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What's working on Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder the
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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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at work, to contribute their talents passionately and know their
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lives really matter. They crave being part of an organization
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that inspires them and helps them grow into realizing their
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highest potential. Business can be such a force for good
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in the world, elevating humanity. In our program, we provide
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guidance and inspiration to help usher in this world we
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all want working on Purpose. Now here's your host, Doctor
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Relise Cortez.
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Welcome back to the Working with a Purpose program, which
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has been brought to you with passion and pride since
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February of twenty fifteen. Thanks for tuning in this week.
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Great to have you. I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortes.
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Most leaders are sitting on untapped human energy and I
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help them unlock it. I'm an organizational psychologist, local therapist,
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workforce advisor and the founder of the Gusto Now movement.
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But the title that I really live by is much
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is much simpler than that. I traffic and energy, not
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the surface level motivation or another engagement initiative, but the
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deeper force what I call Gusto, the life force for
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performance that drives commitment, perseverance, and genuine ownership of a
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shared a mission and the clients we serve Eli and
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marbrous And and we can work together at Gustodashne dot com
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or my personal site at least Coortes dot com. Getting
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into today's program, we have with us Mary Bairtt, who
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has one goal in mind to help people simplify their lives.
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As a senior employee experience strategist, she spent over eighteen
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years experience helping organizations transform how they how their people
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experience work. As the founder of the Simplifiers, she partners
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with clients to help leaders, listen better, fix what's broken,
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and build workplaces where people fall back in love with work.
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She's the author of her new book, Squash the Sunday Scaries,
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a modern playbook to rebuild trust, transform culture, and regnite
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your workforce. We'll be talking about the state of today's workforce,
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the call for improving employee experience to increase business prosperity,
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and take a short tour of a few of the
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flywheel areas she addresses in her book and with her
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clients to help them do just that. She dose it
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today from Dallas. Mary, Welcome to Working on Purpose.
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Thank you so much. I'm so excited to be here
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with you.
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Isn't it nice to be on the other side of
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the mic.
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I love that. So I'm a podcaster and I get
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to interview people all day long, so it is nice
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to be over here.
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And I know and I loved being on your podcast.
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You are real pro my friend.
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Thank you, You're welcome.
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So let's just first celebrate this thing that you brought
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into the world. It's so beautiful and mean. I'm really impressed, Mary,
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I really really am impressed you. As I said to
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you in the text, you really clearly know your stuff
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and you have got to be a gift to your clients.
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And I also love coming to celebrate your book launch
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as well. So this is exciting.
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Thank you so much. You know, if anybody is listening
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or watching this stream right now and has ever written
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a book, you know the obscene amount of work that
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goes into it. But if you're thinking about writing a book,
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holy smokes, let me just say now, it's an obscene
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amount of work.
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It really is.
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But I think it's also worth it because, especially if
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you know certain things that can help unlock friction or
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reduce the kind of challenges in the workplace, I think
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it needs to be talked about.
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I agree, and I always say that to people when
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they come on a podcast. I love saying this to
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man especially, I say, you know that this is what
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you've did by bringing in this book in the world
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is actually harder than bringing a human into the world.
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I know I've done both, and they always kind of
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kind of feel a little, you know, elevated by that.
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I think. So one of the other things I want
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to just also celebrate about you in general, Mary, and
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also the way you wrote your book. It's it's playful
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Mary speak and I love that, and this is this
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is you know, we are in the game with you.
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I love it. You know you've got in there, like
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how Lauren snorts when she gets some of these messages
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from the COO and such, and just it's just fun.
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So and the fact that you're even talking about Sunday scary,
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so let's talk about that. I actually was in the
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gym on Sunday on the bike reading your book and
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and somebody next to me said, interesting, you're reading a
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book about the Sunday Scaries on Sunday.
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Yeah, yeah, well, the Sunday Scaries. I think that that's
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a terminology that people know about pretty prevalent and kind
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of pop culture these days. But if you don't, it's
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that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach
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at a write around eight forty two pm on a
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Sunday night, especially if you don't love your job. You're
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you're realizing, oh my god, I have to go back
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to that place tomorrow morning. And that's insane pile of
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emails in my inbox is you know, mocking me from afar.
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It's that feeling of like dread, existential dread, and and
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it just makes me sad. When I think about it,
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because when I was doing the research for this book
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and realizing how big of a problem is this. Is
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it only a couple of people that have the Sunday
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scaries or is it a massive problem? And unfortunately, sorry
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to admit, it's a massive problem. The Gallop State of
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the Workplace Report of twenty twenty five mentioned that only
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twenty seven percent of managers are engaged at work globally.
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In the twenty twenty six report it's down to twenty
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two percent. So that basically means that nearly eighty percent
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of your managers in your company right now, no matter
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if you work for a small business or a megago
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global multinational corporation, eighty percent potentially of your managers are
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clocking in, clocking out doing solid C minus work and
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you know, dreading coming into their job. And we all
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know that disengaged managers create disengaged teams. So it's poison
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in the wow for a large chunk of your workforce
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and population. It's no good.
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I know, no one. If you'd like to say, yeah, well,
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you are certainly someone who can speak to this. Your
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background is really incredible. I looked again at your LinkedIn
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profile and which is amazed. Eighteen years of experience helping
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organizations to transform how their people experience work and of
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course writing this book, hosting your podcast amazing. Can you
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just kind of just highlight a little bit, just a
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little bit of that experience that you draw from.
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Yeah, well, so in that eighteen years, the very first
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eleven years, I was on the event side, So I
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produced large scale employee engagement events for some pretty massive clients.
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This is when I was down based down in Austin, Texas,
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you know. So it's working with clients like Google and
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Microsoft Meta Intel. We even helped produce the first two
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iterations of teedex Austin way back when. And so on
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the event side, you know, when clients bring me in
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to say, do an awards program or produce an off
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site strategic retreat, it's not just food and beverage and
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colors of linens for me, it's the full experience, Like,
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what are we hoping to create as positive change from this?
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What are we hoping to create as the experience for
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the employees at the event. It's not frivolous in any way,
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shape or form in my mind. And when I, you know,
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started in events, I realized there's so much more to
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employee experience than just recognition and engagement event programs, and
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so that's really where it sparked my whole interest in
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employee experience and rebuilding workplace culture because we spend so
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much time at work and so again, I just breaks
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my heart when I think about the fact that people
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are drudging into work collecting a paycheck, not feeling like
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their work is meaningful or has purpose, or that they're
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being recognized for the work they're doing. And I just,
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you know, that's where I realized, man, we be doing better.
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And so I sold off the event side of the business,
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relocated to England for about six or seven years, and
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that's a whole other story for another time. I pivoted
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the business into leadership development and my own public speaking career,
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and that's where I started to realize that in coaching
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and consulting on that side of the coin, actually there's
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a whole other realm of what's possible to improve the
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employee experience. That's the true genesis of the ex flywheel.
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Which we're going to get into here and just a
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little bit later. So next, what I would love to
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do is I want to give a shout out and
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a call out to our dear beloved Jimmy Taylor, who's
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the executive director of Dallas HR and who wrote your forward.
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I love it that he did that for you. And
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he talks and he's got a ton of experience with
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HR in various organizations, but I appreciate how he talks
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about the emotional impact and toll work can have on people.
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And he also says just kind of what you were
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saying before about this single factor that influences the experience
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of work more than anything else, is that as that
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frontline people manager. And yet people organizations are spending large
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amounts of money in an over complicated way, but really
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what they need to do is just focus on creating
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delivering that the employee experience that we're going to talk
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about here. So I wanted to celebrate that because I
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think he does a really beautiful job setting up the
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rest of the book with that preliminary message.
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Yeah, Jimmy, If you've never met Jimmy Taylor of Dallas HR,
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he is one of the nicest, kindest humans I've met
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on the planet. And that's saying a lot. I've met
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a lot of really incredible people. But he is just
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so passionate about helping people who work in the HR
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industry in the DFW area, and he's absolutely right. You know,
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again going back to the Gallop Pole stats of only
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twenty two percent of your managers are engaged at work.
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They are your culture champions. They set the tone in
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your organization across. So while HR may set the initiatives
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and create opportunities to improve employee experience, the people who
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are your foot soldiers, who are carrying it outright are
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those managers, and so they're the key to really making
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sure that they're engaged, they're plugged in, and they're they're
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having a positive employee experience because that ripples out to
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everyone else.
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So in order to bring this problem to fuller life here,
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I think it makes a lot of sense to talk
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about what you mentioned in the book, and I talked
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about it in one of my books as well, is
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this the crack and the social contract? What broke and why? Now?
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So it could situate that for us, what's going on,
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what's underneath all of this?
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Yeah, So my dad's eighty three now, but you know,
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when I was growing up as a kid, he worked
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in major corporations right, Craft, Xerox, all of these kinds
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of places where back in the day he's a boomer,
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you know, he would have worked someplace thirty forty years,
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gotten the gold Watch at retirement, gotten the pension, and
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you know, the corner office and all of that. There
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is security and stability. If you committed yourself to a
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corporation and your life to it, you would have a
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job to go to from one point to a next point,
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to the next point to next point.
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Right.
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The reality is that's not the truth for most people
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who work in corporate life currently. In fact, the latest
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stat is that how long does a gen Z person
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stay in a job currently one point seven years. And
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I don't think that's because gen Z is like job hopping,
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because that's what it gets thrown out as being is like, oh,
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I'm just going to find a better job that pays
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me more. That may be some of those people, but
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I actually think it's something way deeper, because if you
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launch the stats of layoffs every single week that get
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announced by major corporations into it just dropped seventeen percent
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of their workforce cut them in this last week. Right.
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The reality is, I think a lot of our current
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workforce is getting cut round after round of layoffs, and
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so there is no stability. There is no job security,
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or at least not to the same extent as what
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previous generations have experienced. So we're asking people to be
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fully committed, all in whatever it takes, always on those
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are the great corporate vernacular that's out there, and give