March 9, 2022

Is Workplace Toxicity Killing Your Company?

Is Workplace Toxicity Killing Your Company?

Are you and your team willing to take personal risks for the sake of your company and its performance? No? Why not? Likely because there exists at least some element of workplace toxicity that is stifling innovation, collaboration, succession...

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Are you and your team willing to take personal risks for the sake of your company and its performance? No? Why not? Likely because there exists at least some element of workplace toxicity that is stifling innovation, collaboration, succession planning, and productivity. Particularly attuned to the critical effects of a toxic environment, Melanie spent more than 20 years of progressive corporate experience studying the impact leaders and workplace cultures have on employee security and performance. Through that effort, Melanie learned how to shape a corporate environment to manifest powerful teamwork, authentic communication, diverse creativity, and heartfelt loyalty.

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Welcome back to the Working on Purpose
Program. Thanks for tunity again this week.

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I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortez, joining you live from Dallas,

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Texas, which is home base for
me. Great to have you if you

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don't know me yet, I'm a
management consultant specializing and meaning and purpose,

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organizational logotherapist, inspirational speaker, social
scientist, and author. My team and

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I help companies discover and articulate their
purpose to thread it through culture and operations.

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We work with forward thinking or forward
reaching organizations to develop inspirational leaders who

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create cultures where people actually want to
come to work and do their best,

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and we provide programs like the Grab
Your Gusto that enable individual team members to

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discover and unleash their passionate purpose at
work to catalyze fulfillment, engagement, and

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productivity. You can learn more about
us and how we can work together at

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Alis Cortez dot com. With us
today is Melanie Pump. She's the author

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of Detox Managing Insecurity in the Workplace. She is also the chief financial officer

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of Brain Capital, a trusted independent
partner for Digital Asset Custody. Today we'll

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be talking about the problem of toxicity
in the workplace, how toxicity impacts organizational

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performance, and what leaders can do
to create a psychologically safe workplace. Melanie

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joins us today from Toronto, Ontario
and Canada. Melanie, Welcome to Working

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on Purpose. Hello, thanks so
much for having me. We're so welcome.

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I'm so happy to know you.
We had to reschedule around some of

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some COVID matters and you were so
worth the weight. Well, thank you

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very much and thanks for rescheduling.
Absolutely absolutely, So let's start this conversation

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talking about where your book actually came
from your own experience, of course,

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the best teacher that we could possibly
have, and you talk about in the

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book, how you started, you
know, really living on the streets and

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your teams, you got into drugs. Your first employer was really supportive of

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you going to get a bachelor's program. Then other employers along your way towards

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your ceased to experience were not so
supportive. So say a little bit more

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about, you know, just where
this book came from and why you felt

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like you needed to write it.
Yeah, so now now my childhood comes

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into it in two places. There. My family actually went bankrupt when I

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was very young, and that's where
it sort of sent off into turmoil and

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how I ended up in that lifestyle
for a short period of time. But

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during that time I felt deep insecurity, as one would when they didn't didn't

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have a home, and weren't sure
what direction their life was going to go.

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You know. Fortunately, I woke
up and I realized that I had

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the power to make change in my
life, and I managed to get a

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job actually working as a receptionist in
an environmental engineering firm, and honestly,

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really by luck, I fell into
an environment where there were really supportive leaders

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who saw the potential in me,
even though at that point I didn't even

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have my high school graduation. I
didn't know what direction I wanted to go,

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but they they saw that I was
smart, and they helped me build

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my confidence and go back to school
and ultimately to get my bachelor's degree and

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my accounting designation, which is what
led me on this path to become a

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CFO. So there's two things that
I really saw there. For one,

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I can really identify when people do
feel insecure in the workplace because I understand

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it. But I also really see
the power of a healthy work environment because

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I could still be at that receptionist
desk if I had fallen into a work

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environment that was actually toxic, that
didn't help me build that confidence, and

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that really changed my life. And
then seeing later the contrast of these unhealthy

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workplaces and how it keeps people hiding
within themselves. It is part of what

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you lit the passion to write this
book and my message out there. M

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You know, in no work that
I get to do melody, I have

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a I've developed a sense of being
able to really quickly spot, you know,

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people's superpowers, and you clearly have
a sensitivity intelligence as well that was

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probably incredibly refined, you know,
and molded in your personal experiences, Right,

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you just have this ability to to
sense things on a really deep level,

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both for the good stuff as well
as the bad stuff. Yeah.

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I think there's some real truth in
that, because especially if you if you're

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you grow up in some threatening environments, you learn to be attuned to what's

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happening around you and what's happening and
the people around you. So I,

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you know, I would like to
think I've taken that and turned it into

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some good because it's made me more
perceptive in my work environments and also to

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really understand what my employees need as
well to be a more empathetic leader.

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Part of the gift of life,
how whever it serves it up to us,

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right, how we can equally uniquely
see things. So one of the

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things that you do in your book, which I really appreciate it, as

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you know, of course, I
wrote your book cover to cover as I

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for all my guests. That's your
part of my learning journey. As You've

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got a very specific distinction. And
how you define insecurity that I think is

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interesting here would you speak to that? I think that it's compelling. How

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you Yeah, do you want me
to read that definition? Yeah? Yeah,

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yeah, So I define it.
So my definition of insecurity is a

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feeling of danger or vulnerability, of
feeling that our mental or physical state is

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at risk. And the feeling may
be rooted in the lack of confidence in

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our abilities, uncertainty about our future, or the perception of threats in our

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environment. And I chose to put
it that way because I think it's actually

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important to draw the comparison between feeling
physically insecure and feeling mentally or psychologically and

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scare psychologically unsafe, because there really
are similarities in the way that we that

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we react like. We will stand
back both physically and mentally if we feel

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that we're in If the VI is
insecuring, we feel at risk. So

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I do try to point that out
a few times in my book, is

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that there are real comparisons, and
we can't always control if we feel unsafe,

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whether it's mentally or physically, we'll
react with defense mechanisms. The listeners

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and viewers, as you're listening to
this conversation, I want you to pay

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attention to really what she is.
She's adding distinction too, because I think

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that many people don't recognize that one
they are in a toxic environment, or

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two that they as a leader are
actually contributing to a toxic environment. So

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pay attention to how she starts to
distinguish this stuff. It's pretty fascinating thing.

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So the next thing that you talk
about that I think is really interesting,

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says, right now we're talking about
the problem of toxic work environment,

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so really distinguishing that for our listeners
and viewers. And you say a toxic

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work environment is not damaging to employees
alone. You say, you passionately believe

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that as it stands, many corporate
leaders are doing a disservice to employees,

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businesses, and investors by tolerating harmful
conduct in the workplace and accepting unhealthy work

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environments. Yeah. So, and
this comes from having seen in work environments

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that leaders too often accept behaviors that
are actually damaging and create toxicity in the

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workplace. And where I've seen this
most often occur is where let's say it's

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a high it's a high performer,
so it's somebody that is perceived as adding

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value to the organization. So it's
sort of let go that there that they're

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also that they're damaging their coworkers or
creating toxicity in the environment, or it

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can be in an organization that is
actually doing well financially and maybe even beating

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their targets. So it gets overlooked
that there's this toxicity in the environment.

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But what is not being seen is
that employees, all of your employees won't

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won't reach their full potential if an
environment is toxic. So even if you

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have one high performer who is doing
really well, everybody around them isn't reaching

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their full potential and you may actually
be losing some other high performers who don't

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want to work in that kind of
toxic work environment. So really, no

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matter how high somebody's performances, it's
not worth the impact that they have broadly

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across the organization. I have been
brought in organizations many times because there's a

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problem child, and you know,
let's bring in the consultant to relay the

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message, because oftentimes the leadership team
doesn't feel capable of doing that or is

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afraid of that person, right,
And it's just it's it's really, it's

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really a problem, and to your
point, it needs to be addressed to

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that you're not running off perfectly other
great talent or for customers for that matter,

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right and or damaging the reputation of
the business as well, So you

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don't even get the opportunity to hire
other really high performers that you would love

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to have on your team, but
they don't apply because they've heard about the

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environment exactly. And so then that
also then speaks to the next thing that

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is important to talk about is you
know, this just comes right into it

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is you say, when people are
afraid to speak up and they're around somebody

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who's toxic like this, they feel
insecure. Of course, issues are not

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addressed, right, so the real
stuff doesn't actually come to the surface,

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and the real opportunities, the real
problems don't really get get addressed. And

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you say that some of the consequences
of this are lower productivity, lack of

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innovation, limited succession planning, limited
collaboration, lost opportunities, reduced to wardness

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of organizational issues. So you know, there's just so much there's so many

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things that are problematic with a toxic
environment. And I love that we're here

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helping our leaders, especially during the
Great Resignation when people are fleeing out the

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doors. There's probably some things going
on there that are contributing to that,

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not just better jobs around the corner. Yeah, I agree, I mean,

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it really does seem like the pandemic
has given people an opportunity to take

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a look at what was working in
their life before and what isn't. And

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some don't want to go back to
potentially environments that were toxic. But as

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you say, it has broad impacts
across the organization. Innovation is so important

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and having a successful business today,
and if you have an environment where people

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are afraid to throw out ideas or
ask questions, that's really going to stunt

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the growth and innovation of the business, no question. I've seen it many

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many times in my twenty five years
that I've worked on the human capital space,

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I have seen it many times over
when you walk into an organization,

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you can feel that fear. Right, It's just that people are standing there.

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They're they're rigid and their postures and
they're literally clinching their lips. You

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can see it. It's all right
there exactly and not interacting. I've had

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the exact same experience. If you
walk through an office that has a toxic

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work environment, people don't greet you, they avoid making eye contact. That's

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a very very real thing, and
often people don't even know they're doing it.

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This is one of the instinctive reactions
to protect ourselves. When we feel

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insecure in the workplace, we start
to limit our social interaction and we just

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don't engage. Yeah, and you
know, of course, one of the

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things that I find really interesting in
the work that I do is that,

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you know, I do work with
some really strong personalities. These people got

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to where they are because they have
some some strength and some staminas and resilience,

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you know, And and a lot
of them were not they founded companies.

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You know, that's just not for
the faint of heart, and they

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don't know how sometimes to move that
energy else, you know, to it

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a different tenor if you will,
with people. And I work with this

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all the time. So you've experienced
first firsthand for from your own experience,

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and of course I know in your
various leadership positions you've cycled through other companies

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that it was present for you too. Yeah, certainly. And although there

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is something between having a strong personality
and being toxic, like you know,

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leaders can learn to bat soarly and
and to be to be strong and be

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a powerful leader, but do it
without without diminishing others. There's definitely a

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way that that those can live together. Yeah, and at least one component

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of that, of course, is
adding you know, at least some semblance

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of a layer of emotional intelligence.
Right, So, of course I understanding

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your impact because I think many leaders
don't. I don't realize the impact that

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it has if they have an outburst
or or speak really negatively to their teams.

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Right when you're the big guy or
gal on stage, you know,

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your words carry a really big impact. That's why I situated. What I

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said to the listeners and viewers at
the beginning is pay attention to this might

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be happening in your organization. You're
not aware of it. So yeah,

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and you've reminded me of you know, one thing I do talk about in

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the book is is jackal and hide. And sometimes there's leaders who are eighty

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percent of the time really really great
with their teams and values align and they're

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supportive, but then ten twenty percent
of the time they're unpredictable, they fly

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off the handle. And then that
ten to twenty percent can actually be more

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damaging than if the person was just
in a bad mood all of the time,

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because when people don't know what to
expect from from their leader and they

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know they could be lashed out at
any time. That leaves them walking on

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eggshells, and that's an extremely uncomfortable
environment for employees to be in. Yeah.

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I have been those environments. It
is awful, terrible for your health

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as well. And that gets us
to this next bit here, which really

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I found terribly flooring. You say
that, you share that. In a

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twenty nineteen survey done by Robinson,
they found that ninety percent of their respondents

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had to experienced workplace bullying, and
thirty nine percent of those we're bullied by

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a coworker, not a direct boss. Bulling is a real problem in the

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world today. Yeah, it really
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also, you know, people not
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passive aggressive or using language that is
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them down. I think it happens
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think so too, thanks to this
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author of Detox Managing Insecurity in the
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of toxic work environments. After the
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toxicity impacts organizational performance. Stay with
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Today is Melanie Pump. She is the

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and she's also the author of Detox
Managing Insecurity in the Workplace on your

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host, Doctor Elias Cortez. So
for this next section here, Melanie,

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I wanted to talk about again how
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I wanted to get into something that
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never seen this done this quite this
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if we sense a threat that could
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environment or situation, we will put
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passive aggressive behavior. And you say, in fact, this is how the

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work environment itself often becomes toxic.
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but the toxicity spreads throughout the workplace
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conduct elicits from others. Everyone in
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of insecurity will increase. That is
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in the organization can kick off this
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been my experience. And as we
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when we feel insecure, our defense
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but often like one another defense mechanism
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in itself. Are in a work
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get feedback, anytime somebody comes to
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is going to be closed and defensive. And that really is going to reduce

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collaboration, reduce social interaction across the
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to somebody who is defensive. Same
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their passive aggressiveness. If we feel
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of speaking directly that's when we use
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environment and you've you know, you've
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an idea or given an opinion,
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instead you may do something like if
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may act like you do, but
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forward, to do the responsibilities you
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of behaviors can create conflict between co
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being lazy, when really that person
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of this can create a kind of
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about each other when really everybody is
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listeners and viewers, as you're listening
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in your environment, right, maybe
you've got people that are dragging if they

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said they get back what you want
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Maybe that's opportunity to go over there
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to one conversation what's going on here
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other thing that will happen is if
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that environment, they're also much less
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even avoid doing things because they're afraid
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and don't want to say so.
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in your environment who isn't doing something
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than just assuming it's because they're being
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be that they've just never done it
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are afraid to put up their hand
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it's so so important. We've sort
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segment here, but I wanted to
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feel insecure, that of course issues
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how some of those kind of manifests. Because this segment is really talking about

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how it impacts organizational performance, so
lower productivity. You start to mention that

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so people don't know what they need
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direction. That's one. How else
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we feel insecure, we tend to
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yourself more than you are actually your
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about it, if you're you've been
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getting distracted by the fact that you're
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or say something or get mad at
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on that task. Yeah. One
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about here is the limitation on succession
planning because from plays to be ready to

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grow their career and take promotions,
they need to have been open to learning

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and trying new things. And in
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they're really going to limit that because
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something new. You also talk about
limited collaboration. I suppose if people aren't

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feeling secure, they're not going to
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work with others as much. Definitely, I mean that the reality is this,

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sometimes people can say and do things
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already feel in an insecure state.
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and limit the interaction so that there's
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gonna you know, you know,
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people aren't going to speak up.
I'm not going to bring that up.

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I'm not going to tell the boss
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to get my head chopped off.
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seen whether ourselves or we see somebody
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problem, people are just going to
stop stop doing it, and that's really

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damaging to a company. Leaders need
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something has failed or mistakes have been
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that can end a company in bankruptcy
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when things are not going well.
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that I want to talk about,
I find this really really fascinating melody.

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So you know, you're talking about
insecurity talks. You're talking about insecure in

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toxicicity. But the insecurity piece I
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it can diminish our natural tendencies,
silencing extroverts and hindering otherwise great communication and

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collaborators. And you say, the
instinct is to protect ourselves. To protect

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ourselves can cause us to hide and
acting ways that don't reflect who we really

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are. Well, we aren't ourselves, and driven by defense mechanisms, working

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relationships can be damaged or it can
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Yeah, and you know this personally
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know, I am naturally an extrovert. I really like interacting with others and

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being part of a team. But
when I was in a really highly toxic

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work environment, I saw myself shutting
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the same type of leader that I
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most and use my defense mechanisms.
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in those around us. People were
just so reluctant to extend themselves that people

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who are who really naturally work communicators
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their protective instinct was overpowering it.
So that when I translate what you just

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said, their Melanie. What that
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a bright and shining one hundred percent
of a person, you get maybe fifty

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percent or four percent exactly. People
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environment. And the very reason somebody
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the environment could could diminish that,
you know, And of course what do

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I stand for is championing people to
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And a great place to do that
is at work, right, It's a

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it's a playground, and so your
message is just so important and a great

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tool to be able to help develop
first gain insight into what's going on in

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organizations, what to pay attention to, and then of course how to address

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that. So you also talk about
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that shuts down the sharing of information. Right, So if people don't feel

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safe share, or you're creating an
where it's so toxic that you know,

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you kind of need to show your
best value in order to feel like you

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can keep your job, you might
you know, be doing one up and

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ship against your very colleagues that you're
trying to collaborate with, right exactly,

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because we all, you know,
many of most of us. We need

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our jobs to look after our families. And so if you sent to danger

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in an environment, you know,
it can cause people to be selfish and

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look out for themselves rather than creating
that in supportive environment where each coworker is

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looking out for one another, you
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is when you have a toxic environment
like this, people also don't speak up

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about actually being bullied if they if
they're fearful of repercussions. A bully may

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actually be able to go on for
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it being spoken about. And really
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as good employees are going to leave
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to have much lower productivity than if
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think it would be helpful at this
point mal for us to maybe give a

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little more structure on just what we
mean by bullying. Can you know,

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talk to us a little bit more
about, you know, how would we

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recognize it bully? What does that
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some real obvious ones. I mean, somebody who is shaming of their employees

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and and doing so publicly so somebody
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not bullying to give somebody feedback and
let them know how they can improve.

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That's actually a highly supportive leader.
But somebody who does so in a way

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that is shaming the employee and also
potentially does that publicly so the employee can

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feel diminished in the eyes of their
co workers, that is really bullying type

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behavior. Also, micromanaging can rise
to can be a contributor to bullying because

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if somebody is always on top of
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you know, messaging them all the
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they're not at their desk, for
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sort of bound and have to do
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can actually be a form of bullying
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feeling that they're not trusted and that
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way, or it might result in
this shaming that can happen. And of

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course no just just using toxic behaviors
like like yelling at people can can be

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extremely dysfunctional and really damaging to an
employee's performance and is bullying. There's no

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reason for there to be yelling in
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to mind as you've been talking,
Melodie One. As I said, I've

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worked with I had I've had people
call me and say, gosh, I

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really need your help. I've got
this one employee and gosh, you know,

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just just causes everybody to have their
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And I don't know what to do
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I've discovered is that we what part
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think, and I'd love for you
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don't know how to communicate that that
behavior is not acceptable. So we haven't

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learned how to address that hard,
big elephant in the room problem. I

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think that's one thing, right and
and and therefore we haven't we haven't communicated

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that it's not it's not we'll be
tolerated, and that there are consequences to

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it. Yes, what would you
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general, it's difficult giving feedback.
It's difficult going into anybody that their behavior

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is damaging potentially damage into the work
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giving that kind of feedback and the danger

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and that is that, like I
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if somebody doesn't have a high level
of emotional intelligence, they may not realize

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that their behavior actually is damaging to
people right environments, right, But we

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really do need to be giving that
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opportunity, so even out of kindness, giving the person using that behavior the

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opportunity to correct it they may not
know. And also, you know,

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then this also ties back to organizations
having really clear values and ensuring that they

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live by them and when behaviors are
outside of that value system, that there

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are repercussions or feedback given. Many
organizations have values but just sort of go

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up on a wall and there really
isn't any work putting in to ensure that

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they're lived in the company. But
that is a clear way to demonstrate to

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people what behavior is acceptable within the
company and what isn't. Is highlighting those

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values and showing what that looks like
and what it doesn't. You brought up

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something really important that I want to
drill down on just for a second here

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a little bit further, and that
is that thing about being it's hard to

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give you feedback, especially constructive feedback, when when something's not going well.

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It is hard to do that.
And the best way to prepare for that

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is to is to develop competency,
which is training and practice. Right.

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I've had the tremendous privilege, Melany, over the years to work with my

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leadership programs. Invariably I'll be working
one and with the leaders as well to

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give them some coaching to and I
work with some amazing leaders over the years

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have told me stories that when they've
given feedback to employees, especially employees that

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we're demonstrating, you know, destructive
behaviors that were actually could be career limiting

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that you know, here they are
ten twenty years into their career. This

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these people and this manager has had
developed the ability to be able to communicate

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tough stuff and they deliver this message
that says, you know, here are

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the things that are derailing you,
this is what's getting in the way of

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you being promoted, et cetera.
And this person is ten to twenty years

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in their career, and they'll say, you are the first person to ever

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tell me that. So everybody else
gave us, gave us a pass,

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which is not a service, and
anybody no, And I agree, but

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I've seen the same thing. I
mean, it's actually quite rare to see

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a performance review that has, you
know, truly constructive feedback in it.

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We in general, you know,
we seem to have a hard time giving

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that. And I've I've thought in
my head around it by realizing that that

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that is how you help people,
and you're not ing somebody if you don't

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give them feedback that can help them
improve their performance. And it doesn't have

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to be negative, like, as
long as you feedback with the best of

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intentions and doing it in a way
that's supportive. It actually doesn't have to

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land negatively if you can develop a
trusting relationship with your employees. Yeah,

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the intention is so important, right
they will that will smell your intention before

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they ever hear your message. Yeah, agreed. Yeah, so that's such

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an important thing to to bring home
here as they talk about you know,

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insecurity, the workplace, toxicity in
the workplace, being able to develop you

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know, good communication, trust,
emotional intelligence, all these things can make

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such a difference. And then really, if we can borrow a little bit

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of your sensitivity intelligent to be aware
of what's going on in the organization.

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Listen and feel the vibe. What
makes such a difference. Yeah, it

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absolutely and you know it's it's not
easy, like it is difficult today.

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We're all under so much pressure and
dizzy and as leaders, it can be

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difficult to not become you know,
have those blinders on so you don't see.

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But but tying it back to the
overall ormazer team and realizing that if

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you do those things and you develop
those relationships, your team will actually perform

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better. M Absolutely. On that
note, let's have our last break.

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I'm Release Cortez, your host.
We're going on the air with Melanie Pumps.

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She's the author of Detox Managing Insecurity
in the Workplace. We've been talking

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about the toxicity impacts organizational performance.
After the break, we're gonna get into

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how can we actually create a psychologically
safe workplace. Stay with us, We'll

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be right back. Doctor. Release
Cortez is a management consultant specializing in meaning

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and purpose and inspirational speaker and author. She helps companies visioneer for greater purpose

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among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired leadership
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performance, and commitment within the workforce. To learn more or to invite a

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Lease to speak to your organization,
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Let us welcome back to working on
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if you're just joining the program.
My guest is Melanie Pump. She's a

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Chief finished officer of Brain Capital,
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and the author of Detox Managing Insecurity
in the Workplace. I'm your host,

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doctor Alice Cortez. So for this
next segment here, let's let's I

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always like to be able to end
on a high note and also give some

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tools to be able to address what
we've been talking about that we're going to

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focus on some ways to create a
psychologically safe workplace, So let's talk through

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a few of them first. Here, I've got a list of an easily

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six or seven that I want to
at least get you to address. The

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first one of courses, the tone
from the top is important, yes,

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and we've you know, we've all
heard that before, but you know it's

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worth mentioning again because it is so
critically important the leader at the top of

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the organization believing in the power of
a healthy work environment and understanding how that

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will actually help the business grow and
and reach success. Is critically important because

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what they do their behaviors sets the
tone for the whole organization and flows down.

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It's just like we talked about,
you know, talks city spreads toxicity,

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positivity spreads positivity as well, and
if you have that coming down from

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the very top of the organization,
it's really going to be powerful for the

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for the organization. Totally agree with
that. I like this one a lot.

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You talk about the importance of accepting
and even celebrating failures, bad ideas,

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and mistakes. I completely agree with
that. Yeah, exactly, because

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what we don't want is an environment
where people are afraid to put up their

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hand when something's gone wrong, or
afraid when they have to say an idea

484
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when they have one. You know, ultimately, sometimes really really amazing ideas

485
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start out is really bad ideas.
So you want an environment where people are

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comfortable on bringing those up, so, you know, and one of the

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most powerful ways to do this is
for leaders themselves to talk about their own

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mistakes and even you know, some
of the areas of weaknesses as well,

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you know, showing it is okay
to be vulnerable often, you know,

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a founder's story, for example,
could have mistakes that happened along the way

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before they found success. So building
those kinds of things into the story is

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a really good way of demonstrating that
the organization knows that sometimes you need to

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make a mistake in order to ultimately
find success. So ways that a company

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can show that and demonstrate it to
their team can really shift to talent.

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So people start to realize that it's
okay if they if they're not perfect all

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the time, none of us are
not even any leader, Yeah for sure.

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Then another another piece of advice that
to offer is to value diversity and

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to promote an inclusive environment. Yeah, because a sense of belonging is so

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important for us to feel insecure.
If somebody feels like they're not part of

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the you know, the right group, or didn't go to the right school,

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or doesn't have the right pedigree,
that's just gonna that's just going to

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make them feel insecure in the environment. And any form of insecurity, whether

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it comes from something in our past
or something that we're actually doing with our

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job, can start to build up
those defense mechanisms. So we want to

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ensure there's a sense of belonging and
that nobody feels excluded in the workplace.

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My next one, I've really got
some energy around you talk about the importance

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of modernizing the human resource function.
Yes, please stat yesterday please. Yeah,

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and I've seen the you know,
so I've worked in organizations with where

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they really prioritize the HR department.
Of course, nowadays we call it people

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on Performance or various other things,
but but most of us still recognize it

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as HR. But it is so
important. And if an organization doesn't invest

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in their HR team, that is
essentially sending a message to the company that

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that people don't matter, that they're
not prioritizing the culture. Certainly, not

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every organization is of the size where
they can have an HR department, but

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you can still have somebody that is
responsible for the culture and ensuring that employees

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feel valued and and having a leader
at the table whose priority the culture is

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is critically important. Yeah, and
I want to distinguish you know what I

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what I mean by this who is
you know, you're not just a focus

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on and procedures, but what is
the heartbeat of the organization? How are

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you starting the culture of the organization? Not writing people up for you know,

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when they make a kind of thing. Yeah, I think that's the

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goal, right, So I want
to make sure that you understand what we

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mean by by modernizing the HR function, because it may not be I say,

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it's not your spence. There's the
and it still does exist in many

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companies today, that sort of old
school HR where the HR person was only

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responsible for hiring and firing and filling
out documentation that changes along the way,

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whereas today, you know, in
a modern human resource department, the human

528
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resource employees are responsible for helping leaders
grow and organization is structured properly, and

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that they're maximizing and helping employees reach
our full potential. Yeah, that's a

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great way to distinguish it, MELI. And then this next one that you

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talk about, which is critical here, establishing process to address harmful behaviors really

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important because you know where you're going
to come up, right, ladies,

533
00:37:00.920 --> 00:37:07.119
Yeah, right, because even even
the best people sometimes can all of a

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sudden starts displaying harmful behavior. Like
I do talk about this in the book.

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You know, things happen in life
where all of a sudden, we're

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not sleeping and therefore our temper our
views becomes really short and if somebody doesn't

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let you know, if your leader
doesn't let you know, you may not

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be aware, as we've talked about
of the impact that can be having on

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your on your coworkers. So you
know, addressing harmful behaviors doesn't have to

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mean that somebody is given a reprimand
and let go. It can just mean

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that you're in an organization where it
becomes normal to give feedback when somebody is

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using a behavior that is not healthy
for the work environment, or using a

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behavior that doesn't align with the values. And a company that does that,

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that's going to set a tone across
the company, and people are going to

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know what's acceptable and what isn't.
So it becomes a teaching, not a

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punishing exactly. Yeah, at least
at least to start with. Obviously,

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if if people don't adjust their behaviors
with with what is acceptable in that organization,

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more change may be required, but
certainly as a starting point. Unless

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somebody, of course, is aggressively
bullying or damaging the work environment. For

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someone, that's a different story,
but generally you want to be able to

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start by giving people the opportunity to
change their behavior and improve. And then

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the last one I wanted to talk
about here that you mentioned in your book

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is establishing a mental health committee.
Yeah, and this is this is new,

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newer or starting to see it more. You know, I can go

555
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back twenty years and we've always had
health and safety committees, even in offices

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where there was almost no danger of
anybody actually hurting themselves, but we didn't

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focus on mental health, which is
really where there's greater dangers in many corporate

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environments. So today you're starting to
see more of these health committees making mental

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health part of their mandate or actually
creating a whole separate mental health committee,

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which can be very useful, especially
over the past couple of years when we

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had the pandemic and mental health was
even more important that a company was ensuring

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that they thought about their employees and
how they can support them from a mental

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health perspective during challenging times. Yeah, it strikes me as just another level,

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like a different focus. Another you
know, leaders who are trying to

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champion the organization forward, but if
you have a committee focused on mental health

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and they can start to notice.
Did you know that that Sarah's been coming

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in late the last two weeks,
So what's interesting that's that's not like her

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well you know, realizes it like
it makes it something that you're allowed to

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talk about rather than health being a
taboo topic. In fact, I really

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got present to this too, Melanie
during the pandemic because the work that I

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do, especially as an organizational logal
therapist, that's the meaning piece of it.

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It does address well being and I
knew how important that is and so

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anyway, so that's part of what
I also address sort of indirectly in the

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work that I do as well.
So the next thing I want to talk

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about here is your whole Chapter eight
is focused on strategies to reduce workplace uncertainty,

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and I think that's really interesting points
here that I think are we want

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to celebrate with our with our listeners
and viewers. The first one, of

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course, is smacked down my langu
which I love, establish an authentic company

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identity, so clear a clear mission. Absolutely agree more about that. Yeah,

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And you know, if somebody might
look at this, well, what

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does that have to do with within
security? But the reason is is,

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you know, one thing that will
make us feel insecure is is feeling a

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high level of uncertainty. So if
we don't know what are what our companies

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doing what it's mission is, how
it's actually working towards achieving that. That's

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going to unsettle an employee and make
them feel insecure because how do they know

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00:40:38.039 --> 00:40:43.039
that they're contributing to the to the
vision and mission and that their job is

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00:40:43.079 --> 00:40:45.960
safe if they are not even clear
on what it is. And most companies

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00:40:46.039 --> 00:40:50.840
have a mission vision, but maybe
they're not revisiting it as often as they

589
00:40:50.880 --> 00:40:53.840
should, or reminding people of what
it is, or actually speaking to employees

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about how they're working towards achieving it
and where they are in that past to

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achieve it. So bringing employees essentially
into the fold and making sure there's a

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clear understanding across the organization of what
division is can really help to establish certainty,

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which is developing just a base level
of security across the organization that Okay,

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people know what's going on and that
gives them some some security. And

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I know in the work that I
do, Melanie, because I go into

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companies and I help. Oftentimes it's
it's it's interviews or surveys, asking you

597
00:41:24.519 --> 00:41:28.480
know, various questions about what is
the purpose of this organization, and when

598
00:41:28.519 --> 00:41:31.280
you get things like I don't know
or I think it's this right, So

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there's an opportunity to kind of educate
that. And then when when they when

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they are on the same page,
we take it to the next level,

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way past insecurity, and now we're
connected that the balls and the organization they're

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part of something bigger than themselves solutely, and that leads to know a greater

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performance, people reaching their full potential. And it sounds like such an obvious

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thing, but but one thing that
I've that I have seen happen is sometimes

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leaders just because the leader has it
in their head, they know what the

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mission vision is, so they just
assume that everybody else does. Yeah,

607
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because it's just it's just simp of
of course everybody knows that. But really

608
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there can be nuances that are missed
or or you know, emphasis that needs

609
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to be had. So communicating that, probably more regularly than than what leaders

610
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may actually think they need to is
valuable. Yeah, and then let's not

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forget this little thing here. In
this great resignation, people are changing jobs.

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That likely that you've got some new
people on your team is very high,

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as you've had to replace those who
went out the doors to be educated

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and brought into the fault. Yeah, and that's onboarding. Like that's actually

615
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another really great point too, is
making sure that you're when people are being

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onboarded, that they're being these things
are being shared with them and that they're

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understanding, you know. And onboarding
is something that I've seen, you know,

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often not done very well or it
doesn't get quite the attention that it

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needs because we're all so busy.
But really ensuring when a company, when

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somebody joins a company and they understand
what that company is about, that will

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really pay off. And you did
mention already you know the importance of establishing

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corporate values and living them. And
that's definitely an important part to be Actually

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in the work that I do with
clients, we socialize that even when we're

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recruiting, of course, to make
sure that there's an alignment there. But

625
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the other thing that you talk about
that's really critical too in terms of reducing

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workplace and certainty is ensuring that company
objectives and individual goals are actually achievable and

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aligned. Yeah, and so these
are communicating them, giving people, you

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know, for one, some certainty
that they know what the corporate objectives are

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along with their individual objectives and also
how what they're doing is going to support

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the achievement of those ultimate ultimate corporate
objectives. So for something to feel safe

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in their job, they do need
to understand why they're needed. So being

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able to align and you know,
and every department in a company is needed,

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but to be able to just demonstrate
as to why. I mean,

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the example I use in the book
is finance, because I am in finance

635
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and somebody you know, chipping away
paying bills and finance may not always be

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able to connect to the corporate objectives, but they really do. If a

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00:44:00.039 --> 00:44:05.079
company's brand is really important. For
example, ensuring that vendors are treated well

638
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and that bills are paid on time
can be really important to maintaining that healthy

639
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brand. So just making some simple
connections so each people understand each person understands

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how they contribute to the company's overall
objectives. And of course I completely align

641
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with that too with my work and
meaning and purpose as well. We're coming

642
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close to the end of time here, I want to ask you a couple

643
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more things here. Can you just
speak to maybe just a couple ideas about

644
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how to create psychologically healthy leadership.
Yeah, so a lot of this does

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come back to recruitment and making sure
that you're really being thoughtful of the people

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that you bring onto the team and
ensuring that we talk about values, making

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sure that there's values alignment with each
person that joins your team. Skill is

648
00:44:49.639 --> 00:44:52.079
obviously important, but if you want
a cohesive, health, healthy leadership team,

649
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it needs to be people who will
walk the values that you want within

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your organization. Leaders are looked to
for those to whom model behavior, so

651
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you want to ensure you bring the
right people on the team and then when

652
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they're there, also supporting them to
ensure that they feel secure in their roles.

653
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And some ways that I've seen this
really work well is having coaching.

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Not every leader needs coaching, but
there certainly is times when they're going through

655
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something difficult to maybe trying something they
haven't before, having some outside counsel can

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00:45:24.519 --> 00:45:30.519
really be helpful. And also for
leadership teams in general, I've seen a

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lot of success with facilitation and ensuring
that when a meeting is held, they

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00:45:37.440 --> 00:45:40.360
come away with powerful results and that
people are connected. And this can happen

659
00:45:40.480 --> 00:45:46.440
much more when there's facilitators helping support
a leadership team to communicate and connect and

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00:45:46.639 --> 00:45:51.800
create a psychologically safe work environment.
Yeah, helping to steward that that I

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00:45:51.880 --> 00:45:53.239
do a lot of that kind of
work. I completely agree as a third

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00:45:53.280 --> 00:45:55.880
party. There's so much that I
can do to help steward that I completely

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00:45:55.880 --> 00:46:01.199
agree with that. Yeah, we
have a whole chapter about helping to develop

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secure leader employee relationships. I just
want to a reference that we can't get

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00:46:05.920 --> 00:46:07.679
into it at this conversation, but
I want to make sure that our listeners

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and viewers know that you've also addressed
that as well. Some really powerful stuff

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00:46:10.760 --> 00:46:15.880
in there. As you know,
Melody, this show is listening to listen

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to by people across the world.
We would like to leave them with.

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I think you know, one point
that we touched on already is trying if

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there's somebody in your organization that isn't
behaving in a way that you think is

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correct for the company, give them
an opportunity. Consider that it may be

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because of felt, for one,
something that's happening in their own life,

673
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or maybe they're feeling insecure in that
work environment. And so before you know

674
00:46:38.679 --> 00:46:43.840
deciding that somebody is a poor performer, look around and see if there's something

675
00:46:43.920 --> 00:46:45.559
you can do to support them.
If there may be something that's triggering that

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behavior and if the organization can make
a change to help that employee be successful.

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I do ultimately believe that we all
have talents and we just need to

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be in the right environment to help
that talent come through. Beautiful way to

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finish, Meloye, thank you.
I'm so glad I found you now you

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00:47:00.880 --> 00:47:02.320
are now in the fold and I
appreciate you being connected to you. Thank

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00:47:02.360 --> 00:47:07.559
you so much for sharing your your
heart, your soul, and your book.

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Thank you listeners and viewers. If
you want to learn more about Melody

683
00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:12.800
Pump or her book, you can
go to a couple of places. You

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00:47:12.880 --> 00:47:15.920
can go to our website, It's
Melody Pump dot com. It's m.

685
00:47:15.000 --> 00:47:20.440
E. L. A. Nie
Pump dot com. But better yet,

686
00:47:20.519 --> 00:47:22.599
go to LinkedIn and look her up
there Melody Pump on LinkedIn. That's the

687
00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:24.920
best way to reach out. Last
week, if you missed the live show,

688
00:47:24.960 --> 00:47:28.719
you can always catch it be recorded
podcast. We were on the ear

689
00:47:28.760 --> 00:47:31.360
with Lorie Van talking about the importance
of stewarding well being in the workplace.

690
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She taught us that many millennials are
especially out to change jobs in search of

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employers who care about their well being. Quite an interesting aspect of the workplace

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00:47:39.559 --> 00:47:43.719
to consider in this employee driven marketplace. Next week, we'll be on the

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ear with doctor Woody Woodward talking about
the phenomenon that's perplexing so many companies today,

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the great resignation. See you there. Remember that work is at least

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a third of our life, So
let's work on purpose. We hope you've

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enjoyed this week's program. Be sure
to tune into Working on Purpose featuring your

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host, Doctor Elise Cortez, each
week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel.

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Together, we'll create a world where
business operates conscientiously, leadership inspires impassioned performance,

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and employees are fulfilled in work that
provides the meaning and purpose They crave.

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See you there, Let's work on
Purpose.