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What's working on Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder the
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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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at work, to contribute their talents passionately and know their
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lives really matter. They crave being part of an organization
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that inspires them and helps them grow into realizing their
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highest potential. Business can be such a force for good
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in the world, elevating humanity. In our program, we provide
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guidance and inspiration to help usher in this world we
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all want Working on Purpose. Now, here's your host, doctor
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Elise Cortes.
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Welcome back to the Working on Purpose program, which has
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been brought to you with passion and pride since February
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of twenty fifteen. Hey's tuning in this week. Great to
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have you. I'm your host, doctor Relas Cortes. Most leaders
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are sitting on untapped human energy, and I help them
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unlock it. I'm an organizational psychologist, logo therapist, workforce advisor
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and the founder of the Gusto Now movement. But the
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title I live by is much simpler. I traffic and
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energy now the service level motivation or another engagement initiative,
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But the deeper force what I call Gusto, the life
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force for the performance that drives commitment, perseverance, and genuine
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ownership of a shared mission in the clients we serve.
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You learn more about us in ho We can work
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together at Gusto dashnow dot com or my personal site
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Atliscortes dot com. Getting in today's program we have with
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us Steve Gandhara, who has spent five decades shaping high
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performance leaders, teams and organizations. As co founder and managing
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director of Excellent Cultures, He and his team have partnered
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with global brands including Toyota, Microsoft, Costs, Go, Caterpillar, and Subway,
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among many others, to build leaders in workplaces. Workplace culture
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is recognized for excellence, unprecedented unity in the industry, leading performance.
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He's the author of The Culture Ripple, Unleashing the Power
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of your Invisible Culture, which we'll be talking about today.
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He chose to to from McKinney, Texas, which is just
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a suburb north of Dallas. Steve, welcome to Working on Purpose.
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Thank you, Elise. That's what a wonderful word.
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Isn't it great? I love it, you know, And if
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I hadn't lived in Spain, in Brazil and I speak
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Spanish and Portuguese, I might never have discovered it. So
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bringing it to life in the US. But let's first
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and foremost, my friend, celebrate this beautiful thing that you
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brought it into the world. The Culture Ripple is amazing.
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It's jam packed full of all kinds of information. Certainly
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to me, it really felt like I was touching all
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of these fifty years of experience that you have. It
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just it's amazing and as I mentioned, be forgot in
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a week. It could be used as a weapon if
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you need it, because it's.
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Yes, it could be a weapon, you know, kind of
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like those Stanley cups. You know they're great for water,
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but they you know, they could injure.
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Somebody, absolutely right, they don't get too close, right, I'm friendly.
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I don't I'm making sudden moves. I got my Stanley cup. Yeah. Well,
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I appreciate very much the work that you do, Steve.
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You and I do some similar work, just from a
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different vantage point, and I really appreciate how you brought
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to life especially you know the subtitle of your book
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you talk about the invisible force of culture. So I
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want to start with this notion that you talk about.
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Of course, that culture drives behavior, which we both know
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in behavior drives outcomes. But what what MINU leaders don't
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understand is that culture they're only looking at what they
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can actually see, what's visible, and you really situate the
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criticality of the invisible if you could start to speak
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to that first.
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Yeah, well, culture is very much like quantum physics. I mean,
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anyone who's ever studied quantum physics knows that there are
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invisible forces behind everything in nature that are made up
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of these microscopic atoms and even broken down further that
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drive everything. And you know, culture is the most misunderstood word,
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certainly in corporate America. Everybody talks about it all the time,
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but nobody's ever looked up the definition, because why would
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you look up a definition for a word you already
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know you won't, But if you did look it up,
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if you google it, you're going to get two definitions
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for corporate culture, one from Harvard, one from Cambridge.
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You put them together. It's the beliefs that govern how
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people behave at work, which is corporate. But corporate doesn't
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just mean business.
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It can mean you're going to have corporate worship in
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the church, So it's any group of people. And so
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corporate culture is the beliefs that govern how people behave
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individually or collectively in groups, whether they're teams or organizations
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or families or you know, even neighborhoods.
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And because beliefs.
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Are invisible and they're they're also what other people don't realize,
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what so many people don't realize, is they're not just
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invisible to others, they're invisible to us. If you look
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at the research from the International Masterson Institute, they're going
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to tell you that the human brain can process eleven
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million bits of information a second, but only forty not
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forty million, but forty bits.
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Are we consciously aware of.
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So there's this ten million and some bits of information
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our brains are processing that are subconscious.
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They're below the surface.
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Doctor Lipton, Bruce Lipton at Stanford will tell you that
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ninety five percent of our lives are lived on this
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subconscious level, and yet most people don't even know they
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have a subconscious Yet it's the powerful force that drives everything.
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You have a manager who believes my boss is a jerk,
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they're going to behave totally differently.
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Than one who believes the opposite.
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You have a teenager who believes my parents don't want
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anything but to control my life. They're going to behave
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differently than the teenager who believe my parents.
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Want the best for me.
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But the problem is the manager who believes my boss
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is a jerk could have a wonderful boss, but two
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bosses ago they had a boss that was a jerk,
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and they're subconsciously viewing the world through that lens and
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don't know they're doing it.
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Or the teenager who believes my parents just wanted couple.
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In my life could have gotten that belief, you know,
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from a friend on social media and then accepted it.
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At least you're a psychologist, you know that people's ancient beliefs.
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You can either agree with them or not.
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But once they're agreed with, they're sanctioned, they're recorded, And
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now we've got a teenager who's living her life based
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upon a belief that may or may not be the truth.
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That's how culture works.
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So let's bring this into the day to day of
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what many people would experience. And so when we talk
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about how these how these beliefs start to drive a culture, well,
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I'll just give one example and then invite you to
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chime in with others. But for example, if there's a
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belief in the organization that if the boss gets mad,
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if you bring up a new idea or that that's
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going to counter theirs, great, right, how it shows up
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in behaviors. People don't speak up, they hold their tongue.
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They might say something after the meeting, or there's no
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new ideas, there's no innovation because everybody's so afraid of
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being beaten down or be given a verbal lashing that
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they're not willing to risk it. And so those are
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that's an example of just one simple Maybe they're not
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even aware that they that they feel that way or
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believe that way, but it's there and it drives the
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behaviors and the outcome.
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Yeah, you said it very well. In most cases they're
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not even aware. Like I was dealing with a client
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that's a family business today and there's you know, a
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dad and two sons, and of course the dad is
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the chairman of the founder, and I'm talking to you know,
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the president the CEO of the company, who you know,
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openly admit that you know, doesn't want to provide all
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of the accurate, candid feedback about one of the sons,
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you know, in the in you know, the same environment
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with the dad, even though the dad has said many
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many times again and again and again, you know, please don't.
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Treat so and so like they're my son. You know,
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they need to be treated.
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But again, it's these hidden beliefs that drive behavior and
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in most cases, unfortunately, don't have a whole lot to
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do with the truth. They just have to do with
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people's mindsets and past experiences. And until you know what
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they are and the outcomes that they're producing, it's like
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trying to get your arms around yellow.
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Or as ment. My eighty seven year old mentresses putting
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socks on an octopus. Yeah, that great, that's doctor Man's
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secreton sure to love you. Speaking of what you just mentioned,
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of these different examples with kids and such, I think
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it's really important that we call out, Steve, that your
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book is really written, as you said in the beginning.
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You hinted at the beginning, for any group that has
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a set of that has a culture to it, and
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that includes a family. And let's just celebrate that. You know,
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here you are a married man of many, many years,
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and you have eleven children, and so I think you
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maybe have been around the block couple times when it
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comes to raising children, learn a thing or two. So
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I just want to celebrate that your book is something
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for really everyone, whether you run a company, you're in
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a company, you care about leadership, you care about culture.
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It's for everyone.
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Thank you. Yes it is. It is. And again we
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designed it and the team.
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That helped me put it together, gather all the information
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from all of these decades of experiences, you know, with
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that in mind, because culture, it's just look at it
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like the quantum physics of human beings.
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You know, it's the invisible force that drives everything.
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And the good news is is the science and the
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experience is available and you can manage it. You can
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design it. You can control it, you can be intentional
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about it. But most people don't even get close to
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that because they don't understand what it really is. They
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just talk about it, and it's got a million different definitions,
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like anything else, until you get a clear, insightful definition.
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It's like trying to put, as you said, socks on
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an octipus.
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That's such a great visual. Yeah, just so great. Okay,
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So the next thing I want, I want to queue
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up for us to talk about it. And I really
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think this is so powerful and I do it with
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my clients too. But the notion of limiting beliefs versus
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liberating beliefs. Yes, so first if you could distinguish those,
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because it's so so powerful to think about the idea
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of liberating beliefs and how but let's also talk about
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how limiting beliefs really do limit us.
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Yeah.
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So, one of my colleagues, doctor Terry S. Smith, is
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eighty three years old. He's a licensed practicing therapist, you know,
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also as a minister. But you know, got his doctorate
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fifty three years ago at Boston University, and in the
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context of doing his doctoral work, he discovered an instrument
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that was created by a psychologist in the forties that
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if he used it the way it's designed sends people
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into depression, and he figured out a way to flip
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it where it does just the opposite. And so he served,
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you know, in his practice as a therapist, and he'll
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tell you that he doesn't like you to call him
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a therapist. He calls himself a coach because he says
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therapy doesn't work. But you know, fifty three years of
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serving people all over the world, from women who are
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sex traffick in India to CEOs, PTSD survivors in the
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United States, eunuchs and Israel, you name it, people all
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over the world. He's served tens of thousands of them.
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And what he's discovered is that every human being, when
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they're a child between birth and twelve years old, goes
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through some kind of emotional trauma. Sometimes you know, the
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child was abused, Sometimes it had a great life, but
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they were bullied in the second grade. But at the
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moment of that emotional trauma, the child, because children they're
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the best recorders but the worst interpreters. They remember everything
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and record it, but they don't know where they can
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interpret what it is, develops a limiting belief. He calls
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it a core line, a limiting belief. I'm not good enough,
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I'm not smart enough, I'm the wrong sex, I'm the
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wrong nobody loves me. You know, tens of thousands of people,
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there's about twenty six core lies if you can imagine that,
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you know, out of tens of thousands of people, that
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you develop as a child, and everybody has one that
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becomes a driving force for the rest of your life.
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So now you have a CEO in their fifties who