March 9, 2022

Is Workplace Toxicity Killing Your Company?

Is Workplace Toxicity Killing Your Company?

Are you and your team willing to take personal risks for the sake of your company and its performance? No? Why not? Likely because there exists at least some element of workplace toxicity that is stifling innovation, collaboration, succession...

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Are you and your team willing to take personal risks for the sake of your company and its performance? No? Why not? Likely because there exists at least some element of workplace toxicity that is stifling innovation, collaboration, succession planning, and productivity. Particularly attuned to the critical effects of a toxic environment, Melanie spent more than 20 years of progressive corporate experience studying the impact leaders and workplace cultures have on employee security and performance. Through that effort, Melanie learned how to shape a corporate environment to manifest powerful teamwork, authentic communication, diverse creativity, and heartfelt loyalty.

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With us today is Melanie Pump.
She's the author of detos Managing Insecurity

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in the Workplace. She is also
the chief financial officer of brain Capital,

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a trusted independent partner for digital asset
custody. Today we'll be talking about the

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problem of toxicity in the workplace,
how toxicity impacts organizational performance, and what

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leaders can do to create a psychologically
safe workplace. Melanie joins us today from

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Toronto, Ontario and Canada. Melanie, Welcome to Working on Purpose. Hello,

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thanks so much for having me,
so welcome. I'm so happy to

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know you. We had to reschedule
around some of some COVID matters and you

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were so worth the wait. Well, thank you very much, thanks for

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rescheduling. Absolutely absolutely, So let's
start this conversation talking about where your book

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actually came from your own experience.
Of course, the best teacher that we

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could possibly have, and you talk
about in the book how you started,

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you know, really living on the
streets and your teams got into drugs.

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Your first employer was really supportive of
you going to get a bachelor's program.

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Then other employers along your way towards
your C state experience were not so supportive.

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So say a little bit more about, you know, just where this

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book came from and why you felt
like you needed to write it. Yeah,

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So now my childhood comes into it
in two places there. My family

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actually went bankrupt when I was very
young, and that's where it sort of

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sent off into turmoil and how I
ended up in that lifestyle for a short

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period of time. But during that
time I felt deep insecurity, as one

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would when they didn't didn't have a
home, and weren't sure what direction their

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life was going to go. You
know. Fortunately, I woke up and

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I realized that I had the power
to make change in my life, and

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I managed to get a job actually
working as a receptionist in an environmental engineering

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firm, and honestly, really by
luck, I fell into an environment where

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there were really supportive leaders who saw
the potential in me, even though at

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that point I didn't even have my
high school graduation. I didn't know what

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direction I wanted to go, but
they saw that I was smart, and

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they helped me build my confidence and
go back to school ultimately to get my

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bachelor's degree and my accounting designation,
which is what led me on this path

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to become a CFO. So there's
two things that I really saw there.

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For one, I can really identify
when people do feel insecure in the workplace

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because I understand it. But I
also really see the power of a healthy

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work environment because I could still be
at that receptionist desk if I had fallen

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into a work environment that was actually
toxic, that didn't help me build that

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confidence, and that really changed my
life. And then seeing later the contrast

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of these unhealthy workplaces and how it
keeps people hiding within themselves. It is

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part of what lit the passion to
write this book and my message out there,

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you know, and the work that
I get to do. Melody.

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I've developed a sense of being able
to really quickly spot, you know,

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people's superpowers, and you clearly have
a sensitivity intelligence as well that was probably

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incredibly refined, you know, and
molded in your personal experiences, right,

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you just have this ability to sense
things on a really deep level, both

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for the good stuff as well as
the bad stuff. Yeah, I think

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there's some real truth in that,
because especially if you if you grow up

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in some threatening environments, you learn
to be attuned to what's happening around you

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and what's happening and the people around
you. So I, you know,

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I would like to think I've taken
that and turned it into some good because

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it's made me more perceptive in my
work environments and also to really understand what

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my employees need as well to be
a more empathetic leader. M part of

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the gift of life, however,
it serves it up to us, right,

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how we can equally uniquely see things. So one of the things that

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you do in your book, which
I really appreciated, as you know,

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of course I read your book cover
to cover, is I do for all

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my guests that's your part of my
learning journey. Is you've got a very

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specific distinction in how you define insecurity
that I think is interesting. Here would

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you speak to that? I think
that it's compelling. How you Yeah,

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do you want me to read that
definition? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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So I defined it. So my
definition of insecurity is a feeling of danger

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or vulnerability a feeling that our mental
or physical state is at risk, and

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the feeling may be rooted in a
lack of confidence in our abilities, uncertainty

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about our future, or the perception
of threats in our environment. And I

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chose to put it that way because
I think it's actually important to draw the

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comparison between feeling physically insecure and feeling
mentally or psychologically in scare psychologically unsafe,

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because there really are similarities in the
way that we that we react like.

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We will stand back, both physically
and mentally if we feel that we're if

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the en is insecure and we feel
at risk. So I do try to

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point that out a few times in
my book, is that there are real

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comparisons and we can't always control if
we feel unsafe, whether it's mentally or

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physically, we'll react with defense mechanisms. The listeners and viewers, as you're

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listening to this conversation, I want
you to pay attention to really what she

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is. She's adding distinction too,
because I think that many people don't recognize

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that one they are in a toxic
environment, or two that they, as

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a leader, are actually contributing to
a toxic environment. So pay attention to

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how she starts to distinguish this stuff. It's pretty pretty fascinating thing. So

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the next thing that you talk about
that I think is really interesting, says,

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right now we're talking about the problem
of toxic work environment, so really

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distinguishing that for our listeners and viewers. And you say a toxic work environment

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is not damaging to employees alone.
You say, you passionately believe that as

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it stands, many corporate leaders are
doing a disservice to employees, businesses,

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and investors by tolerating harmful conduct in
the workplace and accepting unhealthy work environments.

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Yeah. So, and this comes
from having seen in work environments that leaders

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too often accept behaviors that are actually
damaging and create toxicity in the workplace.

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And where I've seen this most often
occur is where let's say it's a high

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it's a high performer, so it's
somebody that is perceived as adding value to

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the organization, so it's sort of
let go that they're alto that they're damaging

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their coworkers or creating toxicity in the
environment. Or it can be in an

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organization that is actually doing well financially
and maybe even beating their targets. So

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it gets overlooked that there's this toxicity
in the environment. But what is what

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is not being seen is that employees, all of your employees won't won't breach

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their full potential if an environment is
toxic. So even if you have one

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high performer who is doing really well, everybody around them isn't reaching their full

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potential and you may actually be losing
some other high performers who don't want to

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work in that kind of toxic work
environment. So really, no matter how

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high somebody's performance is, it's not
worth the impact that they have broadly across

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the organization. I have been brought
in organizations many times because there's a problem

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child and you know, let's bring
in the consultant to relay the message,

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because oftentimes the leadership team doesn't feel
capable of doing that or is afraid of

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that person, right, And it's
just it's it's really, it's really a

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problem, and to your point,
it needs to be addressed so you're not

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running off perfectly other great talent or
for customers for that matter, right,

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and or damaging the reputation of the
business as well, so you don't even

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get the opportunity to hire other really
high performers that you would love to have

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on your team, but they don't
apply because they've heard about the environment exactly.

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And so then that also then speaks
to the next thing that is important

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to talk about is you know,
this just comes right into it. As

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you say, when people are afraid
to speak up, maybe they're around somebody

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who's toxic like this, they feel
insecure. Of course, issues are not

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addressed, right, so the real
stuff doesn't actually come to the surface,

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and the real opportunities, the real
problems don't really get addressed. And you

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say that some of the consequences of
this are lower productivity, lack of innovation,

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limited succession planning, limited collaboration,
lost opportunities, reduced towareness of organizational

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issues. So you know, there's
just so much. There's so many things

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that are problematic with a toxic environment. And I love that we're here helping

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our leaders, especially during the Great
Resignation when people are fleeing out the doors.

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There's probably some things going on there
that are contributing to that, not

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just better jobs around the corner.
Yeah, I agree. I mean,

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it really does seem like the pandemic
has given people an opportunity to take a

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look at what was working in their
life before and what isn't. And some

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don't want to go back to potentially
the environments that we're toxic. But as

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you say, it has broad impacts
across the organization. You know, innovation

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is so important in having a successful
business today, and if you have an

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environment where people are afraid to throw
out ideas or ask questions, that's really

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going to stunt the growth and the
innovation of the business, no question.

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I've seen it many many times in
my twenty five years that I've worked in

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the human capital I have seen it
many times over. When you walk into

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an organization, you can feel that
fear. Right. It's just that people

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are standing there. They're rigid in
their postures, and they're literally clinching their

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lips. You can see it's all
right there exactly and not interacting. I've

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had the exact same experience. If
you walk through an office that has a

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toxic work environment, people don't greet
you, They avoid making eye contact.

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That's a very very real thing,
and often people don't even know they're doing

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it. This is one of the
instinctive reactions to protect ourselves when we feel

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insecure in the workplace, we start
to limit our social interaction and we just

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don't engage. Yeah, and you
know, of course, one of the

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things that I find really interesting in
the work that I do is that,

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you know, I do work with
some really strong personalities. These people got

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to where they are because they have
some strength and some stamina, some resilience,

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you know, and and a lot
of them when not they founded companies.

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You know, that's just not for
the faint of heart, and they

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don't know how sometimes to move that
energy else, you know, to it

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to a different tenor if you will, with people. And I work with

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this all the time, so you've
experienced first firsthand from your own experience,

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and of course I know in your
various leadership positions you cycle through other companies

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that it was present for you too. Yeah, certainly. And although there

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is something between having a strong personality
and being toxic, like you know,

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leaders can learn to that absolutely and
and to be to be strong and be

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a powerful leader, but do it
without without diminishing others. There's definitely a

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way that that those can live together. Yeah, And at least one component

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of that, of course is adding
you know, at least some semblance of

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a layer of emotional intelligence. Right, So of course understanding your impact,

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because I think many leaders don't.
I don't realize the impact that it has

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if they have an outburst or or
speak really negatively to their teams. Right

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when you're the big guy or gal
on stage, you know your words carry

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a really big impact. That's why
I situated. What I said to the

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listeners the viewers at the beginning is
pay attention to this is might be happening

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in your organization, right, you're
not aware of it. So yeah,

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and you've reminded me of you know, one thing I do talk about in

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the book is jackal and hide.
And sometimes there's leaders who are eighty percent

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of the time really really great with
their teams and values align and they're supportive,

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but then ten twenty percent of the
time they're unpredictable, they fly off

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the handle. And then that ten
to twenty percent can actually be more damaging

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than if the person was just in
a bad mood all of the time,

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because when people don't know what to
expect from from their leader, and they

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know they could be lashed out at
any time, that leaves them walking on

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eggshells and that's an extremely uncomfortable environment
for employees to be in. Yeah,

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I have been those environments. Is
awful, terrible for your health as well.

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And that gets us to this next
bit here, which really I found

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terribly flooring. You say that you
share that. In a twenty nineteen survey

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done by Robinson, they found that
ninety percent of the respondents had to experienced

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workplace bullying, and thirty nine percent
of those were bullied by a coworker,

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not a direct boss. Bullying is
a real problem in the world today.

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know, people not realizing the impacts
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don't even realize that they're bullying their
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passive aggressive or using language that is
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people or shuts them down. I
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realize. I think so too,
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Today is Melanie Pump. She is the

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and she's also the author of Detox
Managing Insecurity in the Workplace on Your

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Houset Doctor Release Cortes. So for
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wanted to talk about again how toxicity
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I wanted to get into something that
you really distinguished quite nicely. I've never

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seen this done this quite this way
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if we sense a threat that could
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or situation, we will put up
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passive aggressive behavior. And you say, in fact, this is how the

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work environment itself often becomes toxic.
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the toxicity spreads throughout the workplace.
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employees conduct, elicits from others,
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and feelings of insecurity will increase.
That is so powerful to recognize that a

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singular person in the organization can kick
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it's really been my experience, as
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feel insecure, our defense mechanisms kick
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one another defense mechanism actually, which
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If people are in a work environment
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get feedback, anytime somebody comes to
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is going to be closed and defensive. And that really is going to reduce

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collaboration, reduce social interaction across the
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to somebody who is defensive. Same
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there, passive aggressiveness. If we
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fearful of speaking directly. That's when
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an environment and you've you know,
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out an idea or given an opinion. You're going to stop doing that directly

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and instead you may do something like
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you may act like you do,
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it forward, to do the responsibilities
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kind of behaviors can create conflict between
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being lazy, when really that person
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of this can create a kind of
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about each other when really everybody is
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listeners and viewers, as you're listening
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in your environment, right, maybe
you've got people that are dragging if they

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said, you know, they get
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maybe they're not. Maybe that's an
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maybe really just in a one to
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an opening, inviting way. And
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because the other thing that will happen
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something in that environment, they're also
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for help. So again, they
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they may even avoid doing things because
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know how and don't want to say
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see somebody in your environment who isn't
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rather than just assuming it's because they're
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but are afraid to put up their
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so important, it's so so important. We sort of touched on this in

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talk about how some of those kind
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about how it impacts organizational performance,
so lower productivity. You start to mention

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that so people don't know what they
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asking for direction. That's one how
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when we feel insecure, we tend
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confecting yourself more than you are actually
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think about it, if you've been
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distracted by the fact that you're worried
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say something you ever get mad at
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on that task. Yeah. One
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about here is the limitation on succession
planning because from ployes to be ready to

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grow their career and take promotions,
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and trying new things. And in
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they're really going to limit that because
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something new. You also talk about
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feeling secure, they're not going to
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people can say and do things that
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in an insecure state, we're just
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the interaction so that there's lower risk
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damage our sense of security even further. You also talk about just to

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reduce awareness of organizational issues. Right, so people aren't going to speak up.

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somebody else get shut down because they
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to stop stop doing it, and
that's really damaging to a company. Leaders

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need to know when something isn't working
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been made. That can actually,
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in bankruptcy if if the leader isn't
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to talk about, I find this
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you know, you're talking about insecurity
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can diminish our natural tendency silencing extroverts
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cause us to hide and acting ways
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Will we aren't ourselves and driven by
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or it can be difficult to establish
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know this partially comes from my own
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naturally an extrovert. I really like
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team. But when I was in
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saw myself shutting down. I wasn't
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leader that I usually was because I
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defense mechanisms. And then I started
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People were just so reluctant to extend
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naturally work communicators weren't able to use
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overpowering it. Mm hm. So
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just said their melody, what that
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a bright and shine on hundred percent
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percent or four percent exactly. People
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environment. And the very reason somebody
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the environment could could diminish that m
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I stand for is championing people to
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it's a playground, and so your
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tool to be able to help develop
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organizations, what to pay attention to, and then of course what how to

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address that. So you also talk
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conduct that shuts down the sharing of
information. Right, So if people don't

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feel safe to share, or you
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kind of need to show your best
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keep your job, you might,
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your very colleagues that you're trying to
collaborate with, right exactly, because we

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all, you know, many of
most of us, we need our jobs

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to look after our families, and
so if you sent a danger in an

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environment, you know, it can
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for themselves rather than creating that supportive
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one another, you know. And
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have a toxic environment like this,
people also don't speak up about actually being

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bullied if they if they're fearful of
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go on for a very long time
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are going to leave and those who
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productivity than if they were in a
healthy environment. I think it would be

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helpful at this point mean for us
to maybe give a little more structure on

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just what we mean by bullying,
you know, talk to us a little

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bit more about how we recognize that
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obvious ones. I mean, somebody who

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is shaming of their employees and doing
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how they can improve. That's actually
a highly supportive leader. But somebody who

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does so in a way that is
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publicly so the employee can feel diminished
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is really bullying type behavior. Also, micromanaging can rise to can be a

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contributor to bullying because if somebody is
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demonstrating trust, so you know,
messaging them all the time, calling them,

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getting frustrated when they're not at their
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employee feels like they're sort of bound
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leader wants. That can actually be
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become very and secure feeling that they're
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everything a specific way or it might
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at people can can be extremely dysfunctional
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is bullying. There's no reason for
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One, as I said, I've
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say, Gosh, I really need
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and gosh, you know, just
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their next stand up, and I
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the problem I think, and I'd
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is people don't know how to communicate
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So we haven't learned how to address
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problem. I think that's one thing, right and and and therefore we haven't

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we haven't communicated that it's not it's
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are consequences to it. Yes,
would what would you say to Tom?

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it's difficult giving feedback. It's difficult
going into everybody that their behavior is

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damaging potentially damage to the work environment
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think a lot of people avoid giving
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that is that, like I said, sometimes people don't realize, like if

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somebody doesn't have a high level of
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their behavior actually is damaging to people. Right environment, we really do need

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to be giving that kind of feedback
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even out of kindness, giving the
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it. They may they may not
know. And also, you know,

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then this also ties back to organizations
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live by them, and when behaviors
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there are repercussions or feedback. Given
many organizations have values, they just sort

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of go up on a wall and
there really isn't any work putting in to

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ensure that they're lived in the company. But that is a clear way to

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demonstrate to people what behavior is acceptable
within the company and what isn't is highlighting

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those values and showing what that looks
like and what it doesn't. You brought

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up something really important that I want
to drill down on just for a second

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here a little bit further, and
that is that thing about being it's hard

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to give, you know, feedback, especially constructive feedback when when something's not

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going well, it is hard to
do that. And the best way to

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prepare for that is to is to
develop competency, which is training and practice.

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Right. I've had the tremendous privileged
melany over the years to work with,

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you know, in my leadership programs, invariably I'll be working one and

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with the leaders as well to give
them some coaching too. And I work

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with some amazing leaders over the years
have told me stories that when they've given

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feedback to employees, especially employees that
we're demonstrating, you know, destructive behaviors

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that were actually could be career limiting
that you know, here they are ten

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twenty years into their career. These
people and this manager has had developed the

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ability to be able to communicate tough
stuff, and they deliver this message.

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It says, you know, here
are the things that are derailing you.

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This is what's getting in the way
of you being promoted, et cetera.

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And this person is ten to twenty
years in their career, and they'll say,

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you are the first person to ever
tell me that. So everybody else

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gave us a pass, which is
not a service anybody, no, And

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I agree but I've seen the same
thing. I mean, it's actually quite

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rare to see a performance review that
has, you know, truly constructive feedback

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in it. We in general,
you know, we seem to have a

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hard time giving that. And I've
thought in my head around it by realizing

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that that is how you help people. You're not knowing somebody if you don't

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give them feedback that can help them
improve their performance. And it doesn't have

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to be negative, like, as
long as you can feedback with the best

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of intentions and doing it in a
way that's supportive, it actually doesn't have

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to land negatively if you can develop
that a trusting relationship with your employees.

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Yeah, the intention is so important, right, They will smell your intention

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before they ever hear your message.
Yeah, agreed. Yeah, so that's

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such an important thing to bring home
here as we talk about you know,

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insecurity in the workplace, toxicity in
the workplace, being able to develop you

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know, good communication, trust,
emotional intelligence, all these things can make

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such a difference. And then really, if we can borrow a little bit

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of your sensitivity intelligent to be aware
of what's going on in the organization,

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listen and feel the vibe, what
makes such a difference. Yeah. Absolutely,

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And you know it's not easy,
like it is difficult today. We're

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all under so much pressure and busy
and as leaders, it can be difficult

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to not become you know, have
those blinders on so you don't see but

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tying it back to the overall ormasy
your team and realizing that if you do

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those things and you develop those relationships, your team will actually perform better.

435
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Absolutely. On that note, let's
throb our last break. I'm Elise Cortez

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your host. We're going it on
the air with Melanie Pump. She's the

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author of Detals Managing Insecurity in the
Workplace. We've been talking about the how

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toxicity impacts organizational performance. After the
break, we're going to get into how

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can we actually create a psychologically safe
workplace. Stay with us, we'll be

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right back. Doctor Elise Cortes is
a management consultant specializing in meaning and purpose

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and inspirational speaker and author. She
helps companies visioneer for greater purpose among stakeholders

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and develop purpose inspired leadership and meaning
infused cultures that elevate fulfillment, performance,

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and commitment within the workforce. To
learn more or to invite Elise to speak

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to your organization, please visit her
at elisecortes dot com. Let's talk about

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how to get your employees working on
purpose. This is Working on Purpose with

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doctor Elise Cortes. To reach our
program today or open a conversation with Alise,

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send an email to Alise Alise at
elisecortes dot com. Now back to

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working on Purpose. Thanks for stating
with us. Welcome back to working on

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Purpose. One of the bit of
news I want to share with you before

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we get back into the program is
the indulogy that I've been curating has just

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been really slash fall. It's a
collection of twenty five stories from women across

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the world who share their intimate stories
of finding their purpose and what they're now

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doing to serve from it. I'm
so proud of it i could bust.

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It's called Passionately Striving and Why,
an anthology of women who purse remindily to

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live their purpose. It's on Amazon
and now I'm out there on the hunt

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for men to share their stories.
If you know anyone who has a story

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about discovering their purpose and serving from
it and happens to be of the male

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variety, I'd love to hear from
you if you're just joining the program.

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My guest is Melanie Pump. She's
a chief and officer of Brain Capital,

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a trusted independent partner for Digital Asset
Custody, and the author of Detox Managing

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Insecurity in the Workplace. I'm your
host, doctor Alice Cortes. So for

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this next segment here, let's let's
I always like to be able to end

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on a high note and also give
some tools to be able to address what

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we've been talking about. So now
we're going to focus on some ways to

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create a psychologically safe workplace. So
let's talk through a few of them first.

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Here, I've got a list of
easily six or seven that I want

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to at least get you to address. The first one of courses betoned from

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the top is important, yes,
and you know we've all heard that before,

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but I you know it's worth mentioning
again because it is so critically important.

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The leader at the top of the
organization believing in the power of a

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healthy work environment and understanding how that
will actually help the business grow and reach

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success is critically important because what they
do their behaviors sets the tone for the

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whole organization and flows down. It's
just like we talked about, you know,

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tox city spreads toxicity. Positivity spreads
positivity as well, and if you

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have that coming down from the very
top of the organization, it's really going

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to be powerful for the organization.
I totally agree with that. I like

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this one a lot. You talk
about the importance of accepting and even celebrating

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failures, bad ideas, and mistakes. I completely agree with that. Yeah,

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exactly, because what we don't want
is an environment where people are afraid

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to put up their hand when something's
gone wrong, or afraid when they have

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to say an idea when they have
one. You know, ultimately, sometimes

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really really amazing ideas start out is
really bad ideas. So you want an

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environment where people are comfortable on bringing
those up, so, you know,

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and one of the most powerful ways
to do this is for leaders themselves to

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talk about their own mistakes and even
you know, some of the areas of

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weaknesses as well, you know,
showing it is okay to be vulnerable.

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Often. You know, a founder's
story, for example, could have mistakes

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that happened along the way before they
found success. So building those kinds of

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things into the story is a really
good way of demonstrating that the organization knows

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that sometimes you need to make a
mistake in order to ultimately find success.

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So ways that a company can show
that and demonstrate it to their team can

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really shift a tale. So people
start to realize that it's okay if they're

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If they're not perfect all the time, none of us are not even any

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leader. Yeah for sure. Then
another another piece of advice that you offer

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is to value diversity and to promote
an inclusive environment. Yeah, because the

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sense of belonging is so important for
us to feel insecure. If somebody feels

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like they're not part of the you
know, the right group, or didn't

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go to the right school, or
doesn't have the right pedigree, that's just

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going to that's just going to make
them feel insecure in the environment. And

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any form of insecurity, whether it
comes from something in our past or something

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00:34:47.320 --> 00:34:52.039
that we're actually doing with our job, can start to build up those defense

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mechanisms. So we want to ensure
there's a sense of belonging in that nobody

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feels excluded in the workplace. Mm
hmm. My next one, I've really

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got some energy around you talk about
the importance of modernizing the human resource function.

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Yes, please stat yesterday please.
And and I've seen the you know,

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so I've worked in organizations with with
where they really prioritize the HR department.

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Of course, nowadays we call it
people in Performance or various other things,

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but most of us still recognize it
as HR. But it is so

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important. And if an organization doesn't
invest in their HR team, that is

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essentially sending a message to the company
that that people don't matter, that they're

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not prioritizing the culture. Certainly,
not every organization is of the size where

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they can have an HR department,
but you can still have somebody that is

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responsible for the culture and ensuring that
employees feel valued, and having a leader

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at the table whose priority the culture
is is critically important. Yeah, and

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I want to distinguish you know what
I what I mean by this too,

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is you know, you're not just
a focus on prosys and procedures, but

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what is the heartbeat of the organization. How are you stewarding the culture of

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the organization, not writing people up
for you know, when they make a

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great kind of thing. Yeah,
I think that's the right. So I

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want to make sure that we that
you understand what we mean by by modernizing

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the HR function because it may not
be it's not your space. There's the

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and it still does exist in many
companies today, that sort of old school

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HR where the HR person was only
responsible for hiring and firing and filling out

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documentation that changes along the way,
whereas today, you know, in a

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modern human resource department, the human
resource employees are responsible for helping leaders grow

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and ensuring the organization is structured properly
and that they're maximizing and helping employees reach

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their full potential. Yeah, that's
a great way to distinguish a MELI.

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And then this next one that you
talk about, which is critical here,

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establishing a process to address harmful behaviors
really important because you know we're going to

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come up right, ladies, y
right, because even even the best people

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sometimes can all of a sudden start
displaying harmful behavior. Like I do talk

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about this in the book. You
know, things happen in life where all

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of a sudden, we're not sleeping, and therefore our temper our views becomes

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really short. And if somebody doesn't
let you know, if your leader doesn't

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00:37:20.960 --> 00:37:22.280
let you know, you may not
be aware. As we've talked about of

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the impact that can be having on
your on your coworkers. So you know,

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addressing harmful behaviors doesn't have to mean
that somebody is given a reprimand and

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let go. It can just mean
that you're in an organization where it becomes

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normal to give feedback when somebody is
using a behavior that is not healthy for

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the work environment, or using a
behavior that doesn't align with the values.

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And a company that does that,
that's going to set a tone across the

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company and people are going to know
what's acceptable and what isn't. So it

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becomes a teaching not a punishing exactly. Yeah, at least at least to

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start with. Obviously, if if
people don't adjust their behaviors with what is

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acceptable in that organization, more change
may be required, but certainly as a

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starting point. Unless somebody, of
course is aggressively bullying or damaging the work

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environment. For someone, that's a
different story. But generally you want to

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be able to start by giving people
the opportunity to change their behavior and improve.

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And then the last one I wanted
to talk about here that you mentioned

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in your book is establishing a mental
health committee. Yeah, and this is

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new er, we're starting to see
it more. You know, I can

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00:38:31.320 --> 00:38:36.840
go back twenty years and we've always
had health and safety committees, even in

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offices where there was almost no danger
of anybody actually hurting themselves, but we

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00:38:40.320 --> 00:38:45.280
didn't focus on mental health, which
is really where there's greater dangers in many

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corporate environments. So today you're starting
to see more of these health committees making

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mental health part of their mandate or
actually creating a whole separate mental health committee,

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which can be very useful, especially
over the past couple of years when

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we had the pandemic and mental health
was even more important that a company was

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ensuring that they thought about their employees
and how they can support them from a

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mental health perspective during challenging times.
Yeah, it strikes me as just another

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level, like a different focus.
Another You know, the leaders are trying

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to champion the organization forward, but
if you have a committee focused on mental

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health and they can start to notice. Did you know that that Sarah has

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been coming in late the last two
weeks. What's interesting that's not like her

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well, you know, realizes it, like it makes it something that you're

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allowed to talk about rather than health
being a taboo topic. In fact,

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I really got present to this too, Melanie during the pandemic. Because the

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work that I do, especially as
an organizational logo therapist, that's the meaning

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piece of it. It does address
well being, and I knew how important

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that is and so anyway, so
that's part of what I also address sort

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of indirectly in the work that I
do as well. So the next thing

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00:39:52.960 --> 00:39:57.679
I want to talk about here is
your whole Chapter eight is focused on strategies

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to reduce workplace uncertainty. I think
that's really interesting points here that I think

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are we want to celebrate with our
with our listeners and viewers. But the

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first one, of course is smacked
down my lange, which I love,

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establish an authentic company identity. So
Withsion clear mission, absolutely agree more about

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that. Yeah, and you know
somebody might look at this and go,

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well, what does that have to
do with within security? But but the

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00:40:21.480 --> 00:40:23.840
reason is is, you know,
one thing that will make us feel insecure

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00:40:24.079 --> 00:40:29.239
is feeling is feeling a high level
of uncertainty. So if we don't know

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00:40:30.039 --> 00:40:32.760
what our company is doing, what
its mission is, how it's actually working

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00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:37.079
towards achieving that, that's going to
unsettle an employee and make them feel insecure,

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because how do they know that they're
contributing to the to the vision and

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00:40:40.119 --> 00:40:44.800
mission and that their job is safe
if they are not even clear on what

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00:40:44.920 --> 00:40:49.400
it is. And most companies have
a mission vision, but maybe they're not

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00:40:49.519 --> 00:40:52.119
revisiting it as often as they should, or reminding people of what it is,

587
00:40:52.440 --> 00:40:58.079
or actually speaking to employees about how
they're working towards achieving it and where

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they are in that path to achieve
it. So bringing employees essentially into the

589
00:41:01.559 --> 00:41:07.360
fold and making sure there's a clear
understanding across the organization of what the vision

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00:41:07.480 --> 00:41:10.960
is can really help to establish certainty, which is developing just a base level

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00:41:12.000 --> 00:41:15.079
of security across the organization that Okay, people know what's going on and that

592
00:41:15.239 --> 00:41:19.639
gives them some security. And I
know in the work that I do,

593
00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:22.920
Melanie, because I go into companies
and I help. Oftentimes it's it's it's

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interviews or surveys asking, you know, various questions about what is the purpose

595
00:41:27.079 --> 00:41:30.239
of this organization and when you get
things like I don't know or I think

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00:41:30.280 --> 00:41:34.840
it's this right, So there's an
opportunity to kind of educate that and then

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00:41:34.880 --> 00:41:37.519
when they when they are on the
same page, we take it to the

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next level way past insecurity and now
we're connected that you need the bass and

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the organization. They're part of something
bigger than themselves letely, and that leads

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to, you know, a greater
performance, people reaching their full potential.

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And it sounds like such an obvious
thing, but one thing that I've said

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that I have seen happen is sometimes
leaders just because the leader has it in

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their head, they know what the
mission is, vision is, so they

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just assume that everybody else does,
right, Yeah, because it's just it's

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just simp of how of course everybody
knows that, But really there can be

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nuances that are missed or or you
know, emphasis that needs to be had.

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So communicating that, probably more regularly
than than what leaders may actually think

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they need to, is valuable.
Yeah. And then let's not forget this

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little thing here. In this great
resignation, people are changing jobs. The

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likely that you've got some new people
on your team is very high, as

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you've had to replace those who went
out the door. It's need to be

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educated and brought into the fault.
Yeah, and that's onboarding. Like that's

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actually another really great point too,
is making sure that you're when people are

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being onboarded, that they're being these
things are being shared with them and that

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they're understanding, you know. And
onboarding is something that i've seen, you

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know, often not done very well
or it doesn't get quite the attention that

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it needs because we're all so busy. But really ensuring when a company,

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when somebody joins the company and they
understand what that company is about. But

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we'll really pay off m h.
And you did mention already, you know

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that the importance of establishing corporate values
and living them. And that's definitely an

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important part to be Actually in the
work that I do with clients, we

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socialize that even when we're recruiting,
of course, to make sure that there's

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an alignment there. But the other
thing that you talk about that's really critical

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too in terms of reducing workplace uncertainty
is ensuring that company objectives and individual goals

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are actually achievable and aligned. Yeah, and so these are communicating them,

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giving people, you know, for
one, some certainty that they know what

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the corporate objectives are along with their
individual objectives and also how what they're doing

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is going to support the achievement of
those ultimate corporate objectives. So for somebody

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to feel safe in their job.
They do need to understand why they're needed.

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So being able to align and you
know, and every department in a

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company is needed, but to be
able to just demonstrate as to why.

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I mean, the example I use
in the book is finance, because I

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am in finance and somebody you know, chipping away paying bills in finance may

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not always be able to connect to
the corporate objectives, but they really do.

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If a company's brand is really important. For example, ensuring that vendors

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are treated well and that bills are
paid on time can be really important to

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maintaining that healthy brand. So just
making some simple connections so each people understand

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each person understands how they contribute to
the company's overall objectives. And of course

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I completely align with that too with
my work and meeting and purpose as well.

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We're coming close to the end of
time here, I want to ask

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you a couple more things here.
Can you just speak to maybe just a

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couple ideas about how to create psychologically
healthy leadership. Yeah, so a big

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a lot of this does come back
to recruitment and making sure that you're really

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being thoughtful on of the people that
you bring onto the team and ensuring that

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we talk about values, making sure
that there's values alignment with each person that

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joins your team. Skill is obviously
important, but if you want a cohesive,

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healthy leadership team, it needs to
be people who will walk the values

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that you want within your organization.
Leaders are looked to for those to who

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model behavior, so you want to
ensure you bring the right people on the

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team and then when they're there,
also supporting them to ensure that they feel

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secure in their roles. And some
ways that I've seen this really work well

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as having coaching. Not every leader
needs coaching, but there certainly is times

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when they're going through something difficult and
maybe trying something they haven't before, having

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some outside council can really be helpful. And also for leadership teams in general,

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I've seen a lot of success with
facilitation and in ensuring that when a

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meeting is held, they come away
with powerful results and that people are connected.

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And this can happen much more when
there's facilitators helping support a leadership team

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to communicate and connect and create a
psychologically safe work environment. Yeah, helping

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to steward that I do a lot
of that kind of work. I completely

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agree as a third party. There's
so much that I can do to help

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Steward that I completely agree with that. Yeah, I have a whole chapter

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about helping to develop secure leader employee
relationships. I just want to reference that.

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We can't get into it at this
conversation, but I want to make

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sure that that our listeners and viewers
know that you've also addressed that as well.

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Some really powerful stuff in there.
As you know, Melanie, this

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show is list listen to by people
across the world. What would you like

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to leave them with? I think
you know one point that we touched on

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already is trying if there's somebody in
your organization that isn't behaving in a way

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that you think is correct for the
company, give them an opportunity. Consider

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that it may be because of,
for one, something that's happening in their

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own life, or maybe they're feeling
insecure in that work environment. And so

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before you know deciding that somebody is
a poor performer, look around and see

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if there's someboding you can do to
support them, if there may be something

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that's triggering that behavior, and if
the organization can make a change to help

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that employee be successful. I do
ultimately believe that we all have talents and

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we just need to be in the
right environment to help that talent come through.

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Beautiful way to finish. Melie,
thank you. I'm so glad I

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found you. You are now in
the fold and I appreciate being connected to

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00:47:02.079 --> 00:47:06.559
you. Thank you so much for
sharing your me, your heart, your

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soul, and your book. Thank
you listeners and viewers. If you want

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to learn more about Melodie Pump or
her book, you can go to a

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couple places. You can go to
our website, it's Melody Pump dot com.

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It's m E l A n I
E p U n p dot com.

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But better yet, go to LinkedIn
and look her up there Melody Pump

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on LinkedIn. That's the best way
to reach out. Last week, you've

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missed the live show, you can
always catch it be recorded podcast. We

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were on the air with Lori Van
talking about the importance of stewarting well being

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in the workplace. She taught us
that many millennials are especially out to change

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jobs in search of employers who care
about their well being. Quite quite an

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interesting aspect of the workplace to consider
in this employee driven marketplace. Next week

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we'll be on the air with doctor
Woody Woodward talking about the phenomenon that is

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perplexing so many companies today, the
great resignation. See you there. Remember

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that work is at least a third
of our life, So let's work on

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purpose. We hope you've enjoyed this
week's program. Be sure to tune in

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to Working on Purpose, featuring your
host, Doctor Elise Cortes, each week

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on the Voice America Empowerment Channel.
Together, we'll create a world where business

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operates conscientiously, leadership inspires impassioned performance, and employees are fulfilled in work that

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provides the meaning and purpose they crave. See you there, Let's work on Purpose.