Sept. 1, 2021

Standing in Her Purpose to Lift and Empower Women

Standing in Her Purpose to Lift and Empower Women

Natalie Benamou found her career of 29 years entirely altered when Covid hit. Her world came to a crashing halt when trade shows were cancelled right and left. Doors were swiftly closing everywhere. And that’s where the magic happened. In that vast,...

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Natalie Benamou found her career of 29 years entirely altered when Covid hit. Her world came to a crashing halt when trade shows were cancelled right and left. Doors were swiftly closing everywhere. And that’s where the magic happened. In that vast, ever opening gap which Natalie then began to see as a window, she got quiet and listened for that which called her. She could then turn her passion of empowering and lifting women and express it as her purpose through the HerCsuite platform she created. We all need a hand up, with a steady diet of mentors and advisors to guide and empower our efforts. HerCsuite is Natalie’s hand up for women.

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What's working on purpose anyway? Each
week we ponder the answer to this question.

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People ache for meaning and purpose at
work to contribute their talents passionately and

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know their lives really matter. They
crave being part of an organization that inspires

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them and helps them grow into realizing
their highest potential. Business can be such

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a force for good in the world, elevating humanity. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration to help
usher in this world we all want working

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on purpose. Now Here is your
host, Doctor Elise Cortez. Welcome back

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to the Working and Purpose Program.
Thanks for tuning in again this week.

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I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortez, joining you live from Dallas, which

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is home based for me. If
you don't know me yet, I'm a

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management consultant specializing meaning and purpose,
organizational logo therapist, inspirational speaker, social

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scientist, and author. I help
organizations develop their team and inspirational leaders and

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create cultures where people actually want to
come to work and do their best.

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I provide programs like Grab Your Gusto
that enable individual team members to discover and

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unleash their passion and purpose at work
to catalyze fulfillment, engagement, and productivity

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across the entire organization. You can
learn more about me and how we can

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work together at at least coortest dot
com and gustom dashnow dot com. Let

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work proud dot com. With us
today is Natalie Benemu, the CEO of

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her Power to Lead. Her company's
premiere product is her c Suite Membership,

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a game changer for the way women
accelerate results to get business done. She

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is also the host of her c
Suite Radio, a podcast for women leaders

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on the move, be talking about
how she started this venture in the pandemic

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and what she has learned women need
to ascend in their careers. She joined

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Today from Eligent, Illinois. Natalie, Welcome to Working on Purpose. I'm

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so excited to being here. Thank
you so much. Right is this just

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great? Gobs of fun? It
should be like this, right, just

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like this? Yes, well,
I'm happy to share you with our listeners

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across the world, of course,
half of which are women. And so

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to get right into this content,
let's just go straight for the juggular,

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shall we. Let's start by talking
about how women are feeling in today's climate.

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You talk about some stats that you
got from Deloitte that I think really

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paint a kind of a grim picture. Can you share them with us?

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Yes? Well, you know it's
interesting. I think everyone can relate to

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this. And I was asked today, well how did men do with this?

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So for the men listening, let's
hear from you. But what I

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have found with the Deloitte survey that
you mentioned, and they tested five thousand

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women, They asked five thousand women, and the stats are telling of how

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being siloed has impacted women. So
the stats that you're referring to is fifty

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one percent feel less optimistic about their
career, fifty seven percent are planning on

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leaving their jobs within the lat within
the next two years. And the most

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I think what you're saying is the
troubling one is seventy seven percent of women

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feel overwhelmed. And I think if
we talk to anyone in our circle of

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any kind of whether it's community,
whether it's people we work with, whatever,

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I think that's universal. Women are
feeling overwhelmed and aren't sure where to

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go to for help. So let's
unpack this a little bit here. What

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can you sort of way and what
we've learned about this, what's contributing to

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these factors these stats, Well,
I think obviously the pandemic and the stress

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that women are experiencing. Even if
you're whether you're married and you're a mom,

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or whether you're taking care of your
parents, whatever it might be,

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there's this added factor in our life
in the last year and a half.

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In addition to there's no separation.
People aren't getting in their cars and driving

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someplace. Even though we would complain
in Chicago like, oh, I've got

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this commute. You kind of miss
the commute, right, I mean,

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because it gave you this downtime,
whether you're getting on the phone with a

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girlfriend or listening to radio like this. Either way, we're not all commuting

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anymore. I know many companies are
returning back to the office. It depends

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on the company whether they're returning back
or not. But either way, the

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remote work, it's hard to separate
and so pile on even more demands,

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even more opportunities that they're being told
our opportunities, but really it's just more

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work. So some of the things
that I've learned by continually talking to other

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other subject matter experts and business leaders
and then of course reading is that if

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you haven't heard about the Great Resignation, it's alive and well. And for

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those of your listeners and viewers who
don't know what we're talking about, that's

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a stat that was actually predicted that
at least half through the workforce we would

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want to leave their jobs right about
now. So we're seeing a prediction of

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anywhere from thirty five to over fifty
percent of people in at least North America

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planned to change their jobs sometime this
year in twenty twenty one because of this

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pent up feeling of not being able
to grow and not being connected anymore to

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the organization and many other factors.
So really just an awful lot of stuff

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going on To treat it sounds like
to me it is. And also,

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you know, two point two million
women left the workforce just left last year.

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That is a staggering number of people
when we represented and I say past

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tense because now we're not fifty one
percent of two point two million of us

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left. But that, on top
of the great resignation, is a sign

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that people are reevaluating and wanting to
live their purpose, which is what you're

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about. But thinking about work life
balance and what matters. I hear from

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people in my community of you know
what used to matter, like driven to

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get to that c suite or driven
to get to that next level. They're

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sort of like, you know what, life is really short, and I

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don't. I don't care about it
anymore as much as I used to because

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I think also concerning because people on
the track to lead organizations are now even

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backing away and saying, you know
what, this just isn't worth it to

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me. The sacrifice I'm making to
my health, to my mental well being,

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or to my family or relations isn't
worth it. Extremely important points that

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you're making, Natalie, And let's
go a little bit further here. I

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forget where I read where I read
this, or where I saw this.

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But when you start thinking about how
many women actually chose to leave the workforce

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or just felt like they didn't have
a choice but to leave the workforce,

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how that's setting back their incomes,
their retirement, and even their career trajectory.

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So there's some real ramifications to whether
they chose it because they wanted to

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more fully inclusive work life harmony,
or whether they just sampling they have a

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choice. That's just a lot of
backstepping for women in terms of money and

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career. It is, and I
want to give a shout out to a

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new friend of mine, Jenny Galuzzo
at the Second Shift. The second Shift

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was started seven years ago, but
they really have exponentially grown. And the

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second Shift is for women exactly in
this place where they felt no choice.

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They have their children at home and
they have to homeschool or whatever that look

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like, or a sick family member, but they're very qualified, they're educated.

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There you know women in the workforce
that have been there for a while,

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and the second Shift offers women a
great resource both for companies who need

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to hire because they are losing people
and for people that are looking for that

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flexibility. So shout out to Jenny
today. It's awesome way to go Jenny

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talking about becoming on my show to
who knows. Yeah. I love talking

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to people that are up to something
that can advance the conversation that we've already

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had the last six and a half
years of being on air about how to

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create cultures people can actually meaningfully engage
in their work, give their best talents

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and skills, and that they're inspired, and that they're part of aganization that

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betters the world. That is,
that's what we're up to on working in

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a purpose radio. So anybody who
could advance that conversation, they'd love to

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talk to you. Great, I
will do that. I will give you

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an intro for sure. Okay,
good, okay, good. Now as

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we go on here, ladies and
gentlemen, let's next, let me talk

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to you men. You'll know that
the show serves both men and women.

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Today we're talking about women, and
there are many other times we've had different

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shows just talking about men. But
I do want to distinguish, you know,

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what's really going on for women because
every organ and every group of people

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often needs their own touch, They
need their own sort of way to be

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cared for, and which is what
you're up to to be able to help

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women. So I want to next
talk about why women in leadership are important

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to organizations. What do women bring
that are important? You know the stats

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that I'm so glad that Warren Buffett
champions and he's the thirty eight which is

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kind of in a way say because
thirty eight percent is what he was going

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for, which would be thirty eight
percent of women in leadership. But Warren

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Buffett has said, and you know, here's here's a billionaire who's very successful

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in investment, has said the companies
that he now only invest in companies that

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have women in the c suite because
financially they do better. So while that's

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true, we still have this statistic
that forty one percent of this of the

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fortune five hundred are women CEOs.
So there's a little bit of a are

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a big disconnect for that that those
numbers and what does that do to the

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bottom line? And so then you
kind of come full circle to what's happening

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with the exodus of people in the
workplace, with women leaving work feeling like

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there's not an opportunity. But women
do bring economic prosperity to a company,

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So that I think is an undisputed
fact. But also the way that they

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get there is different. So a
man will look at a job opportunity,

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and I'm friends with men, So
don't take this through a way distinction on

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how we approach things, because our
brains are wired as you know, you

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know, our brains go one way
and men's brains go a different way.

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But men will look at a job
description. There's ten things, and they

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see one and they're like, I
got this right. Women look at the

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same list and maybe they have eight
out of ten and they're like, well,

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I guess I gotta roll up my
sleeves perfect those other two raise my

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hand, and then I will apply
for that opportunity. Now you flip that

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to what happened behind the scenes,
and this is why sponsors are so important.

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So you talk about women in the
workforce and what do they bring.

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Men are very important to women advancing
and a sponsor especially. One of my

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favorite stories is Mike Kaufman, who's
a CEO at Cardinal Health. He's a

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big proponent for women and advancing women, and one day he just walked into

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a conversation what's VPS and they were
evaluating an opportunity for a woman, and

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the room was like, you know
what, she's got young children, she's

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not going to want to travel.
I don't think we should offer this to

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her already making the decision. And
he said, hold up, have you

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asked her if she wants the job? Right? No, we haven't asked

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her. Now that they did ask
her, and she did take the job

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because she worked it out with her
husband and family and how to care for

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her children. Imagine what would happen
or what would have happened if he wasn't

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in that room. Well, that
happens all the time. We're trying to

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get to leadership, and there's these
conversations of assumptions that women don't want to

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advance or they're stuck in the middle. And they're stuck in the middle because

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people are making assumptions about their choices
without even asking them. So I encourage

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the men and the audience ask women, would you be interested? Now?

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Some women aren't interested, That's okay. The lattice goes left and right and

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up and down, so so,
but it's important to have those conversations and

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to ask if you're interested in it, yeah, and not assume because it's

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kind of a paternalistic thing to do, Like you think you're doing this person

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a favor by helping them out and
not putting too much on them, and

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it's just to the opposite, you're
stopping their career. And so let's do

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two things really quick to what you
just said, Natalie. So on the

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other side of that woman who sees
that she's got eight of the ten requirements,

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so she should well received to work
on those things. The other side

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of that then is that a lot
of times there's there's sort of a a

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diligence that women bring because of just
the way that they've they've navigated the career

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workspace that can be incredibly useful inside
organizations. Right. So that's the first

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thing. How that translates to some
of the work that I do in the

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nonprofit space. I'm on the board
of an organization called Namastay Direct and they're

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an organization that serves guatemal and business
women with micro loans and business education to

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take them from poverty to at least
the middle class. And they only invest

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in women. And the reason they
do that is because women. This is

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true of many organizations, not just
this organization, but many nonprofits will only

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invest in women because they are responsible
in terms of how they repay the loans

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they take and plow the money and
the resources back into the community, and

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it's a very It's a way to
lift a community faster than it is just

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straight through investing in Men use those
kind of resources differently, So there's some

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real dynamite power in women that I
want to make sure that we showcase here.

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Absolutely, women are well. I'm
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which is also about surrounding ourselves and
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a little biased you are, and
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going to talk more as we go
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before we get into that, let's
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path to leadership from men and women's. How do they each kind of how

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would you distinguish those paths? Well, I think you know, as I

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mindset. But what does that mean
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out with the study that men in
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don't take this the wrong way.
I'm just giving the stats from Harvard

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Business Review, which is a very
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women and men go on the same
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you never recoup. And so by
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how people get to the leadership because
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the family and with whatever else is
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climb the lattice or climb up.
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way to take us into our first
break, Natalie, I'm your host,

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Doctor Release Cortez. We're on the
air with Natalie Benamu, who is the

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on Purpose. Thanks for staying with
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Purpose. One of the bit of
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is that this anthology that I've been
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about to come to life. It's
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of twenty five stories of women that
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sharing their stories, all degory details
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how they're serving from it. And
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could just bust and it's just beautiful. And by the way, speaking of

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what Natalie said earlier, I categorized
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So that's coming out very shortly.
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excited about that. If you're just
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of her c Suite Radio, a
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She knows to from Elgin, Illinois. I'm your host, Doctor Earlie's Cortez.

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So for this next bit here.
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and talk about just really how your
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that, though, I want to
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been able to like bridge those those
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world. So how have you been
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network to launch her C suite?
Well? You know it's really funny,

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is it? When I left trade
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you think, Okay, I'm done. I can't do trade shows ever again,

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right, And you're like, I'm
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don't want to do any events.
I'm just gonna do this, And then

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slowly things start to see right.
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hou some events and I'm gonna have
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Why wouldn't I love having speakers?
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and then I love creating alliances.
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about women feeling siloed, guess what
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don't talk amongst ourselves right, Like
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our own lane, and there's no
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central place. We're all just like
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how to what's happening is that the
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couldn't part ways entirely. So we
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women organizations to have our own trade
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opportunities to speed network and have events. And that's evolving in the next six

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months. So I wasn't able to
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but tangentily side to that is lifting
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talked about earlier than our mentoring program, So kind of leveraging all the things

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it together into some some ways of
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image as you were talking, and
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love what you've shared here. Why
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all of that knowledge and experience,
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you know, here you are,
you're going through your career twenty nine years

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in the event's business, and you
created this beautiful vehicle, right this let's

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whatever whatever you want to get,
put it on, whether it's a sports

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car or whatever it is. But
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as you started your new company here
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features. Right now, it looks
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still works like a vehicle, right, Why would you let go of all

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those additions? You know, the
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working so well before that you know
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I the reason I wanted you to
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viewers who were trying to figure out
a way to step into their next there's

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probably a lot they can do to
be able to take and bolt on their

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past career and what they know in
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anew and what you did, what
you've done is gorgeous. I mean I

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can see that being just incredibly robust. Well, that's very kind of you.

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that I was in business development my
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and ten million dollars and I never
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big deal. Okay, So I
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I love relationship building, And recently
I've been on two programs where people

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are like, we want to know
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like, what do you mean,
well, talk to us about sales.

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I left the sales thing, like what

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the trade shows, it's behind me, and they're like, what's Like,

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what are you dying? So I
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you start embarking on your two point
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totally throw the water out. Don't
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because you can still leverage things that
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you just didn't even acknowledge that you
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known it, and you just sort
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that comes naturally to me. So
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you're going to do next, because
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your community, to your people,
whatever it might be. Oh, I

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gotta grab that one nad like because
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that thing that's just so naturally easy
for you. Those are your strengths and

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what I and just because they're easy
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value to other people just because you
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say it like this, So when
you recognize, you know, Superman can

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jump over over tall buildings, do
you think that you know he expects you

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to jump over tall buildings? You
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your opportunity to be able to really
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contribution that's worthy of your one precious
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to really discover those those strings,
those talents and your passion and your purpose

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and then just bring them right.
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You've got to see the light as
if you will, to be able to

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recognize that these things are actually your
strengths and that they are they're useful.

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So that was a gold nugget right
there. You gave us Natalie, thank

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you. Yeah, yeah, okay, So next I want to I want

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to talk about, you know,
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to do. So one of the
things that I absolutely love about what I

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get to do as a person who's
been in development for years is I love

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to literally watch people's molecules change right
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them get a major aha or insight
or they ascend into a higher station of

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themselves. That is the most amazing
thing to see. So can you share

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a story of how your program has
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there's two examples. One is our
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and has really helped me in my
career, Lorie Wessels. She has two

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things. She likes to put the
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she is. But she has this
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sharing her light out on the ocean. And when you ask me that question,

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I just thought of, like,
Laurie has this visual and so when

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we think about our value's identity and
purpose, what does that look like in

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three D for you? Because there's
words right, Like it's easy to say,

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like, well, my purpose is
I'm passionate about women, But what

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does that look like as we lift
other people up? And so I think

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of Laurie and how she rides the
wave of transformation, how she shines her

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light out. And there's other women
in our community who shine their Melanie Neal

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who shines her her beacon of light
out and always, always is reaching out

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to others and lifting them up and
recognizing them. And she's another one who

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reached out to me today actually out
of the blue, just like hey,

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just want to you know. So
there's those people. And then I got

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to watch Lori in action where one
of our members was trying to decide she

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was going to either go down a
path of buying a company or she was

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going to go back to Corporate America. She ended up taking a very big

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chief properiment officer role, but Lorie
helped walk her through those decisions. What

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do I like doing? It's very
simple exercise, right, what do I

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like doing? What fills me up? And what could I, you know,

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do without right? And in that
process it really helped her identify while

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she really missed being in corporate and
now she's taken on this big role.

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So Anne has taken this giant leap
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for us. All that is so
brilliant. You just made me think of

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something, So I'll share on my
side too. I'm working with a client

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right now where I'm doing. It's
an eight week leadership program, and of

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course it's done virtually with In this
case, it's women across the United States,

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and they just last week finished their
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this is they each had to share
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on the call, and there were
four teams, and everybody in the team

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had had to have a speaking part. And one of the women I could

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see it because I'd been working with
her. She was falling apart. She

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was having a very hard time delivering
her piece, and she was, you

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know, sort of stuttering and trying
to get through it and such, and

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I could see it. And so
she had always been really involved in all

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the other sessions, and I'm like, gosh, what's what's going on?

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Here. And so at the end
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presented, you know, she came
up and she spotlighted herself and she said,

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I just want to say how hard
that was for me. I'm the

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only one that speaks English as a
far distant language, and I was so

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struggling with that. And I said, oh my gosh, your growth.

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We could all see her in the
moment, her molecules changing as she reached

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forward that and struggle with it and
kept on, and I said, you've

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got to get more on this program
than the rest of us did, because

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ab how hard you worked. We
saw you transform in those moments, right,

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firstvering on the other side, right, it's so beautiful, and then

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to be able to hold her in
that space so she feels that she gets

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it. She doesn't walk away feeling
embarrassed. She walks away with well deserved

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value and pride for what she's come
through and what she's achieved so important.

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You know what you're describing what I'm
thinking of as grace. So we were

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talking earlier about it's so easy to
be hard on ourselves. What did she

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go to first? She didn't give
herself grace and say you know that was

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so hard. But even though I
got emotional, and even though it was

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like not what I expected, I
did it. I finished. Instead of

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that grace, she went to the
other side, which we all tend to

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do, which is like, here's
what I didn't do, Here's what I

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wish I could have done. Here's
how I thought it was going to go,

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and it didn't. So I would
encourage everyone listening think about just giving

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yourself a break and grace that look
at what you did, and celebrate your

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wins, even if it's small.
We need to celebrate our own winds,

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even if it's just getting out of
bed today. You know, some days

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it is hard to put that those
beat on the ground and make a step

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forward. And so I think that's
a wonderful story you shared. Thank you

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so much for set. Yeah,
you're welcome, so welcome. Yeah.

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And so if let's just show you
how we could do that, listeners and

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viewers, how could we give ourselves
grace if we were this young woman she

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could actually go into that and go, you know, I'm the only one

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of the people that are in this
group that speaks language as a third or

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fourth language, and I'm gonna come
and I'm going to percent. I'm the

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only one who's doing that. I'm
really working at this right. That's a

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way to turn that around so for
us to be able to model what it

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is we're teaching you. So right, I'm a judge for the whole prize.

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If you've heard of it, Hult
Prize. It's a million dollar prize

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for social entrepreneurs that are in college
around the world. Three thousand and and

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I got to sit in. What
made me think of this is I'm sitting

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in on pitch competitions with people from
not in this country. Most of them

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were from you know, fourth world
and third world, and they came up

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with these amazing innovations and you know, how to turn fish and you know

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co two into like sustainable food in
someone's apartment because they're being bombed outside.

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You know, just crazy stuff that
they were solving food, you know,

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a food issue that they're solving.
And it was just amazing to see even

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if their English wasn't because none of
it none of them really had English,

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many of them didn't have English as
first language. But seeing what they did

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and what they came together for,
it's so uplifting and celebrating that is so

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important. So I think if we
come across people that are doing that,

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give them the congratulations and lift them
up and say, wow, you did

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this. You're yeah, yeah,
Alway speak for five different languages, and

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the other four are romance languages.
And I'm telling you it's hard to make

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yourself understood and another language. It
takes so so really quick. We're coming

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at the end of our of our
call, but I really want to get

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through more things out of you.
So one is I wanted you to speak

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in on this topic here of living
on your edge. So I had a

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great guest in my show a few
weeks ago named Gabrielle Kazan, and his

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whole thing is about helping men discover
their purpose. A great guest. He

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said something interesting. He said,
men are at their best when they live

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at their edge. But I think
that's true for women too. But we're

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literally reaching from the top of our
toes to our fingertips through what we strive

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for. And what I also know
through local therapy is we need that tension

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between who we are being today who
we're trying to come tomorrow. But what's

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your perspective on that matter? Are
women? Do women need edge? Too.

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Oh well, I think queen need
edge and everyone thrives in different ways.

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For me, I thrive in the
last minute challenge of like Okay,

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I gotta I'm gonna finish this,
and you know, not let perfection slow

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me down, but in that very
last minute push to be on right before

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going on, and it's like that
adrenaline rush. So everybody functions a little

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bit differently. But I think women
have the edge. They exhibit the edge

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all the time, and we all
can live in that way. It just

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depends on how we apply it.
Yeah, okay, awesome. Well I

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know for me, I definitely my
best friend I live in my edge for

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sure. Okay, So next thing
I want to get from you really quick

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is what delight you in the work
that you're doing. Well. I kind

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of alluded to it earlier, but
I think when I know if I made

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a difference for someone, it really
makes everything I do worthwhile. So even

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though it may be really hard in
the moment doing a startup, and all

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the things I helped one woman make
progress or get success or do a connection

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and introduction, alliance whatever, that
really delights me. And then I have

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to say the other thing is my
girls My two daughters are amazing and they

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inspire me every day to strive to
be better, to do my best because

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I want to make it something great
for them in the future. That's awesome.

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That's so awesome. Yeah. So
in other words, when you talk

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about what it is that you which
you appreciate what you're doing, you're mattering,

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right. People want to matter.
That's what we're up to here,

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right, So we've done it.
We've got through the show already. We're

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at the end saying about fifteen seconds, what would you like to leave listeners

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with today? I would love for
people to join Women's Equality Day if you

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go to event right, We're going
to have a great session on Women's Equality

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Day and visit Percy suite dot com
if you want to learn more about all

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the amazing women that are in our
community. Awesome, Natalie, thank you

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so much for joining me. You
were just a pleasure to have on.

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I so enjoyed getting to know you
and sharing one fell to be here.

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I'm so addored to be here.
Thank you. You're welcome. Let's enns

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viewer if you want to learn more
about Natalie Bennemu and what she's up to

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at her power to elites visit that
website. It's her Power too dot com.

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So it's h R pow Er then
number two dot com. And thanks

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Last week giving us the live show
you can always catch it recorded podcast,

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we were on your Scott Warwick talking
about the importance of the five skills

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he teaches as an employment attorney and
HR professional to learn tolerance and diversity inclusion

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initiatives. Next week will be on
the air with Deborah Westfall talking about her

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new book, Convergence, Technology,
Business and the human centric Future. See

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you're there. Remember that works at
least a third of our life, So

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let's work on Purpose. We hope
you've enjoyed this week's program. Be sure

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to tune into Working on Purpose featuring
your host, doctor Elise Cortez, each

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week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel. Together, we'll create a world where

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business operates conscientiously, leadership inspires impassioned
performance, and employees are fulfilled in work

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that provides the meaning and purpose They
crave, see you there. Let's work

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on purpose.