Progress Leadership in the World of Constant Change

Dean Lindsay is a keynote speaker with a humorous and engaging approach. He is an expert and award-winning author on influence, connection, goal setting, sales, and customer service. Dean shares his perspective that progress leadership is the new way...
Dean Lindsay is a keynote speaker with a humorous and engaging approach. He is an expert and award-winning author on influence, connection, goal setting, sales, and customer service. Dean shares his perspective that progress leadership is the new way forward past change management. Few of us embrace change, let alone having someone manage that for us. But we do welcome progress. Leaders have the opportunity to help followers make change meaningful when they help them see how it's progressive in their world.
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Now back to the content with us
this week is Dean Lindsay. He's a
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keynote speaker with a humorous and engaging
approach you'll see soon. He has been
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hailed as an outstanding thought leader on
building priceless business relationships by sales and marketing
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executives international, and is an expert
and award winning author on influence, connection,
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and goal commitment. We'll be talking
about his latest book, The Progress
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Agent Handbook for Influence and Connection.
He joins today from Plano, Texas.
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Dean, welcome to Working on Purpose. Thank you for having me, Elise.
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I'm honored to be on isn't this
fun? This is going to be
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great. We've been talking about this
for a while and we poof, we
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made it happen. Poof, we
made it happen. That's right, that's
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what happens when you're connected and have
influence. Eh. Absolutely, please be
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not surprised. Yeah, So,
I just want to quickly present for our
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listeners. I want to share that
I think the very first time I met
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you was years ago. You've been
speaking for quite some time and building your
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acumen and all your list of topics
that you speak on, and I still
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remember how engaging you were. You
at that talk, Dean, were talking
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and sharing with us about how to
connect with people by remembering their name.
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And I still remember that talk,
and to be at least ten years ago.
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So how's that for being memorable?
Fantastic? Thank you so much.
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Thank you for remembering that. Then, the you know, remembering names is
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something that as I was mentioning it
out there and talking about it. Of
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course, the information as far as
the inside about how to remember names is
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one thing, But there's a whole
big, old now you know bit that
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I do kind of built around it
because it's a universal challenge. We all
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know we need know names, but
at the same time, we all are
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guilty of having those names slipped right
through our ears. Yeah, and I
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just I got it quickly. I
just thought about this just now when we're
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talking really quick. I want to
show this story. Several years ago when
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I was doing some work for direct
TVs around leadership development. I'd have about
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twenty five people in a course of
there with StrengthsFinder, course, conversations,
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whatever it was, and I did
I remember everybody's name without a name card.
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And the way that I did it
was when they came in, I
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just really shook their hand and looked
at them and took them in and then
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said their name back, like I
know you you you you coach. And
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I was able to remember most of
their all of their names, if I
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can remember right. And during the
course of the workshop, many of them
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said, you know, how is
it you can remember our names? Because
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I would use it during the course
of the four hours, and I told
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them, you know about how I
how I shook their hand, et cetera.
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And one couple of people said,
yeah, I noticed that. It
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kind of really freaked me out that
you did that kind of stared into my
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soul. But uh, anyway,
so I just I remember so some of
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that I got from your talk.
Well, thank you, thank you.
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We actually uh rolled that into the
news book too. That that that tipped
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the four steps to to what I
call the name game is featured in the
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in the new book because it's it's
all about making those that connection. And
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one of the things that happened when
we don't catch somebody's name is not only
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do we do we not have their
name to utilize in the conversation, but
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then we're in the conversation feeling somewhat
less about ourselves because we knew that we
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had the chance to get it.
You know, it was right there.
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So right, Yeah, it's all
about keeping yourself intact when we're remembering names.
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It's an empowering thing to do,
it is, and this conversation.
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A big reason I wanted to have
you on the show is you know,
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both introverts and extroverts need to really
know this stuff. Introverts seem to think
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that they're not very good at a
conversation or networking, but in fact I
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found them to be stellar at it
because they often are great one on one
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conversationalists and listeners, and extroverts are
too, although they have the opportunity to
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listen more. I think, so
I want to make sure in presence that
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this conversation is for everyone. And
then before we get into the topic,
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if you would just say a little
bit, Dean, how in the world
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did you get into this business?
Why are you interested in this area of
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influence, connection, commitment, goals? What a great question, you know,
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I come from a from a performance
background and in performance and I'm talking
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about you know, acting and music, and that really you are looking at
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the connection that you have with your
cast, the connection you have with the
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script, the catching connection you have
with the audience, and then the influence
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that each character is trying to have
each over each other. So it's a
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lot of study abouts. And then
then I delved into psychology. So really
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everything I'm talking about is kind of
the psychology of how we make decisions.
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That's really even when you thank you
with the you know, the influenced connection
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and goal commitment, me being an
expert in those arenas. Really it's the
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it's the psychology of how we make
decisions, all three of those. Uh.
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And so that's what I really dug
Doug Doug dug into is both from
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a you know, from ex from
a performance standpoint of UH. And I
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used to coach. I was an
acting coach for a long time, and
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when I would coach people with people
would always say, how do you remember
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lines? I say, don't.
Don't worry about the lines. What is
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your what is your your character trying
to do? What's the goal of your
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character? And then those lines are
going to come a lot a lot easier.
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So it was really just a natural
transition from the the the performance on
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stage and off stage, coach people, me doing it myself in the psychology
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behind all that, and then moving
that into into the big you know,
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well, I've been speaking for forty
nine years, I've but only professionally for
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eighteen. That is great, What
a great background. I knew that you
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were had an acting background, but
I didn't realize really how your career had
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evolved. That makes so much sense. To me and we need you.
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So I'm happy that I'm one of
the lucky ones that I'm sitting here early
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on the on the on the front
lines with one of your books, your
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latest book, in my hand.
So it's called the Progress Agent Handbook for
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Influence and Connection. So let's talk
about that. There were several things in
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there that really caught my fancy.
And frankly, what I'm doing is I'm
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pulling out the stuff that I that
really relates to the world for me,
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a passion, inspiration, purpose and
so one of the first things you talk
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about and I'd like to get your
perspective on change and change management to me,
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that's you've got a bit of a
different take on it, right,
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I don't I don't like the term
change management. I don't think it's a
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helpful term at all. Nobody wants
to change and they certainly don't want their
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change managed. So right, so
I mean, right there, you got
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one one, you know one,
you know, the erro in the wrong
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direction. So the then on top
of that, it's not it's not a
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it's not a correct label. If
the organization takes the world as it is
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and says this is the next thing
we are going to move this is the
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next move we need to make to
be successful. Then that's that's not change,
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that's progress. So it's progress leadership, not change management. And so
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I got so into that, and
I was almost going to write a whole
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book on progress leadership and realize that
I really didn't want to be pigeonholed just
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on that term. That's the reason
that you know, influence connection and goal
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commitment are kind of my my Bailey
wick because I'm not just working with organizations
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on leadership. I spent a lot
of time working with organizations on on sales,
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prospecting and customer service. So but
progress leadership, we did like it
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so much that it is it is
a real you know, circle or trademark
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progress leadership. I like it a
lot, Dean, and this is coming
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from the perspective of somebody who has
done actual change management in organizations. I
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do like progress leadership a whole lot
better. Thank you for that. You're
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welcome just for me. I'm sure
you're the first one to see this.
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This book doesn't come out, I
mean, this book comes out in like
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January. Nobody I know. I
know. That's that's why we thought our
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timing was so great because we're having
a conversation now here in December, and
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you know, this is what happens. The show continues to be listened to
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each each and every month across the
globe as people find the different links,
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et cetera. So I'm thrilled that
I'm the I'm the first peak I am.
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I'm thrilled too. I'm glad I'm
going to now I know at least
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one person read it right on well
related to progress leadership. I I like
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your You've got you know, the
piece of progress in your book with some
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of some of those about it talk
with us. That's right back to the
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psychology. I'm a big and you
mentioned it. I think I think I
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delved into a pretty big in the
book. I'm a big Victor Francle fan,
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Yeah, me too. I'm with
you. And once I got once
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I got into doctor Francle's work and
went to some world converces and you know,
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studied to be a diplomat in loco
therapy and logo therapy is meaning therapy
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how we derive meaning? I just
went deep and I just started to look
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at how do we derive meaning?
And I I decided to add on to
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you know that to that premise meaning
therapy, logo therapy what I call the
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six piece of progress, and that
that that is everything we do as humans,
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that's you me, the people were
trying to influence, connect with,
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you know, people were trying to
help them establish goals, commit to the
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goals. We want them to have
all that stuff. Everything we do consciously
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or subconsciously, we do because we
believe the perceived consequences will be us feeling
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the unique right man extra to us
of pleasure, peace of mind, profit,
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prestige, pain avoidance, and power, which together make up the six
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piece of progress. Hm. Okay, well let's talk. Can we talk
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about a few, at least a
few of those more in depth? Sure,
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go for it. Which ones?
Well, there's the the ones that
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are mainly you know, talked about
or you know, the peace of mind
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and paint avoidance, right or pleasure
and pain avoidance. Pain avoidance is the
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is the easiest one. You know, pain avoidance or pain avoidance. Leadership
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is just lazy leadership. Paint avoidance. Parenting is is lazy parenting. You've
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got all the other different ways to
inspire, connect, influence people, but
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there isn't just one, you know, one way one one is not one
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is not more powerful than the other. And that's the reason that we need
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to get to know the people we're
connecting with. You know, I'm sure
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I put it in this book and
I don't know what page at all,
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but I'm sure someone there I I
mentioned the fact that when you're out there
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connecting or networking with someone that's doing
individual market research, you're trying, Yeah,
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you're trying to connect to what what
what is progress for them? What
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is pleasure? Piece of my profit? Prestige paying avoid in the power and
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where what are what's the what's the
hot buttons? And then how can you
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show how your products and services can
help them feel those those six piece but
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it is, it is challenging to
discuss each one. And actually it's in
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my my second book, which I
took a really deep dive into the six
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piece, called the Progress Challenge.
I have a chapter on each one of
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the each one of the six piece, But there is not one, you
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know, prestige that's remembering somebody's name
just to come around you back to the
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when when somebody said to you after
the program, wow, you know everybody?
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It's because it made them feel good. They got a little prestige,
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but a smile, you know,
they're back to the networking or connecting with
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somebody. We always know we're supposed
to smile, but the reason you're supposed
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to smile is because you're offering somebody
pleasure. Hm. That is delightful,
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Dean, that is so delightful.
And I what I appreciate about about what
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you're saying here is it it really
does give us deeper access to to connection,
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the power of connection. When you
talk about these six piece of progress
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it you know, I didn't think
about me remember somebody's name having a prestige
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element to it, But you're right, it does make people feel important.
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Oh she remembered me. She remembered
me in this class of twenty five.
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can you can nail it's that's progress. It certainly is well. And on
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Dean Lindsay. He's a keynote speaker
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connection and goal commitment. We're talking
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Agent Handbook for Influence and Connection.
I'm your host, Alise Cortes. So,
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Dean, I want to talk about
progress leadership. As I said in
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the first segment, I love that
you that you called you went from we
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went from change management to progress leadership. That is so smart, right direction?
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Tell us more about your thinking?
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thinking. What's behind that? How
leaders can really start to embrace that concept?
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Well, leaders can inspire progress,
not apologize for change. You know,
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that's focus on inspiring others, not
not making you know, inspire all
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to progress, not make them comply. The coolest. The coolest quote that
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I found that relates to what I'm
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from the author of The Little Prince, and he wrote, if you want
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to build a ship, don't drum
up people together and assign them tasks and
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work to collect wood, but rather
teach them to long for the endless immensity
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of the sea. Oh that's so
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task all day long and the only
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know they want you to do it. That they you know that they know
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you want them to do it doesn't
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But if you can lay out the
vision and help them connect to the why
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the vision, and help them connect
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how they're going to progress, how
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of pleasure, piece of minn profit, prestige, paint, avoid some power.
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Then they have the that term we
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Then they're committed, right, and
then they have even stronger than committed
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commitment, They have conviction. That's
what really does all this stuff. People
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and my third book, The Big
Fat Goals. People want to call it
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a goal setting book because they didn't
read it, but if they read it,
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they realized it's it's it's a gold
commitment book. And in my mind,
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it's a gold conviction book because it's
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that leads to action. M Going
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casting the vision and inspiring people in
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had a chance to go to an
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leader was really task was sharing the
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just it didn't work. It fell
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and I know why. It's just
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a lot of talk about task what
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no talk about the vision of really
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be inspiring people want to make people
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I it's just so, how can
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weeds and into that that vision inspiration
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at their business card that says they're
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and stop stop thinking that that is
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means that it's automatic they're making.
They're making some very unwise assumptions to think
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that everybody is bought in. Just
because everybody has the same logo on their
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on their business card doesn't mean they're
all on the same team. And you
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have to continually, continually continue Coaches
know that. Watch your coach before a
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football game. He's not making any
assumptions. He gets them riled up.
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He didn't talk about didn't talk about
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you know, teamwork and what we're
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type of stuff. You've got to
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put the word vision in the book
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about it's about chewing on the vision. It's about, you know, the
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vision's got to be like part of
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and we got to realize that it's
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everybody you know, connected to the
why, the why, the why the
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why. And also also sometimes leaders
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aren't really in tune with what's going
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think that it's the my way of
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is there is the highway, and
the highway doesn't necessarily mean they leave.
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they've got tons of employees that are clocked
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in but checked out. That's so
true, so true. And when I
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a couple of things on that on
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you think about just you know,
the opportunity of a leader to really really
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paint the picture of of what the
group is really up to that big why
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for them, there's such an opportunity
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the in the in the advantage point
of meaning in that space of which I
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want to get to in just a
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know, like, for example,
I had Zach mccurie on my show several
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months ago. Just a great guy, he really is, and he's working
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in my space to purpose levit purpose
leadership. And what he says is he
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says, you know, if if
people are going to have meaningful lives,
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then their work must be meaningful because
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at least forty percent of our time
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it's the leader's imperative. It's it's
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and interesting. I think that's it's
a very strong stance to take, and
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I think that if leaders did assume
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of work would be a very different
place. I agree, I'd like that.
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I like it too. Yeah,
I told him, I said,
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you know, Zach Eve embarrassed me
publicly and he said, why, what
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do you mean? I said,
well, I was reading your book on
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the airplane on the way to Australia, and I was I was agreeing emphatically
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to several of your points, and
I would start to move my hands and
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not not along with with with what
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me like I was a crazy woman. Happens all the time on an airplane.
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Yes, it does. Well,
let's talk about that meaning space.
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That is a big part of my
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what I really studied for my research
and my my PhD is how people experience
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meaning in their work, how they
how they ascribe meaning. And I am
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a huge fan of Victor Frankel as
well. Whenever you mentioned him, you
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will always have my attention. So
that when so I want to talk about
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this idea of Victor Frankel and meaning, especially in reference to choice, well,
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it does get toughy. That's the
power part. That's the power power
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of choice and realizing that, you
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even just accept, you know,
and and work from there. So there's
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a lot tell me, but I
want to go a little bit, you
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know, a little bit deeper with
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little bit more about where you're,
where you'd like to go, because choices,
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the choice is pretty you know,
as you know, in in his
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book Man Search for Meaning, everybody
said they most people said they wanted to
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live in the concentration camps. But
it's the one that actually made a choice
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based on external why that that actually
you know, gave it all they had
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to be there. M Okay,
So let me so part of what I'm
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thinking about here when I when I
think about the idea of choice with regard
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to meaning, since we do get
to choose the meaning that we ascribe any
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event, any person ourselves, well
that's totally within our control. We are
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the author of that, we are
the artist of that, and that's in
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our purview. I can tell you
that very quickly that when I was doing
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my research, I interviewed a chef
about his work, and he was so
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miserable about the situation dean that he
cried at least five times during the course
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of the ninety minute conversation and was
just a horrible place to be. Just
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hated the hours. He was never
able to be with his family because he
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was working when they were not.
He felt stuck in the job because he
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it made him a good amount of
money and he had to pay you know,
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child support. Kind of felt trapped, very trapped in that space,
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had a crappy boss. I was
always screaming at him, and you know,
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just really a hard place to be. And I ended up of the
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fifteen modes of engagement that I found, his was at the very very bottom,
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most wretched place. It's called existential
crisis. Six months later, I
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came back around and said, hey, you know, want to review results.
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You know you saw I want.
I came up with you and he
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said, yeah, but great news
release, I'm so much better now.
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I'm way up to conflicted fit in
my work, and he said, it's
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the same. I'm doing the same
job. I still have the same crappy
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boss. I'm still doing the same
hours. But what's different is I see
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my work differently. I see now
that I can now put my kids through
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college with the good money that I
make. My kids are proud of what
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I do, and I just see
it differently now. I choose to see
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it differently, right, right,
Well, there is there's there's definitely the
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power of the choice of how we
how we view it. And you're absolutely
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right. We have the power of
how we how we view the moment and
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how we view the past. You're
you're You're absolutely right. And there's an
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incredible power in choosing. And it's
not Pollyanna, it's but but choosing what
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is empowering of the of the of
the options of how to view of a
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situation. It's similar to that great
believe is it? Uh Italian movie?
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Life is beautiful? Mmm, I
don't think I've seen it. Yeah,
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I mean it's all about you know, continuing to see, then continuing to
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see the positives, continuing to see
the what's what's possible? As as Emily
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Dickinson would say, dwell in possibility. M hmm, I like it.
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I like that. That's my space
too. Okay, well, then you
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have a section in in in your
book too that when you continue this as
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in and that's really your perspective on
how choice as it relates to influence,
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then choice as it relates to choice
as it relates to influence. Well,
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you know that's that's a big thing
about how you're going to influence yourself and
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how you're going to influence others different
things that you're going to do adapting style.
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As far as I'm sure you know
about the disc model I write about
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in there, Yes, I saw
that dominance influence stay in this conscientiousness.
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That's a big thing about choice of
how you're going to mirror or relate to
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somebody in a comfortable way where they
are going to where you're making a bigger
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opportunity for them to choose to be
influenced by you, because it's not you're
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trying to help them adopt a choice
or adopt a goal. It's not an
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automatic to influence or be influenced.
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I remember somebody told me this some time
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ago and I really like it.
It was a woman. She said,
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you have to take responsibility. And
I would also add choice to how you
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show up in a room. Oh
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lot of things that go into how
successful. And you know, an experience
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is going to go a sales call, a networking event, a date,
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and it's usually the you know,
the three to five minutes you spend right
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before it, of just the do
you think it's going to be a bad
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idea for you to be there?
You'll prove yourself right. So most definitely
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the you know, choosing to focus
on the positive. And I don't I
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don't like the word positive, choosing
to focus on what's possible. I like
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possible better than positive because a lot
of times people that are feeling negative think
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they got to get all the way
to positive. You don't have to get
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all the way to positive, just
get to possible. You don't got to
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get out of the way to positive. In fact, if you can just
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stay in what's possible and then think
back when other things did go right,
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you know, and you know,
so you definitely how you I mean,
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I'm sure you've done this. You've
ever gone to a networking event? And
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somebody showed up and they looked like
they need lunch money, you know they
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are they or you're like, you're
like, hey, do we need to
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stop this? Did you have a
flat tire? Did you know you were
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coming to this? You know?
Or or are they coming? They just
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moan and stuff and they're complaining and
complaining. Well, that's not somebody that's
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not attractive. See, this is
when you're out there connecting with people,
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you know, you know, with
a leader trying to connect with his people
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with you know, you're in a
prospecting or networking or business building. You're
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you're out there trying to alter people's
lives. When I say alter people's lives,
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I mean you know that that they
they have to want to choose to
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be in a relationship with you,
and they're not going to view that if
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they don't think it's going to be
a positive experience for them. You know,
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they're they're gonna they're gonna run metaphorically
away and not have any you know,
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an you want to have another contact. Yeah, I completely understand that
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and completely agree the repellent factor in
some of those things. And that really
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kind of brings me to the next
thing. I wanted to talk about which
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is one of my favorite things to
talk about, motivation and goals. You
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talk about this idea of push pull
of motivation, and I've had other guests
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talk about that too, but I
really like the way that you that you
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bring it up. But you talk
about how life can be pulled by goals
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and pushed by drives, and that
great leaders really look at what their followers
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are made and what drives them.
So now that we're talking about, you
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know, wanting to be attractive,
now it's moving on gone to the leadership
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front here. So how do you
coach leaders to learn who their followers really
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are? You got to ask questions, you have to you have to listen.
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You have to choose to be with
them and connect with them and get
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to know them as as human beings
and help help your leaders, you know,
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help the people that report to you
do the same thing all the way
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down. You got to get your
finger on the pulse of the emotional pulse
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of your organization. There's no there's
no quick way to do that. It's
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it's vital to you know, look, people are right in the eye and
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sincerely be positively curious. You know, that's what you were referring earlier to
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being an introvert or an extrovert.
A lot of people tell me that they,
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you know, if they're an introvert, I'll say, hey, you
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know, you don't worry about dontorry
about you know, trying to be an
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extrovert. Just be curious, just
be interested. I totally say that line
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all the time to people. Be
curious. There. The world is an
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amazing place, so are the people
who inhabit it. Now, though,
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there's one thing that I have I
have discovered or experienced as a phenomenon,
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and that is there's a wide spectrum
of people and how they tend to help
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us understand them. So we have
the people that are very very verbose about
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who they are and what they're up
to, what they want, where they're
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going, and that's easy. Then
we have at the other spectrum the people
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that are just they're very reticent to
talk about themselves and it's just hard to
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pull things out of them. And
I know this because of the coaching that
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I do as well. How do
we help the leaders find or help get
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into the space of that other end
of the spectrum. Well, you got
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to build trust, you know,
and and everybody is going to have you
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know, uh, when you talk
about priceless business relationships, I refer to
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that as a series of progress based
impressions to go from from net to net.
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And it then there really is when
just you know, leaders are trying
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to build a solid network. They
might have team members, but those team
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members doesn't mean that they're actually bought
in on the one on one trust and
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that's a that's your that's your network, and you've got to have patience and
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persistence. You you you got to
realize and that actually it goes back to
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that disc model that there's you've got. The more you can recognize and empathize
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and understand that there's uh why swatch
of people, the more you can uh
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you don't hang in there. But
then asking easier questions, you know,
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this stuff even just about the family
or about vacations or I mean, it
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doesn't have to be something deep.
It could just be connecting over a hobby.
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You know, there's there's there's some
some easy stuff to to to play
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with. That's workable, Dean,
that is very workable. Thank you for
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that. All right, Well,
let's grab our last break here. I'm
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at last Cortez your host. We've
been on the air with Dean Lindsay.
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He is a keynote speaker with a
humorous and engaging approach. He has been
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hailed as an outstanding thought leader on
building priceless business relationships by sales and marketing
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executives international. It is an expert
and award winning author on influence, connection
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and goal commitment. We'll be right
back after the break. Stay with us.
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Alice Cortez is a speaker and engagement
and development catalyst. She designs and
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delivers professional development, leadership and engagement
workshops and can bring her expertise to your
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organization. She will help ignite meaningful
development within your workforce that will increase employee
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engagement, performance and retention. To
learn more or to invite Elise to speak
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to your organization, please visit her
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She would welcome the opportunity to help
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is working on Purpose with Elise Cortes. To reach our program today, send
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an email to a lease Alise at
Aleasecortes dot com. Now back to working
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on Purpose. If you're just tuning
in, my guest is Dean Lindsay.
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He's a keynote speaker with a humorous
and engaging approach. He has been hailed
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as an outstanding thought leader on building
priceless business relationships by Sales and Marketing Executives
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International, and is an expert and
an award winning author on influence, connection
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and goal commitment. We're talking about
his latest book, The Progress Agent Handbook
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for Influence and Connection. I'm your
host, Elise Cortes. So for the
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last segment here, Dean, we
just have about a third of the show
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here left, and I want to
get into the connection piece and about being
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able to build powerful networks. So
you distinguish from between meeting someone like in
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a networking situation or being out and
about at the grocery store, whatever it
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might be, and a connection that
leads to a professional relationship. So can
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you walk us through how do we
move from meeting someone to building a powerful
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business connection. Well, just a
caveat. You can definitely connect with somebody
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at the grocery store. You can
meet them and or connect with them.
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What I would say, in a
very easy way of the difference between meeting
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someone and connecting with them is that
when they leave, they want to reconnect
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with you, and you have a
reason to reconnect with them that they are
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going to be excited about. So
it really is about finding what I call
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the next step. If you're in
a networking situation. A lot of times
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people talk about the follow up,
that you need to follow up with everybody
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you meet at a networking event,
But you know, you're very limited with
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what you can say in your follow
up. If you didn't have a real
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conversation, you're left with stuff like
nice to meet you, you know,
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hope to see you again soon.
That's so true. Why, you know,
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because you didn't have a real conversation. So the most important thing to
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do to make a real connection,
and it's not the firm handshake that's important
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in the eye contact and all that
stuff, but it's about being interested in
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the other person and uncovering the next
step. The next thing you can do
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for that person that they will view
is progress. The next thing that when
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you can reconnect with them within twenty
four hours and you deliver that bit of
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information or that bit of insight or
that other person they connect with, they
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go that person, that person's progress, and then they're going to be much
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more interested in reconnect with you with
the next function, or taking your phone
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call or be with all those type
of things. So in a very nutshell
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and in a small little nutshell,
it's about it's about truly caring about other
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people's progress and finding a way to
progress help them progress. I do I
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work a lot in this space,
you know, I uh, the the
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connection the prospecting. When I'm working
with you know, with with groups on
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prospecting. It really is about,
you know, about connecting with strategic alliances,
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connecting with prospects. And as you
as you know from reading the book,
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I created what's called the Connection Code
the four Steps to Building Priceless Business
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Relationships because I did want, uh, you know, to be able to
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provide up some form of the steps
and there's there's there's steps in the books
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and then each step has you know, many many, many specific tips.
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But it's those steps, those four
steps to building priceless business relationships that really
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helps you go from from contact to
connection, from net to net and building
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those priceless business relationships great. Well, one of the things I like to
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do on this show, Dean,
is I really like to be able to
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help listeners reready walk away with something
they can that they can use immediately,
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and of course you know they'll get
much more from the actual book. But
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let's talk about those. And so
the first one, creating strong belief in
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self and services. Would you say
just a little bit more about that?
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That seems fairly obvious on the outset, but I think there's a lot more
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to it. Well, there is
a lot more to it. A lot
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of people skip totally right over that. People know they're supposed to networking,
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so they get up their network and
they don't really believe that they have something
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to offer. They think they're networking
for them when they need to be focused
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on networking. They think they're connecting
for themselves, and they need to feel
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like they need to know that they're
benefiting others by being out there. You
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know, one of the things that
I thought was interesting is I was reading
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your books, I thought about it
is you know, so you talk about
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that people need to look for and
find what's important and meaningful to them about
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the products and services they provide in
order to be effective. Completely agree,
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And I thought I immediately went in
my minding to some of the people that
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I know of who completely fall into
that category. For You're like, yeah,
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those people, they nail it that
I got that that they're so set
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into that space. What about those
moments when we have a crisis of faith
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in ourselves to go about You know, the number one person who should be
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reading any testimonial letters you've ever gotten
is you. Those aren't things just to
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share with your prospect. If you
ever have a bad thing, you know
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you starts to go south, I
would call up a client that you know
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really thinks you rock and share that
information with them. And you know that
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they say, fake it till you
make it. I'm not. I'm not
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a big fan of fake it till
you make it. I think you can
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do that in the short term,
but I think I see if it's broke,
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fix it. If you don't.
If you don't think you've got game,
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then get game, you know,
go get another you know, get
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another you know, pass another course
or or or you know, move to
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a new building, or mow the
lawn, or lose twenty pounds, do
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something that that that's going to help
you feel like you have game, because
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that's what you have to have that
strong. If we want others to trust
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us and be jazzed about being around
us, we have to test ourselves and
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be jazzed about being ourselves. Yes, completely agree. And I think part
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of what I wanted to talk about
there is I think it's important for our
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listeners to understand that, you know, we're all human beings. We have
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an array of beautiful emotions that that
color our lives, and I and and
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and give us a means to really
get access to the world. And sometimes
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you know, we are in those
those valleys, and so I think it's
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important to be able to have something
out there ready, like you just gave
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us to help us get out of
that valley. Okay, reach out to
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a testimonial, reach out to someone
who we know believes in us. That's
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important. Yeah, go for a
walk, drink some water, take a
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do some stretching, you know,
do some I'm big into the deep breathing
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and stuff. You know those all
all that stuff can can can help you
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kind of remain centered. But you
are absolutely rightly we are. We are
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not robots. We are human beings
and we have, you know, the
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whole gatlet of emotions and they're all
the valid in play. And I think
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I think we moved sometimes. I
think we just try to move too fast
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and push ourselves too much, and
we put we put way too much pressure
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on our selves. Well, and
like I like to talk about Dean in
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my space of really cultivating passion and
inspiration in your life in order to be
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able to really start to get access
to your purpose and live it. It
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means that you need to pay attention
to the beauty and wonder of the world
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around you. Notice it, love
it, embrace it, and and that
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does take some effort to do that, absolutely, but it's a big,
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big payoffs. So I'm with you
on that well. And so that gets
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us to the next thing I want
to talk about, and that's this whole
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idea of fulfillment. So I completely
agree that it is critical to fulfillment in
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life as well as success and business
to continue making new connections. That's part
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of what makes the world go around. And you've got a section where you
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recommend several good places to cultivate connections, which I thought was very useful.
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Would you share a few of those
locations or places? Well, yes,
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Now they are dependent on what your
goals are, you know for sure.
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Yeah, but you know there's there's
everything from from your from your chambers of
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commerce, uh to you know,
your your referral groups and networking groups.
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There's I like, I really like
the hobbies that people are already involved in.
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So you know, there's meetup is
a big thing now where whatever hobby
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you have, there's other people that
are that are interested in that that as
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well, and and they and they
know people and it's really the connection that
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you want and so you have.
If you're into kayaking, then I'd get
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into a kayaking group. You know, you know, golf, Uh,
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your churches, I mean there's that's
the reason that you know that the association,
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State and National Association, uh,
you know, yearly events and monthly
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events. The thing that I try
to share also is not only to go
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to those, but once you find
two or three, you need to get
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consistently go to them and then uh, you know, to even take a
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two point o version of that,
get active and you know, get on
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the board or or chair committee and
and you know, show put yourself out
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there as a as a giver and
a leader. I completely agree with that
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too, Dean. I have been
involved in many organizations and I didn't do
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it for the reason for business development, but that is exactly what happened,
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was I would be out and about
I would be doing business on behalf of
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this organization, giving of my time, and naturally what happens is you put
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yourself in the space of people who
might be able to use your product or
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service, and then you have a
relationship and you're there and I wouldn't otherwise
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have had a reason to meet these
people. Oh yeah, no, it
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is true. Now, you know, if I could get away with you
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saying how to build priceless relationships,
I would have because that's what we're talking
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about with the word business actually helps. You're trying to sell a book,
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but that's what you're really talking about, is that there's so many different benefits,
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much bigger. In the book,
I lay out the top ten benefit
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benefits of connection, and it only
number ten is more sales. Number one's
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friendship and support. You know,
this isn't quite related to what you just
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said there, but this is where
my mind when we've been talking about this
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idea of priceless connections and such.
When I was working for Insignium, than
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Rosenberg, one of the two founding
partners, would would often say that if
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you if you really want to make
a difference in life, you got to
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be good at sales, which means, at its core, you got to
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be good at relationships. And I
do want to make a difference in this
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world. And so I have this
whole thing where every day I read,
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write and sell, read, write
and sell. And so what I mean
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by that is the selling part is
the reaching out working on relationship stuff.
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And I really try to make that
part of my every day. Yeah.
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Well, the word sales, and
I know I write this in the book,
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the word sales comes from the Scandinavian
root word meaning to serve, and
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that's exactly what when you're friends with
somebody, you're serving them and they're serving
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you. So you know, that's
it's all the backscratch boogie. I love
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that. Well, speaking of that, You've got a whole section of the
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book on humor, and you are
known for your humorous style. Why do
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you think humor is so important inness
and business relationships. I think, I
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mean, I'm I'm I'm glad it
is, because I I would be so
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bored without it. But I think
maybe it's disarming. I think maybe it's
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I think maybe it's a little a
little bit of risky maybe sometimes to be
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you know, you know, to
throw it out there. I think it's
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I think it's universal. I think
also, hey, you know here's something
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else laughter, that's pain avoidance,
that's pleasure. You see. I mean,
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grow right back to the six p's
right, you know. So so
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it's you know, I don't overthink
it. I can get it. I
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overthink a lot of stuff, but
I don't overthink humor. That does that
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does do it. Yeah, I
think it's really important too. I I
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it's I've thought about this a bit
for myself. I tend to be more
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serious than not, but I like
humor. I use humor, So it's
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kind of a I hope there's a
balance there, but I think humor is
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essential. Uh, yes, it
is essential for me. You know,
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there's been if one of the first
things that go out the window if i'm
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if I am having a down day
and having to give a presentation is my
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I mean, I can still do
maybe some of the bits, but nothing's
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coming off the cuff, and it's
a it's it's no fun for anybody,
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you know, It's it's only it's
only when I'm when I get off the
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stage, you can what you know, some of that I don't remember,
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and I've never made that. You
know, it's just a funny little bit
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that just popped in my you know, popped in my head. So and
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I love that too. Watching other
people. I mean, I'm a huge
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fan student of humor. I've spent
a lot of time, you know,
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studying the you know, from Jonathan
Winners to Robin Williams to Stephen Colbert,
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David Letterman to Gratio Marx, you
know, Charlie Chaplin. I'm I'm you
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know, that's that's my Bailey Wick. Well along those lines. One of
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the other questions I want to ask
you, and this is just purely self
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esteem, but I want to know
what it is about your work that you
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find meaningful. What do I find
meaningful? I do like to take timeless
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principles and offer my fresh way of
helping people progress, help them turn the
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light bulbs on. There's nothing I'm
saying. I mean, the six piece
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of progress are unique. But I
like self expression and helpful self expression.
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I'd say, yeah, I think
I guess helpful self expression I find quite
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meaningful. I think it's I think
it's interesting to know that I'm making a
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positive difference in some people's lives.
You know, I can't see everybody who's
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ever seen me do something? But
I do like it when people, you
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know, the circle back around to
the two. You know you saw me
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do something ten twelve years ago,
and you know it helps you impress a
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room, you know, or help
you build some relationship. That's that's good
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stuff, you know, that's yeah, it was good stuff. And you
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know, making a difference in people
lives, you bet, I'm in for
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that all day. Any back to
the laughter even, I mean they do
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making somebody laugh, that's that's good
too. I'm not like you knows that
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they weren't laughing before I showed up. All right, so we're almost at
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a time already, Dean, So
final pearls of wisdom, and say,
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like thirty seconds or so, what
would you let to leave our listeners with
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today? It's on the back of
the book. Change is inevitable, Progress
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is a choice. Progress is a
step forward. Take today's step, and
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then also just also share change.
Progress is subjective. You're the one who
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decides what progress is. No one
else can tell you what progress means for
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you. That is so true,
Dean. Wow, Well, thank you,
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and I'm honored that I got the
first blush at your book and we're
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sharing it here Live on Working on
Purpose. Thank you so much for being
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our guest and sharing your heart,
your soul, your wisdom, and your
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humor. That you are so welcome
release. It was a joy. Do
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you want to learn more about Dealon's
or any of his books what he talks
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about join visit his website. It's
Dean Lindsay dot com. So d E
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A N L I. D Say
dot com Dean Lindsay dot com. If
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you missed last week's program, you
can always catch if you record a podcast.
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We were on the Earth with Dan
Schaubel. He's a New York Times
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bestselling author, partner and research director
at Future Workplace, and the founder of
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both Millennial Branding and Workplace Trends dot
com. We talked about his latest book,
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Back to Human, How great Leaders
create connection in the Age of Isolation.
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Next week, we'll be enjoying a
special Christmas Honkah celebration conversation with Sherry
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Schwartz, who is Catholic and celebrates
Christmas alongside her Jewish husband, who celebrates
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Hanukkah. We'll be talking about the
joy of her life and her work,
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as well as her latest book about
her beloved dog, see you there.
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Remember that workers at least a third
of her life. So let's work on
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purpose. Well, you hope you've
enjoyed this week's program. Be sure to
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tune in to Working on Purpose,
featuring your host Alis Cortes, each week
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