The Diagnosis that Fuels Purpose and Legacy

What would you do with your life if you knew you had a sooner-rather-than-later expiration date? How would facing that finality alter the direction of your life? Or would it at all? Gwen Rich knows she has limited time on the planet due to her breast...
What would you do with your life if you knew you had a sooner-rather-than-later expiration date? How would facing that finality alter the direction of your life? Or would it at all? Gwen Rich knows she has limited time on the planet due to her breast cancer diagnosis and is doing anything but complaining about it. She’s living life large, out to make the biggest impact she can on others with her time left, and savoring every moment. Wouldn’t it be amazing if we all lived like this and worked on purpose to leave a legacy, even without a terminal diagnosis prompting our urgency?
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There are some people that make their
work just another thing they have to do,
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and there are those that make their
work something that they want to do.
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Welcome to Working on Purpose with your
host Elise Cortes. In our program,
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we provide guidance and inspiration from those
people who have found deeper meaning and
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personal connection to their work life.
It's beyond nine to five. It's working
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on Purpose. Now Here is your
host, Elise Cortes. I'm your host,
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Elise Cortes, joining you from Dallas, which is home base for me.
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This program is all about helping people
more meaningfully and productively connect with their
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work and equipping leaders to do the
same for their employees. In terms of
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cultivating meaning and purpose in the workplace, I bring on guests to have a
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particular perspective or experience that I think
contributes to or expands this conversation, and
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as a management consultant and social scientist, I draw on the meeting and work
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and identity research I've been doing over
the last fifteen years, as well as
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from my own consult speaking and developing
experience work across the globe. Last week,
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if you missed the show Alive,
you can always catch it recorded podcast
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we were on the air with Kate
White, the New York Times bestselling author
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of twelve murder Mysteries and thrillers and
several popular career books, including the Gutsy
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Girl Handbook Their Manifesto for Success.
She is the previous editor in chief of
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Cosopolitan magazine as well. We talked
about several of the success tips in her
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book and how she has used them
in her own career making her way what
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was then very much a man's world
then as a leader. With us this
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week is Gwen Rich. She is
a wife, mother of four, an
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accredited image stylist, small business owner, philanthropist, and Wall Street Journal best
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selling author of Stop Complaining, Make
Your Own Luck. After eight years and
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eight misdiagnoses, Gwenn was ultimately diagnosed
with incurable metastatic breast cancer in twenty twelve.
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Struggling to decide what to do with
the time she had left, she
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launched the Gwynn Marie Collection Pursues with
a Purpose in twenty fourteen. Gwinn continues
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to fulfill her mission of helping others. Her legacy to go is the development
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of an online teaching community called The
Rich Solution. Today we'll talk about the
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history of brisk cancer, what women
can do to prevent it, and hear
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about these amazing initiatives she's pouring herself
into despite her diagnosis. She knows us
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today from Chicago, Illinois. Gwen, welcome to Working on Purpose. It's
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amazing to have you here. Thank
you. Oh, I'm so excited to
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be here, and thank you for
giving me the opportunity to be here with
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you and your viewers. Oh my
gosh, you know it's it's You're so
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welcome. And I from the moment
that we met, I was just so
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honored and really moved by who you
are, Gwen, as a person and
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what you're up to in life.
And to that end, I do want
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to start this conversation by crediting the
woman who did bring us together, and
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that's hend to Samaran. She's a
dear friend of mine and you caught wind
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of her and your and your story, and if you want to say more
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about that, that's great, But
if you would start by sharing the story
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of discovering your own cancer, if
you will, Yeah, it was a
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long road. I was misdiagnosed for
eight years, So I'm not going to
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go over that because it takes a
long time, but it got to the
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point where after the eighth doctor,
someone recommended I actually go see a different
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type of a doctor, a neurosurgeons, in which I did so. That
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was the ninth doctor who had a
total different perspective. This doctor ordered an
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MRI for me, which none of
the other doctors would order a new one.
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I had one done in two thousand
and four, which they were all
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privy to. And of course this
new MRI that was done in twenty twelve
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showed the lytic lesions all down in
my mind that all the other doctors had
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missed over the eight years, as
well as the mammograms had missed. So
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I know that sums it up very
shortly. It was a very long,
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painful eight years, but I certainly
was relieved. I was actually blessed when
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I got the diagnosis. I don't
know if anyone who's listening has ever had
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some type of a simple an or
chronic pain and then the doctors can't figure
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out what it is, and that's
what happened to me for eight years,
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and so they really thought I thought
I was crazy. No one believed me,
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so finally, when I got the
diagnosis November six, twenty twelve.
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I was actually relieved and blessed that
finally I had something, I knew what
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it was and we could move forward
from there. You are so strong.
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When so strong, I want to
also say a little bit about our coming
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from Henda, because I'm wondering how
it was that you cross paths with her.
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SOHNDO got cancer, breast cancer in
he I think it was her early
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forties, and then she got clear
of it, and then she went off
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immediately and had a heart attack.
So she said, by both breast cancer
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and a heart attack and like a
short amount of time. And what does
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she do is she trots herself down
to Austin, Texas and gets a bill
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passed called Hinda's Law, and that
law is designed to be able to help
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alert women that just just mimography is
not the only way to be able to
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detect that there might be a presence
of tumors, especially if you have dense
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bress tissue. And I really applaud
that she was able to do that.
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She's now actually working to create that
effort on a national basis. How did
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you cross pass with Henda? Yeah, I was very fortunate, and I
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say very lucky so when I was
first diagnosed, I did what a lot
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of people do and I went on
the internet, which I didn't. I
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don't do that anymore. And it
was shortly thereafter that I stopped doing it
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because that it becomes too overwhelming.
But I was fortunate enough that going through
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the Internet, I found out about
Henda and Henda's law and I thought,
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this was the most amazing woman.
And when I was thinking about what I
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was going to do with the rest
of the time I have left, because
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I was my cancer diagnosis is incurable, and I thought, well, gosh,
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you know, at that time,
I think there was only twenty some
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states, and I thought, you
know what, Illinois is not one of
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them. That's what I'm going to
do. And I thought, you know,
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I can't do that. I hate
politics. It's too negative. I
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needing that's going to be positive is
something that I'm passionate about. I would
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have been passionate about that, but
it just too much negativity, too much
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stress, and so I just thought, I want to meet this woman one
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day, and it just so happens. We do some my husband and I
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do some philanthropic work in Dallas,
and they were having their networking meeting the
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next morning, and I was asked
if I wanted to go as a business
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woman to promote my business, the
gwen Ree Collection, and she asked me
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if I know who Henda was,
And I said, you've got to be
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kidding me. You're not talking about
Henda with Hendo's Law, are you.
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And she said yes, and she
said, well you can meet her and
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I went, oh, my gosh, So that was someone who I wanted
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to meet and did get the pleasure
of meeting her, and it was It's
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been wonderful ever since. So we
stay connected as much as we can with
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both of our busy lives. Well, and you're both up to some really
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powerful things. And I want to
talk more about what you're up to here
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a little bit later, but before
we get into that going, I really
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want to help our listeners understand just
this share at academic epidemic issue related to
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breast cancer for women across the globe. Can you just give us some stats
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about how many women might be dealing
with it, or have dealt with it,
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or maybe have we've lost sure?
Absolutely, yeah, I think it's
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important to put in context. So
breast cancer is the most common cancer in
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women worldwide, it's the second most
common cancer overall, and it's the leading
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cause of cancer death in the less
developed countries. And it's the second leading
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cause of cancer death in American women, which is exceeded only by lung cancer.
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So breast cancer is the most frequently
diagnosed cancer among women of one hundred
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and forty excuse me, in one
hundred and forty of one hundred and eighty
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four countries. So globally, breast
cancer now represents one in four of all
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cancers in women. So to bring
it more here, in the United States,
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in twenty seventeen, we had sixty
over sixty three thousand that were diagnosed.
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They were in pseudo cases, and
that means that the cancer stayed in
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its place. And we also the
same year had over two hundred and fifty
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thousand invasive cases, and that's where
the cancer moves from the primary site to
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somewhere else, whether that's an organ
or bones, and us we had in
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twenty seventeen over forty thousand, and
that's just in the year twenty seventeen.
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So it affects a lot of people. That is a lot of numbers.
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That's a lot I want, I
don't I didn't know any of those numbers,
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and but I wanted I knew they
were big. I just but I
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thought it was important for us to
start by talking about just the sheer size
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of this issue, this problem.
And when I think about breast cancer,
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you know, I remember when my
grandmother was alive. She's been gone for
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years, but you know, I
don't remember us ever talking about anything like
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that when she was around. So
I think it would also be interesting to
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understand what's the history behind breast cancer. Where did this disease come from?
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And how long are we really known
about it? Yeah, and that's a
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good question because I think most people. I've never talked about history with other
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people, not even my doctors,
so most people it's not a general conversation.
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So the first humans that knew about
breast cancer was a long time ago,
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and that dates back to three thousand
to twenty five hundred BCE. The
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first radical mass sectomy was done in
eighteen eighty two, So then we jump
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all the way to eighteen ninety five
and that's when the first X ray was
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taken. Nineteen thirty seven, radiation
therapy was used in addition to surgery,
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and then we jump all the way
to nineteen seventy eight, and that's when
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the first drug, tomoxifen, was
approved by the FDA FD and this is
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still used today. This is the
first drug. It's usually the first course
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of treatment, depending on what type
of breast cancer you have that they start
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off with. That's what I used. Only lasted about six months for me.
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In nineteen eighty five, they discovered
the early stage breast cancer and those
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that were treated with a lumpectomy and
radiation had similar survival rates to the women
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who were treated only with the mass
sectomy, so that's interesting. Jumped to
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nineteen ninety five and we get into
the scientists found the clone the tumor suppressor
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for the BRACA one and two gene, which is very important. We'll talk
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about the mutation later. On nineteen
ninety six, FDA approves ibrands, which
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is a drug I went on.
This is considered a chemo drug and this
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is only for certain types of cancer
and it helps to stop the tumor growth.
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Let's see nineteen ninety eight we have
tamoxifen decreases the risks of breast cancer
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for the women who are at risk
by fifty percent, so that's a big
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number. We also have in two
thousand and six another drug, relaxefin,
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so it reduces breast cancer risk for
the post menopausal women. There are a
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lot of factors when you have breast
cancer and if your postmenopausal or menopausal can
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depend on what drugs you can take. So we know that breast cancer is
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becoming a much more personalized as the
doctors learn more about this disease. So
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we see the disease with subtypes that
have different patterns and ways of acting on
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the body. So it has the
ability to isolate specific genes and clarify breast
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cancer and in the beginning, so
you could have a more tailored treatment option,
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which is really important. It's really
helping with the care of patients with
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their treatment. Hopefully they don't have
to go through, you know, treatments
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that don't work and cause a lot
of side effects. So we've really come
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a long way with that. Definitely
come a long way since Hing Greece.
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We know a lot more about breast
cancer forms and how to treat it.
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And I think what is more important
is that early detection and treatment is considered
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the best line of defense against breast
cancer. So I know we're going to
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talk about some of that stuff later
on. Yes. So one of the
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things is just most recently, when
I think about how we're some of the
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things we're doing to try to arm
ourselves with this here. So mimography versus
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three D imaging, what's the difference
there, right, And that's a great
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question. So one of Okay,
what I didn't mention about my diagnosis,
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I mentioned that eight mammograms missed my
cancer. That means eight radiologists missed it
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too, And that's because I have
dense breast tissue and my doctors did not
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inform me of that. And so
when a woman has dense breast issue,
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she is at a higher risk for
breast cancer. And one of the drawbacks
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with a mammogram is that it cannot
see the tumor. You have to think
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about the back of the film of
a mammogram is white, a tumor is
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white, So it's like looking for
a snowball in a snowstorm. So,
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just like myself, there are many
women who go misdiagnosed if they have a
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mammogram because you cannot see the tumor. And so now and thanks to Henda's
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law, it's I think in thirty
five states now. But we have better
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imagings. So you can have a
whole breast ultrasound, you can have three
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D mamography, you can have light
therapy, many different options so a woman
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doesn't have to feel like a mammogram
is the only thing. In fact,
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if you have dense breast tissue,
I would recommend that everyone go into your
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doctor and you demand one of the
three D options because a mimography is just
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not going to do it for you. You know, Gwen, that's so
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important that I want to add on
to what you just said there, because
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when I talked in the beginning about
Handa Samarn and her Handa's Law, the
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importance of that significance of that is
just exactly what's happened to you and what
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happened to her, and that was
that she went going through her memograms for
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all those years and getting the clear
signal coming out of them, but never
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being told that she had dense press
tissues, so that she never knew to
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ask for other options. And so
what Handas law does is it actually says
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to women, look, you know
there are some women, many women have
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dense prist tissue and it looks like
you do in this in some cases in
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which case you should look at other
options to evaluate your your your you know,
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whatever concerns that you might have or
potential risks. That is the value
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of Handa's law of being able to
declare that to women that they either have
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dense priss tissue and need to look
for other ways to look for ways to
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see if they've got any tumors,
or that is even present in and of
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itself, because most of us women
didn't know that before she came to the
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table with that correct. Yeah,
it's so important. Such a fan of
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what she's doing and a fact,
as I said, I know she's out
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there still evangelizing and listeners. You
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this issue. So if you're interested
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need more feet and more hands.
So just there's ways to find both Gwen
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and I. So, Gwen,
anything else, I mean, I really
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appreciated that the historical perspective that you
just gave us. I had no idea
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that we had this inkling way back
to three thousand BC. Anything else that
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we need to understand about the history
of breast cancer. Yeah, I think
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there's something that's really important So cancer
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in the body called genes. Okay, so these changes are known as mutations
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abnormalties, and they could be caused
by randomly things like outside influences like pollution,
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smoking, sun exposure, because they
could be inherited through your family line
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as well. But not everyone is
born with a gene mutation will develop this
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cancer. So inherited gene mutations may
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the risk in both men and women. I said men too, and the
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risk from inherited gene mutation varies greatly
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But I think what people need to
know is that just like we all have
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cancer genes in our body and whether
they're turned on or not is the question
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on or off the BROCA one and
two gene, which is the mutation for
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breast cancer. So not everyone has
that about twelve percent of women in the
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general population will develop cancer due to
the brocogene. But what they need to
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know, so many women they're frozen
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or maybe they have the brocogene,
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get it. They're just doomed.
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not going to do anything about it
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can do. Even if you have
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going to get the disease, which
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There are risk factors develop to develop
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I don't think women realize that if
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for breast cancer. I'll hold on
hold that thought. If you hold that
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thought, if you woulden, I
want to talk more about how to actually
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prevent cancer. There might be some
of those things in that bucket as well.
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But let's grab our first break here
real quick. I'm your host.
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I'm your host, Alice Cortes.
We went on the air with gwyn Rich.
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She is a wife, mother of
four, and a credited image stylist,
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small business owner, philanthropist, and
Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Stop
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Complaining, Make Your Own Luck.
She joins us today from Chicago, Illinois.
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We've been talking a bit about her
own diagnosis with breast cancer and the
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history of this particular disease. The
rik we're going to get into some of
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the ways we can prevent this cancer. Stay with us, We'll be right
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back. Alice Cortes is a speaker
and engagement and development catalyst. She designs
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and delivers professional development, leadership and
engagement workshops and can bring her expertise to
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your organization. She will help ignite
meaningful development within your workforce that will increase
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employee engagement, performance and retention.
To learn more or to invite Elise to
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speak to your organization, please visit
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She would welcome the opportunity to help
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This is working on Purpose with Elise
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send an email to a lease Alise
at Elisecortes dot com. Now back to
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working on purpose if you're just joining
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After eight years an eight misdiagnoses,
Quinn was ultimately diagnosed with incurable ministatic breast
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cancer in twenty twelve. Struggling to
decide what to do with the time she
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had left, she launched the Gwynn
Marie Collection pursues with a purpose. In
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twenty fourteen, Gwinn continues to fill
her emission on helping others. Her legacy
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on the go is the development of
an online teach community called The Rich Solution.
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We've been talking a bit about how
the history of breast cancer came to
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be in her own situation. Now
let's get into some of those ways that
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you started talking about before the breakbout, maybe prevent some of that cancer.
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left up there, if you would
go in sure. So we do know
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that breast cancer damages to sell DNA, that's something we do know. What
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we do not know exactly unless you
have the Brocka gene what causes cancer.
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There are risk factors, and some
of them that they do know, as
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I mentioned, is drinking alcohol that
can increase your risk of getting cancer as
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well as it being in the family. Those are two that we know of,
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and then of course there's many other
risk factors that they're really not sure
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if it has you know, if
they can pinpoint any one thing, what
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I think is really cool. I
get really excited. This is from all
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the research I've done, even before
I was diagnosed that we know about epigentics.
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new and exciting field in science and
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it studies the human behavior and how
it canfect gene expression. This goes back
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to those who are worried about having
cancer. Maybe they have the brockagene in
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their family, or maybe they know
they have the brockagene the mutation. So
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we're talking about gene expression. So
we can't change which genes we inherit from
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our parents. We can, though, through our behavior, change whether or
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not those genes are turned off and
on. And I think this is so
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cool. So you have to remember
that a faulty gene that you've inherited can
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only hurt you if it's turned on. So there was a recent study and
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it was about this study of a
spiritual practice, and it showed that meditating
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for a very short period of time
significantly changed gene expression in a healthy promoting
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way. So this is so cool. So in other words, something like
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spiritual practice meditation which I'll talk about
later, can actually turn healthy genes on
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and the healthy ones turned off.
So this is a really great discovery for
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cancer patients. Are those who are
interested in reducing their risks of a cancer
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diagnosed or even a reoccurrence. So
as I want to get into patients or
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someone who is just wants to reduce
their risks, can focus on certain behaviors
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like your diet, spiritual practice,
exercise, and so much more so that
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we can keep those genes turned off. And this you can also do with
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chronic diseases auto immune symptoms as well. And we know that literally most everybody
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in our society is not only dealing
with cancer or someone who has cancer,
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but our health we're having failing health, We're living longer with the quality of
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life is worse. So I think
this is a really neat something that I
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just found recently, and it just
gives me hope, and I think it
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would give others hope as well to
know that it's an empowerment that we can
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do so much to reduce the risks
of us getting cancer. Does that make
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sense? It does, and it
is incredibly empowering and encouraging. Gwen,
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I thank you so much for sharing
that. And of course I have a
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burning question to somebody who does like
to have a glass of wine at the
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end of the day. How does
alcohol work to increase the risk of cancer.
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What's going on with the alcohol.
I don't really know that specifically.
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I know that if you have cancer, I know that the sugar in it,
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which turns into glucose is actually with
the care answer feeds off of.
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But I'm really not sure of the
science behind it before you're diagnosed, I
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don't know. Okay, it's okay, no, just fascinating, very very
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you gave us some really amazing information. And you know what I also really
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appreciate too, is to your point
earlier about people getting maybe they find out
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they have the brockogen and they're like, well, what's the point I just
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give up? I surrender. Yet
when you consider there is so much that's
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within their control to be able to
impact their risk of getting cancer or it's
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spreading or getting worse, I'm finding
it very encouraging. Yeah. Yeah,
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I mean, I'm I have three
pillars to my business. It's empowerment,
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community and faith. And empowerment to
me is so big when we when I
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talk to you about some of the
other things you can to me, I
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look at that and it just gets
me so excited because it's you've got to
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put in the work. Okay,
but there is a lot that you can
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do. We don't have to take
a diagnosis as an accept it as fate,
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even cancer diagnosis. Okay, So
I want people when they hear that.
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So even whether you're given an autoimmune
disease, whether you have a cardovascular
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disease type two or three diabetes,
cancer, you don't have to accept it
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as fate. There's so much that
you can do to improve your quality of
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health. And I think that's just
really encouraging and hopeful. I mean,
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sometimes that's all people have is hope. I know there's been times where that's
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all I had. So hope is
medicine for me. Well, so you
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said empowerment. Where were the other
two pillars of your business? Oh?
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Spirituality? Faith? Okay, community
and faith. Would you say a little
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bit more about those other two.
I know we're going to say more about
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what you're up to later, but
just briefly touch on those if you would.
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Sure. So, Community, I
think people need to know community is
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really important. Every person needs to
have a community in all the different areas
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of your life life so that when
you are faced with something, when you
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have a problem, when your problem
gets so big, you do have someone
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there other people to help you get
it, get through it. I mean
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it can go beyond you know,
espouse, a loved one, siblings,
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friends we're talking about. These can
be acquaintances, These could be someone you
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work with. You need need to
build those communities in all the different areas.
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Again, it's really important. So
much about what we do these today
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is we go online to find out
all the information and we can even connect
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with people. But what we're finding
is that what we've it really is disconnecting
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all of us from each other,
all the social media. So I would
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encourage people. There are times when
that's good. You can go online and
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you can find all the different forms
and all the different subjects. But when
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once you do that, then go
offline to then connect with people in your
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community so that you have it there
if you need it. I'll give you
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an example. So I was diagnosed. A month later, I broke my
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neck a very short condensed version.
So I broke my neck and it was
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due to the fact I fell down
some stairs because of my cancer was so
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bad in my bones, so had
the infusion. So they replaced a bone
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in my neck. And when I
got home, I mean, I have
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to take care of myself and all
that didn't even think about meals. So
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I had a husband and four kids, and we put it out there on
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something called meal train, and within
one day, my community filled two months
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worth of meals that people in my
community would bring to me and my family.
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These are people. Some of them
were friends, good friends, some
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of them were acquaintances. Some of
them I didn't even really know. And
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that's because we didn't realize it.
But we had been building communities in these
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different areas, and then it was
there for us when we were going through
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our challenges and problems. So it's
really important. Quinn, you are just
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amazing. You fell down a flighty
stairs and broke your neck on top of
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all of this, Yeah, but
that it was something where if you fell,
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slipped and fell, you'd be like, oh gosh, well that hurt
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a little bit. Maybe I'd get
a bruise, But unfortunately, because my
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bones were so damaged, I ended
up breaking it. So you know,
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that's what comes along with the disease. I got it. Okay, Well,
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would you say, for our listeners, I want to make sure that
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I don't attempt a way to describe
this because I want to make sure that's
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right. So you got diagnosed when
and I think you told me when we
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first spoke that you're beyond when they
expected you to live. Is that right,
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right? Yes? So I actually
it's on a MRI in two thousand
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and four, the cancer, but
none of the doctors saw it until twenty
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twelve. Twenty twelve, November six
is when I actually got the diagnosis and
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it was in my bones, when
in two thousand and four it was in
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my bones as well, So technically
I've had it for fourteen years. I've
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known about it for just over five
Someone who has my type and stage cancer,
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the stats are only one out of
four will actually make it to the
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five year mark. So even if
you go to when I got diagnosed,
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that five year mark was in November. So I've definitely lived beyond my expiration.
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I definitely have a few friends who
were diagnosed with my type in stage
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cancer and they didn't make it past
a year year and a half since their
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diagnosis. So I've done all these
things. When I talk about empowerment,
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and I talk about that gene expression
and there's so much that you can do,
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well, that's what I did from
the first day that I left my
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doctor's office, even though my doctors, even today oncologists roll all their eyes
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at what I do, I don't
care because until you're given an incurable diagnosis,
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you have no idea what you are
will and will not do. Because
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I want to be here to make
a difference. I want to see my
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kids go through life cycle events that
most people take for granted. And so
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yeah, oh my gosh, Gwinn, it's so amazing to have you on
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the show and get you to be
able to share with the listeners across the
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globe this really important message and it
is empowering, and I love what you're
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up to and what you stand for. I totally saw you as somebody who
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is absolutely working on purpose, and
again that's why I wanted to have you
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in the show for that reason as
well, and just appreciate everything that you're
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sharing and who you are. Thank
you, Thank you. I'm excited to
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be here because this I do feel
like I am. If you hear my
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story, you know, how could
they not find the cancer right eight Mammo
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grant I's eight doctors, eight idiologists, and nobody found it. It wasn't
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meant to happen. And that's when
I get into the faith which is my
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third pillar. I've had a number
of things that have happened through with my
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family, with health crisis with two
of my children. I've made a pack
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with God, and I really believe
that I am doing exactly what I'm supposed
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to be doing, helping others through
my experience. So I'm very comfortable and
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at peace with that. And it
certainly shows, Gwen, It certainly shows,
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and it's just incredible. It is
incredibly inspiring and empowering. And I
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do see that in my research of
looking at how people experience meaning and their
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work in relation to their identity or
sense of self. One of the modes
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that I found is living my purpose. And I think that's what you're doing.
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You're living your purpose, right.
Yeah. And I have to say
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that before I was diagnosed, I
struggled with that. I had the ideal
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job. I was a certified image
consultant, so I helped women from head
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to toe look their best every day
and build a fabulous functional wardrobe. I
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love doing that, loved helping women. I did, you know, philanthropic
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work I have, like I said, a husband for kids. There was
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nothing wrong with my life, but
something was missing. And then it turned
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took definitely some events and then of
course me getting cancer to finding this purpose
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and feeling the most meaningful and purposeful
ever in my life. I really appreciate
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that. In fact, a few
weeks on this show, I had Steve
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Gavatorta on, and he wrote a
book that addresses the power and gift of
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adversity, and he says that embracing
adversity is really what allows us to become
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the person we're meant to become.
And it seems I guess certainly true for
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you. Yes, And you know
you mentioned before you thought I was strong.
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I certainly from this experience realized that
I'm a lot stronger than I thought.
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But going back to some health challenges
with a couple of my kids,
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you know, you wonder why those
things happen, and we'll never know why,
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but I know it made me stronger. And I did all this research.
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I've found all this stuff, so
then all of a sudden I got
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cancer, and it helped me be
right there at that place to know where
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to go and what to do and
be much more comfortable with it. So
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I agree with your other guest host, Yeah, I really do makes a
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big difference. Indeed, indeed,
Well, is there anything else you want
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to say about how women can prevent
cancer before we take our next break?
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How much time before the break?
I got three hours go for it and
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I have just there you go.
I do have a lot to say,
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so women can do so much,
Okay. One of the first things that
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I know no one's going to want
to hear about it. But it's changing
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your diet, okay, exercise,
sleep patterns, reducing your stress, environmental
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toxins, your gut health, the
importance of communities, which I just talked
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to you about faith, which is
different than finding a religion or being religious,
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meditation which I'll talk about, and
then having purpose in life. But
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diet is the first thing. It's
the biggest needle mover. So whether you
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have cancer or not, you want
to reduce your risks, you need to
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go to a whole food based diet, a plant based diet. We've got
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to get away from the processed food. You've got to get away from the
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process refined sugar and refined carbohydrates.
This can it. You know, food
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is medicine and it can dramatically change
your body, your immune system to actually
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function the way it's supposed to.
Exercise. You can reduce your risks for
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cancer by thirty two percent just by
exercising. And I'm not talking you don't
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have to go run marathons. It's
getting your body moving, start do something.
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There's just so much evidence about how
exercise is just so good for your
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body, so good for your brain. How they say, even you know,
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with these neurodegenitive diseases like demensia and
Alzheimer's, if you exercise you can
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reduce your chances of getting those two
significantly. We didn't know that so many
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years ago. And so they're saying
right now, if you lived eighty five,
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fifty percent of us are going to
have either dementia or Alzheimer's. That's
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pretty sad, so right now,
empowerment. You know that if you can
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start exercising, you change your diet, you start making some lifestyle changes,
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you can reduce that. And we're
talking. My philosophy and I talk about
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in my book is about small actions. I'm definitely not of the belief that
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you need to take big actions to
get rid of big problems. It's about
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taking small actions, and over a
long period of time, incremental changes can
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have enormously positive results that is what
I've done over the last five years.
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I've all these things that I talk
about, I talk to talk and walk
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the talk. I've all done this
talk about supplements. Supplements to me are
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not optional. We need supplements because
we're not getting all the nutrients we need
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from our soil. We're not getting
the nutrients because our produce is picked two
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weeks at least earlier than it's ripe, and the time of transportation time it
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takes us to get to us,
so we're losing so much of a percentage
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of that nutrition. If you take
an orange and what your grandparents the nutrition
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they get, we're getting about forty
percent of that. Most every person has
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some type of nutrient deficiency, and
of course if you look at the standard
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American Western diet, we're not getting
what we need to thrive and survive.
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Wow, that's a lot to contemplate, and clearly you are a living,
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breathing example of why this is a
good idea. Let's grab our next final
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break here at Gwen and we'll come
back. I'm Alice Cortez, your host,
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who've been on the air with Gwyn
Rich. She's a wife mother for
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an accredited image stylist small business owner, philanthropist, and Wall Street Journal bestselling
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author of Stop Complaining, Make Your
Own Luck. She joins today from Chicago,
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Illinois. We've been talking about various
ways that men and women can prevent
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cancer. After the break, we'll
hear maybe a bit more about that,
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and also what she's doing to create
a living legacy for herself and for anyone
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else that need here to listen,
Stay with us, We'll be right back.
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Alis Cortes is a speaker and engagement
and development catalyst. She designs and
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delivers professional development, leadership and engagement
workshops and can bring her expertise to your
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organization. She will help ignite meaningful
development within your workforce that will increase employee
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engagement, performance and retention. To
learn more or to invite Elise to speak
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to your organization, please visit her
at www dot Elisecortes dot com. She
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would welcome the opportunity to help get
your employees working on purpose. This is
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working on Purpose with Elise Cortes.
To reach our program today, send an
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email to a lease Alise at a
Leasecortes dot com. Now back to working
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on purpose. If you're just tuning
in, My guest is Gwen Rich.
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After eight years and eight misdiagnoses,
Gwenn was ultimately diagnosed with incurable metastatic breast
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cancer in twenty twelve. Struggling to
decide with what to do with the time
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she had left, she launched the
Gwen Marie Collection Persons with a Purpose in
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twenty fourteen. Gwen continues to fulfill
her mission of helping others. Her legacy
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on the Go is the development of
an online teaching community called The Rich Solution
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with Him more about that just a
moment. I'm your host, Alise Cortes.
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So on the break, you and
I were quickly chatting that there's at
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least one more thing that you want
to share while we have just limited time
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left about preventing cancer, and that's
meditation. Gwen, what did you want
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to share about that? Thank you
for letting me talk about that. So
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in addition to diet being the first
thing you need you should do, it's
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the biggest needle mold. At the
same time, meditation, as I talked
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earlier, remember how that gene expression
you can turn it on or off.
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So meditation, they're finding, has
so much to do with brain health.
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You can reduce your stress, which
we need to do. I don't think
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that we talk enough about gratitude.
Practicing gratitude can really shift your perspective.
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And if you're going to do something
like making changes in your diet, which
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may seem simple, but they're not
easy, because if they're easy, everybody
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would do it, you're going to
need to shift or reframe away the way
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you think about a lot of things
because you're changing your habits. So meditation
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really can make your life concretely better. People don't understand that, scientifically proven.
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It's a life hack. So it
can lead to better mental health,
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physical health, more energy, and
less pain. So people underestimate meditation.
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So I think people really need to
take a look into that. Thank you.
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I know I've done a little bit
of that recently on myself, and
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I have noticed an amazing difference,
And now that I understand the health benefits,
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I think I want to make that
more of a practice. Thank you
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very much, Quinn. I'm convinced. Thank you. Thanks for a thing
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to your list. Yeah, right
exactly. I think I could work that
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in. Okay, Well, as
we mentioned before, I mean, there's
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so much of who you are is
just in complete online with this show and
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what I'm trying to do for listeners
across the globe and you know, standing
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for passion and working on purpose.
I want to learn more about this Gwynn
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Marie collection Purpose Pursons with a purpose
that is just brilliant. Tell us more
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about this. Yeah, so that
was something that it took me six months
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to figure out what I was going
to do with my life. And it
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came back to those who had heard
about my diagnosis all said, well,
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you know, go back and do
something you're passionate about. So when I
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you know, I stopped work and
everything and what came to me was sewing.
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And sewing, of course I hadn't
done in a long time because life
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gets in the way, and so
I tried a handbag. This was a
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leather handbag. I had done toats
before, but not a handbag, and
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I really liked it. When I
was finished with it, and it happened
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to be around the end of August, and I thought, you know what,
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I'm going to make handbags for the
women in my family for the holidays.
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I have enough time I could do
this. And so when I started
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thinking about my mom and how wonderful
she is and I love her, and
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you know what she's a cancer survivor
as well, and about the functionality of
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the purse and how special it needs
to be. That's when the light bulb
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went off and I thought, this
is what I was meant to do,
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is to make handbags for women to
raise money for breast cancer research. But
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more than that, it was to
help the cancer community. It was to
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connect and comfort the cancer community,
because I know I felt alone and I
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knew others do too, and so
what better not way to have handbags where
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if you are diagnosed with cancer,
your friend can support the by buying you
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a handbag and you know that they
care about you from this gift, or
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maybe your friends carried as a symbol
to support you and the cause. So
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and then, of course to raise
money for breast cancer research was really important
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because we haven't found a cure yet. My kids came up with the name
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Gwen Marie, and I think it
was a year and a half or so
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later we launched the Gwen Marie Collection
Pursues with a purpose. So you know,
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when I got my diagnosis, I
could have acted in two ways.
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I could have been in the victim
mode. It's really not in my playbook,
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but I took a stand, I
figured out how to live to my
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best ability, and I chose the
latter. So I'm so glad I did
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because it did give me that purpose
to get up every day. My passion
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allowed me to feel good about getting
up every day because prior to that,
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I really didn't feel like I had
anything to get up for. You are
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truly a living, walking, breathing
billboard for what I keep saying, live
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with passion, work on purpose in
every way, Gwen, It's amazing and
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so beautiful and so empowering. And
I love the idea of these purses.
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And in fact, let me describe
this really quick. Where can our listeners
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find out about them? Is that
on the rich solution dot com website or
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someplace else? Correct? The two
places still The Gwen Marie collection is still
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up, but they can find everything
at the rich solution dot com. Okay,
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okay, great, Well, And
I do know you say you told
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me before and this is also on
your website that you donate all of your
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proceeds from those purses to the University
of Chicago Medicine for cancer Research. Why
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this institution? Yeah, that's a
great question, because I did look at
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a number of organizations that did research, and the University of Chicago Medicine was
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one of the ones that I came
in. They had a power presentation.
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Doctor Fleming and doctor Cosen actually talked
about my type stage of cancer, and
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it was like a no brainer.
I was like, Okay, these guys
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are local, they are a research
hospital. This is where the funds are
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going to go to. Another point
that's really important to anybody who's going through
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cancer is that you need to be
at a place that you're comfortable with and
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you need to love your doctor,
and so a teaching hospital is I would
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recommend that before any other hospital.
My doctor, doctor Fleming, is a
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researcher with oncology and then spends a
couple of days out of her week seeing
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patients like myself, and she is
two years ahead of other oncologists as far
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as what's coming down the pike.
And when you're in my situation or you
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know, you're not an easy case, you need someone like that that's going
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to give you the care that you
need and not make mistakes. So it's
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very important. Yeah, that was
such a great way to be able to
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clarify why you're giving to this particular
university and what's what's around that as well?
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For our listeners. That was great, Thank you for that. Sure,
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we're getting close, running out of
time here, and before we go,
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I really have to hear about this
legacy on the go online teaching community
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that you're up to. So what's
the community all about? What can how
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can help it? Can get involved? How can you get involved? Well,
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you can go to my website because
that's where I have lots of content.
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I have a form that you can
fill out. It's about having a
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consult about legacy on the go.
You can read my book. We talk
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about legacy on the go in the
book a lot. Excuse me, we
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write about that. Excuse me.
It is, you know, a major
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theme to what I do and in
the book because you know what when I
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when I first was diagnosed, I
did a webinar to help reduce the risks
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of cancer for women so they could
feel empowerment. But I still got to
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a point where I had all this
knowledge and I knew I needed to do
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more. I knew my goal was
bigger than myself, but I wasn't going
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to let that stop me. And
so I'm in the process of coming up
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with the program to help people figure
out what their legacy on the go is.
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But in the meantime they can go
to our site, they can purchase
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a book, stop complaining, make
your own luck. I also have more
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content. It's all about content at
thepaatreon dot com. I'm just looking to
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help people as much as i can. The other thing is I have right
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weekly Facebook live or regular videos that's
on mental minutia. So we talked about
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mental attitude is so important and also
eliminating toxins. So it's all about helping
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you and your lifestyle again to reduce
the risks of cancer or even if you
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have cancer, how you can improve
your quality of life as well as go
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and remission or slow down your cancer. And someone like my case, this
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is amazing and Gwynn, so I
think I know the answer to this question
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that I want to ask you next, but maybe say in about a minute
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or so, what is the legacy
you're working hard to leave behind? Well,
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I want people to be inspired my
story. I hope it doesn't take
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a tragedy or problem to take action. I want people to take action.
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That's the most important thing. You
may not know what you want to do,
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just take action. And it will
lead you down the road to where
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you're supposed to be. And that
my story can be inspiring. Use my
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story, my system, the five
percent solution, which is taking the small
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actions and over time the incremental changes
will have an enormous effect positive you'll get
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positive results in your life. So
I want other people to know that they
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can turn their worst into their best. I mean, if we look at
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a lot of the organizations, a
lot of things that are founded, it
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has come out of a need or
it's out of a problem. And so
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we all have problems, some bigger
than others. And so to not rule
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that out, you know, find
the blessings in your problems. I think
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it's really important. We need to
keep imagining and creating, which gives us
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a sense of purpose. So if
you lack those things, there's definitely a
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pervasive sense of emptiness that becomes the
default. So the great seduction later on
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in life is that many of us
feel, excuse me, fill the vacuum
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with false friends. I'm sure we
have many people we know like this and
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they fill it with material things.
Medication could be legal and otherwise, where
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if you can find that passion,
whether it's for a person, a business,
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a cause, or a situation.
Having those strong emotions towards something outside
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yourself really fuels life purpose, perfect
way to finish when sorry to cut you
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off. That is a beautiful way
to close. Thank you so much for
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that, and thank you for coming
on the air and sharing your beautiful spirit,
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soul and person with us. Thank
you so much, Thank you for
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having me look forward to talking with
you again. You are so welcome.
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If you want to learn more about
Gwen Rich, her Purses with Purpose for
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Purpose, or her The Rich Solution
Legacy on the go online teach community,
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go to the rich Solution dot com. Next week, we'll be on the
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air with author Farhana Kazi, who
is a women's empowerment and terrorism expert.
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We'll be talking about her own journey
towards self empowerment, work as a terrorism
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expert, and her new book called
Invisible Martyrs Inside the Secret World of Female
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Islamic Radicals. See you there.
I remember that work is at least a
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third of our life, So let's
work on purpose. We hope you've enjoyed
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this week's program. Be sure to
tune in to Working on Purpose featuring your
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host Alis Cortes each week on the
Voice America Empowerment Channel. This week,
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