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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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Elise Cortes.
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Welcome back to the Working on Purpose program, which has
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been brought to with passion and pride since February of
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Great to have you.
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I'm your host, Doctor Release Cortes. If we've not met
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or my personal site a core test dot com. Getting
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in today's program, we have with us Monica Pierre, a
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keynote speaker three times Suncoast Emmy Award winning reporter and producer,
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communication expert and transformational storyteller who ignites audiences through the
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power of character driven monologues. She is Assistant Professor of
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Practice in the Mass Communication Department at Xavier University of
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Louisiana and New Orleans and founder of This Storymaker Academy.
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She hosts the Powerhouse Women Show and also specializes in
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helping leaders and entrepreneurs move beyond fear to embrace authentic transformation.
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I've got a special treat for you today, and that
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Monica will be showcasing her expert storytelling skills, so you
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two can learn as she shares, and then we engage
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over three monologues that showcase fear, then change, and then diminishment,
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all in a very completely fresh, different light. She joins
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today from New Orleans. Monica A hearty welcome to working
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on a purpose.
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Thank you so much. I'm so glad to be here
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and to be on the other side of the microphone.
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I understand.
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I really is a nice and pleasant surprise once in
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a while, isn't it?
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It is? It's wonderful, a great conversation.
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It is a listener's of viewers.
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I like to tell you where I find my guests,
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most all of them about ninety eight percent come to
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me through a public relations representative who usually has an
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author is that fits with what I'm trying to showcase
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In this case, I picked up.
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Monica on my own.
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She and I were speaking together at Thrive in twenty
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five eight women's conference in Chicago in June of twenty
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twenty five.
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I was the MC.
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She was a keynote speaker, and when I heard her speak,
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one I immediately had to get to know her and
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connect with her, and then two I had to bring
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her on to share her with you. So what I
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want you to focus on as we go through the
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show that through this particular episodes, I want you to
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think about the power of the importance of effective and
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powerful communication as a professional and as a leader. Everything
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that you're going to see her do, you can actually learn. Now,
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this is top notch skills that you're going to see
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and witness. If you could approximate even some of the
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skills she's about to show us. So what we're going
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to do in this episode is for each of the segments,
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she's going to be working on a singular topic. She's
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going to do her character based monologue, and then I'm
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going to engage her in conversation over that topic in
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the next episode or the next segment, will do the
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same in the next topic. So this first one, how
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would you like to queue it up? Monica, how would
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you like to start?
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Well, first of all, I like to start by saying,
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I met the most generous, amazing and talented person in Chicago,
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and I'm so honored to be here. But what really
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surprised me and doesn't always surprise me, is when I
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let people know that I'm going to do these characters
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or do these monologues, which ones really resonate And the
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one I did on Fear it never seems to fail.
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That that is the one that whether you're a leader,
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have an entrepreneur, or you're a career person, it's always
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kind of at the back of your mind, which fear
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me in your life? So you let me know when
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you'd like me to start. And then, but I wanted
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to be a really engaging conversation as well.
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I promise you I will engage you.
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So let me just give you as if I literally am,
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just like I did when we were in Chicago and
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I was your MC, I introduced you and then I
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got I gave you a hug. So this is a
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virtual hug. And then I got off the stage and
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you took it away. So here's your virtual hug, and
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here's the mic.
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It is the twenty third century and Fear has finally
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been captured and put on trial for crimes against humidity.
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For too long, Fear has stood in the way of
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unrealized dreams, accused of stealing the hopes and dreams of mankind.
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Be the Judges of the High Court will decide your fate.
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You have opted not to call a single witness, but
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it's now time for closing arguments. Present your closing argument,
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Judges of the High Court.
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It's been a horrible mistake.
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I am not guilty. During this long and difficult case,
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many horrible things have been said about me. I've been
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called vile names, thief, bully, manipulative, although I do prefer
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the word seductive. And yes, I have been called evil.
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I ask you, is this the face of evil? I've
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opted not to call a single witness because this is
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an open and shutcase. Humanity is to blame for all
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its missed opportunities. I'm a scapegoat. Think about it. I
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get blamed for everything Fear public speaking fear of being alone.
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You name it.
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The laundry list is very long. Those of you in
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the courtroom, surely you feel my pain. I'm so alone
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and despised and so misunderstood. The prosecution has curated witness
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after witness, each person lamenting about how I stood in
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the way of their dreams, how they slipped through their
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fingers like sand.
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And here's the truth.
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I have grown weary of the finger pointing and the
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attacks on my character. I am not guilty. You want
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to know the truth. You want to know what's really
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going on. Do you want to know all of my secrets? Well,
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I will tell you. I can't do anything without your permission.
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In fact, had you hung it there one more year,
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one more month, one more time, you would have realized
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your dreams.
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But you got scared and you blamed me for All
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I did was what spa, You'll never have enough money
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to buy the dream.
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House you really want. All I did was whisp. You're
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losing money by the second and you'll lose this business
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before it's all said and don All I did was whisper.
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You were born on the wrong side of the track,
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and I don't care how much you spend looking part.
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You feel like a fraud, don't you. Well everyone knows
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all I did was whisper. I whispered things about you
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to your mother and your father, and your sister, and
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your brother, and your coworker or even your business partner.
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And they were all too willing to repeat it. And
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you stopped working on your dreams. You stayed down, stayed depressed,
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and refuse to do for yourself that you what you
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could have and should have done for yourself. You want
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to know the secret, You want to know what keeps
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me alive century after century. Well it's you, humanity. I
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can't do anything without your permission. I exist because you
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allow me to. You want to put somebody on trial,
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You put yourselves on trial. Judges of the High Court,
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I arrest my case fear. We have made a decision.
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We find you guilty. You are hereby banish, take fear away.
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Oh fools, you'll never get rid of me.
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Never. And that's fear on trial.
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That is only the second time that I've heard that,
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And it is so powerful. Listeners and viewers. Imagine being
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in a hotel ballroom and Monica performs this performance.
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And it was we were all leaning forward.
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As I told her afterwards, she produced a collective goose
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bump in the crowd.
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And so let's not kind of peel this back and understand.
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A bit more about what you did there and why
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this is so provocative. Why is it that we can
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so fit with and relate and be captivated by your message?
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It is part it's certainly your performance, but it's also
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your mussage. So this the power of fear?
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What is it? What's its real power?
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It's real power is that we give it power, and
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it takes advantage of that because it's very easy. There's
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there's a loan fry list when you think about it,
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of all the things that we blame fear for. I
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mentioned public speaking. There's also starting a business. There's also
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falling in love. There's also leaving a romance that you
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think you should have forever, and the truth is it's
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no longer serving you, but you don't leave because you're fearful.
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And we've learned to scapegoat fear and not recognize that
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fear lives because we allow it to the type of
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fear that stands in the way of what we say
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we want. And I thought about fear before I actually
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put the script together and put the characters together. And
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I said, we often think about fear as this fire
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breathing dragon, huge presence, right, huge present. And I'm driving,
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I'm actually driving in New Orleans, acrossing one of our
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many many bridges, and I said, huh, fear is nothing
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but a whisper talking to us all the time. That
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whisper when you're about to make the pitch for your
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business to get the funding, that says you're not going
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to get it. You know you're a terrible speaker, Then
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no one's going to believe you, whatever the situation is.
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And I said, fear whispers, And because we listen to
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the whisper, then we create what we say we don't
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want in our lives. So what should we do instead
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when fear whispers to us? I think number one is
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to realize fear is always looking for an opportunity to whisper.
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And at the end, when fear says you'll never get
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rid of me, that's the truth. Think about the times
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at least when you stood there, or we stand there,
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we accomplish something, and then we get another opportunity. It's bigger,
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it's bolder, and then those same doubts start to creep
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in again, and fear finds that opening, and fear says,
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I don't know this time if you're don't make it
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or not, so always looking for an opportunity. And the
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truth is, and perhaps there's some information that we could use,
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but we have to assess whether or not what fear
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is saying is the truth. If fear is speaking in absolutes,
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you're terrible, You'll never make it. There's no way people
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are going to hire you. And is that the truth
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And the truth is probably not. But if there's a
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kernel of truth, we can't address it. We can say, well,
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you know, maybe there's something I may need to prepare
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or to stand a little bit taller and stronger in this,
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but it's nothing I can't do, it's nothing I can't
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figure out. So again, recognize fear is looking for opportunities
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and that you have to figure out if it's fact
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or fiction. Is it fact are false? And then the
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third thing is to some people say pull your receipts,
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go back and remember the last time you were in
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a situation where you were listening to fear and what
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happened happened Either you said fear You're right. We said
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I'm going to do it anyway, and I'm going to
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make this happen anyway, and say I've done it before
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and I can do it again.
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You know, it seems to me, as you're sharing this
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and really casting the true character of fear here that
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really what's happening when fear whispers to us.
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Is it's telling us this is important to you, This
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is important to you. Pay attention to this.