July 31, 2019

Defining Your Truth Through Personal Branding and Photography

Defining Your Truth Through Personal Branding and Photography

Everyone deserves to have photos that are as impressive and beautiful as they are in real life. Capturing our “story” and who we really are as we live our purpose is incredibly compelling and ushers people toward us who opt into our energy and...

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Everyone deserves to have photos that are as impressive and beautiful as they are in real life. Capturing our “story” and who we really are as we live our purpose is incredibly compelling and ushers people toward us who opt into our energy and vitality. And doing ourselves justice means working with a professional who knows how to capture our truth and elicit our essence. This is an intimate, trusting, transformative interaction between you and the person who captures your soul. The resulting images attract magnetically to those who dwell, or desperately want to dwell, in your purposeful world.

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There are some people that make their
work just another thing they have to do,

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and there are those that make their
work something that they want to do.

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Welcome to Working on Purpose with your
host Elise Cortez. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration from those
people who have found deeper meaning and

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personal connection to their work life.
It's beyond nine to five. It's working

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on Purpose. Now Here is your
host, Elise Cortez. Welcome back to

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the Working on Purpose Show. Thanks
for tuning in again this week. I

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am your host, Elise Cortez,
johny Uli from Dallas, Texas, which

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is home base for me. If
you've been tuning in for a while,

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you know this program is all about
helping people create more meaningful and purposeful lives

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and equipping leaders inside organizations to cultivate
meaning and purpose that elicits passion inspired contribution,

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innovation, and persevering performance. I
talk with my guests, draw on

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their expertise, and share my own
experience consulting, speaking and developing workforces across

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the globe. Before we get into
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your journey, go to my website
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what's going on for you and how
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I'm glad we're connected and thanks for
listening. Now. If you want

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to join the chat room on the
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on your questions and comments and then
we're also doing a Facebook live stream so

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you can't be able to hear from
them as well. So with us today

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is Crystal don Garrell, a favorite
Texas portrait and wedding photographer, obsessed with

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crafts, good vibes, and preserving
precious memories. Crystal believes in clarity,

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not pseudo clarity, but the big
time One day will be my last kind

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of clarity, which constantly guides her
work. Definitely a young woman working from

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purpose. She joins it today from
my office right here at Student with me

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here in my office. We're doing
a Facebook live stream and we're going to

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talk about how she got into the
work that she's doing and what we can

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do to really express ourselves through our
personal brand, through our purpose and everything

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else that we're doing. Crystal,
welcome to working on purpose. Thank you

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so much, Elise, I'm so
excited to be here. I am too,

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And you know it's so great that
let's talk about how we met.

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So I always have to tell our
listeners how it is that I acquire these

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fantastic specimens of human beings that come
onto my show. Krista was minding her

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very own business when both of us
were at a Too Much Woman conference here

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in Dallas on May seventeenth. It's
the kind of conference where you've been told

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you're too much your whole life,
and that's where we found each other.

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And I am of somebody who really
opts into energy, and so when I

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feel like I'm being called by someone
or energy, I follow that energy.

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And so when you said, among
other things, that you are a wedding

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photographer, and I had, of
course recently become an ordained minister and want

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to be able to marry people.
I was asked by couple to do.

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So that's why it became ordained.
I thought, kiss, here we go,

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there's something here for us to play
with, and wouldn't it be fun

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to do something like this together and
have a partnership. So that's how it

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started. Yes, my experience at
that conference was first of all incredible.

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It was such a great group of
women, and they were all passionate and

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inspired. However, you stood out
to me amongst all of these passionate women

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as being somebody who I felt like
I could connect with and I felt at

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ease around you, and I felt
like we did have a really good synergy,

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especially with the weddings. That's something
that I was just telling you a

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little bit about earlier, was that
so often I see couples kind of just

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going through the motions at their wedding, and it would be really nice and

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a fresh breath of air to see
an ordained minister who can marry the couple

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and actually provide some type of like
real sacred experience for them that can carry

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on through the start of their marriage. And that is something that I'm really

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excited to do, is recommend you
to my couples. I work with a

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lot of fun and creative people too. I love this. It's just it's

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it's just it makes so much sense, and I'm so grateful that I was

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asked by this couple to marry them
earlier this year, and I'm just here.

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We are let's play perfect. Now. I know that you specialize in

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weddings and portraitures, so but you
also do the personal branding session, which

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is what I wanted to talk about
on the show today because I went through

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it with you. So as we
were going through our process of getting acquainted

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and seeing how we could explore our
partnership and being able to refer each other,

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we had to experience each other's work. Completely makes sense, right,

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So I had this fantastic experience with
you, which is part of the reason

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I wanted to have you on the
show. But I want to acknowledge that

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what you really specialize in is weddings
and portraiture. Hunters say that portraiture or

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twiture. Thank you goodness, gracious. I think it would be incredibly useful

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for our listeners and viewers to hear
why you chose to I'm a professional photographer.

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I know the story, but they
don't. Yeah, so it's a

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really big why for me and honestly
still makes me cry a lot, which

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is why I think it's a really
good I think I actually am fulfilling my

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purpose for the first time in so
many years. So my mom actually passed

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away when I was fourteen years old, and she was amazing. I tell

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everybody that she was like the best
mom ever. And I feel like so

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often mothers are the keepers of memories
for a family, and they turn into

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grandmothers, and then those grandmothers they're
the ones who passed down the legacy and

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share stories of their family for years
to come. So when I lost my

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mom, it's almost like I disassociated
from my childhood in so many ways that

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I felt like I was a completely
different person from when my mom was alive

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than when she passed. And so
I actually became really obsessed with preserving memories,

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and I started taking pictures of everybody
I love, because when somebody that

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you love passed away, the first
thing that you do, you know,

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is you look at their photos.
You remember their laugh and how it felt

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to be held by them. And
you know, all I had left of

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her was my memories, her photographs, and the stories that others were telling

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me. And so that's why I
really felt like I found my purpose as

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a family portrait photographer and a wedding
photographer, and I could actually offer something

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of huge tremendous value that I mean
not to get to, you know,

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grim with it, but I do
think about death and let clarity. That

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provides a lot of clarity for me. I think like, these are the

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pictures that are going to be with
them throughout the rest of their lives.

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One day, their kids are going
to be my age, and these are

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going to be their favorite pictures in
the entire world. That's what I hope.

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I love that. Let me let
me knowledge a couple of things that

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you said and respond companies, she
said, But first, let me knowledge

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a couple of new people that came
to us on Facebook livestream. Melissas Smith

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mcswaine, Hello, long, long
time no see Justin Chin. I just

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saw him in Oregon. Great to
have you on with us. Thank you

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so much. So. First,
mom being a keeper memory. Absolutely.

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My mother passed away January third,
and we went through I mean anals of

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photographs and such and took them all
home, notes the big stack that you

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saw when you walked in. And
then secondly, this whole thing about death

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being clarifying. One of the things
that I know from my research is that

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one of the reasons that purpose works
is because we have a finite number of

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days on the planet. That serves
as an urgency driver. It gives us

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direction and focus. So I could
not agree more with you. Thank you,

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beautiful, thank you. Yeah.
I actually I'll just say this really

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quick. I tried a lot of
different types of photography. I did event

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photography, I did houses like for
realtors and things like that, but nothing

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felt like it was actually my purpose
until I really thought about my mom and

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how much that impacted my life and
how I wanted to be that photographer who

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took pictures of you know, their
children's I just think about the whole lifespan.

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So yeah, it definitely was when
I realized, like, oh my

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gosh, this is what I'm supposed
to be doing. That is so beautiful.

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And there is somebody chatting with us
here on the W FOURCY radio and

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they want to know something about all
my life. I was told them too

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much, woman, what song is
that? What should I do with it?

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Be more of it? That's what
I want to tell you. Bring

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it. So responding to our earlier
conversation about how we met, so okay,

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I agree, absolutely right, just
bring it. That's your genius.

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You just got to find a way
to focus it so that it lands where

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you can actually make a difference and
impact and not being irritant. That's the

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different that's the opportunity. Okay,
so really quick in us getting acquainted,

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I did a strength assessment for you. To help showcase how I did that,

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I consult with clients. So just
briefly, what did you get from

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that? Okay, that was a
revelation for me. I've never been to

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a therapist, so I don't know
what that feels like, but that's what

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it felt like. I felt like
I because as an entrepreneur, I feel

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like so often I am alone in
my challenges that I'm facing in my success

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that I have as well, and
so to be able to go to you

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and with a focus on my business
and how my strengths are going to impact

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the success of it and also the
failures, right because so often our strengths

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are also our weaknesses, was amazing. Clarifying experience. Clarity is something that

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I think is delicious and I love
it, so probably I'll probably say that

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more than once. But my five
strengths were positivity, harmony, developer,

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intellection, and connectedness. And connectedness
was the one that I rolled my eyes

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at that, I was like,
oh God, my strength, like as

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a well, yeah, I'm connected
great, And I thought of it as

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being a weakness because I was like, is that really a strength? But

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you actually were able to help me
see that connectedness is not just about my

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relationships with people, but it's about
my relationships with patterns. And that changed

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everything for me. And now I
feel like being able to see patterns and

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see what led to a success and
what led to a fail, how I

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can replicate something that was a really
that was a revelation for me. So

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thank you for that. I'm so
grateful. Right, So, what I

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really do, so much of what
I'm doing in my work is helping people

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to It's kind of like holding a
mirror up for people so they can see

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who they really are and what their
genius is, what's unique about them in

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their leadership, their lives, their
relationships, their person and how they can

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bring that to the world. That's
really what I'm doing a lot of wise,

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a lot of times I'm catalyzing that
perspective, that ability to see themselves,

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that ability to appreciate themselves regulate themselves. So that's really what I'm doing.

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So I'm glad so glad that you
got value from that, because it

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was very easy for me to see
the beautiful uniqueness that you bring to the

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world into your work and then I
got to experience it. Yeah, and

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it was great for me because I
feel like you saw me as I saw

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myself, and that is a really
powerful thing to be able to offer someone.

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So I really am so glad that
we ended up doing this. And

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then your session, right, your
personal branding session. Obviously, we're really

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really happy with your photos. One
of the things that I saw, Hi,

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justin connectedness yeay, awesome, Yes, I saw that too. Justin

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chensis is number one. Strength is
connectedness, So he's relating to Crystal and

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hello, Craig card are great to
have you. I love it. But

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yeah, so we were talking about
your personal branding session. So you know,

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I have a whole process and the
reason why I have that process is

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probably because of my connectedness. Because
I saw a lot of places where I

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wasn't setting expectations properly for clients and
therefore their experience wasn't as good as it

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could have been, and so it
was really weighing heavily on me. How

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can I create a workflow that's really
going to get the desired results for anybody,

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if it's a family, if it's
a wedding, or if it's for

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personal branding. And so I sent
you a long questionnaire asking you questions like,

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how are you distinguishing yourself? Who
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want them to feel about you?
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helpful because everybody is different. You
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else might be more disciplined and you
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make, and that allows us to
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just me, it's you know,
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definitely a dance. And so listeners
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form that she created to understand how
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they're through working with me. What
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mean, I had never gone through
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what I would have called before I
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wasn't at all photo session. It
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feel and such, and she folded
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that she came up with was Clyde
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I serve business people. I'm a
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thoughtful, Crystal, so putting all
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photos show up now they do.
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dancing in my purpose. And I've
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and most have not a lot of
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but there's a big difference between a
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question, session, no question,
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one of the biggest concerns that people
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we talked about it. We said, like, the people who you are

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serving are working in these buildings behind
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fact that the colors aren't going to
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people spend so much money on designing
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take anything away from that. I
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for your session. Well, thank
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so listeners. My website is being
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least Cortes dot com. But I've
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Cortez and associates, my LinkedIn which
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which is elast Cortez. And you
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with I'm wearing the black and white
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Crystal's work, so you can see
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completely different, different experience. So
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it's totally that's You're full of life. Well, that's exactly what you

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what you created, and now I'm
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what I'm doing in the world.
I'm dancing in the world. I'm living

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my purpose and your photos captured that
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it's pretty. You deserve it.
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You deserve to have photos that really
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what we created. And so on
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I'm your host, Alice Cortez.
We've been on the air with Crystal.

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Don Garrel, a Texas favorite portrait
and wedding photographer, Obsessed with crafts,

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good vibes, and preserving precious memories. Her superpower is the preserver of

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precious memories and helping people create compelling
personal brands that align with their purposeful lives.

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She joined it today from Dallas,
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to me and where we're also recording
a Facebook live stream. We've been talking

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a bit about how she got into
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in a bit about how she goes
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going to get into the importance and
utility of having a personal brand. Stay

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with us. We'll be right back. Elise Cortez is a speaker and engagement

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and development catalyst. She designs and
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and can bring her expertise to your
organization. She will help ignite meaningful development

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within your workforce that will increase employee
engagement, performance and retention. To learn

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more or to invite Elise to speak
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www dot Elise Cortez dot com.
She would welcome the opportunity to help get

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your employees working on purpose. This
is working on purpose with Elise Cortez to

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reach our program today send an email
to Elise ali se at Elise Cortez dot

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com. Now back to working on
Purpose. Thanks for staying with us,

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and welcome back to working on Purpose
if you're just joining us. My guest

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is Crystal don Garrell, a favorite
Texas portrait and wedding photographer, obsessed with

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crafts, good vibes, and preserving
precious memories. Krista believes in clarity,

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not pseudo clarity, but the big
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kind of clarity, which constantly guides
her work. I'm your host, Elise

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Cortez. So before the break,
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into this and why it's so important, and a bit about how you go

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about it. And now I want
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personal branding. There listeners are getting
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done for me already. It's so
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who I am so that I can
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with people who really do want to
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Doctor Mason Yerie, thanks for joining
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So let's talk about the importance of
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you define a personal brand? That
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years really about personal branding and how
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way of self packaging that I actually
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helps people draw conclusions, right,
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who you are, what you do, and why they should work with you.

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Ultimately. Now, I think that's
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but I do think that there's a
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yourself and marketing and having an audience
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I think that's the difference between a
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brand, is that you're not showing
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actually showing up and you're serving people. And I actually want to recommend a

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book for people. It's by Gary
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Hook, and it talks so much
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branding and how you can find success
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of. But also he talks about
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about showing up and knowing who your
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and actually truly add value to their
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a really strong personal brand something that
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and thinking about in their day to
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just showing up and be like,
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but I'm talking about you know,
how it's impacted people, and just

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the importance that it has in my
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own emotional spectrum about it and how
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of micro content things like that that
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people and hopefully inspire them and inspire
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so how beautiful is that? So
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that, it made me. It
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were intentionally trying to showcase for me
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course the notion about working on purpose, the passion the inspiration that I like

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being a woman. So there are
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and the microphones so we could showcase
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I just appreciate it so much of
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showcase and let people into my world
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is like I really want I think
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want for people to be able to
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look at them online you can get
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would in person, right, And
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of people don't really know how to
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I do too, And I love
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about that, So let's talk about
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making in this regard to creating a
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doing that will help alert us to
we can't do that? Yeah, So

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one of the biggest mistakes that I
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about is how to leverage their content
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this is something that I told you. I was trying to come up with

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one hundred and one ways to use
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come up with seventy five, which
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beautiful images made that represent their business
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can do with an image than just
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have in the beautiful images that you
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talked about a lot. And if
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finally finish that article of like seventy
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photo. Well, you've already got
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do you compete with people with camera
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they can do some really amazing things. But when you're working with a

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professional photographer, and this is the
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ever worked with a professional? Have
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valuable, but there is no comparison
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but it's about the direction that they're
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providing and the environment that they're like, there's a lot of care and consideration

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that goes into setting up a personal
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with your phone. Yes, you
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you for joining us. So a
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next break, and we're gonna have
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sucked here on the slide, So
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don't go away, So we might
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you think about creating our personal brand, what's important to focus on? What

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do we need to make sure is
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such a great question, and this
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you because you have really great questions
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one of the things that we were
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immediately beautiful, because the first thing
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they're scrolling through any marketing material,
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they're going to draw conclusions from the
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you have a corporate headshot, there's
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and it's not really giving anybody a
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doing, or you know, sometimes
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is very distinguishable, you know,
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personal brand. When you're looking at
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values go a really long way into
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ultimately you know is being served and
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but also turns into a client and
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there. So, for example,
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think for your previous photo it was
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we created together. Where you have
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immediately tell what's going on when you
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going to be able to draw a
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it is obvious and I love that
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to the video stream. So great
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just thinking about you. So let
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But this is really important here.
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our personal brand to our purpose?
I was going to ask you that question,

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we'll get after the break. I
know you want to ask me that

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to night, I'll one thing I
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to say is to create context.
I think creating context when it comes to

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your personal brand over our arching you
know, how are you representing your brand

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on your online presence as well as
in person on the phone. I'm one

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of the big believers and I like
to have face to face conversations with people.

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I like to talk to people on
the phone because so much more of

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our connection can really come through and
that moment versus just maintaining an online presence

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and expecting people to flock to me
from that. So I think that you

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should definitely be talking about the context
of why you're doing what you're doing.

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How did you get to this place, what did it make you feel,

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what are some challenges that you overcame, what did you learn from it?

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And I think that that's the best
way that you can actually tie your purpose

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to your personal brand, because you're
not just selling things anymore. You're creating

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context and allowing people to get a
bigger picture of your purpose and why you're

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showing up in the space that you're
showing up in. And I do feel

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like we captured my purpose I feel
like I'm living my purpose in my life

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and the work that I do,
and I do really think for the first

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time my photos actually capture that.
Yes, And with that, let's grab

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a great break here and then we'll
get some more power here. I'm Elise

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Cortez, your host. We've been
on the air with Crystal Don Garrell,

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a favorite Texas portrait and wedding photographer
obsessed with crafts, good vibes, and

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preserving precious memories. Her superpower is
the preserver of precious memories and helping people

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create compelling personal brands that align with
their purposeful lives. She joined us today

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from Dallas. Right here next to
meet my studio office. We're recording on

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Facebook live stream as well. After
the break, we're going to hear more

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about how a personal brand is an
intimate and authentic expression of ourselves. Stay

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with us, We'll be right back. Elise Cortez is a speaker and engagement

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and development catalyst. She designs and
delivers professional development, leadership and engagement workshops

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and can bring her expertise to your
organization. She will help ignite meaningful development

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within your workforce that will increase employee
engagement performance. And retention. To learn

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more or to invite Elise to speak
to your organization, please visit her at

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www dot Elise Cortez dot com.
She would welcome the opportunity to help get

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your employees working on purpose. This
is working on Purpose with Elise Cortez.

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To reach our program today, send
an email to Elise ali Se at Elise

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Cortez dot com. Now back to
working on purpose. Thanks for seeing with

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us, and welcome back to working
on purpose. If you're just tuning in.

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I guest is Crystal don Garrell,
a favorite Texas portrait and wedding photographer,

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obsessed with crafts, good vibes,
in preserving precious memories. Chrystal believes

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in clarity, non pseudo clarity,
but the big, big time one day

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will be my last kind of clarity, which constantly guides her work. I'm

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your host, Elise Cortez. I
see that Chris Patch has also joined us

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on Facebook livestream high Chris a previous
guest on my show as well. Great

435
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to see your name pop up again. Okay, so for this last segment,

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we're going to get really intimate here. And one of the things that

437
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you said, right, I love
intimacy. It's part of my life.

438
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I get to have very intimate,
close conversations with people and work very deeply

439
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with their passionate purpose, inspiration.
So this is exactly where I want to

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be. So you say that being
photographed it's a lot like being naked in

441
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front of the camera, and people
feel vulnerable. Say more about that.

442
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Yes, So this is a huge
concern that I hear from probably ninety five

443
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percent of the people that I work
with. Unless you are an actress or

444
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an actor or a model, chances
are you're not going to feel entirely comfortable

445
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in front of the camera. And
it's actually funny because I feel the same

446
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way despite the fact that I am
a professional photographer and I do this for

447
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a living. Depending on who's behind
the camera, I have a tendency to

448
00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:06.000
feel very nervous and feel vulnerable.
All of my self doubt kind of starts

449
00:31:06.039 --> 00:31:11.759
bubbling up to the top. And
so I definitely make it my mission to

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help guide people in a way that
makes them feel comfortable that they can trust

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me. And I have worked really
hard to perfect my craft and be able

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to photograph people in a way that
at the end of the day, when

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they see the final outcome. They're
really happy with it, and they can

454
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be proud of these images, especially
if they're for their business that they can

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display them and their brochures and their
press kids, whatever it is that people

456
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are doing. But yeah, I
mean, it's just one of those things,

457
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especially when you're being photographed alone.
Nobody's there with you to look you

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in the eye and say, hey, it's gonna be okay, except me

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the photographer. And in that sense, I do feel like I play not

460
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:56.359
only a cheerleader, you know,
because I'm cheering you on the whole time.

461
00:31:56.400 --> 00:31:57.880
I'm also kind of a therapist because
I'm saying, hey, I can

462
00:31:57.880 --> 00:32:01.480
see feeling insecure right now, and
guess what, it's totally normal. Everybody

463
00:32:01.519 --> 00:32:05.799
feels that way. In fact,
the first twenty minutes are always the most

464
00:32:05.880 --> 00:32:08.880
awkward, and then people usually start
to laugh. That's when things kind of

465
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get to you know, you get
to break up the tension a little bit.

466
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And so I'm a comedian, I'm
a photographer, I'm a you know,

467
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directing you. I'm your cheerleader and
your friend and all of that.

468
00:32:21.400 --> 00:32:24.079
You were all of those things to
me, and in my experience working with

469
00:32:24.119 --> 00:32:28.480
you, what you said, and
you already knew, you know, human

470
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nature, and you said, we're
just going to start warming up with some

471
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of these shots because you know you're
gonna want to relax a little bit.

472
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And I did, and you're right, and then we kind of settled into

473
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a group and then you know,
as we went along, and you kind

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of helped me do my various poses
that would showcase what it is I do.

475
00:32:43.359 --> 00:32:45.119
You know, you would give me
feedback and'd say, oh, at

476
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least you look beautiful, and you
know what, I started believing it.

477
00:32:47.200 --> 00:32:50.799
I'm like, okay, I look
beautiful. All right, I'm just gonna

478
00:32:50.799 --> 00:32:53.319
go with it. And there was
something about that dance between us, just

479
00:32:53.400 --> 00:32:58.079
like the dance of everyday life when
we walk through the world and we do

480
00:32:58.119 --> 00:33:00.480
our work and we do our life, if you will, we're dancing with

481
00:33:00.559 --> 00:33:05.839
life and I was dancing with you
and you caught it on sale. Yeah.

482
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Yeah, And that is one of
the most honored types of compliments that

483
00:33:10.519 --> 00:33:15.680
I can get because my goal is
to always capture some truth. That is

484
00:33:15.720 --> 00:33:20.599
what I think makes a really beautiful
photograph. Photography done well is truth sharing.

485
00:33:21.160 --> 00:33:23.880
And another thing is we often mirror
each other, right, not just

486
00:33:23.920 --> 00:33:28.319
me, and you, because we
do that a lot, but just people

487
00:33:28.319 --> 00:33:31.200
in general, we often are mirroring
each other. And so if you're working

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with a photographer who was like unhappy
or you know, doesn't really know what

489
00:33:37.160 --> 00:33:39.000
they're doing, doesn't feel confident,
because I was that way for a long

490
00:33:39.039 --> 00:33:45.160
time. I had to work really
really hard to be good at what I

491
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do. And so it's just that
much easier when you when I have the

492
00:33:50.640 --> 00:33:53.599
energy that I want you to have, and we're just mirroring each other and

493
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we're just really feeding it. And
that's but like I tell people, at

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the end of the session, that's
where you get the most beautiful images because

495
00:34:00.960 --> 00:34:04.160
you're so relaxed, almost over it. You're like, I'm just ready to

496
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:07.480
go, oh sorry, I'm a
model, you know, to be a

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00:34:07.519 --> 00:34:13.440
model. So it comes across yes. Yes, So let me acknowledge that.

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Our next the person that's just come
on air with us here Keith Archibald

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and Judy Oscomb. They both just
showed up. Thank you both so much

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for joining us so perfect time.
And Keith, not that this question is

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00:34:22.840 --> 00:34:27.440
for you, but since you are
of the male variety, the next question

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I wanted to ask you, Crystal, is you said something very interesting to

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00:34:30.360 --> 00:34:31.960
me on the phone when we were
talking about this session, and you said

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00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:37.159
that men are often not comfortable being
photographed at all. Would you say more

505
00:34:37.199 --> 00:34:40.360
about that. Yeah, for one, I don't know why. I'm not

506
00:34:40.440 --> 00:34:46.320
presuming to know why, but it's
an observation that I've made and it's actually

507
00:34:46.400 --> 00:34:51.719
something that I would like to know
how people feel about it. And I

508
00:34:51.760 --> 00:34:55.000
also want to say I wish that
I had more photographs with my father,

509
00:34:55.480 --> 00:34:59.519
and I know a lot of people
can relate to that, especially from my

510
00:34:59.559 --> 00:35:01.480
childhood. The older I get,
the more I look through those photos and

511
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the more meaning they have because the
farther I am removed from that experience.

512
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And you know what, I just
wish that he showed up more in those

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00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:15.440
photos. Not that he wasn't a
great dad, he was amazing, but

514
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for me selfishly, I want to
have that. And I do think that

515
00:35:19.639 --> 00:35:25.000
men a lot of the times don't
feel as comfortable expressing that they want to

516
00:35:25.039 --> 00:35:29.880
feel handsome. Right because we as
women were like, oh man, we

517
00:35:29.920 --> 00:35:32.000
deserve to feel beautiful. Every woman
deserves to feel beautiful. But guess what,

518
00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:37.039
men deserve to feel handsome too,
And we don't really talk about that

519
00:35:37.159 --> 00:35:43.519
a lot, and so I would
encourage, you know, if anybody's feeling

520
00:35:44.639 --> 00:35:49.159
a little bit afraid or self conscious
about themselves, to go through the experience

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00:35:49.159 --> 00:35:52.440
with somebody that you like and trust
and to see what comes out the other

522
00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:54.719
side, because I think that more
often than not, if you're working with

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00:35:54.760 --> 00:35:59.400
a great photographer, you're going to
be pleasantly surprised and you're going to get

524
00:35:59.400 --> 00:36:02.480
the opportunity need to see yourself the
way that somebody else sees you. At

525
00:36:02.559 --> 00:36:07.840
somebody who sees a lot of good
and beauty and handsome and strong and you

526
00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:13.920
know, fire and side of you, and that's a great transformative experience to

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00:36:14.000 --> 00:36:16.719
see what comes out the other side. How beautiful is that, Crystal?

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00:36:16.840 --> 00:36:20.639
So you can see listeners and viewers
where I wanted to have run the show

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because she really her work is blending
over into what I do around the transformation

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00:36:24.559 --> 00:36:28.840
help people to discover and live and
express and work through their purpose. And

531
00:36:28.920 --> 00:36:31.199
I love that right, that transformational
piece step I like to call it stepping

532
00:36:31.199 --> 00:36:36.000
into your shine. So I want
everyone to step into your shine, right

533
00:36:36.039 --> 00:36:38.400
And what she's doing is you're helping
us do that, and that's so beautiful,

534
00:36:38.440 --> 00:36:42.559
Crystal. Thank you so much.
It's a great honor for me to

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00:36:42.639 --> 00:36:45.239
do, truly, and how wonderful
to be able to do work that is

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00:36:45.320 --> 00:36:50.880
noble. Yes, So along those
lines, and this is kind of kind

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00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:52.719
of blend in onto the other side
of the photograph that I really wanted to

538
00:36:52.760 --> 00:36:58.719
ask you this question, But how
does a authentically living our brand make us

539
00:36:58.840 --> 00:37:04.159
leaders others wish to follow and come
through? For? I think that we

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00:37:04.360 --> 00:37:08.480
are in the age where people can
see through the VS. If you will,

541
00:37:09.239 --> 00:37:15.440
you can see through the fakeness,
and you can see through you know,

542
00:37:15.480 --> 00:37:21.800
if somebody is just going and pretty
much just showboating, it gets a

543
00:37:21.840 --> 00:37:24.760
little bit old. And so I
think that whenever you are really able to

544
00:37:24.760 --> 00:37:30.440
share what truly touches you, and
that's I think what you mean by being

545
00:37:30.480 --> 00:37:35.320
authentic is what really moves you and
what has impacted you in a real way,

546
00:37:35.840 --> 00:37:39.360
and not showing up to say,
hey, look, how how much

547
00:37:39.400 --> 00:37:45.559
I learned from this experience selfishly,
but to share it with someone else and

548
00:37:45.719 --> 00:37:50.079
really truly want to. I always
like to talk to people on social media

549
00:37:50.159 --> 00:37:52.679
like I'm talking to one person and
like it's my best friend, And that

550
00:37:52.719 --> 00:37:57.679
sounds silly, but I always just
imagine that I'm talking to my best friend

551
00:37:57.800 --> 00:38:00.519
and what would she and I discuss? And that's how I can live authentically

552
00:38:00.559 --> 00:38:05.079
through my brand. And when it
comes to your photographs, you know,

553
00:38:05.159 --> 00:38:08.760
what types of feelings are you looking
to elicit? What types of ideal clients

554
00:38:08.840 --> 00:38:14.239
are you looking for? The clients
that truly make you feel like you're offering

555
00:38:14.320 --> 00:38:17.639
something of value, you know that
you that make you realize like, this

556
00:38:17.679 --> 00:38:21.760
is the work that I was always
meant to do, this is the person

557
00:38:21.800 --> 00:38:24.679
I was meant to help. And
if you think about those clients and how

558
00:38:24.719 --> 00:38:28.239
do you come through for them,
that's how you want to come through.

559
00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:31.599
And your personal branding photography you know
as well, and the way that you

560
00:38:31.639 --> 00:38:36.480
appear as much as you possibly can, and having a great photographer who can

561
00:38:36.519 --> 00:38:38.559
talk to you about all that stuff
really helps a lot, because it's hard

562
00:38:38.559 --> 00:38:43.119
to do it on your own.
I feel like so you did ask me

563
00:38:43.199 --> 00:38:45.719
that I remember distinctly in the photo
session when you were asking me for some

564
00:38:45.800 --> 00:38:49.000
of the poses, you said,
I want you to look at me and

565
00:38:49.079 --> 00:38:53.599
interact with me like you're you've had
the intended impact on the client you're serving,

566
00:38:54.360 --> 00:38:59.840
And it did. It totally took
me into a whole different space and

567
00:39:00.400 --> 00:39:02.679
so capturing that if you know,
think about that, being able to capture

568
00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:07.920
an essence of a person living their
purpose and being of service. I mean,

569
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:10.960
that's incredible. Thank you so much. That means so It's the best

570
00:39:10.960 --> 00:39:15.639
compliment I could everget. It was
an extraordinary experience, which is a big

571
00:39:15.679 --> 00:39:19.599
reason I wanted to have you on
the show. And you know, afterwards

572
00:39:19.639 --> 00:39:22.679
we did our debrief and we sat
down and had a glass of wine together

573
00:39:22.719 --> 00:39:24.840
and talked about the whole thing,
and I was like, oh my gosh,

574
00:39:24.840 --> 00:39:28.480
this is the kind of thing that
I need to share with my listeners

575
00:39:28.840 --> 00:39:30.920
because of the personal Brandy piece of
it, and because of the way that

576
00:39:30.920 --> 00:39:35.519
you did your work and how it
really did meld over into the work that

577
00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:40.159
I do around passion, purpose,
inspiration, trans transformation and catalyzing people to

578
00:39:40.199 --> 00:39:45.719
another level. Yes, and I
think that vitality is something you know.

579
00:39:45.760 --> 00:39:50.480
When I looked at your website,
I wanted to see more of that in

580
00:39:50.559 --> 00:39:52.719
you. When I looked at your
face and I looked in your eyes,

581
00:39:52.760 --> 00:39:55.039
I was like, I want to
see the elise that I see when I'm

582
00:39:55.079 --> 00:40:00.480
sitting here with you and we're having
a wonderful time together, and you're changing

583
00:40:00.480 --> 00:40:04.079
my life. You did change my
life with our piece that we did on

584
00:40:04.079 --> 00:40:07.559
the Strengths assessment, and so I
was able to see how confidently you go

585
00:40:07.679 --> 00:40:15.000
into that and how you act as
a catalyst for people. And so in

586
00:40:15.039 --> 00:40:20.119
that sense, I was truly able
to see what it feels like to work

587
00:40:20.199 --> 00:40:22.199
with you, and that is something
that I don't actually get to experience with

588
00:40:22.239 --> 00:40:27.039
all of my clients, but I
do think it uniquely helped me to be

589
00:40:27.119 --> 00:40:30.639
able to see what I to create
with you, what I wanted to see

590
00:40:31.079 --> 00:40:35.679
more of you know well, and
to that and what I would say and

591
00:40:35.719 --> 00:40:40.199
acknowledge, Holly, is I liked
my website the way that was right now

592
00:40:40.199 --> 00:40:43.760
in this very very moment as we
speak, it's it's in the process of

593
00:40:43.760 --> 00:40:46.400
getting those photos updated. And those
photos are nice, but I really now

594
00:40:46.400 --> 00:40:50.840
that I see the ones that we
created, there is an enormous chasm and

595
00:40:50.920 --> 00:40:54.800
disconnect between those previous photos and the
ones we just created. And I mean

596
00:40:54.880 --> 00:40:59.239
I just I had no idea.
I had no idea the difference that they

597
00:40:59.280 --> 00:41:01.360
could make. So yeah, and
there's a place for all photos. I

598
00:41:01.400 --> 00:41:06.039
really truly believe that some of the
best pictures that I the ones that I

599
00:41:06.119 --> 00:41:08.199
love are the ones where I have
like the weirdest face, you know,

600
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but it looks like I'm genuinely having
a good time. And uh, you

601
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know photos from my childhood where I
they're grainy and you know, you wouldn't

602
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really think like this is a good
quality photograph. But again, I think

603
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that a really well done, really
well done portrait is something that shows truth.

604
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And that's what I always seek out
in people, shows truth. And

605
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I love that you claim it as
a superpower too, which is amazing.

606
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So all right, so for this, we're getting close to the you know,

607
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the show here already. And you
said to me this afternoon when we

608
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were getting ready to prepare for this, is that you said you wanted to

609
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ask me a question. Yeah,
so I wanted to ask you how do

610
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people who have found their purpose go
about monetizing that? How did they create

611
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a brand out of that? And
how do they move forward in their lives

612
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with the You know, ultimately your
hopes and dreams are that you would have

613
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freedom, financial freedom, purpose and
feel like you're creating some value and impact.

614
00:42:15.119 --> 00:42:20.400
Right, So how what advice do
you have for people? So let

615
00:42:20.480 --> 00:42:23.559
me tell you a short story really
quick, because this is just amazing how

616
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this all how life happens, especially
when you step into your purpose and let

617
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it, let it guide you.
So last year when I was when I

618
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created my Vilely Inspired program, this
is my customized leadership program. I did

619
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that, and then I drafted the
first draft of my Unleashed Living with Passion

620
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working on a Purpose book. The
other thing that I really wanted to do

621
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as part of my expression of the
overall life that I wanted to live was

622
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I wanted to create a nonprofit that
would serve people to do just that and

623
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the reason it was born. So
I did it. I started it last

624
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year. It's called Purpose on Fire. And it came about because as I

625
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was out speaking to audiences about the
importance of living with passion, working on

626
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a purpose, cultivating meaning and inspiration, and discovering and standing from your purpose,

627
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invariably at the end of those presentations, somebody would either come up to

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me afterwards and tell me something amazing
about their lives or their story, or

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I would come home that afternoon or
evening and there would be an email in

630
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my inbox somebody sharing an amazing story. One such story was from a young

631
00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:28.599
woman named Brandy Nice, who I
encountered last November in Corpus Christy, and

632
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she told me this amazing story of
something horrific she had gone through in her

633
00:43:31.679 --> 00:43:36.440
life nineteen years ago when she was
only eighteen years old, and it was

634
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a violent assault. And she said, all these years, I had been

635
00:43:40.960 --> 00:43:44.960
feeling shameful about that and not saying
anything about it. And now I really

636
00:43:44.960 --> 00:43:49.280
recognize when you say that we can
embrace our adversity because it helps us to

637
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become who were meant to become,
that I should be telling my story because

638
00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:57.440
in the telling of my story,
not only do I heal myself continually,

639
00:43:57.719 --> 00:44:01.079
but I can help heal and empower
others who through something similar or something atrocious

640
00:44:01.159 --> 00:44:07.400
like I have in a way that
takes them and relieves them from their prison

641
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sentence that they've created for themselves.
And so she and I are working together

642
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through the nonprofit to really help her
develop her her advocacy skills, her speaking

643
00:44:15.719 --> 00:44:21.119
skills, how she shares her story, and she's en route to becoming a

644
00:44:21.159 --> 00:44:25.519
spokesperson to really empower people across the
world who have gone through something that otherwise

645
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has knocked them to their knees,
and that's monetizable. Being a speaker is

646
00:44:30.440 --> 00:44:34.800
monetizable. Being unauthor is monetizable.
So it was consulting, so it was

647
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doing programs and so those are always
that she can contribute to that space.

648
00:44:39.360 --> 00:44:44.079
I'm working with another gentleman named Richard
Medina here in Dallas, and he has

649
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created a keepsakes offering. He already
had the idea when it came through,

650
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He just needed help launching it into
the universe in a meaningful way. So

651
00:44:50.519 --> 00:44:53.079
he and I are working together on
that to get traction for him. And

652
00:44:53.119 --> 00:45:00.760
so that's incredibly exciting. Sakes.
It's called two K, So it's a

653
00:45:00.840 --> 00:45:06.079
it's a he does class keepsakes for
really the middle school students because the high

654
00:45:06.119 --> 00:45:07.760
school students are already I love that. Yeah, And so he wants to

655
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come right through commemory, through educational
experience, and he wants to be able

656
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to have a mechanism to be able
to give money back to the school that

657
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they that they're part of. So
it's not a profit mechanism for him.

658
00:45:19.679 --> 00:45:23.039
In fact, the cool thing about
Richard Medina is that he came to me.

659
00:45:23.079 --> 00:45:25.920
He found me, he said,
at least I'm I'm retired from the

660
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post office. I've had a long
career, but I've got this thing that

661
00:45:29.880 --> 00:45:32.320
I need to do and it won't
let me rest. That's purpose, by

662
00:45:32.320 --> 00:45:35.880
the way, ladies and gentlemen,
when it won't let you rest, he

663
00:45:35.960 --> 00:45:38.000
said. I like playing golf,
but I don't want to just play golf.

664
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I want to do this. I
need to do this. I'm like,

665
00:45:39.800 --> 00:45:44.599
I got it. I'll help you
so finding people who can help activate

666
00:45:44.639 --> 00:45:50.000
that in prepare and aligning resources and
getting educated about ways to be able to

667
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do it. I'm creating an online
community, so I'm learning how to do

668
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that. I mean, but definitely
don't just say I can't make money at

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it, so I'm not going to
do it. Don't do that. Talk

670
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to me first. I'll talk you
off the cliff, I promise. Would

671
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you say that so often our purpose
doesn't have to do with just ourselves,

672
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and therefore would it wouldn't really make
sense? Like That's why I think our

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experience being able to have you see
me the way that I saw myself being

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able to share things with you that
I have kept inside for so long and

675
00:46:19.719 --> 00:46:22.920
wrestled with you know, and and
ultimately was victorious with and I didn't have

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anybody to share that with. Would
you say that you really encourage people to

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find someone that you can share what
your purpose is with, because I do

678
00:46:34.760 --> 00:46:37.719
feel like so often those are the
things that keep you up at night don't

679
00:46:37.719 --> 00:46:40.760
really have to do with your own, you know, well being as much

680
00:46:40.760 --> 00:46:45.039
as your impact. Absolutely so,
we're so close to out of times.

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Let me answer that really fast.
So absolutely so. According to Aaron Hurst,

682
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who I completely agree with, he
wrote the Purpose the Purpose Economy book.

683
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You need to pick that up.
He says three things have to go

684
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into to qualifying for a purpose.
One is whatever you're doing in service.

685
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If your purpose has to be serving
a group of people much larger than yourself,

686
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I don't care if that's six people, but it's not about you.

687
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It's about serving other people. Secondly, in the process of serving that purpose,

688
00:47:12.199 --> 00:47:16.159
you are growing and I'm absolutely growing
every single day. And then thirdly,

689
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in the process of being in service
of that purpose, you are creating

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00:47:20.320 --> 00:47:22.719
a community. Scott Wilson, by
the way, is totally doing that.

691
00:47:22.800 --> 00:47:27.519
He's somebody who's off venturing his purpose
and he's totally somebody that people should talk

692
00:47:27.559 --> 00:47:30.840
with about being able to create a
life he's a very professional consultant. He's

693
00:47:30.880 --> 00:47:35.760
got wind behind his wings, and
so there are ways to make this work.

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So with that, I want to
make sure you get a quick second

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to say something to our listeners.
Fifteen seconds. How do you want to

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finish? Don't stop taking pictures.
Keep making happy memories because today is the

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youngest you will ever be. That's
it. Oh did you hear that today

698
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:53.840
is the youngest you will ever be? So snap a photo. Yeah,

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that's so great. Make happy memories. So, Crystal, thank you so

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very much for joining us. Absolutely
a light every single time I encounter you

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and think about you. By the
way, stop it, thank you,

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Listen to thank you. If you
want to learn more about this magnificent human

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being and the work she does with
weddings, portraits or personal branding, visit

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her website. It's Crystal Dashdown dot
com. Let me spell that for you.

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It's k k R y st a
L dash down dawn dot com.

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Last week, if you missed the
live show, you can always catch be

707
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a recorded podcast. We had a
very lively and wonderfully informative conversation with doctor

708
00:48:31.400 --> 00:48:37.199
Joann Lefevre about surprising lessons we can
learn about from our animals and pets,

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about becoming the best version of ourselves. I was stunned and amazed at what

710
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I learned from her. Next week, we'll be on the air with Hope

711
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Mueller, who managed to navigate a
life growing up in a commune to the

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corner office in Corporate America. We'll
be talking about just how she managed to

713
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pull off that feet and also her
upcoming book about the subject. See you

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then, remember their work is at
least one third of our life. So

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let's work on purpose. We hope
you've enjoyed this week's program. Be sure

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to tune in to Working on Purpose, featuring your host Alice Cortez, each

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week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel. This week, find your life's purpose

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at work.