42.240
and then we interestingly enough, we
start to become less and less happy because

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00:33:42.279 --> 00:33:45.640
we're doing less and less of what
we want to do. But if we

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00:33:45.759 --> 00:33:49.480
just remember the lessons of what we
learned as a young person that if we

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want to succeed, you know,
it's really good to have someone in our

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00:33:52.920 --> 00:33:55.880
corner. It's really good to have
that accountability coach. And I think if

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someone out there has a huge goal, man, please do not make an

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00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:05.799
attempt to go after it on your
own, because because failure after failure after

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failure starts to get to you.
I mean, I get that. I'm

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a guy that had eighty three rejection
letters from my first publisher. I get

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that. I know what it is. And unless you have this, this

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super human strength to believe in yourself, man, you need somebody to encourage

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you to cross the finish line.
You know. If your goal is to

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00:34:24.280 --> 00:34:29.239
run a marathon, you need to
find a running partner to help you do

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00:34:29.320 --> 00:34:31.760
it. If your goal is to
write a book, you need to find

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someone that says, you know,
how's it going, where are you in

518
00:34:36.440 --> 00:34:38.320
the process? You know, what
are you going to complete next week?

519
00:34:38.599 --> 00:34:44.239
That's how That's how we achieve our
biggest, most amazing goals is when we've

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got that person in a corner that
constantly reminds us of what we want to

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do. Absolutely completely agree. Big
things do not happen all by yourselves,

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at least the village that we've heard
about at least, if not one or

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two other people along the way.
So agree with that, Elise the village.

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00:35:04.440 --> 00:35:07.320
I can create a village for us, the village. Yes, yea,

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00:35:07.559 --> 00:35:08.960
let's do that. I like that. Make it, make it a

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00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:13.000
big party, and on that note. What a perfect way to go to

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00:35:13.039 --> 00:35:15.000
our last break. Elise Cortez your
host. Here, We've are on the

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00:35:15.000 --> 00:35:19.760
air with Sean Anderson, a number
one ranked motivational author, unlimited thinker,

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00:35:19.760 --> 00:35:23.000
and lifetime entrepreneur with a history of
inspiring others. He's a seven time author

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00:35:23.039 --> 00:35:27.559
with the latest book out called The
for FIBs. He's also the creator of

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extra Mile Day a day, recognizing
the power we each have to create positive

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00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:34.800
change when we go the extra mile. Joined us today from Marina del Rey,

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00:35:34.880 --> 00:35:50.159
California. We'll keep our conversation going
after the break. Alis Cortez is

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a speaker and engagement and development catalyst. She designs and delivers professional development,

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00:35:54.639 --> 00:36:00.719
leadership and engagement workshops and can bring
her expertise to your organization. She will

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00:36:00.760 --> 00:36:06.320
help ignite meaningful development within your workforce
that will increase employee engagement, performance and

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00:36:06.440 --> 00:36:09.400
retention. To learn more or to
invite Elise to speak to your organization,

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00:36:09.559 --> 00:36:15.480
please visit her at www dot Elisecortes
dot com. She would welcome the opportunity

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00:36:15.519 --> 00:36:27.480
to help get your employees working on
purpose. This is working on purpose with

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Elease Cortes. To reach our program
today, send an email to a lease

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00:36:31.519 --> 00:36:39.480
Alise at a Leasecortes dot com.
Now back to working on purpose and if

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00:36:39.480 --> 00:36:43.079
you're just tuning in, my guest
is Sean Anderson. He's the number one

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00:36:43.119 --> 00:36:46.599
ranked motivational author, unlimited thinker,
and lifetime entrepreneur with the history of inspiring

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00:36:46.639 --> 00:36:52.000
others. He's a seven time author
and is also created the Extra Mile day

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00:36:52.199 --> 00:36:54.559
a day recognizing the power we each
have to create positive change when we go

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00:36:54.679 --> 00:36:59.719
the extra mile. And this man
walks his talk. Besides having inspired tens

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00:36:59.719 --> 00:37:04.440
of thousands through speaking and writing,
including an inspirational speaking tour in the Philippines

548
00:37:04.639 --> 00:37:08.360
attended by twenty thousand attendees, He's
also built a million dollar company, pedaled

549
00:37:08.360 --> 00:37:13.320
a bike solo across the United States
twice, and created adventures in more than

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forty five countries, including having walked
border to border across six of them.

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00:37:16.679 --> 00:37:21.320
And yet, remarkably, he believes
his greatest adventures and success are waiting to

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be lived. I'm Alice Cortez,
your host. Let's continue this fabulous conversation.

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So Sean, the next thing I
want to talk about here because I

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think it fits. It's part of
this whole notion of what's our next and

555
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that is adversity. I had a
wonderful guest on my show several months ago.

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His name is Steve Gavatorta, and
he he has this whole mantra of

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is it to embrace our adversity because
it helps us become the person where meant

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00:37:47.679 --> 00:37:52.360
to become. I look at your
eighty three book rejections, and I can't

559
00:37:52.360 --> 00:37:57.119
help but think that you wouldn't be
who you are if you hadn't been rejected

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those eighty three times. Well,
I you know, I think that's I

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think that's true. I think that
when you become so married to something that

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you truly want, that the only
one that's really going to stop you is

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yourself. And I know that we've
each heard that before, but it's true.

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At a point after number ten,
you've got a choice of back in

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those days, mailing out your eleventh, you know proposal, your twelfth proposal,

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your twentieth proposal, or quitting.
And you know, Manny, any

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goal that's so big, I guarantee
you that you're going to fail initially,

568
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but just believe that you can do
it, and don't stop trying the word

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one of the most powerful words I've
ever believed in is this word called fortitude.

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Man, I'm just not going to
be I'm not going to be stopped

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by that wall. Okay, the
walls in front of me. So what

572
00:38:51.599 --> 00:38:53.000
do I do? Is there a
way that I can climb over that wall?

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Can I go around that wall?
Can I go under that wall?

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How can I get past that wall? And and you know, I got

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to tell you, sure it wasn't
so cool. When you are on number

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00:39:01.960 --> 00:39:06.400
fifty and fifty five and sixty of
a rejection, you're going, wow,

577
00:39:06.519 --> 00:39:09.360
man, maybe my book really does
you know, maybe it's not so good

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00:39:09.480 --> 00:39:13.760
or whatever, but you've just got
to keep believing this is the path you

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want to walk, that this is
this is what you want to do with

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your life. If a thousand people
say no to you, they can't stop

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you. The only one that can
say no to you is the guy that

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and the woman that you look at
in the mirror. That's the person who

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can stop you. Completely agree with
that, and it's I think it goes

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back to you know what, I
can't think it was. Edison is credited

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00:39:34.000 --> 00:39:38.280
for this that he took him at
one thousand approaches to creating a light bulb,

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and he doesn't see that as phillary
heesa as I found nine or ninety

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nine that didn't work, And I
think there's something too. It's all about

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00:39:45.480 --> 00:39:47.719
the mindset, right, You and
I know how important our mindset is and

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00:39:47.760 --> 00:39:53.280
how we approach problems the world opportunity
and see our place within the world.

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00:39:54.079 --> 00:39:59.199
Yeah, yeah, I agree,
and you know I want to The second

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sub point of that story of eighty
three rejections was my initial book wasn't even

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the book that I truly wanted to
write. My first book that I really

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had in my soul was this book
called Sore to the Top, which was

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taking people through this four part accountability
system. But I knew that there was

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no way I was going to get
that book published yet, because who was

596
00:40:20.320 --> 00:40:23.079
really going to listen to this twenty
seven year old kid about how to achieve

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success. So the first book that
I had these eighty three rejections for was

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a book that I knew I had
to write in order to then get publishers

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to take my second book. So
my first book was a book called count

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Down to College, Preparing your student
for Success in the collegiate Universe. And

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I knew that I knew that I
had experience, I knew that I had

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the credits to write that book,
and I knew that if that book succeeded,

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I could really write the second book, which is the one that I

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wanted, was The Sword of the
Top. And after I had that first

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book published, I think we sold
somewhere between five and ten thousand copies.

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I then had something to take to
a publisher and I said, look,

607
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look, man, I've written this
book. We sold copies. I helped

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push copies, I helped do this. I got rejection from sort of the

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top by the first publisher, but
the second and third said, you know,

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we both want that book, and
I had the chance to negotiate from

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that point on who would take it. Seems so strategic to me, and

612
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I love that the word fortitude,
as you said before, there's so much

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behind that, and so for our
listener's sake, because I know the answer

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to this question, how are you
helping people achieve their next sean? What

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are you doing to help them?
I got to tell you, I do

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my best every single day just to
pour my passion into the world. I

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think that if I can, just
if I can just put a poor an

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ounce of my passion into somebody I
meet and help their passion maybe become a

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little bit richer, more full.
They've got a chance to do their thing.

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And so every single day, I
think one of my most general goals

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is just keep pouring my passion out
there. Passion is what when we have

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passion for something, it's the chance
to light other people's passion. And so

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we keep walking out there as if
we're a lit match trying to light other

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people. I think that's the greatest
good that we could ever pass forward.

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Yes, And I know for me, as you know, the world of

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work is just so important for me. I was so lucky that I was

627
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raised by entrepreneurial parents who really gave
me the perspective that work is a noble

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part of life. It's important.
It's not something that you slog through or

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get through in order to live.
And I appreciate that, and so so

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much of my focus is to be
able to help awaken those eighty five percent

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of the people across the planet who
are not enthused about going to work,

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according to Gallup, and I tend
to see them as well. So,

633
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you know, the work that I
do with the radio show and my programs

634
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is really all built around that.
And the latest thing that I did.

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And I think we've talked about this
a little bit. I don't know if

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you know and how far I've gone
with it, But I released and I've

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been enrolling this new program that I
created shown this is my content. This

638
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is based on my research from my
meeting and work research and my identity research,

639
00:43:10.880 --> 00:43:15.320
my years of working on purpose on
the radio show, and then taking

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a big broad swath of a literature
of the best and what's an inspiration,

641
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passion, leadership, well being,
an engagement. And I created this program

642
00:43:24.719 --> 00:43:29.880
called Vitally Inspired Living and Leading from
Purpose. And so I'm doing that program

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now insight organizations and also for public
offerings. And I tell you what,

644
00:43:35.960 --> 00:43:38.480
back to your point before, it
is the coolest thing. It's the best

645
00:43:39.039 --> 00:43:43.000
feeling to know that you get to
do work, this is my purpose why

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I'm here on the planet, and
that in so doing I get to make

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it differskin other people's lives. I
don't know how it gets any better than

648
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that. Now. It took a
lot to put to stand that up,

649
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of course, right, but wow, I mean this is how I get

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to live my life. Yeah,
that's really cool. And you know that's

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a good question for people that are
listening to possibly ask themselves right now,

652
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is you know, how could my
life be different if I was inspired every

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day? How would my life be
different? And it goes back to these

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classes, these courses, the coaching, the speaking that you do. Is

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when people hook up with you,
when they they have a chance to really

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know what it is to be inspired
every day. And you know, if

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people walked into the relationships with being
more inspired, how would that change the

658
00:44:35.119 --> 00:44:42.639
relationships? If people were more inspired
to walk in a healthy way, how

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00:44:42.679 --> 00:44:45.840
would that change their life? If
people were more inspired to go to their

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job every single day and try to
make a difference and create change, how

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would that change their life? I
mean, if you're not out there feeling

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00:44:54.159 --> 00:44:59.159
inspired, I think that's one of
the biggest questions you could ask yourself,

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00:44:59.239 --> 00:45:04.760
is what and I do to get
more inspiration in my life? You know,

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I talk about this in almost everything
that I do, my speeches,

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00:45:08.000 --> 00:45:12.480
my programs. But this notion that
when people work from their purpose, they're

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completely irresistible. And when you look
at the companies that are purpose led out

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00:45:16.400 --> 00:45:21.239
there, they outperform their peers by
a factor of six to one. And

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a few months ago I had a
really interesting guest in my show's name is

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Hugh Well. She is the general
counsel and president of a company called DSM

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and they are a purpose led,
performance driven company. And they talk about

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how not only is this just good
for the soul, but he's got solid

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results in terms of the highest engagement
in the industry, highest shareholder price,

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revenues, impact across the globe.
It's just it's really hard to make a

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case against purpose. Aimen to that. You know, I believe that we

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should all have a life purpose.
I you know, my purpose is to

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empower or one million people to lead
a more positive, passion and purposeful existence.

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Because when purpose is at our core, when we know who we are,

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00:46:07.519 --> 00:46:09.280
what we stand for, what we
want to do, everything about our

679
00:46:09.320 --> 00:46:15.599
life changes and big decisions and little
decisions that we have, it they become

680
00:46:15.679 --> 00:46:19.719
easier to make when we melt them
all back into our purpose. How does

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00:46:19.760 --> 00:46:25.039
this fit my purpose? Companies have
purposes? Why can't individuals? Yeah?

682
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And that's a great thing about doing
the work that I do is getting to

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be able to blend those together,
to thread those together, to help people

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00:46:31.280 --> 00:46:36.760
inside organizations be able to identify their
own purpose and then see how does that

685
00:46:36.880 --> 00:46:39.960
string through and thread into the overall
organization purpose when that happens, Sean,

686
00:46:40.559 --> 00:46:45.440
Wow, it's really unstoppable. Well
amen for the work that you do.

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00:46:46.119 --> 00:46:49.519
Well, thank you. So we're
here, we are almost at a time,

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and we've been talking in the show
about going for our next and making

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sure that that happens. So hang
on, listeners, let's ask him what's

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00:46:57.239 --> 00:47:01.679
your next, Sean? You mean
besides the walking my chihuahuas in twelve minutes

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00:47:01.679 --> 00:47:06.679
to me? Yeah? And that
right, you know, because because sometimes

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sometimes we need to have a little
next, and we need to appreciate our

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00:47:10.599 --> 00:47:15.440
little next just as much as we
need to appreciate our big next. And

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and you know, it goes back
to asking myself a very simple question every

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00:47:19.840 --> 00:47:22.159
single morning when I wake up,
What am I excited about today? So

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00:47:22.239 --> 00:47:27.239
that's a little next. What what
little next am I excited about? But

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00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:30.000
as far as my big next,
you know, there's three things that I'll

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00:47:30.039 --> 00:47:35.719
do in twenty nineteen in the specific
jet I haven't I haven't. I haven't

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00:47:35.719 --> 00:47:40.920
given myself permission yet to really know
exactly what they are. It's because once

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once I tell myself, yes,
that's what I want, that's when I

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00:47:45.320 --> 00:47:49.679
make that real public announcement, and
I use the public announcement as my accountability

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00:47:49.679 --> 00:47:52.960
to do it. But I can
assure you there will be three What's my

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00:47:52.119 --> 00:47:58.079
next in twenty nineteen. Number one, I will walk across another country.

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Number two, What's my next?
I will write another book. What's my

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00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:08.039
next? I will go speak on
an extra Mile world speaking tour in another

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00:48:08.039 --> 00:48:14.079
country. Again. So the specifics
I haven't yet convinced myself of what they

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00:48:14.119 --> 00:48:17.480
are, but there will be three
of them. That is so inspiring and

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00:48:17.519 --> 00:48:21.480
for me just I'm just going to
say one, and that is I will

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00:48:21.920 --> 00:48:24.400
publish my first book next year.
And I've been talking about that for a

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00:48:24.440 --> 00:48:29.679
while and that's what's on the docket. We're doing it so awesome. Here

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00:48:29.719 --> 00:48:31.880
we are out of time already.
Sean Anderson, thank you so much for

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00:48:31.920 --> 00:48:36.679
coming back to working on purpose.
It's amazing to have you back. It's

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00:48:36.719 --> 00:48:37.920
my privilege to be here. Thank
you so much for being my friend.

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Absolutely Likewise, listener, if you
want to learn more about Sean Anderson and

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00:48:43.360 --> 00:48:45.480
any of his seven books, his
extra Mile Day, his speaking or the

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00:48:45.559 --> 00:48:50.880
myriad of other adventucies up to visit
him at Sean Anderson dot com. That's

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00:48:51.119 --> 00:48:55.320
Shawn Anderson dot com. Next week, we'll be on the air talking with

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one of those women I told you
about from my audience. Literally caught her

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passion in her purpose and she considers
she's off working on fulfilling her adventure in

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her life and she is going to
go talk about her adventures of going through

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that traumatic experience and help other people. I cannot wait to share her with

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you. She's truly working on purpose. See you there, and remember that

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work is at least once they're alive. So let's work on purpose. We

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hope you've enjoyed this week's program.
Be sure to tune in to Working on

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Purpose featuring your host Alis Cortes,
each week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel.

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This week, find your life's purpose
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