Feb. 21, 2018

Life Takes Grit - And Gives Much When We Rise to Challenge

Life Takes Grit - And Gives Much When We Rise to Challenge

What we do with life’s challenges makes us the people we ultimately are – it’s how we respond to life’s curve balls especially that determines our character and what we achieve. It’s truly astounding, and can be incredibly intimidating, that...

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What we do with life’s challenges makes us the people we ultimately are – it’s how we respond to life’s curve balls especially that determines our character and what we achieve. It’s truly astounding, and can be incredibly intimidating, that possibility is boundless. We can reinvent ourselves over and again, if we summon the courage and put forth the worthwhile effort. We’re only as stuck in our lives as we convince ourselves to be. Question is – what is it that each of us aches to become in this lifetime? And can we find the courage, determination, and persistence to realize these precious dreams for ourselves? In this episode, we meet someone who has, and might just show us the way, as she continues to reinvent herself.

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There are some people that make their
work just another thing they have to do,

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and there are those that make their
work something that they want to do.

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Welcome to Working on Purpose with your
host Elise Cortes. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration from those
people who have found deeper meaning and

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personal connection to their work life.
It's beyond nine to five. It's working

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on Purpose. Now Here is your
host, Elise Cortes. Welcome back to

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the Working on Purpose Show. Thanks
for tuning in again this week. I'm

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your host at Least Cortez, joining
from very rainy Dallas Texts today. It's

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home base for me. This program
is all about helping people more meaningfully and

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organizations to do the same for their employees.

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a particular perspective or experience that I

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think expands the conversation. I often
draw on the medium work research I've been

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the book that I'm writing, as well

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This week is Henda Samuran, an
award winning real estate broker with Dave Perrymiller,

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real estate, breast cancer survivor,
extreme endurance athlete, and now also

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an author. She just published her
memoir Grit under My Nails, a Memoir

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and Three Acts. We'll be talking
about some of the critical points in her

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life that have helped maker who she
is today. Transition from being an information

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technology professional into real estate guru and
what she hopes people listening to your message

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will ultimately get. She joins me
today right next to me in my studio

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hand out, welcome to working on
purpose. It's very exciting. It's a

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complete new media for me. So
I'm rather than this in a little funny

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way. That's amazing considering all that
you've done. It's really amazing, and

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I appreciate that because that means it
means something to you, and I'm happy

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about that. So we'll get those
nerves out of the way, no problem.

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So to kick us off, though, there's so much we could talk

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about with you, Henda. You
have such a remarkable life and you have

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navigated through so much. Part of
the reason I wanted to share your message

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not just because you're a dear friend
and I support your message completely and I

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want to share you with my listeners. But the parts about you that I

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think really connect with what our listeners
are maybe tuning in for is that you've

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overcome major adversity, which we can
all relate to and appreciate, and that

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makes you who you are. And
then the other piece about it is the

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identity piece of you've really been able
to transition from one career in information technology

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into real estate, and now you're
adding author to it. So there's a

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couple of things I want to make
sure we cover in the show. Yeah,

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yes, And how about my learning
how to speak Texan? Well,

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let's start first that if you listeners, if you listen to that wonderful accent,

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she's originally from South Africa, and
I love the way that she speaks,

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so English is her second language.
Now we add text in it makes

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out a third Yep, yep,
yep, get her done? All Well

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right, I had to learn all
those things too well to get us started

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here. So you have, as
I say, what I would really call

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remarkable life story. I mean,
it's filled with quite a number of twists

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and turns, which you detail in
your book beautifully. And I wouldest if

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you can to give us kind of
a high level overview of some of those

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aspects that were especially pointing it for
you before you came to the United States.

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And why do you think they were
shaped? They were important for shaping

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who you really are. So what
I'm looking for is like those major milestones

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that you think you hit along the
way that really made you who you are.

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So I arrived in the United States
when I was twenty four in nineteen

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ninety, literally with two suitcases and
five hundred bucks, oh and a bottle

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of Portuguese port. Not to forget
about the port if I look back,

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you know, to me, it
all starts with my book cover. I

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wear on my cover a very deep
royal purple dress, and that color played

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a very big role through most of
my life because my mother gave me away

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wearing that exact color when I was
three years old. And that's probably where

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this journey no doubt starts, because
it is my earliest memory, and sitting

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here today, I can transport myself
to that exact moment as if it was

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yesterday. So for me, in
addition to of course dealing with all sorts

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of worthy issues and abandonment, additionally, I struggled my whole life to find

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out who my father was. And
between finding that identity, I think,

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or the struggle in finding identity,
it really shaped me to where I am

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at today, which is in my
early fifties. My mother remarried a man

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when I was in second grade,
and I went to go live with them

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again after she gave me away for
several years prior, and this very lovely

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scumbag almost rapped me when I was
in my early teens, and instinctively I

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knew that he was not a good
man, and I begged her to send

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me away to boarding school. So
for most of my growing years, I

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grew up in a boarding school where
I was mentored by incredible teachers and academics.

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Really became for me the ticket out
of my circumstances, so to speak,

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for all practical purposes, I should
have been a drug addict and a

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school dropout and live on some bus
bench someway in some city. I graduated

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in state with top honors. I
was head girl of my boarding school,

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very similar to Harry Potter. Growing
up in South Africa, boarding schools were

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not for the rich and wealthy,
but it was rural in many instances apartheid

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South Africa, so it was a
very common thing for us, for many

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of us to be in boarding school. I got scholarships to study at the

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University of Pretoria, and my initial
desire was to study law because I had

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this intense desire to fight for people
that has less strength and less fortune and

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less opportunity. But sadly, like
many other places, in the world,

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attorneys are a dime a dozen,
and I couldn't get scholarship money, and

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instead I was for to go study
computer science because Total Oil, the petroleum

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giant French company, was willing to
give me a full ride. So I

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graduated with the double majors in computer
science and economics. So anyways, very

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quickly as a fifteen year old,
I learned also financial independence by waitressing,

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and I learned to upsell Heaven's behold
if I was your waitress, because you

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were going to end up with more
appetizers and desserts, see it that you

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plan for And I think, you
know, looking back at the end of

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the day. Starting as that little
abandoned child, I always tried to reinvent

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myself and hide the pain and the
shame of growing up in those circumstances.

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And I really became the master chameleon. And part of that was to learn

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to speak English. I studied it
as a second language, like many people

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here in the UA study Spanish,
and you can read it and write it,

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but you lack the confidence of speech. So I really only started speaking

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at when I was about nineteen twenty
nineteen or twenty years old. Does that

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Alanseer. Yeah, that was a
great answer, and there's so much that

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I could peel back on that.
But what I want to do is I

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want to keep going further into your
store. There's a couple other pieces of

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it that I want to pull out, and for the listeners, that's a

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bit of a taste of what she's
written in her book, and you can

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dive more into that for sure.
But one thing I do want to say

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is the way that you describe your
journey, just the things that you've gone

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through, and of course you and
I've had many conversations about this stuff.

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It's really intense. And what I
want a presence for the listeners is that

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the way that we respond to adversity
makes us who we are at the end

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of the day. It makes us
who we are. So it's your response,

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your unique response that you had those
events that I look at and know

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today to be hind of Samaran,
And what I want for the listeners to

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hear from your story is that we're
all going to get that adversity in that

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hardship, some of us more so
than others, and the response to it

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and how we embrace it and fall
that into our being the way that you

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have is what allows us to become
this amazing person like you've become. I

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think for me, a lot of
it had to do. And even to

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this day, if I look just
back on ultra entrants running or you know,

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real estate or whatever. For me, there's no excuses if we take

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excuses off the table and just say, you know, you're not going to

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use your circumstances or the poor me
or the sad meat, just take it

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away, show up every day and
play, be in the arena and play

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the game. And for whatever you
know reason, that was always part of

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my makeup. And you know,
it's the interesting concept of nature or nurture

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right in my case, I totally
believe it was nature that just gifted me

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with that ability to understand you better. You know, just sits up straight

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and show up and rock and roll. And to that end, what I

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like to also remind my listeners of
is that as human beings, we are

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meaning makers. We desperately always look
to create meaning. It's who we are,

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it's what we do, and therefore
we have the ability to choose how

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we make sense of the events in
our lives. We choose what meaning to

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give them, whether they're bad or
good. So you chose to look at

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those events as just something that you
can get through and there's no excuses.

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And that's another piece of your story
that I think is so important and it's

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such a great example and why I
wanted you to share with my listeners.

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That's why the back of my book
cover has the quote from Saint Augustine dating

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back to about sixteen hundred years ago, and Saint Augustine said, the key

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to immortalities first living life worth remembering, and I totally wholeheartedly agree with him,

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and you certainly do live that life. We'll get to some of those

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points as well. And then when
we start, when we start with the

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part of your journey where you get
to the United States, you said you

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were twenty four. You came here
because you were recruited to come to work

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and here in the United States.
And I think also even just that start

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says something about you and how you
navigate things. So tell us about arriving

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in the United States that first job, and I know what happened as you

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settled in to your living quarters.
Well, so I was recruited. It

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was in the years, in the
days before Indian outsourcing, so we were

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hit hunted quite heavily out of South
Africa because we could speak English, we

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actually had advanced computer degrees, and
we were cheap. We would come work

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for a third what they would pay
an equal qualified American. And so I

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was head hunted and take and send
to Winston Sealem, North Carolina, to

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program a computer program at ur J
Mineralds Tobacco. Now, quite honestly,

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I am rather challenged when it comes
to American literature and variety of other things,

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including back then geography, because I
have no idea where North Carolina was.

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Yeah, I actually went and borrowed
a Britannica encyclopedia for those of us

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that lived prior to the World Wide
Web, and I looked up North Carolina,

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and you know, quite honestly,
I didn't even really care because I

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was coming to America. So here
I arrived, and within so the first

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six days they put me in a
hotel, and then I had to find

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an apartment, and I discovered Kmart. Oh my goodness, what an incredible

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choice of just mind numbing choices of
stuff. Well, my first night in

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my new abode, the pipes burst
and the apartments flooded and so I went

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and slept on the couch of my
new colleague, and they raided the apartment.

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Some Wollikins. It's all everything I
owned, very much. The bottle

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of port I stole, the bottle
of cord at my underwear and shoes,

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and the luggage I just came with. And so I literally started with nothing.

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Then the clothes I was wearing.
And I had this little Italian boss,

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and that Monday they heard what happened, and he took me to his

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home and his wife was an MS, pretty advanced MS sufferer, and she

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opened her closet for me, said
take whatever you want. Well, it

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was the nineteen seventies wardrobe. And
so for the first few months in the

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United States, I quite eloquently impersonated
Mary Tyler Moore. But you know,

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I'm so grateful for that woman with
the kindness that she bestowed on me.

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But yeah, that's how my American
dream started, my stars and stripe journey

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to wonderful story and all the color
to it. The different thing I want

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to present for the listeners is the
way that you navigate life and the language

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that you use. Your first language
is Afrikaans, second is English, and

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the way that you use language and
the way that it shows up and the

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way that you use it to as
a way to express yourself but also to

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navigate life is so rich and so
compelling. But that started later. The

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Complexity and Joy of the English language
is another book I'm planning to write,

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sure, because it is quite honestly, I do speak several other languages too,

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and English by far is the most
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agree. Well, I want to
talk a little bit about your IT career

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because it's part of it, was
part of you. It still is part

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of you because you still use a
lot of the skills that you use then.

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But you made a career as an
IT professional, and I forget all

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the different places you've worked at,
and I don't need you to detail all

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those but I just want you to
comment a bit about that career and what

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you liked about it, what you
got from it in terms of who you

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are today. So after I had
my I got my green card, I

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became a technical consultant for Price Hothouse
Coopers, you know, and and for

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somebody that hated computer science. In
my years at university, I really it

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trained me to think in a very
analytical way and a problem solving way.

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And it also taught me to be
very goals and results oriented, because when

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you write code, it either works
or it doesn't. You know, it

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doesn't maybe work, And so I'm
very appreciative. And to this day I

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still code. I guess once you
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And sadly I have you know,
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HTML, and I don't know,
I guess if I look back, it

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was my first taste of creating and
also being a control freak. It was

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rather rewarding writing complex code that that's
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Okay, So, and I know
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your programming skills, et cetera.
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of your own web site matary,
which is just amazing. Now, somehow

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in there, somewhere in there,
you decided to go into real estate.

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So first give us the context.
Why did you want to leave it?

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And then why pursue real estate?
Well, so I had the most perfect

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golden handcuffs. I had a cushy
job in corporate America. I made a

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six figure income, I had employee
benefits, stock options, et cetera,

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et cetera. And then post nine
to eleven, the tech bubble crashed and

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although I had no concerns for my
job, I was a critical point of

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failure. It really horrified me how
the workforce where I was at the time

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was laid off and at the time
they also terminated our telecommuting policy to go

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back into the office after being four
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work from home, you know,
with my children right there at my feet,

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and literally overnight, my entrepreneurial spirit
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a country where I didn't learn how
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school, you went to university,
and then you were in too work for

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people. And I never had the
concept really to work for myself. But

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through those six months of just witnessing
people's lives being taken away from them,

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I didn't want to be part of
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to do, and after studying my
real estate market, I decided it would

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be a good fit because I'd bring
strong technology, a tremendous work ethic.

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I was very well trained by corporate
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hard, and I closed my eyes
and I literally jumped off the cliff,

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and everybody thought I was having a
midlife crisis and a nervous breakdown. How

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can you go from an IT tech
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fifteen years ago. It was fifteen
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Well, I moonlighted for six months, and then my first the week of

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Martin Luthery King Weekend, which was
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I started with a panic attack because
I was like, Oh God, what

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have I done? I done?
What have I done? I have had

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no idea how I was going to
make money. I certainly wasn't earning any

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base salary or anything. But it
was also very empowering because I totally accepted

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my destiny in my own hands.
And needless to say, by the end

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of that first year, I was
Rookie of the Year and I have never

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looked back. And I'm so utterly
grateful today that they did terminate that t

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other community policy, because if I
didn't, I probably would never have left

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beautiful way to take us into a
break. I'm Elie Cortes, your host.

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We are in the air with Henda
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real estate broker with Dave Perry Miller
real Estate. She's a breast cancer survivor,

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extreme endurance athlete, and author of
Grit Under My Nails, a memoir

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in three Acts. She joins us
today from Dallas right next to me.

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We've been talking a bit about what's
in her book, what's helped make her

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who she's become in her early career
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Thanks for staying with us, and welcome

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back to Working on Purpose if you're
just joining us. My guest is Henda

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Samaran, an award winning real estate
broker with Dave Perrymiller real Estate, a

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breast cancer survivor, extreme endurance athlete, and author of A Grid Under My

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Nails, a memoir, and Three
Acts. I'm your host, Alise Cortes.

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So, just before the BREAKHNDO,
we were talking about your transition into

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real estate and why you did that
and how you did it, and I

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want to see a couple of things
about that. Again for our listeners,

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there are very well maybe people on
the air right now who are listening to

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your story and they are in part
looking to be inspired by you. And

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a big reason I host this show
and do the work that I do is

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to empower people. I want people
to go after their dreams. I want

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them to be bigger today than they
were yesterday. When you said that you

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part of what that experience was like
for you to go into real estate and

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or be working for yourself and earning
commission, it was empowering. Would you

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say more about that? Not only
was it empowering because my money was directly

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tied to my effort, but it
was also the freedom that came with that.

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I wasn't tied to nine to five. I could decide how I wanted

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to spend my hours, my weeks, my days. And you know,

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I worked hard. I worked very
long hours, seven days a week,

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many weeks fifteen hours a day.
But that was never what scared me away.

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So it really fitted me like a
glove, the fact that I could

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do it on my terms. And
one of the absolute most rewarding things that

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have come from this is the amazing
people I've met. And that was the

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side benefit that I never really considered, But after fifteen years, I look

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back at the phenomenal people that have
given me their door keys, and let

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me into their lives and to me
that the trust DAY have put in my

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guidance, in my service and my
commitment to help them. As you well

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know of to divorce and job changing. Career changing, moving is one of

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the most stressful things people can do
in their lives, and so the job

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satisfaction or work satisfaction that have come
this last fifteen years was just something I

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never anticipated. So part of what
I also appreciate about your story is and

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I talk about this a lot of
notion of what I refer to and what's

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called an academic as work life integration. They no longer say work life balance.

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Nobody believes in that anymore, I
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is something many of us can get
our arms around. And one of the

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things that I really appreciate and admire
about you is that you have what I

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call and many many of us who
know you, who have met you,

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and over the top way about you. You go about life in an over

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the top way. You are bigger
than life. You fold a lot into

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your life, and so I want
you, if you would, to share

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with our listeners when you think about
this business that you've been in real estate.

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You like the flexibility, how it
allows you to call your day if

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you would say a little bit about
some of the things, the ways that

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you feel your day, just so
that our listeners get an idea of the

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abundance of your life. It comes
back to technology, the freedom that technology

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has given me, and how I
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so I don't look at it anymore
as do I play, do I work,

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do I vacate. It's all just
this big happy mesh of scrambled eggs,

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and I seamlessly just float from one
to the other, many times simultaneously.

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Everybody that knows me will sign that
as my first, you know characteristic.

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And I have successfully, over the
last fifteen years traveled to the corners

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of the world while working. And
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the mountains of Vietnam in a hut
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I'm on Skype and conducting business from
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dollar property literally from a mud hut, or sitting in Africa on the savannah

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overlooking a water hole while I'm negotiating
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I turned fifty and was in Cairo, Egypt, and once again you

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know here my home office was the
Nile. So I think when we remove

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just limitations and we allow ourselves to
assume that we can do anything we want,

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that has been one of the surprises
for me in a way that I'm

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able to earn a really great living
and do it on my terms. I

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want to, of course comment on
that. A couple things that I really

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want to call out is that you
really live and are an example, a

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living, walking example of possibility.
And of course in the work that I

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do around organizational transformation, around performance
breakthrough kind of work where we're all about

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possibility, getting people to see beyond
what is what they think they know to

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be sure today to what could be
tomorrow for themselves. And what I really

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appreciated about your story is that you
really are an examplar of living this incredibly

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full, beautiful life. So all
that travel that you do, all these

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amazing trips that I know you've taken
over the years, and we've talked about,

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the other thing that's great about that
is one you sometimes do those trips

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all by yourself, all by your
lonesome and then other times you bring your

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children with you. Yeah, I
mean, I hear so many people tell

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me always, Oh, I would
love to travel, I just don't have

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anybody to travel with. We know
what, You don't have to have somebody

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with you, because I make a
point when I travel to stay with local

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people home stay. You know,
these days with airbn beats, it's changed

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the way we travel. But I
love to connect with people around the world,

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and so a very important part for
me is not to just be in

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a hotel. I will say,
just as a side note, the one

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thing I always need is WI FI. That is my nod. That's a

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non negotiable. I will come stay
in your mud hut or your bamboo hut,

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or your tent or wherever I need
to stay under a tree as long

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as I have WiFi. It's kind
of sad, but that is my trump

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cart. That is the thing that
enables me to do all this stuff.

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I get that, and I also
appreciate the fact of just the mobility that

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comes with that, I really and
the freedom that comes with that. Okay,

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so the next thing I want to
talk about that I want to call

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it for a listener. So you
and I met somewhere I think in early

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twenty eleven. I remember Bridge distinctly
because I was the president of Lake with

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Service League. We were having a
meeting at one of the members' houses and

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you were the speaker. That's kind
of we had met before, we seen

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each other before, but that's kind
of where the connection really happened. But

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something happened to you that would forever
alter the course of your life. About

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a year or so before that,
maybe two years, I can't remember which,

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you were diagnosed with breast cancer.
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at eight tventy five am in the
morning. To just be exact, some

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things you also never forget. So
if we fast forward to the beginning of

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nine, I was fat, I
was unfit. I worked eighteen hours a

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day and the only thing I've ever
run was around my bed to make it

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to the other side. And so
I discovered, or I realized I needed

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to change my course, and so
I decided to get fit, and over

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about an eight week period, I
lost twelve pounds and that's when I felt

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this little lump, and yeah,
that was if I looked back over the

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line last fifty one years, that
one single thing set in motion domino effect

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that I could never have imagined.
I had a four centimeter tumor. That

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was when we'll get later to the
ins and outs of that that was invisible

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on a mammogram. I had two
surgeries and radiation as well, which kind

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of brought us to the second devastating
event that happened fifty four days later,

396
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against my doctor's orders. And all
of us will probably agree I was utterly

397
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stupid. I decided to forge ahead
to go with my family to Peru for

398
00:30:40.480 --> 00:30:44.599
our summer vacation. And I still
had a bandage right breast, So yeah,

399
00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:49.079
not the brightest moment of my life. And on August first, two

400
00:30:49.079 --> 00:30:53.359
thousand and nine, at like eight
o'clock in the morning, I had a

401
00:30:53.400 --> 00:30:57.720
heart attack and I was in I
to keep up Peru, alone in an

402
00:30:59.480 --> 00:31:03.759
emergency room, and they were telling
me that half of my heart died and

403
00:31:03.759 --> 00:31:08.000
that I was probably going to die. And I was lying in this tiny

404
00:31:08.039 --> 00:31:14.319
little metal cot without my family because
my cellphone had no service, and they

405
00:31:14.359 --> 00:31:18.240
were at some hotel. And it
was the most terrifying thing that has ever

406
00:31:18.279 --> 00:31:25.079
happened to me. But also that
set emotion really a liberation that I could

407
00:31:25.079 --> 00:31:30.480
never have imagined. Well, you
can't leave saying it without one liberation to

408
00:31:30.559 --> 00:31:36.960
no longer be afraid of dying,
to no longer worry about, to just

409
00:31:37.279 --> 00:31:41.000
live and make the most of here
now, because that's all we have.

410
00:31:41.799 --> 00:31:49.920
And that cliche became completely ingrained in
every fiber of my being. And if

411
00:31:49.960 --> 00:31:53.720
it wasn't for those two events,
I'm not sure if it would ever have

412
00:31:53.799 --> 00:32:00.440
moved beyond the cliche. M and
I have heard other people who have vived

413
00:32:00.920 --> 00:32:07.119
cancer or other major events like a
heart attack exceeter also say that it alters

414
00:32:07.119 --> 00:32:10.200
the director of their lives permanently.
They can never be the same and in

415
00:32:10.240 --> 00:32:13.720
some of them, but I don't
think quite on your same level. Some

416
00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:16.440
of them certainly say, you know, every single day is precious and I'm

417
00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:20.880
gonna live it to the fullest.
You certainly do that. It's not just

418
00:32:20.960 --> 00:32:28.640
each day. Every breath is precious, and with that comes an intensity that

419
00:32:28.839 --> 00:32:34.400
scares people, because I understand.
I try and pack in as much as

420
00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:37.839
I can in the twenty four hours. I wish I could negotiate twenty nine,

421
00:32:37.920 --> 00:32:45.519
but sadly twenty four. But I
do try, and really it's my

422
00:32:45.640 --> 00:32:51.680
life is from my inhale to my
exhale, and all we we know it

423
00:32:51.720 --> 00:32:55.839
will end. We know we will
die, what not what we don't know

424
00:32:55.960 --> 00:33:00.559
is when. But I'm no longer
afraid. It's removing. I think that

425
00:33:00.720 --> 00:33:08.160
fear that brings real supreme liberation to
one's thoughts. One of the things that

426
00:33:08.200 --> 00:33:13.960
you have jokingly said about yourself or
describe yourself such which I completely agree,

427
00:33:14.119 --> 00:33:21.240
is you're a stiff drink, very
stiff one that scarse mose people that in

428
00:33:21.240 --> 00:33:27.960
particular. Yeah, I've been dumbed. The singles reason frequent reason is I'm

429
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:31.440
too much. Yeah, well so
sorry darling. Yeah I know, I

430
00:33:31.480 --> 00:33:37.000
know, next next to next time. But the reason I wanted to bring

431
00:33:37.039 --> 00:33:39.119
that up is one any of my
listeners have been listening for a while know

432
00:33:39.319 --> 00:33:44.559
that I really really love to empower
people across the world the planet, and

433
00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:47.000
I enjoy and appreciate so much my
listeners who come in. Thank you,

434
00:33:47.119 --> 00:33:52.240
China, Japan, India for joining
us. It's amazing to have your company

435
00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:55.200
over the airwaves. And the other
thing that I also really care about is

436
00:33:55.279 --> 00:34:00.079
I really want to be a stand
for empowering women to really be fully in

437
00:34:00.119 --> 00:34:05.119
their power and I know it's not
necessarily popular, especially when you're very,

438
00:34:05.160 --> 00:34:08.679
very very strong as you are,
and so I want to celebrate your strength

439
00:34:08.840 --> 00:34:14.119
and the fact that you're a stiff
drink and so cheers, no question,

440
00:34:15.639 --> 00:34:20.960
no apologies. So one of the
things too that I appreciate about too is

441
00:34:21.000 --> 00:34:24.360
here you go through breast cancer,
get treatment, fifty four days later,

442
00:34:24.400 --> 00:34:29.800
have your heart attack, and then
not long after that, you trot yourself

443
00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:32.239
down to Austin, which is the
capital city of Texas, for your listeners

444
00:34:32.840 --> 00:34:38.320
like maybe hind and I who aren't
very great with geography, and you decided

445
00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:43.760
that you needed to help other women
who were battling with the potential of breast

446
00:34:43.760 --> 00:34:46.920
cancer because they were living under the
false auspice of security with a mammogram.

447
00:34:47.599 --> 00:34:52.679
So den Spread's tissue was really what
you wanting to surface. And so you

448
00:34:52.760 --> 00:34:57.280
went down to Austin and you got
a bill passed talk to us about this.

449
00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:02.360
So here I am with a four
centimeter tumor that's invisible on a mammogram,

450
00:35:02.440 --> 00:35:07.760
and I had four Like many of
us women, we believe mammograms were

451
00:35:07.800 --> 00:35:12.119
full proof. And when I sat
there on June ninth, when I was

452
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:16.159
given a later stage diagnosis, and
I said to them, well, sorry,

453
00:35:16.559 --> 00:35:20.760
I'm kind of stupid, but help
me out. How do you miss

454
00:35:21.159 --> 00:35:22.800
a tumor of that size? And
I say to me, well, you

455
00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:28.280
have dense breast tissue. Now all
of us can agree that none of us

456
00:35:28.320 --> 00:35:31.960
would come up with those three words
together in one sentence. And when I

457
00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:36.760
asked them, so, how didn't
I know about this dense breast tissue I

458
00:35:36.800 --> 00:35:39.760
have? I learned that it wasn't
the standard of care to tell us,

459
00:35:40.239 --> 00:35:44.639
and that to me was unacceptable because
at the end of the day, any

460
00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:50.719
of us know that cancer survival lies
in early detection, and I wasn't given

461
00:35:50.800 --> 00:35:54.639
the chance of early detection. And
so we're also not a lot of many

462
00:35:54.639 --> 00:36:00.960
other women. Because fifty percent of
women have dense breasts and forty percent of

463
00:36:00.000 --> 00:36:05.800
tumors are missed on a mammogram.
We're talking massive numbers. And so on

464
00:36:05.920 --> 00:36:09.679
June tenth, twenty two thousand and
nine, I called my state representative and

465
00:36:09.719 --> 00:36:15.639
I literally begged him to help me
change the standard of care. And two

466
00:36:15.679 --> 00:36:20.599
years later, after learning how to
be a lobbyist and being down in Austin

467
00:36:21.039 --> 00:36:27.519
for the six months of the twenty
eleven Legislative year. On June seventeenth,

468
00:36:27.599 --> 00:36:31.599
at four pm, Governor Perry signed
Handers Law, exactly two years to the

469
00:36:31.679 --> 00:36:37.719
day of my first surgery. And
you know, I look back on it

470
00:36:37.960 --> 00:36:43.760
and I think the main reason I
was able to succeed was first I was

471
00:36:43.840 --> 00:36:49.000
underestimated, as often happens, and
then I also had a lot of help

472
00:36:49.039 --> 00:36:53.280
from incredible people on this journey in
Austin, and then also just sheer luck.

473
00:36:54.320 --> 00:36:59.599
And today I'm very proud to say
that there's less than ten states left

474
00:37:00.119 --> 00:37:06.480
that do not have dense breast legislation. And back then we Texas was the

475
00:37:06.519 --> 00:37:12.679
second state, and within about twelve
months we had New York, California,

476
00:37:12.719 --> 00:37:16.000
and Virginia, Texas and Connecticut,
and we had more than thirty five percent.

477
00:37:16.039 --> 00:37:22.239
And the tipping point, ladies and
gentlemen, that's what you call impact

478
00:37:22.880 --> 00:37:25.719
and takes us another to another break. I'm Elisee Cortez, your host.

479
00:37:25.760 --> 00:37:29.280
We went on the air with Handa
Samaran, who is an award winning real

480
00:37:29.360 --> 00:37:32.440
estate broker with Dave Perry Miller Real
Estate, a breast cancer survivor, extreme

481
00:37:32.519 --> 00:37:37.360
endurance athlete, and author of Grit
Under My Nails and memoir In Three Acts.

482
00:37:37.599 --> 00:37:39.079
She joined it today from Dallas,
Texas. After the break, we'll

483
00:37:39.079 --> 00:37:51.039
talk more about her journey staying with
us. We'll be right back. Friend

484
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486
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an email to elise A l i
Se at Elisecortes dot com. Now back

507
00:40:17.280 --> 00:40:24.159
to Working on Purpose. Thanks for
staying with us, and welcome back to

508
00:40:24.199 --> 00:40:27.880
working on Purpose. If you're just
tuning in. My guest is hend to

509
00:40:27.960 --> 00:40:31.159
Samaran an award winning real estate work
with Dave Perrymiller, real estate breast cancer

510
00:40:31.199 --> 00:40:36.480
survivor, extreme endurance athlete, author
of Grit Under My Nails and memoir and

511
00:40:36.519 --> 00:40:39.000
Three Acts and I want to add
the mother of two amazing children, Mateo

512
00:40:39.000 --> 00:40:43.159
and Dominique, both of whom I
love. I'm your host, Alise Cortez.

513
00:40:43.800 --> 00:40:46.840
So let's talk a little bit more
about Henda's law because what I also

514
00:40:46.880 --> 00:40:52.480
want to share and presence for the
listeners is that talk about taking something true

515
00:40:52.480 --> 00:40:58.639
adversity and turning it into something beautiful
for so many people. Well, I

516
00:40:58.679 --> 00:41:06.159
think when we are given a diagnosis
of such magnitude, I personally needed to

517
00:41:06.239 --> 00:41:09.280
know that there was purpose to it, and that's what Hindus Luw has given

518
00:41:09.320 --> 00:41:16.679
me. I know I've impacted thousands
and thousands of lives and the fact that

519
00:41:16.719 --> 00:41:21.960
I could save one has given me
more purpose than I could ever have imagined.

520
00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:24.280
So listeners, for you to understand
what a little bit warm of what

521
00:41:24.320 --> 00:41:27.880
she means by that, so at
least here in Texas and she can come

522
00:41:27.880 --> 00:41:31.440
in on the other states is women
who have dense breastissue and I do too.

523
00:41:31.519 --> 00:41:35.440
By the way, when they get
their mammogrand, there's something on there

524
00:41:35.480 --> 00:41:37.639
that says you have dense breast tissue, you might want to look at other

525
00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:44.679
screening mechanisms per Hinda's law. So
that's how women start to get alerted to

526
00:41:44.719 --> 00:41:49.599
the fact that this isn't necessarily all
there is for screening. So the impact

527
00:41:49.639 --> 00:41:54.079
is enormous and it's probably if I
look back, the thing I'm one of

528
00:41:54.159 --> 00:41:58.840
the most proudest things other than being
my kid's mom. Now, one thing

529
00:41:58.880 --> 00:42:02.440
that would be important also to say
about what percentage of the population has dense

530
00:42:02.440 --> 00:42:08.119
breast tissue. Fifty percent of women
have dense breast tissue, and it affects

531
00:42:08.199 --> 00:42:13.599
young women in particular because as you
go through menopause, your breast becomes automatically

532
00:42:13.679 --> 00:42:19.320
less dense. And it's not how
big they are or how muscily you are,

533
00:42:19.679 --> 00:42:22.880
it's got nothing to do with that. It's a genetic combination of you're

534
00:42:22.960 --> 00:42:30.719
fat your tissue. It's an amazing
triumph. And I remember when you called

535
00:42:30.800 --> 00:42:32.800
me when you said you know it's
past. It was amazing. What a

536
00:42:32.880 --> 00:42:37.119
moment. And now the fact that
it's cascaded all those other states, the

537
00:42:37.280 --> 00:42:40.559
ripple effect, I really want to
acknowledge you for that amazing gift that you've

538
00:42:40.599 --> 00:42:45.679
given to other women across at least
the United States well, and if I

539
00:42:45.719 --> 00:42:47.400
have my way, we will make
it all over the world. Just give

540
00:42:47.440 --> 00:42:51.280
me a few more years. So
listeners, if you want to help,

541
00:42:51.800 --> 00:42:53.599
we'll tell you letter how to find
her. So hang with us. But

542
00:42:53.719 --> 00:42:58.800
in this last segment, I want
to move on to this next chapter of

543
00:42:58.840 --> 00:43:02.519
your life. You're adding author to
the long list of things that make you

544
00:43:02.559 --> 00:43:07.280
who you are, and you're about
to embark really on a new journey where

545
00:43:07.480 --> 00:43:13.280
you want to go out and start
sharing your message with more people in addition

546
00:43:13.320 --> 00:43:16.000
to your real estate career. And
I know that there are people listening who

547
00:43:16.920 --> 00:43:21.480
desperately want to transform their lives into
something else. In fact, just today,

548
00:43:21.480 --> 00:43:23.719
when I was at the airport leaving
Milwaukee, Wisconsin, I heard a

549
00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:28.760
gentleman say I want to be in
business for myself so badly I can taste

550
00:43:28.840 --> 00:43:30.320
it. And the guy he was
talking to was just like, okay,

551
00:43:30.360 --> 00:43:35.199
well whatever, Well for him,
this is really important. So this new

552
00:43:35.280 --> 00:43:42.239
journey that you're going on, it's
big, it's bold. Tell us about

553
00:43:42.239 --> 00:43:44.920
it. What do you hope to
do in it? So it's utterly mind

554
00:43:45.000 --> 00:43:51.719
numbingly terrifying. Can we add those
yes adjectives? Please? Yeah? So

555
00:43:51.840 --> 00:43:55.000
I hope I can transform myself one
more time. I do want to use

556
00:43:55.000 --> 00:43:59.320
this book. So to just let
you in, how does a non English

557
00:43:59.400 --> 00:44:04.480
speak, actually get to write sixty
eight thousand were two hundred and fifty page

558
00:44:04.519 --> 00:44:08.719
book. Well slowly number one,
and then over three years, every night

559
00:44:08.920 --> 00:44:13.880
because by day I am selling real
estate and I also have two kids.

560
00:44:14.480 --> 00:44:17.840
But slowly, over the course of
three years, I learned fluency. And

561
00:44:17.920 --> 00:44:22.039
it started because I was afraid I
was going to die, and I was

562
00:44:22.159 --> 00:44:25.599
terrified that my children wouldn't know me, and having grown up with really no

563
00:44:25.760 --> 00:44:30.840
family, I knew that the only
way I could share with them my story

564
00:44:30.039 --> 00:44:34.559
was to tell it to them,
and that's where the journey started. It

565
00:44:34.639 --> 00:44:40.000
was very rough the first year.
The second year I learned similes and alliteration.

566
00:44:40.719 --> 00:44:45.280
Metaphors are still a little out of
my reach. Maybe by my second

567
00:44:45.280 --> 00:44:52.239
book I master that skill. And
then a year ago I embarked on a

568
00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:59.000
very transformational journey because I decided to
also record an audio version of my book,

569
00:44:59.079 --> 00:45:04.920
narrated by the author me. And
it was terrifying, beyond belief,

570
00:45:05.039 --> 00:45:08.679
standing in a recording booth trying to
learn how to be a voiceover actor,

571
00:45:08.840 --> 00:45:12.480
because you can't just read the book, I mean, people will fall asleep

572
00:45:12.519 --> 00:45:17.199
for Hiven's sake, And by standing
in that booth, for many many months,

573
00:45:17.400 --> 00:45:22.360
every week for an hour, I
learned my voice, and I learned

574
00:45:22.360 --> 00:45:24.960
how to tell my story, and
I learned how I wanted to tell my

575
00:45:25.039 --> 00:45:30.039
story. And that's when I turned
to my editor and I said, well,

576
00:45:30.079 --> 00:45:32.159
my book is not going to have
any chapter. She said, well,

577
00:45:32.199 --> 00:45:35.880
you can't write a book without chapters. I'm like, well, watch

578
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:40.519
me, We're going to have three
acts. And anyways, my proudest moment

579
00:45:42.039 --> 00:45:44.440
is going to be, well,
I'm so proud. In about a month,

580
00:45:44.559 --> 00:45:49.920
we will be publishing the audio audible. And that was really giving birth

581
00:45:49.960 --> 00:45:52.679
to a third child. I can
well imagine. As you know, I've

582
00:45:52.679 --> 00:45:57.800
been working on my book for a
couple of years now too, so I

583
00:45:57.840 --> 00:46:00.719
hope it's on a similar timeline as
yours. You took you three years now

584
00:46:00.760 --> 00:46:04.800
might get me longer. But you've
already been asked to speak to audiences about

585
00:46:04.800 --> 00:46:07.159
the book. People already come in
to saying, come talk to us about

586
00:46:07.199 --> 00:46:09.320
this, tell us the story.
How do you plan to take this new

587
00:46:09.400 --> 00:46:14.440
venture forth in your life professionally,
Well, I want to use the book

588
00:46:14.480 --> 00:46:17.079
to launch a public speaking career because
I do want to tell my story.

589
00:46:17.239 --> 00:46:22.320
I do feel so many of us
grew up with you know, we all

590
00:46:22.320 --> 00:46:27.199
have stories. We all have you
know, bad childhoods, or we've been

591
00:46:27.280 --> 00:46:31.719
hurt, We've been you know,
felt unworthy, unloved and abandoned. And

592
00:46:31.760 --> 00:46:37.159
I think in this last next phase, I really want to reach out to

593
00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:42.280
people to where just knowing that you're
not alone, just knowing you connected.

594
00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:47.480
It's really come down to me to
connection. I'm a storyteller, and our

595
00:46:47.519 --> 00:46:53.239
stories tie us together. And it's
some very powerful for me to stand in

596
00:46:53.280 --> 00:46:58.920
a room looking out with people and
connecting to them through by being willing to

597
00:46:58.960 --> 00:47:04.960
be authentic and vulnerable and sharing with
them my road to worthiness. It is

598
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a universal condition, in my opinion, incredibly beautiful and also something that I

599
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want to present for the listeners is
something I say often when I'm doing a

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program or speaking to other groups,
as I talk about the fact that our

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life stories really represent who we are, our identities, and because there are

602
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life stories and we are the authors, we can always rewrite our life story

603
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however we want. And I truly
think if you stop being afraid of failure,

604
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you know I have no embarrassment left
after sharing my intimate thoughts and the

605
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story of my life with strangers.
I might as well go sit at the

606
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mall but naked, because they just
know secrets left. But you know what,

607
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with that comes liberation, because I
don't care anymore what people think,

608
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and just within there lies a powerful
transformation in itself. Those lines one of

609
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the other things as I think about
your new journey going forward, Hinda,

610
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and what you're planning to do,
coming out as a speaker and going to

611
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present, I know because of the
research that I've been doing that work can

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give us lots of different kinds of
things beyond just a paycheck. It can

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give us our identities, It can
give us connection, It can give us

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a sense of purpose. I feel
I live my purpose through the work that

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I do in my various channels.
So there's lots of things that work can

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give us. What do you hope
this new venture will bring you for you?

617
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You know, I don't think there's
just one thing. Obviously, I

618
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will keep writing. I think what
I want more than anything is to be

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free from location. I'm a nomad. I'm happy when I roam my beautiful

620
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world, and I want to see
as many sunsets and sunrises over as many

621
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mountaintops and oceans as I can,
and for me to be able to do

622
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that. I don't want to need
Wi Fi anymore, and so ultimately,

623
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as much as I love really state, I have eighteen months before my daughter

624
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graduates from high school, and I'm
an empty Nesta and I will give everything

625
00:49:07.599 --> 00:49:12.719
and work as many hours as it's
necessary for the next eighteen months to see

626
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if I can realize this dream.
And I have no doubt that I will.

627
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Why would I not do this one
thing one more time? So that's

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my dream, to be free from
just having to live in one place.

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Because visual is so important. Paint
that picture for our listeners. Tell us

630
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what it looks like when you've become
free from time and Wi Fi and place.

631
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What does your life look like?
What are you doing? I want

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to travel the world and talk to
women about empowerment because I do believe there

633
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is a lot of women, not
just in this country but across the world

634
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that are emerging and discovering the power
of just being a woman. You know,

635
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it's a great time in our lives. I'm a hashtag me too also

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and from thanks to my stepfather,
But I would love to travel the Third

637
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World, particularly Africa and emerging cultures
and go speak to women I'm African at

638
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the end of the day, and
so I would love to spend time in

639
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Africa, and you know, just
I don't know, go to Venice for

640
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three months and learn Italian and go
to Bangkok, which I love, and

641
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just gorge myself on street food,
or you know, ride on horseback with

642
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the Great Migration from the Massamara to
Serengetti, or just sit in a little

643
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house in Cape Town overlooking the ocean. I don't know. I the world

644
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is my oyster. How beautiful is
that? And I wanted you to share

645
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that because it's so important to dream. It's so so important. I know

646
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so many people not I do just
know people. I know of so many

647
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people, and it's very sad that
literally are walking through life really dead.

648
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They're waiting for the end of the
day. They're waiting for the end of

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the week so they can really start
their life. And I really want for

650
00:51:21.800 --> 00:51:22.760
part of the reason I wanted to
have you on the showhand is I think

651
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that you represent such possibility for people. When they can access and hear your

652
00:51:28.159 --> 00:51:31.880
story, there's hope for them that
there really is possibility out there. We

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00:51:31.960 --> 00:51:36.960
can't wait to start living our life. You know, I have three peoples

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next to my bed, and they
represent each of them are the ten summers

655
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I have left in a fortunate man's
life, and I see them every morning.

656
00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:49.840
I have twenty eight summers left if
I'm lucky. Yeah, we need

657
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to take it serious. It's here
and now and burn the boats. You

658
00:51:53.559 --> 00:51:59.760
know it work for the Vikings.
I've burnt my boats. They have flamed.

659
00:52:00.199 --> 00:52:05.800
There's no escape. I hete we
go. And I think there's something

660
00:52:05.880 --> 00:52:08.440
about commitment that you're talking about right
when you talk about committing something and then

661
00:52:08.639 --> 00:52:12.559
just going for it. Put your
head down and go for it, and

662
00:52:12.599 --> 00:52:17.159
don't give yourself an out. Yeah, just don't give yourself any excuse not

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to do it. There's a lot
more that you could probably say, but

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we're already just a couple of minutes
away from closing the show, and I

665
00:52:24.559 --> 00:52:29.599
like to give my guest the last
word, if you will, what would

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00:52:29.639 --> 00:52:31.000
you like to leave our listeners with
today? And say maybe about a minute

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00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:36.880
or so. So it took me
the best part of fifty years to be

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free of the weight and shame of
my childhood. And in my book they

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are many poems that matter really a
lot in my life. However, there's

670
00:52:45.320 --> 00:52:51.199
one that matters the most, and
it's by Raymond Carver Late Fragment. This

671
00:52:51.400 --> 00:52:53.840
was the last poem he ever wrote. He died when he was fifty years

672
00:52:53.840 --> 00:52:58.360
old. He wrote this the week
before his death. He died of breast

673
00:52:58.360 --> 00:53:02.400
cancer. I'm sorry cancer on cancer, and it really sums up for me

674
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:07.920
everything. And did you get what
you wanted from this life? Even so

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I did? And what did you
want to call myself beloved? To feel

676
00:53:15.840 --> 00:53:20.280
myself beloved on the earth? Oh? That is an incredibly beautiful Hinda,

677
00:53:21.599 --> 00:53:24.719
just like this conversation. I really
have enjoyed every moment of this. You

678
00:53:24.760 --> 00:53:28.719
and I have talked about many of
these things over and over again through the

679
00:53:28.800 --> 00:53:32.320
years we've known each other, and
getting to share you and your message with

680
00:53:32.360 --> 00:53:37.239
my listeners has really been a precious
treasure. Thank you. I'm so honored

681
00:53:37.239 --> 00:53:43.159
to be here listeners. I would
really like to encourage you to consider this

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00:53:43.360 --> 00:53:46.440
an introduction, so please, this
is we're opening the dialogue here and we

683
00:53:46.519 --> 00:53:51.079
always like to hear from you as
to what you got out of these conversations,

684
00:53:51.079 --> 00:53:53.400
So drop you can drop me a
line at Alice Cortes for on Twitter

685
00:53:54.280 --> 00:53:57.800
if you want to learn more.
About Hinda and interact with her, and

686
00:53:57.840 --> 00:54:00.480
I hope you absolutely will. The
best way to find her is one of

687
00:54:00.480 --> 00:54:05.880
her websites, which is Grit undermynails
dot com. So that's the name of

688
00:54:05.920 --> 00:54:10.000
her book, Grit undermnails dot com. And it would be great if you

689
00:54:10.039 --> 00:54:14.360
could just let her know what did, what did? What resonated about her

690
00:54:14.400 --> 00:54:15.760
message with you. Let's let her
know that, let me know that.

691
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And the book. The book is
on Amazon. The book is on Amazon.

692
00:54:20.400 --> 00:54:22.320
Please, yes, it's already out. Oh yes, yes, we

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published it this last month. Okay, great. Next week we will be

694
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on the air with Andrew Zince and
we'll be talking about leadership, emotional and

695
00:54:29.639 --> 00:54:32.079
relational intelligence for women and her new
book. She has one out as well.

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So you then remember that work is
at least one third of our life.

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So let's work on purpose. We
hope you've enjoyed this week's program.

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Be sure to tune into Working on
Purpose featuring your host Alis Cortes, every

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Wednesday at six pm Eastern Time three
pm Pacific time on the Voice America Empowerment

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Channel. This week, find your
life's purpose at work