May 26, 2021

Cultivating Essential Energy for Thriving in Life

Cultivating Essential Energy for Thriving in Life

East meets West in this mindset as we discover how moving from surviving to thriving starts with moving from a destination to journey mindset. Getting access to powerful tools along the journey, like self-awareness and learning how to gauge our energy...

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East meets West in this mindset as we discover how moving from surviving to thriving starts with moving from a destination to journey mindset. Getting access to powerful tools along the journey, like self-awareness and learning how to gauge our energy fuel help us propel meaningfully along the path. Finally, learning how to recognize and navigate past obstacles along the way is essential to live the biggest, best expression of our purpose and make the contribution we crave.

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What's working on purpose anyway? Each
week we ponder the answer to this question.

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People ache for meaning and purpose at
work, to contribute their talents passionately

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and know their lives really matter.
They crave being part of an organization that

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inspires them and helps them grow into
realizing their highest potential. Business can be

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such a force for good in the
world, elevating humanity. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration to help
usher in this world we all want

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Working on Purpose now. Here is
your host, doctor Elise Cortez. Welcome

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back to the Working on Purpose program. Thanks for tuning in again this week.

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I'm your host, doctor Elis Cortez, joining you live from Dallas,

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Texas, which is home based for
me. If you don't know me yet,

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management consultants specialize in meaning and purpose, organizational logotherapist, inspirational speaker,

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social scientist, and author. You
can learn more about me and how we

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can work together at at least Cortez
dot com or Gusto Dashnow dot com.

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With us today is Joyce tom As
speaker, executive coach, and catalyst for

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change in the fields of resilience,
wellness and conscious leadership in Silicon Valley.

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She has led business and product innovations
at Intuit, eBay, SRI International,

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and was CEO of a database infrastructure
startup. After seeing the impacts of stress

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and high pressure environments, she found
an energy at work in two thousand and

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two to help executives and entrepreneurs accelerate
their growth while by bringing more balance and

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satisfaction to their lives. We'll be
talking about the mindsets that are necessary toward

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purposeful living and working in their relationship
to purpose, tools for their journey and

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overcoming obstacles. She dodges today from
the San Francisco area. Joyce, Welcome

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to Working on Purpose. Hi,
Alice, thank you for the opportunity to

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be here with you and your audience
today. It is so great. And

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you know, when we first were
introduced, I was like, oh my

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gosh, for our two peeves in
a pod, we're so like minded.

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So but you, of course,
you know, like every single one of

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us on the planet, you have
your own very unique niche and view on

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the matter that we're going to talk
about today. And so I think first

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we have to talk a little bit
about, as I introduced you, just

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where this work came from. So
you spent what twenty some years in the

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Silicon Valley area and learned a few
things along the way that pointed you to

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this work. So situate for us, why this work? Why now?

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Sure? Well, I had a
background in the corporate arena and my focus

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was on help to facilitate change in
organizations and that was great. And as

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I saw those changes evolved, I
saw the toll that it took on people

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and organizations and personally, I was
doing a lot of other work on myself,

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with meditation, with somatic practices,
with emotional intelligence work, and I

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thought, well, how can I
be of the most service. So after

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a career in Silicon Valley, I
just said I'm going to step away and

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start to offer other things that that
might be helpful to all the people who

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are involved in innovation and technology and
growth to help to help make it easier

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for them, because I think that
there's so many people who are inspired to

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make contributions in the world, and
when they meet the challenges that inevitably happen,

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they want to be able to move
along their journey easier, in a

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more easy way and a more fluid
way, and a more fulfilling way.

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And so that's what I decided to
do it with Energy at Work, was

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to help people in that in their
endeavors. That's so great. And you

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know, as we spoke about before
when we were first getting acquainted on the

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phone, I've just really come to
see. My perspective is that everything is

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energy, and so it's just really
how do we mobilize that energy, how

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do we use it most productively and
certainly as we care about toward our purpose.

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And so for this first segment,
I know we wanted to focus on

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journey and destination mindsets and their relationship
to purpose, and so maybe we could

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start You gave me an article.
I read most of it, by the

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way, but not all the people, but most of it and about the

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Stanford's research, And so I wanted
to first start with how to Stanford's research

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help us refine our strategy for working
on purpose? Your perspective on that,

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sure, let me step back and
give a little bit of context for that,

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and that is that people are often
interested in change, and change is

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great, but it's about when that
change becomes sustainable, when it's lasting,

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and then that change turns to meaningful
growth for people in organizations. And that's

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one of my main interests. And
so what Stanford did was it looked at

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different things that happened with people when
they accomplished goals, and they found out

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that people often when they accomplished goals, they pause, they pat themselves on

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the back, and then they may
or may not. They may turn their

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attention to something else and not continue
that progress. In fact, they may

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backslide. And so before we get
into their exact research, I want to

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just bring up this analogy of a
sprint in a marathon. So you know,

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in today's society and in business,
success is often linked to short term

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metrics that encourage us to go full
out. You know, they're always saying,

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oh, you know one hundred and
twenty percent, one hundred and twenty

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percent. And I know that when
I was starting out in the corporate world

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way back went as a strategic management
consultant, I was definitely on that path

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of like, okay, we have
a client engagement, and I've they've got

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offices in London and Tokyo and the
US, and so I would just be

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working around the clock. If back
often I would find myself sleeping on the

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floor in the office because there weren't
even laptops, that's how a long ago

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it was. And so to get
access to your data, you actually had

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to stay in the office to be
able to access your big computer. And

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that's not really a sustainable kind of
thing, right, it really isn't.

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It's not very good for us,
and it's not good for our work,

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and it's not good for the teams. And I likened that to the Sprint

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mentality, where you've got this deadline, Okay, I'm just gonna for a

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couple of months, We're just gonna
really crank it out, and then what

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happens at the end, You kind
of collapse and you backslide, right,

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You're just burnt out and it doesn't
work. And so then we often graduate

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along our career to the idea of
a marathon. So then I moved out

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to Silicon Valley and the product cycles
were different. It wasn't a couple of

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months. It was like a yearly
product launch at that point before the internet

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was really big, so it was
a yearly product product lawn cycle. So

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you paced yourself a little bit more
like marathon, and you did do some

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more self care, but at the
end it sort of turned into a sprint,

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and then you ended up again at
the end being a little bit where

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a lot burned out and needing a
fair amount of time to recover, and

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you didn't necessarily have the energy to
then begin to grow and develop what you

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wanted to do it professionally or personally. And so we've got both of the

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sprint and the marathon analogies are very
goal oriented, like get to this point,

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reach your goal, and that's it. And there's a whole another paradigm

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for looking at life, which is
a journey mindset, and that's what Stanford

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Research started to look into. They
said, okay, well, we know

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that what happens when people have this
goal or destination mindset, then they stop,

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they have to and they backslide,
and so there's not sustain growth and

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what can what would be what would
make it different? So they decided to

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test something out. And what they
did was they took a number of different

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research studies where people were in programs
with specific goals like a weight loss program

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or a fitness program, or even
an executive training program. And at the

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end of the program, after people
had done what they needed to do,

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they asked all of the participants to
reflect on what had happened in the program,

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and they gave different prompts. Some
people were asked to reflect on it

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as a journey, and some people
were asked to reflect on it as a

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destination, and some people were given
no prompts at all. And they wanted

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to see what happened in terms of
people's learning and growth and the benefits.

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Did the benefits sustain and then were
their future actions in alignment with the goals

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that they wanted to continue their their
purpose and so on, And so that

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the net result of that is that
when the people who were invited to reflect

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on the program as a journey,
we're able to continue their progress. So,

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for example, if you have been
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your goals. After the program ended, you continue to exercise and you continue

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to make choices that were in alignment
with good health and fitness instead of slacking

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off. For example, like with
with diet programs, I'm sure many people

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can relate to it. You get
on the diet, you hold to it,

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you know, you gut it out, you meet your goals, you

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dropped the way, but then when
it's done after a while, you backslide.

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But in this case, the people
who are just asked to reflect on

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it as if it were a journey, didn't. They stayed on it,

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They continued to progress and with their
weight loss goals, and they continue to

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make decisions that were in alignment.
So no no cheating and binging on the

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chocolate afterwards. So that was really
interesting, you know, finding that the

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Stanford folks had which was, Hey, if you reflect on your whatever your

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experiences were, and you look at
it as a process instead of an event

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instead of a goal, you will
actually be able to grow. M Okay.

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So I did read that. A
couple of things that I really appreciate

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about that research. One I love
research, and two I actually really appreciated

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that the authors or and and the
researchers looked at various kinds of growth related

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activities, and I thought that was
that was actually stillar and that they were

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able to find that similar threat.
So then of course we have to ask

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for purpose of this conversation, how
does that relate to the strategy for working

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on purpose? Right? So,
I think one of the main problems that

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people encounter with why they're not able
to move forward with their purpose is that

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they're confusing purpose, purpose and goals. And you know, I think that

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actually, well, I'm sorry,
what were you going to say? No,

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I completely agree with you. People
confuse p percent goals all the time.

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They also confuse meaning and purpose.
They're also not the same, right,

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And I think that purpose is a
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thing than a goal. A purpose
is something that, in my perspective,

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you can't actually ever achieve. You
can just continue to work towards it.

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It's not something that you know,
want and done done with that purpose,

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and so it's got this other quality
to it that's more like a north star.

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So the north star is big,
it's bright, and wherever we're at

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we can see the north star and
we can head towards it. And the

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exact route doesn't exactly matter as long
as we continue to head towards that direction,

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and so it can illuminate and guide
us in our actions and our decisions,

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right and listeners and viewers, and
how you might now situate goals since

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we said that they were not the
same as purpose. As imagine, like

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I'm looking right now in a list
of eight goals that I have on my

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list to get done here in twenty
twenty one, all of which are directed

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by and feed into the fulfillment of
my purpose. So I can have like

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almost whatever and maybe unlimited number of
goals that might support what it is for

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me to live my purpose and be
an expression of my purpose, but they're

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not my purpose. That's how I
would distinguish that exactly exactly. And I

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think what what's kind of interesting is
that the Eastern Wisden traditions, which I'm

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very interested in, really take this
approach of a purpose which is linked to

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destiny ends on as a as a
birth to death kind of journey. So

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that's the language that they use,
that that it's a lifelong journey. It's

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not just you know, episodic here
and there, let's just finish this goal.

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It really has this long quality.
And when you when you when you

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step back and you look at purpose
as this lifelong thing, then you really

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do it changes your life and different
way. Oh my gosh, Joyce,

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you know I love this im That's
how I see it for me, right,

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I do have some I am touched
a little bit by more of the

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Eastern wisdom traditions, not entirely just
the Western, just because of my travel

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and what I'm interested in. And
I'll tell you. For that anthology of

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women, I found twenty five women
from across the globe to share their stories

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of how they discovered their purpose and
are now persevering mindily to live it.

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And the way that I set up
the questions, unbeknownst at the time,

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sort of invited them to look at
it more as a journey. And so

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a lot of us told our story, the ongoing unfoldment of how it was

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to become. It didn't just make
sense in a moment. It wasn't just

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revealed to us in a moment said
here, it is what we're supposed to

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be doing. But over the course
of your life you could see how it

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unfolded, and when you look at
it that way, and you see that

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it's continuing to unfold. We're still
on that journey. We're still on that

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path. And then it's then it's
exciting to say, well, where else

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is it going to go? Where
else is it going to take me?

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It's already really good. Now that's
so beautiful. Know what a wonderful experience

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for the folks who are there,
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stories was cathartic. And by the
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I am now now launching the Men's
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that I'm doing. It's so exciting, so fun. So say more about

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this, this this Taoist view of
destiny purpose and how do you did you

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learn about that? What do you
what do you? Where does it speak

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to you. Yes, well,
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not always, but this idea of
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that that we trod throughout our life, and the important thing to do is

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to be able to see are we
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How do we know what whether we're
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will shift a little bit. And
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approaches to life for forty fifty years
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it provides such guidance and reassurance and
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don't have to get every little detail
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picture of the journey over life.
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that's good. It's fantastic. Oh, this is just a yummy conversation.

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I guess is Joyce Tom founder of
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leadership. Towns Today from the San
Francisco Bay Area. I'm your host,

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doctor Elis Cortez. So for this
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this notion of yours, of tools
for the journey. And I know you

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and I probably both get a very
similar question and people want to know,

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you know, how do I find
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was just speaking to a group of
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and I asked that question, how
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And there were probably two hundred and
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I guess how many hands went up? Oh ready, one? Oh,

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my goodness. And I understand,
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to start to answer that question and
some tools along the way. Sure,

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well, you know, I know
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their purpose. And in some of
the research that I've seen, only twenty

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percent of people really feel certain that
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as ninety one percent of people at
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their purpose at all. So it
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for people. And one of the
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start trying to just figure it out
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to step back and just work on
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awareness on all levels I mean intellectually, emotionally, physically, etc. Because

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without self awareness, how can we
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it seems to me to be the
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ideas about purpose, but is it
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there is such a desperate hunger for
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people just kind of declare one and
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they stand for or what they're kind
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really not their purpose. And I
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comes from. And then they want
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more juice to it, has more
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at the end of the day,
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this notion that you talk about self
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GPS system tell us more about that. Well, So, if if we're

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using this metaphor of a journey,
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to go towards in the direction of
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with our GPS system that has to
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work very well. And how do
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have to begin that self inquiry of
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me today? And like you just
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and they declare it a purpose,
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emotion and then they use that to
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in corporate, you know, taking
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It's not taking our whole self into
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little bit hard, or the path
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got the head saying I should do
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but the heart says no, but
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You're going at cross purposes and the
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It's it's not very efficient and it's
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of satisfaction or fulfillment. Well,
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gets really really interesting to me because
you distinguish this notion of the energy fuel

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gauge and as being useful to understanding
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own journey of purpose and living it
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the closer I get to it,
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It's like, oh my gosh,
where did that come from? Tell us

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more about this energy gauge. Well, let's just it's again using this metaphor

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of this journey. So if if
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is like our physical body, and
we want to check in to see how

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much energy we have. How much
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tank? Right? And I think
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oh energy, it's too woo woo. Right. Don't know that.

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I don't know anything about energy.
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think of your think of how you
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you you were checking in on your
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are you on empty, are you
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know along the spectrum one quarter,
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do you have in your fuel tank? And that's irrelevant because if you don't

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have a lot of fuel, how
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you're not going to get very far
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true. And so then that's where
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you have some ways to build some
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reasons, one of the reasons that
I am a logotherapist, which is really

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the whole practice of generating or i
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see meaning in the moment, is
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point, our ultimate energy source.
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find meaning in the moment and across
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have, and especially when you align
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some some tools to be able to
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approaches. Can you tell us about
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mean, it's going to sound simple, but the thing is mostly the hardest

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part about it is remembering to do
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and that is just a simple check
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which says at the beginning of the
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or before you know an important event, it's just to check in with

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ourselves and say, huh, how
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clear? Is it foggy, is
it racing? Is it settled? How

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much energy is zipping around in our
mind? And then tuning in then to

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our emotional center and listening because we
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for us, right, I mean, there's a lot that we can do

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when our emotions are in alignment with
what with our purpose for example, And

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so what's our emotional state? Are
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not going to help us on our
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of excitement and curiosity and gratitude for
what's opening up in front of us?

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even feel like, oh wow, yeah,

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I'm in a grateful space. If
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then I've got enough energy to you
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accomplish quite a lot in the world. And then you know, the third

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the other level is our physical body. How is our physical body responding?

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Like sometimes we have a lot of
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really important to us, but we've
we don't have the physical energy to do

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it. And if we ignore that
and we you know, nobody would run

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their car on empty, right,
we know that that's a bad thing.

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It clogs up the fuel lines and
then there's a lot of maintenance problems and

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then you've got a big, you
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energy that we've got, and we
just say, oh no, I'm going

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to get through it because it's important
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some energy from doing things that we
love, it's again stepping back and seeing

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that big picture like that. The
Eastern approach is you've got a certain amount

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of energy to go through your life, and if you if you're burning it

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up too quickly, or if you're
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you're just not going to have enough
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to go. So it's really worthwhile
to ask those basic questions, how am

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I doing, what do I need
so, and listen to the answer.

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answer and then act based on what
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to add to that beautiful set of
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I had doctor Naha sang On on
my show last May. I think it

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was. She's phenomenal. She's become
a friend as well and a colleague.

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But she has a whole book out
called Talk Our X and she really disting

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wishes that emotions are energy and motion, So you have to steward them through

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your body in order to really make
them work with you, and you most

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certainly cannot ignore them. They will
not be ignored, right, And so

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with the more the better that you
get it really first understanding those emotions,

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naming them, understanding them, honoring
them, and stewarding them through your person.

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The more that you can you can
you can utilize that energy and even

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literally channel it through you for a
very productive end. So that's the first

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thing I would say, anything you
want to comment on that before I go

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to my second point. Yes,
exactly, I'd like to take it to

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the workplace situation. Because our our
head, our heart, and our our

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body are are like teammates, right, and so if you were going into

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a group meeting and saying, oh, we've got this, this, this

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this purpose, you know, our
mission, our vision. What do you

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guys think about that? Or how
are you feeling about that? And there

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were concerns, there were fears,
there was excitement, There's a whole bunch

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of different reactions to it. As
a good conscious leader, you would want

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to listen to all that was going
on and then be able to help harmonize

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the team, help, you know, get everybody together to move towards the

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same in the same direction. You
wouldn't ignore somebody, or you wouldn't say,

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oh, yeah, I know you're
afraid of that, too bad,

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we're doing this anyway. You know, that's not great leadership skills. So

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we are like our awareness, our
consciousness is the leader of our whole being,

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and it's really useful for us to
go ahead and take all that into

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consideration so that we can be we
can move forward. M that's beautiful.

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I love that idea of that they're
all on the same team. I love

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that. Yeah, and then you
have the conscious leader who's directing them.

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I love that. Okay. So
the second point that I wanted to make

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is and you you talk about how
we haven't there we have this energy and

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generally speaking, we need we need
to manage it and deal with what we

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have. We can increase it through
exercise and other things like that, and

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being high on purpose, of course. But what I want to make sure

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that I also emphasize is that's really
important. And this gets much clearer when

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you to your point, really work
from the purpose as a north star guiding

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point, and you can recognize,
you know, you can start more easily

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see what fits within that purview of
my purpose. And a lot of us

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spend a lot of time and effort
and energy on activities that actually don't help

404
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us fulfill our purpose, and someone
else can do them very handily, thank

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you very much. And when you
clear them off your plate and your path,

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you have this much bigger runway and
all this extra energy to throw yourself

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toward that north star of purpose.
And so it can't tell you how important

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it is to really evaluate how you're
spending your energy, where is it going,

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taking inventory of that, and then
clearing out where it really isn't serving

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you very well? Do you really
have to be the one that does all

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the dishes, changes the oil in
your car, does all the laundry,

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does all this extra stuff on your
project, and your team really do you

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have to do all that? So
that's the kind of thing I really want

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to encourage you to evaluate, because
once you start to get clear about what's

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pulling away, the energy is pulling
away from your purpose, you'll have more

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bandwidth energy to devote to your purpose. Comments Joyce. Excellent point. I

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think that we often think that we
have to do it all and that's not

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necessarily it's not true, and it
doesn't actually help further on the contributions that

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we could make in the world.
Yeah, Yeah, a wonderful point.

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I agree, and I encourage I
also encourage people to take that into consideration

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and see what changes might be helpful
for people to make in their lives.

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You'd be amazed how you can really
quickly get over doing some of these things

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that you spend a lot of time
doing, move on to the next higher

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level order of things. And to
that end, I definitely wanted to talk

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with you. I know you have
you and I share this notion here about

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ongoing self awareness because our purpose will
evolve as we grow. Say more about

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why that's important to keep track of
and stewart Yes, because I think once

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people this idea of purpose is and
finding purpose is such a big deal to

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people that once they find something that
they want to latch on too, then

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they just kind of keep going towards
that same you know, that same purpose,

431
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that same north star for their whole
lives. But as we continue to

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grow and evolve, it's natural,
it's a it's not maybe surprising to think

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that what's important to us and therefore
what our purposes will change as well.

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And so this idea of chickens along
the way regular chickens to say, oh,

435
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is this purpose that has been a
wonderful guiding star for me for five,

436
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ten, fifteen years? Is it
still the right one for me?

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Or do I need to update it
and revise it and then shift navigate towards

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the new north star for us?
And I think some people they at some

439
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point in the life they decide this
is what I'm about, and then they

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just keep chugging along in that direction
for the rest of their life, and

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then there's this divergence from who they
are, who they are at the current

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time, and where they're heading.
So I think it's useful for people to

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do that chicken and regularly see whether
or not their their nurser has changed a

444
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little bit. Well, And what
I also tell your listeners and viewers is

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as you step on your path to
purpose and really listen into that that gentle

446
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whisper that's trying to get your attention
and tell you which step to take next

447
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along that path. As you serve
it, you really will continue to grow

448
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and expand in there. That means
your eyes and your ability to see things

449
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will change. And since things will
change, it will it will evolve,

450
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and therefore you you'll see things newly
that you didn't see before as opportunities and

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ways to serve. And then,
of course, don't forget the world will

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continue to change along with you,
also then serving up new opportunities and ways

453
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of being in the world. So
yeah, keeping a really close tab on

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you and how your you and your
purpose are connected and relating to the world

455
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and serving the world is of critical
importance. And by the way, it's

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fun. It's not just you know
something you have to do. It's a

457
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fun thing to track and go let
this thing carry you along the way.

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Absolutely, isn't this fun? All
right? Well, let's grab our last

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here. I'm Elise Cortez, your
host. We were on here with Joyce

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tom a speaker executive coach and catalyst
for change in the fields of resilience,

461
00:32:06.559 --> 00:32:09.240
wellness and conscious leadership. We've been
talking about the tools for our journey of

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purpose. After the break, we're
going to get more into overcoming obstacles to

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the journey. Stay with us,
We'll be right back. Doctor Release Cortez

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is a management consultant specializing in meaning
and purpose and inspirational speaker and author.

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She helps companies visioneer for greater purpose
among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired leadership and

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meaning infused cultures that elevate fulfillment,
performance, and commitment within the workforce.

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To learn more or to invite a
Lease to speak to your organization, please

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00:32:40.440 --> 00:32:45.039
visit her at a lease Cortez dot
com. Let's talk about how to get

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your employees working on purpose. This
is working on Purpose with doctor Relise Cortez.

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To reach our program today or open
a conversation with Elise, send an

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email to Elise ali Se at Elise
Cortez dot com. Now back to working

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on Purpose. Thanks for staying with
us, and welcome back to working on

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Purpose. I mentioned after the first
break about the Grab yourugusta welbing podcast learning

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series. The content of this program
is adapted from part one of my recently

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published book called Purpose Ignited, How
Inspiring Leaders ignite passion and Elevate Cause,

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which is now available on Amazon.
I wrote it to awaken us to their

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passion and purpose and help transform them
into inspirational leaders who enliven the workplace and

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elevate the contribution of business to all
at stakeholders. So that's where the content

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came from. If you're just joining
us, My guest today is from the

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San Francisco Bay Area, Joyce Tom
the founder of Energy at Work and speaker,

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executive coach, and cantalyst for change. I'm your host, doctor Elis

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FORRTEZ. So for this last segment
here, this is a great, right,

483
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great, because you know people are
going well but yeah, but this

484
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sounds good, But but you know
along the way, what am I going

485
00:34:01.200 --> 00:34:06.480
to What am I going to find? And I love your concept that you

486
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talk from this notion that we tend
to believe that more is better and then

487
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we keep pushing until burnout happens,
which is certainly something that's happened for a

488
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lot of us in the pandemic,
especially if we have a goal versus journey

489
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mindset. So tell us more about
that, and why do we tend to

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do that. It's not all about
well, I think it's it's natural,

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especially in this time and age and
culture, that we think, oh,

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you know, especially if we're conflating
a goal mindset with purpose, then the

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more goals we we have and the
more we accomplish them and we just tick

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them off, you know, like
pokemon, you know, things, then

495
00:34:40.039 --> 00:34:44.880
then it's good, it's better we're
doing more. But actually, you know,

496
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in the in that bigger grand scheme
of things, it's not about you

497
00:34:47.599 --> 00:34:52.119
know, how many little things,
how many goals we accomplish. It's really

498
00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:57.440
whether or not it's in alignment with
our purpose. And so so people tend

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to, especially if they're not listening
to themselves, haven't developed those self awareness

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or energy awareness skills. Then we
overdo and we burn out. And then

501
00:35:05.960 --> 00:35:09.880
if you look at the amount that
we're able to contribute over our lifetime,

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we push, push, push,
and then we burn out and then we're

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00:35:12.960 --> 00:35:15.920
not contributing very much after we've burned
out. So it's not really you know,

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the best, the optimal outcome,
and so what are you know,

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what's really going on there? It's
this mindset thing and then what people often

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00:35:28.440 --> 00:35:31.199
tend to say is like, oh, there's never enough time and I don't

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00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:36.440
have enough energy to do what I
want. But I think that's not actually

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the case. That I think people
are looking kind of in the wrong direction

509
00:35:40.039 --> 00:35:45.280
with that. Does that make sense
to you? It does? In fact,

510
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I want to. I want to. This is a perfect time to

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mention this. I literally just freshly
authored an article for my collaborator and partner,

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We're Proud for their Thought Leadership site, and I what I As I

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was digging around for what did I
want to comment on what's going on right

514
00:35:58.519 --> 00:36:01.119
now that I want to talk about? I discovered a couple of articles that

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said that fully fifty percent of the
North American workplace plans to change jobs in

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twenty twenty one after the pandemic because
there's a lot of reasons for that.

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They feel disconnected from their employer,
they feel like they're not being valued and

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00:36:15.679 --> 00:36:19.079
appreciate it, and there's a restlessness
that's just palpable, among many other things.

519
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But then when I dug deeper,
then I discovered this whole notion of

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the great resignation is what it's being
called, and apparently it was predicted by

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a professor that would that this exact
same thing would happen, that a majority

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00:36:31.719 --> 00:36:35.920
or a lot of the population would
go looking for new jobs once the pandemic

523
00:36:36.000 --> 00:36:39.719
kind of subsided, And so that
absolutely speaks to burn out. That was

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the number one thing that was cited
in these articles was people are just burnt

525
00:36:45.159 --> 00:36:47.039
out, which totally speaks to the
notion of energy and just what you were

526
00:36:47.039 --> 00:36:52.159
talking about. So, employers,
companies, leaders, this is really really

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critically important to pay attention to to
recognize if your people really do feel this

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way. I want you to think
about the ramifications of fifty percent of your

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people evening in a year's time.
The recruiting cost alone to replace those people

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is enormous. Now you're going to
train them on board them, bring them

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up to speed, they will not
be the same little performance as those who

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vacate positions before. So it's well
worth doing something now to help your people

533
00:37:15.000 --> 00:37:19.679
address this mindset, this notion of
burnout that Joyce is talking about. That's

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00:37:19.719 --> 00:37:22.960
kind of where my mind went as
you were talking. Sure, and so

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I work with corporations on resilience,
right, because resilience and burnout, like

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the more that you can help people
develop skills that will help them be more

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00:37:31.119 --> 00:37:36.360
resilient, the less burnout there is. But I wanted to talk You brought

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up an interesting point, and I
think that people are again not necessarily assigning

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the right causes and effects. So
they've been unhappy, especially during the pandemic

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00:37:45.719 --> 00:37:50.639
situation, and they don't feel very
good, and they're saying they're thinking that,

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oh, it's this job. If
I switch jobs, it'll all be

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00:37:52.920 --> 00:37:58.760
okay. But I think that it's
not necessarily the job though of course corporations

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00:37:58.760 --> 00:38:01.960
and situations do very I think it's
more of this idea of thinking of this

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00:38:02.280 --> 00:38:06.719
driving and this more and more and
more, I've got to do more,

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or I feel so much pressure to
do more, and then the burnout that's

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happening and that there's going If they
keep the same mindset, then they're going

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to go ahead and take that to
the next job and they're going to experience

548
00:38:15.800 --> 00:38:21.079
the same thing there. So I
think it's worthwhile to take a step back

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again and look at some of the
underlying causes and what might be useful to

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help people overcome these obstacles that they
that they feel are preventing them from having

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a happy, fulfilled, purposeful life. Yeah, and I couldn't agree more.

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And that's one of the reasons I
want to bring this up is that

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that individuals within the company can do
this work for themselves. And then of

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course let's meet in the middle and
get leaders and companies to also ask how

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are you doing? What can I
do to help, and how are you

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feeling, et cetera. And one
of the things that you talk about,

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which I completely agree with, is
the role of how stress could limits our

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perspective. And then we've got this
narrow tunnel vision, So tell us more

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about how does that factor in as
an obstacle here? Right? So stress

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does where you know, the neuroscience
does say, oh that when we're stressed

561
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out, our vision, both our
physical vision and our metaphorical vision just narrows.

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And so we just are like camsters
on the world. We just start,

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Okay, there's the goal. I've
got to make my deadline by Friday.

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I've got to do this next thing
and the next thing, and this

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this next thing and the next thing. And of course that stresses our system

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out and we burn a lot of
energy that way that's not needed. And

567
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so when there's that issue of like, oh, that's so wasteful for our

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life force, energy, and how
can we how can we approach getting work

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done without all that stress? And
then the other thing is that when we've

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had this, we alonely have this
narrow vision. We're not connected with our

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purpose because our purpose is this big
vision and so it's hard. We just

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00:39:52.920 --> 00:39:55.599
get caught into the little details and
we're not seeing how it fits in with

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the journey that we're wanting to make. So I think that thing that we

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can do it's not just stress management
for health reasons. It's stress management for

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quality of life and quality of the
journey towards our purpose reasons as well.

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And back to Joyce's points about the
importance of self awareness, you can start

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to recognize that you're probably governed by
a stress mindset when you start saying things

578
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like I gotta, I have to
and I can't, right, So just

579
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pay attention how often those things come
out of your mouth, because they're probably

580
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connected to something that you perceive is
stressful. So one of the other things

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that you also do, I'd love
working with metaphors, and you have an

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energy metaphor of using working capital versus
reserves. What's that right? So the

583
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way a lot of the ancient traditions
who work with energy view it is like,

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oh, there is is what we
would call a working capital amount of

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energy. This is the amount of
energy that we use in daily life,

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you know, to do our tours, to do our work, et cetera.

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And we use it and then we
replenish it, and we replenish it

588
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with the typical things that you would
consider self care like good sleep, good

589
00:41:07.760 --> 00:41:12.519
food, exercise, et cetera.
But underneath that is this concept of they

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don't use this terminology, but I
think we in modern society could understand it

591
00:41:15.119 --> 00:41:20.840
or reserve capital. And that's the
energy that carries us through life, like

592
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on that road, on that journey
from birth to death. It's that underlying

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amount of energy that moves us forward
and helps us develop over time and mature.

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And so so there are different things
and when we're what we can expect

595
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to do is as we live our
daily life and we use of energy.

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It's not like we should just conserve
and sit still and use as little energy

597
00:41:42.119 --> 00:41:45.480
as you know, as as as
as we can. We want to expend

598
00:41:45.639 --> 00:41:51.760
energy and use it to live and
enjoy life. But if we are not

599
00:41:51.880 --> 00:41:54.719
listening to how much energy we're using
and we're overdoing, and we're burning the

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candle at both ends, we're going
to dip into our reserves, into our

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savings account. And if we use
that reserve energy, it's very hard to

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that kind to get that kind of
energy back. And so then what happens

603
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is we end up with, you
know, a permanent burnout, like we

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just can't move forward in our life
at all. And so differentiating between when

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we're just using our our working capital
energy versus when we're using our reserve energy

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is really important. And I don't
think that most people actually consider that or

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can sense that. I would agree. Now, I'm really curious too,

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because I noted that when you were
you were talking before that you I think

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you also attach that to the wisdom
tradition of the path of addition and path

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of subtraction. I've never heard this
language before. Tell us more about that,

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right. So this this also ties
in with the idea of more is

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better. Right. So, the
path of addition says that if we want

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to move forward towards something like our
purpose or even a goal, many times

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there is an approach that says,
oh, do more, gay more skills,

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get more accomplishments, have more experiences, more and more and more and

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more. So it's the path of
addition. What can I do that's gonna

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help me go forward? Right?
And then but then there's another path,

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which is called the path of subtraction, and the path of subtraction, which

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actually speaks to something you mentioned earlier. I'm just about to put that together

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myself go forward, which is what
can you what can we take away that's

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a hindrance, What can we take
away that's not necessary and that's actually consuming

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energy that we could better use to
move smoothly and easily along the path.

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And you know it's it's it's not
as familiar a concept to think, Okay,

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path of addition, path of subscription, subtraction. I think we tend

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most of us tend to focus more
on the path of addition, and we

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don't give nearly as much priority or
importance to considering the path of traction.

627
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And it's important that we do both. M yeahs, as we were saying

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before, you either we've got this
this this amount of energy, and yes

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we can still get it and such, but better to really be choiceful about

630
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where to really put our energy in
our time and is that really worth our

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time? Is it really going to
allow us to be able to express our

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highest possible purpose and serve at our
best, highest level. And it's amazing

633
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to me how much let's call it
busy work that really gets done, that

634
00:44:30.480 --> 00:44:32.000
takes up so much energy, right, that we really don't have to do

635
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and someone else would gladly do that
for us. That's right. And it's

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also encouraged at work by sort of
the norms that the idea of face time.

637
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Right, you know, it's not
really satisfying work, but you have

638
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to look busier, you have to
stay till ten at night to look like

639
00:44:47.800 --> 00:44:53.559
you're you're you're worthy of promotion or
something like that. And when we actually

640
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tune into ourselves and we have this
real deep sense of what's what's right for

641
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us and what are we here to
do? It's not here to be doing

642
00:45:04.440 --> 00:45:07.440
some of these other things that aren't
part of our purpose. They may be

643
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part of other people's purpose, which
is great, Let them do it.

644
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What really is important to us?
And how can we stay on track and

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on purpose? Yeah, So,
as a quick example, listeners and viewers,

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I was having a conversation with a
gentleman yesterday and we were talking about

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some way maybe trying to find a
way to collaborate turn our two companies,

648
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and I'm sure everybody was up to
tun I said, that's fantastic, beautiful

649
00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:31.239
great creation doesn't align with us,
but so thank you very much. I'm

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happy to refer you if it makes
sense. But it just doesn't make any

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sense for us to put any energy
into that because it's not aligned. It

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doesn't threat through our purpose. So
that kind of ability to recognize and say

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00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:44.840
thanks, but no thanks, it
works. So you already heard me say,

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Joyce, sorry, we're getting so
close to being out of time already.

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It's just amazing you already heard me
say that my approach to stoking energy

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is through the logo therapeutic lens of
trying to find more mean and getting more

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access to it. It may be
in a minute or so. Can you

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give a couple of approaches that you
offer it to people to stoke energy or

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00:46:01.440 --> 00:46:07.000
to manage energy? Sure? I
think one of well, purpose, as

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you say, like purpose really does? It helps us. It helps our

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brain because it research shows that when
we feel like we're on purpose, we

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00:46:15.960 --> 00:46:20.039
have much more cognitive resilience. And
so that's really important. That gives us

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more energy to be able to be
clear and creative and move forward on our

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goals as well as our purpose.
And then also when we're on purpose,

665
00:46:30.519 --> 00:46:34.760
we you know, we don't have
as much cortisol, so that's stress that

666
00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:39.280
drains us also drops a way as
well, and so that is a great

667
00:46:39.280 --> 00:46:44.199
way to gain purpose. So it's
sort of this loop that happens that,

668
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oh, if we're if we're on
purpose, we get more energy. And

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when we have more energy, we
can be more on purpose. So I

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think that those are really important things
to help generate energy. And then of

671
00:46:55.760 --> 00:47:00.800
course many people have heard that the
positive emotions, like focusing on gratitude is

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an amazing and really quick way to
generate a lot of energy. So there's

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00:47:06.880 --> 00:47:09.639
a lot of these different, easy, simple approaches, but maybe people haven't

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00:47:09.679 --> 00:47:14.400
put it together to say, oh, if I do this this practice,

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00:47:14.920 --> 00:47:19.320
it will help me fuel my purpose. They might say, oh, it

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00:47:19.360 --> 00:47:22.519
feels good, but now it's more
than that, it will actually be a

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00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:27.760
contribute to your leading a more meaningful
and satisfying life. Beautiful. Well,

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00:47:27.800 --> 00:47:30.559
here we are at the clothes and
you know that there shows listen to people

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across the world and they generally tune
it because they're they're out to be able

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00:47:35.119 --> 00:47:37.159
to elevate their own connection to meaning
and purpose, or they want to help

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00:47:37.159 --> 00:47:40.800
create cultures where people feel enlivened and
want to do their work at their highest

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00:47:40.880 --> 00:47:45.320
level, or become inspirational leaders themselves
and do business at betters the world.

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What would like to lead our listeners
with today? Yes, So I think

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that this idea of the sustainable,
sustainable change leading to growth is super important.

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And if we want that, then
we need to take a moment to

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reflect on what's gone for and put
it in the context of a process or

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a journey so that we can go
ahead and build on that foundation and move

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00:48:06.159 --> 00:48:08.719
forward. And then to think about
purpose, is that bigger than a goal,

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that north star that will guide us
throughout our life and guide our decisions

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00:48:13.519 --> 00:48:17.480
and actions. And then the other
last couple things are self awareness is key.

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You can't go wrong by developing your
own self awareness and your own beginning

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00:48:22.239 --> 00:48:28.440
to understand energy system. So the
self awareness of our parts, including our

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00:48:28.519 --> 00:48:34.920
energy system is super useful for purpose
driven and conscious leaders. And then just

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checking in on that, don't underestimate
the amount of energy that we need to

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be successful. With our purpose,
So foster that, nourish that and and

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every that will help you going forward. Choice. What a beautiful contribution for

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our listeners of yours. Thank you
so much for being my guest and working

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on purpose, my pleasure. Thank
you for having me absolutely listeners of yours.

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If you want to learn more about
Joyce Tom and the work she does

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at Energy at Work, just go
to Energy at Work dot coo. And

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thanks again to our partnering sponsor,
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platform where your workforce receives meaningful feedback
and thanks for their work from people across

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your company. Last week, if
you missed the live show, you can

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always get to be a recorded podcast. We're on the air with Jared Pope,

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00:49:19.920 --> 00:49:23.039
the CEO of work Shield, talking
about the current workplace issues facing many

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00:49:23.119 --> 00:49:28.239
companies, some of the various ways
harassment takes place which will likely surprise you,

707
00:49:28.599 --> 00:49:30.760
and what companies can do to create
a safe culture that reduces harassment and

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00:49:30.800 --> 00:49:35.559
discrimination. Next week, we'll be
on the air with doctor Arthur Sir mccouley,

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a third time guest, this time
talking about his latest book, America

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Reunited, a relational solution to bridging
the political, social, and personal chasm

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00:49:43.480 --> 00:49:45.440
dividing our nation. See you there. Remember that work is at least a

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third of our life, So let's
work on purpose. We hope you've enjoyed

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this week's program. Be sure to
tune into Working on Purpose, featuring your

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host, doctor Elie east Cortez,
each week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel.

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Together, we'll create a world where
business operates conscientiously, leadership inspires impassioned

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performance, and employees are fulfilled in
work that provides the meaning and purpose they

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crave. See you there, Let's
work on purpose.