June 30, 2021

Circles: Women Creating Sanctuaries of Care

Circles: Women Creating Sanctuaries of Care

Come along with us in this conversation as we discover the new consciousness weaving its way through communities of women, connecting, caring, and uplifting each other. Activated through the power of circle, there is increasing evidence of an emerging...

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Come along with us in this conversation as we discover the new consciousness weaving its way through communities of women, connecting, caring, and uplifting each other. Activated through the power of circle, there is increasing evidence of an emerging culture of community-minded activists and artists collaborating to create the change we all desperately need. The feminine soul is rising, and she is running for office and changing policy to create new communities connected through caring. Enter the embrace in a brave new world.

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What's working on purpose anyway? Each
week we ponder the answer to this question.

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People ache for meaning and purpose at
work, to contribute their talents passionately

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and know their lives really matter.
They crave being part of an organization that

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inspires them and helps them grow into
realizing their highest potential. Business can be

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such a force for good in the
world, elevating humanity. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration to help
usher in this world we all want

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working on purpose. Now Here is
your host, Doctor Elise Cortez. Hi

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there, welcome back to the Working
on Purpose Program. Thus you're turning in

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again this week. I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortez. Don't you lie

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from Dallas, Texas, which is
home based for me. If you don't

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know me yet, I'm a management
consultant specializing and meaning and purpose, organizational

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logal therapist, inspirational speaker, social
scientist, and author. You can learn

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more about me and how we can
work together at at last Cortez dot com

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or Gusto Dashnap dot com. Let
me thank my partner and sponsor work Proud.

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to feel proud of their work and
proud of their company. Learn more at

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workproud dot com. With us today, Who is Susan Lucci who is passionate

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about encouraging women to reconnect to their
essential nature and bravely turn up their soul

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shine to bring more of their authentic
selves into the world. She has a

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Purpose Guide and has developed the circle
model to bring women together through the ancient

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archetype to facilitate more soulful conversations and
create more engaged communities. She has a

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chapter in the book Purpose Rising,
the global movement of transformation and Meaning,

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which is how I originally came across
her and then ask her to come on

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the show. Today, we'll be
talking about the state of purpose in the

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world, learn more about the circle
work she does and explore the movement she

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sees emerging the culture of care.
She joined today from Chicago. Susan,

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Welcome to Working on Purpose. Helloly, So I'm happy to be here.

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It is so great. You know, it's so great when I read someone's

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work and then I reach out and
that kind of starts stalking you, right,

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So then I reached out to you
on LinkedIn and I found you in

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the Global Purpose Leaders group and you
really couldn't get away from me. So

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thank you for finally saying yes and
coming on. Thank you for stalking Why

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not. I've met so many amazing
people doing that and I haven't gotten arrested

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once yet, so it's great.
Yeah. Yeah, Well, I just

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love how you describe your journey to
purpose. We want to start there,

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since we're going to situate this first
part of the conversation around the purpose in

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the world, and I just want
to start because purpose is one of those

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kind of things that kind of we
get it reveals itself to us, is

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one way to see it. And
one of the things that you say in

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your work is you say, your
first interpretation of your purpose was as a

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lawyer, as advocating for other people. But there was something particular about that

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experience that really started to help you
resonate with your purpose. So let's start

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there, all right, Great,
Yeah, that that seemed to be what

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I was here to do. As
a little girl, I was in my

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dad's law firm, and as the
oldest child, was always gently prodded to

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speak up for others and stand up
bullies on playgrounds. So I've been doing

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that for decades now and really took
a lot of pleasure out of out of

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speaking up for people who could not
speak up for themselves and whether that was

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then negotiating for them in law firms
and also some of my co workers speaking

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out for them when they needed to
be represented in that kind of thing.

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So I love that word advocacy.
I still do that in lots of different

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ways today, but at the heart
of it is that word voice, you

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know, the Latin word vocal.
So about that and helping people to really

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activate their potential by finding their voice
is where it has evolved into. From

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that point, I want to echo
that price you just said right there is

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and it's so beautiful. Activate their
potential. Oh, talk about exercising agency

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in the world. That is so
beautiful. Yeah. The way I hold

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purpose is if you think about an
acorn becoming an oak tree, and it's

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all potential that that becoming that happens
between the seed and the first thing open

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and all of the moving through the
environment to become an oak tree. And

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each of us have that same intelligue, that same potential in us, and

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it is shaped a lot by our
environments. But there's also that acornness or

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that that at leastness, that studness
of each of us that I think is

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the fun revelatory process that you referenced. I low, yeah, that potential

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and it's within us and it's also
between us, right, so even more

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is activated between us in our conversation, even absolutely in this conversation and what

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we're gonna talking about a little bit
later with your circle's work, for sure.

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So now I want to drill down
a little bit deeper here, which

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I think is so interesting what you
did and some of the reading that you

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started with me, or some of
the writing that you share with me.

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I think it's interesting that you started
to reflect somewhere in your life. I'm

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not sure where this happened, but
you you go on to pick that your

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monetory teacher and mister Rogers, I
love that get your roles and helping you

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discern your purpose. So now I
want to this is great for our listeners

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and viewers who are many people listening
because they're trying to discover their purpose,

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right, that's why they're here.
So how have you come to understand your

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purpose to day and its expression going
back through those experiences and those people,

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Yeah, really, really through moments. Those are actually two more recent reveals

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to me in the last I would
say four or five years. And there

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was a day we will talk more
about circle, but sitting in a circle

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where I came out, and I
had a memory of being a little girl

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sitting on a taped on a rug
where the circle was taped and just looking

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left and right, and there were
children of all different colors rare in my

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in my then upbringing, but I
was there. I was two years old

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sitting on this circle with Miss Janine, who has since passed but remained in

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my life for many decades. And
she called me the Center Room baby.

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It was the Mona Story Center room
in Cincinnati that my mom and her twin

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sister found it, and she called
me the Center Room baby because I was

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the youngest that had ever gone.
I wasn't even two when I was going.

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But the culture we had there that
was so inclusive and so diverse and

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learning about other cultures. At one
point I thought we were in Peru.

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I mean, the way she could
just help us really embrace other cultures.

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And I grew up in a very
strict My mom was very strict and very

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she really met it, you know, anything that we that we took into

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our bodies. But also TV was
very limited, but mister Rogers Neighborhood was

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a show. And watching the film
that was made a couple of years ago

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really reminded me of that deep love
to be neighborly and how that even from

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a very young age, we would
shovel the snow on our neighbors driveways before

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we shoveled our own snowa It just
was part of my family culture growing up

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to be neighborly. And if I
bring that all the way forward to COVID,

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I would say connecting with new neighbors
was one of our survival mechanisms here.

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So I really treasure along with the
diversity that mister Rogers stood for and

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how he was talking to the mailman
and inviting people in and so many radical

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edgy moves for the time. So
that's that's something I could I could then

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learn and watch that movie and it
just broken broke open in me that memory

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of how deep my love for community
and inclusive community went. I can virtually

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guarantee you, Susan, that you
have just opened something in listeners and viewers

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who heard you say that, including
me, because I was also very attracted

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to mister Rogers, and now I
recognize it. It is because I align

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with his whole value and notion of
the goodness in the world and aspiring for

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goodness and being kind. And so
there's something listeners and viewers. What I

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encourage you to do from what you
to share it is consider what did you

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gravitate to when you were younger?
What did you watch? Why did you

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what was what was there for you? So that share was beautiful, Susan

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and Holly unanticipated. Thank you very
much. Well, So here we are

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in a world it's twenty twenty one
and you really can't go anywhere without hearing

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two words in one day, meaning
and purpose. And so there seems to

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be really an obsession with purpose these
days, and there's a lot of confusion

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as both you and I know about
what that actually means. There's overuse and

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under use of that word. But
it's it's an elusiveness to it as well.

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So I'd love your perspective as somebody
who is a purpose guide is how

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how what do you see about this? Is? Are we obsessed with purposes?

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What's going on with this? Well? I think we are bothered by

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a huge, huge expectation around purpose. I myself went through this too,

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where I thought that to be on
purpose, to know my purpose meant I

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had to change the entire world and
that it was all squarely placed on my

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shoulders, and if I wasn't doing
something about it that had impact and could

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be measured and valued, then I
was just not purposeful. And I have

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since heard that from a number of
clients. Is, but that's not purpose.

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But that's not big enough, that's
not impactful enough, that's not changing

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the world. And so I'm like, Wow, we really need to bring

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this down to its essential nature,
which is in your tagline, an ache

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for meeting. And to me,
the moments that I have felt most embodying

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my purpose have been when I was
needing that ache for meeting in the world

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and doing something with it and moving
it into the world, or being a

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presence that was drawing that in or
connecting with other people. So I think

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our minds, I've gotten a hold
of that, that word purpose, which

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is an ancient concept as far as
I can tell, Aristotle was teaching about

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purpose and it is essential to our
nature as human beings. And then somehow

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along the way it got taken off, probably through you know, consumer capitalism,

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that it had to be saving the
world. And so I think,

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I think covid. I think our
times now have really helped us land this

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to embody it that it we are
meaning makers. We are we are Homo

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sapiens. Those who know that we
know, and I think that is what

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gives us the juice of life is
when we make meaning. And the older

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I get, the more I'm reminded
that it's up to me to do that.

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You know. I've been through a
lot of education as you have too,

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and read a lot of books.
People can teach you things, but

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when you make meaning for yourself,
that, to me, is is the

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most alive. I feel me too. That's my jam, meaning and purpose.

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I love it. I've been doing
it for you know, and it's

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my ache. Right to your point, what one of the paths to purposes

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by really example, what's ails you
your whole life. What have you learned

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by being obsessed with something that has
bothered you? And I was bothering about

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the lack of meaning and purpose and
that's why I do what I do today.

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So yeah, it's it's it's it's
amazing. And that brings us to

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where we've been for the last fifteen
sixteen months, this whole COVID thing.

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And one of the things that you
and I talked about in our exchanges is

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how COVID and the quarantine has created
some perfect conditions for a purpose journey.

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I want to hear more about your
perspective on that. I have my own,

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but let's hear yours. Yeah.
Well, it is interesting that in

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some zoom calls, of the many
zoom calls, I was on to look

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at the rectangle that we're in as
our cocoon, right as this alchemical cauldron,

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or are activating our purpose. But
when I when I guide someone through

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a purpose journey or accompany them on
their journey, it's it's months long the

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way that I was taught, and
about two thirds of the way through,

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we actually create the conditions where they
can separate, they can leave home,

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get out of the nary, the
daily be immersed in nature as much as

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they are comfortable and really slow down
to the speed of the soul. And

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so if I look at even those
three parts, I mean that's what COVID

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did. I wasn't many weeks into
it when I was like, oh my

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gosh, here we are. We
are we are completely separated from each other,

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from what we call normal, you
know, this daily way of living

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we are. The quiet around here, even in Chicago, was just so

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beautiful, the stillness. I noticed
people just getting outside no matter what.

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We had a really terrific winner in
Chicago, three feet of snow, but

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we were all getting out. There
was something really interesting about us being in

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nature and then having that time to
reflect. I noticed a lot more conversations

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about what matters. Mokes. We
started talking about what's essential. Essential workers

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have always been on our planet in
our cultures, right, nurses and teachers.

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Suddenly it's like, what's essential.
We're cheering for them, We're tying

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white ribbons around what's essential the big
question on a purpose journey. So I

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was like, here we are right
in the middle of a purpose crisis slash

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opportunity and sharing that moment together.
I don't think we've yet unpacked. Exactly

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what has been happening now it's continuing
to unferral. I want to go back

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quickly because you say so many great
poetic things. I love the way that

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you use language, and I really
am getting a send Susan that I think

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it comes from something really deep,
not just in your person, but that

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you're connected to across the world and
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what I'm getting from you. It's
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kind of you know, like almost
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a great thing. But one of
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it allowed us to slow down to
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quotable. Slow down to the speed
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on it is thinking about it from
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where we actually want to come to
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do business and betters the world.
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really interesting why we were all packed
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which was necessary an important intervention,
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we are we've now changed and got
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I've stumbled across this notion of the
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this for some of my clients,
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who you read about this, it's
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percent of the North American workforce plans
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That's due to pent up demand for
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just a need for something different,
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lots of things, needing a change
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people are changing locations where they live. There's all this churn that's going on

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here. So what's your perspective on
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and the change and where people are
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shift, to the big quit it
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this as well. Where somebody knock
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actually in the process of selling our
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really immersed in this and curious about
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think what's happening is we're asking these
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is not working for me. I've
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Is this is no longer working,
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I think people feel empowered maybe from
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winter ever, and now that they're
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connection with our souls, because of
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resolution, more intention We have seen
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COVID six hundred thousand deaths just in
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death was right here. We got
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and I think that will awaken something
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Here's the kind of community I want, Here's the kind of people I

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want to work with. Here's the
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and so I'm hopeful that that employers
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some wage adjustments for starts, but
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really going to shift because of this
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and we're just in the middle of
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don't like adaptation and change, I
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know, I have a lot more
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I hope not. There was a
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so beautifully beautiful is that? I
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opportunity and it's very scary for people
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right, and the great resignation also
a neated Just how unnatural the way we

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have been working really is. That's
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idea, is it illuminated what really
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working really is? The crazy commutes, sitting in a cubicle, you know,

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long meetings, what are we doing
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we can unpack on that. But
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and helping companies through this crisis is
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in the last like probably four months
now. Oh, that's beautiful. I'm

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so grateful to hear you're in their
ear. Yeah, I'm I just it's

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just so I'm having more fun than
I was supposed to have, which we

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talked about it before we got on
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Let's grab our first break. You
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listening. You know, I think
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place, and so that that is
such an important human quality that I didn't

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experience a lot of in the law
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lot in the political arenas, and
I think that's a great opportunity right now.

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Let's listen, Let's really listen to
each other. That's beautiful. Susan,

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what a great way to take us
into our first break. I'm Elise

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Cortez, your host when when they
were was Susan Lucci. She is a

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soulful facilitator, circle convener, and
purpose guide. We've been talking a bit

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about purpose in the world. After
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her circle work that she does.
Stay with us, We'll be right back.

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Doctor Release Cortez is a management consultant
specializing in meaning and purpose and inspirational

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speaker and author. She helps companies
visioneer for greater purpose among stakeholders and develop

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purpose inspired leadership and meaning infused cultures
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about how to get your employees working
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Now back to working on purpose.
Thanks for staying with us, and

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welcome back to working on purpose.
As I watched the pandemic continue on,

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if you're just joining the program.
My guest today is Susan Lucci, who

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as a chapter in the book called
Purpose Rising, a global movement of transformation

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and meaning. It is calling in
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LEAs Cortez. So, Susan,
this next part here, I want to

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talk about your the work that you
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to situate really how you talk about
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is really interesting and I am that
any listeners are also going to resonate with

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this. But you say that after
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you longed for more meaningful connections and
conversations and heard the ache of so

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many other successful women to discover what
they were here to do. So tell

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us more about how your circle work
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and that listening. All right,
great, Well, yeah, I think

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it was because I finally started sleeping
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four years and I started reading again, and actually the book that Da Vinci

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code fell off the shelf and woke
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is part of this journey. And
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this is two thousand and five.
I had already been laid off once as

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a lawyer. My husband was laid
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investment banker. So here we were
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looking like I had to go back
to the law firm, and my soul

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was just not having that. Just
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putting myself out in the world.
The kids are getting in school, I'm

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starting to read again, and I
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this is how I will be able
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than about the diapers and you know, all the things of racing children.

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just even out and bumping into strangers
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were stirring in my soul. And
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an up another book. This time
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me and I ended up inviting her
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women come one night and she did
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call. And it turns out this
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in my journals for quite a while, and a group of the women from

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that night wrote to me and said, what are we going to do next?

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was great because I was taking all
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feminine stuff at the time, and
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playing with this model, like let's
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a time and have a conversation about
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incredible, like transformational almost from the
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group started like picking up dreams they
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to school, starting businesses. It
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I was like, I wonder what
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more that actually circle is a model
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weaving in so much learning and personal
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of women sitting together. And you
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raised my kids. I had women
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they were waking up to what's next. And it turns out that us slowing

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questions, and then us mirroring each
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and sharing it with each other,
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I just heard you say this and
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situations where we've harmed each other right
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didn't support each other because we felt
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was this way of like what if
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support each other and share, get
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concerns and brainstorm together what we're doing, and it started becoming this like activation

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old girls and practicing what I learned
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coming through me as an architect,
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just that intention, you know,
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was magical. So I'm so grateful
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maybe the listeners are thinking too.
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of me that ached for something more
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what I'm present to you, sirs, And one of the things that

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I can help doing, and I'm
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is when I listened to you and
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me, I am very present that
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I believe comes through your ability.
It's your purpose lens right, what you

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see in the world that needs doing
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really feel like you are connected to
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of us aren't, and it is
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that is what you're bringing to the
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you know, generations millennia. That's
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just a mouthpiece, because there's much
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really get that you're standing on you
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that came before you. So I
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benefit of that. And so when
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that feel like? I can't even
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say that you've you've facilitated more than
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these ranges that getting the benefit of
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Susan, what's that like? It
really feels it's so beautiful. So every

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time you can really have a conversation
like this, like you just illuminated another

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aspect that I hadn't really articulated or
put together before. So thank you for

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that. So fun, especially when
purpose peaks get together. What it feels

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like in the middle of being in
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It just feels like opening to something
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my website is too big for words, because even though I love words like

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you do, I love reading them, writing them, editing them. Circle

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experience is just too big for words. But I do really enjoy the preparation

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and bringing in other voices and weaving
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that forgetting is helpful in our remembering. And I think part of a purpose

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journey is constantly remembering who we are, and I think we need each other

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to do that, and so I
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like this ancient wisdom, what room
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Like wow, this is so present
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that's part of that remembering that there's
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part of. And so that often
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piece that I'll see them as their
shoulders lower, is they look around,

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they say, I'm not alone,
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that we all crave, that that
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it's it's more than just these women
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to all these eons of humanity that
have been questing for purpose and meaning,

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that have been questing to make a
difference and seekers, you know, of

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which I am another one. And
then just holding holding open space for that,

397
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Yeah, I'm guilty. Yes,
I'm right there with you. And

398
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another word that I'm thinking of it
for you as conduit. You're you're you're

399
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a spokesperson, and I think that
maybe that's the reflection of your being an

400
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attorney and a lawyer. But then
I think of you as being a conduit

401
00:27:44.039 --> 00:27:48.839
to all this this this you know, millennia of wisdom and tradition as well.

402
00:27:48.279 --> 00:27:52.640
That's that's another word that I'm taking
up for you. So I feel

403
00:27:52.680 --> 00:27:57.119
it very much feels like that in
my body, really good. I have

404
00:27:57.200 --> 00:28:00.240
been called a force of nature,
so it does feel like a conduit for

405
00:28:02.079 --> 00:28:06.359
and even when I teach people my
circle model, I will never trademarket or

406
00:28:06.359 --> 00:28:11.119
copyright it because it comes through me. And early on I committed I have

407
00:28:11.240 --> 00:28:15.640
it in my journal that it will
be organic. Whatever this is, it

408
00:28:15.640 --> 00:28:18.720
will be an organic and continue to
evolve. And I'm just here to shape

409
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and shepherd and hold that however it
wants to. And so to me,

410
00:28:22.480 --> 00:28:27.640
it's still it's still also advocacy.
It's just I'm not I'm holding space for

411
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others to really voice. And also
this this shared consciousness, this what I

412
00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:37.000
call the wee space is what I
feel like I'm really a conduit too,

413
00:28:37.039 --> 00:28:41.079
and that's where we are wiser,
right, where where all the potential potency

414
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lies. And also I think like
you're saying, our ancient roots are history

415
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that we're connected to here, well, you're speaking out of transformation, right,

416
00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:53.200
So there is it's an elevational process, but in so doing it has

417
00:28:53.240 --> 00:29:00.000
to there's transformation involved in that bit
about what you're facilitating, transformation, connection,

418
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wisdom, consciousness. I mean,
it's there's so much happening and the

419
00:29:03.839 --> 00:29:07.279
other thing that you just said,
that's so beautiful and listeners and viewers,

420
00:29:07.319 --> 00:29:11.400
this is so important that she you
said, whatever this is, and so

421
00:29:11.920 --> 00:29:14.480
right, A lot of times what
is bubbling up from within us, which

422
00:29:14.599 --> 00:29:18.720
is uniquely us. This is our
unique contribution to the world, and it

423
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is, in my view many ways, your purpose. That is something that

424
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only we can do. And it's
kind of like just being obedient to that

425
00:29:25.400 --> 00:29:27.960
which is coming out of us and
letting and being of service through it.

426
00:29:30.119 --> 00:29:33.720
Absolutely, and when I guide people, it's it's comes so naturally to us

427
00:29:33.759 --> 00:29:38.519
that often we don't credit it,
we don't value it. Look around,

428
00:29:38.599 --> 00:29:41.960
right, It's like, Oh,
this is what everybody's coming to me for.

429
00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:44.519
And so I think that's a big
part of the journey. I know

430
00:29:44.599 --> 00:29:45.839
that's a big part of the journey, is it. I'll often have people

431
00:29:45.880 --> 00:29:49.480
say, you mean, I get
to just be me and that's a huge

432
00:29:49.559 --> 00:29:52.720
insight and it always happens at a
certain moment in the journey, and I

433
00:29:52.799 --> 00:29:56.200
love it. I'm like, yes, and what does it feel like?

434
00:29:56.279 --> 00:30:00.680
What is that like? Now we
get to know that? And I agree

435
00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:04.079
with you that it's it's deeply encoded
in our DNA that we now know carries

436
00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:11.359
both the trauma and also the genius
you know of our lineages. So you've

437
00:30:11.400 --> 00:30:15.039
been talking about facilitating these these groups
even in your home and in the afternoon

438
00:30:15.079 --> 00:30:18.759
and such. But you've also done
this on a bigger, grander level for

439
00:30:18.759 --> 00:30:22.759
for many organizations, just one I
want to talk about, but this whole

440
00:30:22.759 --> 00:30:26.519
idea of bringing humans together, and
I know that you've done this for large

441
00:30:26.519 --> 00:30:30.359
forms like One Earth Film Festival,
which must have been amazing. So how

442
00:30:30.359 --> 00:30:33.759
do you convene a group and facilitate
something like that at a film festival?

443
00:30:36.000 --> 00:30:38.519
Oh gosh, it's so it just
changes the game. And this film fest

444
00:30:38.599 --> 00:30:44.440
we just completed our tenth year and
we're we're virtual, and it's it's way

445
00:30:44.480 --> 00:30:49.160
more even than the sustainability. I
should actually connect you with that leader to

446
00:30:49.200 --> 00:30:52.559
have on here, that thought leader. She's amazing. Love too. But

447
00:30:52.920 --> 00:30:57.480
what what we what we've learned is
that it's one thing in that case to

448
00:30:57.519 --> 00:31:00.720
watch a film and feel like,
oh good, I see something. Here's

449
00:31:00.720 --> 00:31:04.839
how important soil is. But if
we can then turn to each other,

450
00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:08.240
which is that model is really turning
to each other and beginning to unpack it

451
00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:11.359
what resonated? Starting with our senses, what did I see? What did

452
00:31:11.400 --> 00:31:15.480
I hear? What did I feel? What's touched me? And then begin

453
00:31:15.559 --> 00:31:18.559
to move we move them along the
arc of activation and would end in our

454
00:31:18.559 --> 00:31:22.519
model. If you imagine a room
filled with hundreds of people and then they

455
00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:26.279
can't get out of the room until
they meet with all of our strategic partners

456
00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:30.880
who are going to help them then
find the exact way to activate this awareness

457
00:31:30.880 --> 00:31:36.599
that they've just had, this connection
they've made to the planet, other people,

458
00:31:36.759 --> 00:31:41.000
and then to move into activation.
So that conversation piece is really at

459
00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:44.599
the heart of it. And mostly
we watch movies and just leave the theater,

460
00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:48.759
right, and this model is about
being really being together, and sometimes

461
00:31:48.759 --> 00:31:52.599
we have the filmmakers and the directors. You really get to learn what's involved

462
00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:56.480
in this so that you can care
to really open up that part of I

463
00:31:56.519 --> 00:32:00.839
think that makes us human and makes
us actually want to do something we can't

464
00:32:00.839 --> 00:32:06.519
not right to tap into that field. So holding those spaces is really fun

465
00:32:06.559 --> 00:32:10.799
because there's so many people there and
you know there's a microphone. But I'm

466
00:32:10.839 --> 00:32:15.119
just again playing with the energy of
that room. And we've seen those the

467
00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:19.400
groups swell over the years that I
have facilitated that, and so then a

468
00:32:19.440 --> 00:32:22.279
certain kind of energy build in the
room, right, this enthusiasm and you're

469
00:32:22.359 --> 00:32:27.720
moved. Actually you can feel that
move part of movement right that we are

470
00:32:27.799 --> 00:32:30.880
actually going to move people to take
action, to care more, to do

471
00:32:30.960 --> 00:32:37.200
whatever part resonates with them. I
think that would be amazing. You know.

472
00:32:37.200 --> 00:32:39.599
It's one thing to go after watching
a movie and go to a coffee

473
00:32:39.640 --> 00:32:43.319
spot and have a cappuccino and talk
through what you get from the movie or

474
00:32:43.359 --> 00:32:45.480
have a glass of wine afterwards,
but to convene a group and have it

475
00:32:45.720 --> 00:32:50.640
facilitated, that would be really yummy. So I'm in for the next one.

476
00:32:52.279 --> 00:32:54.640
Yes, we have an amazing team
of facilitators and every year we still

477
00:32:54.640 --> 00:32:58.920
revisit the training. You know,
is this the essential model? Is this?

478
00:32:59.000 --> 00:33:01.799
Because it's we're so deliberate about it, and there's a lot of history

479
00:33:01.839 --> 00:33:07.160
even to that model that we use. So I've been so fortunate to do

480
00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:10.839
that in an activist kind of way
that people can really feel good because that

481
00:33:10.920 --> 00:33:15.359
topic like the environment right or climate
crisis, can be so heavy and it

482
00:33:15.359 --> 00:33:20.160
can be so overwhelming that that you
don't know what to do. So we're

483
00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:23.200
flipping that right and empowering people.
And so some people like to write and

484
00:33:23.240 --> 00:33:27.240
do the advocacy, some people like
to march, but there's also all all

485
00:33:27.400 --> 00:33:30.799
kinds of other things that you can
do and so let's do it together.

486
00:33:30.839 --> 00:33:34.680
Then you feel you realize like my
little action is going to be part of

487
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:39.119
these bigger actions, and we emphasize
that quite a bit too. Also powerful,

488
00:33:39.599 --> 00:33:43.240
right, yeah, so powerful to
connect to something like that, that

489
00:33:43.359 --> 00:33:45.799
is great. So glad to have
you and share it with my listeners and

490
00:33:45.839 --> 00:33:47.559
viewers. I'm a last court has
your host. We are on the air

491
00:33:47.640 --> 00:33:52.279
of Susan Lucci, who is a
sulfur facilitator, circle convener and purpose guide.

492
00:33:52.279 --> 00:33:54.240
We've been talking a bit about the
work she does with circles. After

493
00:33:54.240 --> 00:33:57.920
the break, we're going to talk
about the movement she sees emerging in the

494
00:33:57.920 --> 00:34:01.039
world. Stay with us, We'll
be right back. Doctor Release Cortez is

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00:34:01.079 --> 00:34:07.039
a management consultant specializing in meaning and
purpose and inspirational speaker and author. She

496
00:34:07.199 --> 00:34:15.039
helps companies visioneer for greater purpose among
stakeholders and develop purpose inspired leadership and meaning

497
00:34:15.039 --> 00:34:21.400
infused cultures that elevate fulfillment, performance, and commitment within the workforce. To

498
00:34:21.559 --> 00:34:24.679
learn more or to invite a lease
to speak to your organization, please visit

499
00:34:24.719 --> 00:34:29.920
her at Elise Cortez dot com.
Let's talk about how to get your employees

500
00:34:30.039 --> 00:34:40.679
working on purpose. This is working
on Purpose with Doctor Release Cortez. To

501
00:34:40.719 --> 00:34:45.039
reach our program today or open a
conversation with Elise, send an email to

502
00:34:45.199 --> 00:34:52.599
Elise ali se at Elise Cortez dot
com. Now back to working on Purpose.

503
00:34:58.960 --> 00:35:00.360
Thanks for staying with us. Well, come back to working on Purpose.

504
00:35:00.519 --> 00:35:05.119
I mentioned in the first break about
the Grab Your gusta Wellbeing webcast learning

505
00:35:05.119 --> 00:35:07.199
series. The content of that program
is adapted from part one of my recently

506
00:35:07.199 --> 00:35:12.519
published book called Purpose Ignited, How
Inspiring Leaders Ignite passion and Elevate Cause,

507
00:35:12.800 --> 00:35:15.639
which is really all about awakening leaders
to their passion and their purpose and helping

508
00:35:15.679 --> 00:35:20.480
to transform them into inspirational leaders who
create a workplace where people actually want to

509
00:35:20.480 --> 00:35:22.760
come and will thrive. If you're
just joining us, my guest today is

510
00:35:22.760 --> 00:35:25.880
Susan Mucci, who, among other
things, is the co founder and circle

511
00:35:25.920 --> 00:35:30.039
tender of Feel Real, a benefit
corporation devoted to co creating brave spaces for

512
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:35.599
people to engage in real time,
face to face, meaningful conversations Online's calling

513
00:35:35.599 --> 00:35:38.760
in today from Chicago. I'm your
host, Doctor Elie's Cortez. Okay,

514
00:35:38.800 --> 00:35:43.840
so for this next part of the
conversation, let's just really dive into this.

515
00:35:43.400 --> 00:35:46.039
This is where I really recognize,
Susan, that you really are up

516
00:35:46.039 --> 00:35:50.599
to something in the world. And
I want to be able to read a

517
00:35:50.639 --> 00:35:52.719
small passage from what you sent to
me about what you're shaping into a book,

518
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:55.559
because I want the readers to understand
and get present to the way you

519
00:35:55.639 --> 00:36:00.360
use language. All right, So
I'm going to read this. So this

520
00:36:00.440 --> 00:36:02.280
is from an introduction that you're working
on for your book. It's to me,

521
00:36:02.320 --> 00:36:07.159
it's just titillating, she says.
Read along with me to discover for

522
00:36:07.239 --> 00:36:10.880
yourself the new consciousness, leaving her
way through communities of women connecting, caring

523
00:36:10.920 --> 00:36:15.639
for, and uplifting each other.
Wander along with us as I share stories

524
00:36:15.719 --> 00:36:20.800
evidencing the emerging culture of community minded
activists and artists creating the change we desperately

525
00:36:20.840 --> 00:36:23.519
need. A feminine soul is rising
up, and she is marching and running

526
00:36:23.519 --> 00:36:30.039
for office and changing policy and creating
new communities and impacting culture as she reclaims

527
00:36:30.039 --> 00:36:34.360
her sovereignty a new way of being
human is bravely and boldly revealing herself in

528
00:36:34.400 --> 00:36:37.800
the heart of our country. I'm
in, Susan, this book coming out.

529
00:36:37.800 --> 00:36:40.719
When's it coming out? You're part
of it. You are part of

530
00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:45.679
this movement that I see for sure. You know, when I was writing

531
00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:51.920
that part of the book, I
was also rereading Rachel Carson's Silent Spraying,

532
00:36:52.480 --> 00:36:57.760
which her wake up call came from
almost a dystopian although it's not that unrealistic,

533
00:36:57.840 --> 00:37:00.000
but it was a very here's what's
going to happen we keep using toxic

534
00:37:00.079 --> 00:37:04.239
chemicals, and so I kept thinking, what if? What if? What's

535
00:37:04.320 --> 00:37:09.079
missing is us seeing a possible future
that we that we already are becoming.

536
00:37:09.840 --> 00:37:14.639
And so that's that's what came to
me to write that. And as I

537
00:37:14.679 --> 00:37:17.280
was writing it, I also have
know women that are doing all of those

538
00:37:17.320 --> 00:37:24.199
things, right, So I think
what I'm fascinated by is there is a

539
00:37:24.239 --> 00:37:29.920
movement, There is an uprising of
women around the planet, and it just

540
00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:34.199
hasn't been named or noticed in its
entirety. So what if we make that

541
00:37:34.400 --> 00:37:38.679
visible? This this culture of care
that is being created and co created all

542
00:37:38.760 --> 00:37:42.239
over the planet. And I saw
a lot of that during COVID. How

543
00:37:42.239 --> 00:37:45.320
many people are holding circles, For
example, I met a lot of facilitators

544
00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:47.119
and I was just blown away,
Like here, I thought I was holding

545
00:37:47.159 --> 00:37:51.400
up my piece of this guy doing
circles and there's there's people around the globe

546
00:37:52.039 --> 00:37:58.679
doing circles. So I and the
other piece about this culture of care that

547
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:01.519
I feel like I'm seeing just like
Paul Hawkins saw this blessed unrest with with

548
00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:08.159
nonprofits forming a movement. And if
I bring it back our conversation from the

549
00:38:08.199 --> 00:38:12.000
first part about purpose, like really
what is purpose? And a lot of

550
00:38:12.039 --> 00:38:15.360
what's written about purpose is about desire
and passion and like following what you love

551
00:38:15.400 --> 00:38:20.000
and following your bliss, you know, Joseph Campbell's piece. And what I

552
00:38:20.039 --> 00:38:24.079
have learned is that, especially with
women, often we are most on purpose

553
00:38:24.119 --> 00:38:29.719
when we're following in our heartbreak,
when it's actually and I'm not talking about

554
00:38:29.719 --> 00:38:32.599
their our thirteen year old first boyfriend
that we broke up with. I'm talking

555
00:38:32.639 --> 00:38:37.960
about our deep heartbreak that we can't
not do something about that need in the

556
00:38:38.000 --> 00:38:43.599
world. So when I saw women
just like, oh gosh, do I

557
00:38:43.679 --> 00:38:46.000
have anything else to give? You
know, and I could just feel into

558
00:38:46.039 --> 00:38:49.000
the potentials, like all right,
we got to get up to this,

559
00:38:49.159 --> 00:38:52.119
you know, We've got to support
this and nurture this so that we can

560
00:38:52.679 --> 00:38:55.559
do that. And so that's that's
what a lot of my book is about.

561
00:38:55.599 --> 00:38:59.079
And the challenges. I know as
a little girl, I was told

562
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:02.719
don't wear your on your sleep,
it's dangerous. And in fact, at

563
00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:07.239
one point I was graduated working for
a legator. I'm a bad case,

564
00:39:07.440 --> 00:39:09.840
and oh my god, did they
break my heart. And I came home

565
00:39:09.880 --> 00:39:14.760
because I love babies, and I
came home at night and it got to

566
00:39:14.760 --> 00:39:17.079
the point I thought, this is
too I'm too emotional. I cannot do

567
00:39:17.159 --> 00:39:22.599
this work. So I got into
the more corporate type work as well.

568
00:39:22.360 --> 00:39:28.440
Decades later, I have since come
to really appreciate and respect that our wearing

569
00:39:28.480 --> 00:39:31.679
our heart on our sleep is exactly
what's needed, and it's our superpower to

570
00:39:31.840 --> 00:39:37.519
really take our vulnerability, our compassion, all of these beautiful gifts of our

571
00:39:37.559 --> 00:39:39.559
heart that move us in the world, that make us do that work that

572
00:39:39.599 --> 00:39:44.159
we can't not do. And so
I'm really I've seen that. And that's

573
00:39:44.159 --> 00:39:45.800
what my book is about, is
that the culture of care comes through,

574
00:39:46.679 --> 00:39:52.239
especially this feminine energy, women waking
up to their heartbreak and just doing something

575
00:39:52.280 --> 00:39:57.480
about it, caring for each other, running for office. It's an incredible

576
00:39:58.039 --> 00:40:00.480
the numbers of women I stopped after
I interviewed dozens of them. I thought,

577
00:40:00.519 --> 00:40:04.400
oh my gosh, I am I
going to capture all of these There're

578
00:40:04.440 --> 00:40:07.519
so many, so I can't wait. This is so this is so great,

579
00:40:07.519 --> 00:40:12.440
Susan. I just it's so interesting
and intriguing and compelling to listen to.

580
00:40:12.559 --> 00:40:15.079
It's not just listening to, it's
being with you, as you say,

581
00:40:15.119 --> 00:40:19.119
your your energy that's conveyed so much, and you you're a passion,

582
00:40:19.159 --> 00:40:22.679
your conviction. It's it's this is
fascinating. I'm really don't want to let

583
00:40:22.679 --> 00:40:24.360
you go from my listeners and viewers, by the way, so we'll be

584
00:40:24.440 --> 00:40:28.400
on for maybe a few more hours. You just you know, get dinner

585
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:31.119
ordered and we'll call it good.
But one of the things that you said,

586
00:40:31.480 --> 00:40:35.239
just in you're as you're starting to
articulate some of these new thoughts here

587
00:40:35.239 --> 00:40:37.840
as you do talk about this new
kind of presence and power that's rising up

588
00:40:37.840 --> 00:40:42.760
on the planet, and and you
say it's uniquely and fiercely feminine, and

589
00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:46.000
you and we and you talk specifically
about how it's embodied and our team climate

590
00:40:46.039 --> 00:40:50.760
activists credit Boomberg. I'm not sure
how to say her last name, but

591
00:40:50.880 --> 00:40:54.159
she brings so much insight and courage
and in her truth telling that's inspiring massive

592
00:40:54.159 --> 00:40:58.440
acts of protest and people coming along
with her. And I think that's such

593
00:40:58.440 --> 00:41:02.840
a great example of what you're talking
about. Yeah right, and so wonderfully

594
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:06.800
surprising. I think for most of
us to be how old is she?

595
00:41:06.960 --> 00:41:12.360
What is she right? But in
her ferocity, how she can just right,

596
00:41:12.480 --> 00:41:15.519
and we have seen it moves people
right, and so I think there's

597
00:41:15.639 --> 00:41:22.519
juice there. I often will say
that we have not yet on this planet

598
00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:28.840
experienced Mama Bear's roar. A whole
group of women coming together, and we

599
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care about our planet, we care
about our children, We care, and

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just like that, really taking that
energy that fierce Mama Bear roar, And

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even though she's not a mother,
I just think Gretta, Gretta embodies that

602
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right. She speaks from that place
and calls us into it, because it's

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very much then a week place.
It's not the hero's journey model of I

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am Greta and I am running this
right. She's very clear with us she'd

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rather be going to school and doing
what kids do right, But because nobody

606
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else is up to this, she
has to. And so I see that

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in many different ways and shapes.
And I think Shannon Watts, who started

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the Mom's Demand since around the gun
laws and stuff like that. She talks

609
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about this who I met with her
after an event here in Chicago, and

610
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I was talking to her about that, like, what is this power of

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women coming together because and it comes
from our hearts, what we care abround,

612
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what we can no longer stand to
let happen in our communities. So

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this is this is so powerful.
And I've been having so many really amazing

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conversations around, if you will,
the spigot of the dial or around the

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mic about these things. And so
this is really important that we talked about

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this next point and this whole point
of this new balancing energy that you're talking

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about that's rising up all over the
planet. It's in and you say it's

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in response to toxic masculinity, oppressive
patriarchy, and and you're really talking about

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bringing more of a yen to an
excessive yang. And this sacred feminine archetype

620
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can be embodied in both men and
women, of course. And what this

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is really important listeners and viewers.
This is the point that I want to

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make here. This energy is not
against men. In fact, this is

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this uprising is not against anything at
all. You're taking a stand for life

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and it's the harmony that uplifts others. And it's really important that we talk

625
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about this because I think sometimes when
we either talk about what's happening for men

626
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or what's happening for women, the
other side starts to feel picked on or

627
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what about us? And you're not
saying that, You're you're talking about something

628
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what I would consider to be much
more pure here. Yeah, it's absolutely

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what are we for? What do
we care about? And uplifting that.

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A lot of us, a lot
of the women in circles, a lot

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of the women I purpose guide have
made it in the massculine world, right

632
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we have been lawyers and doctors and
survived in the corporate world and now and

633
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there's something else. And I do
see this. I think there's plenty of

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books to be written about men and
the sacred masculine and that coming in and

635
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then the balance of the two,
for sure. But what I have been

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seeing here is uniquely feminine, you
know, in women's bodies coming into their

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community, what they care about.
But it's it's very much the pro you

638
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know, the what do we stand
forward and moving in that direction. And

639
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it's also not not like this driven
achievement type way it's it's it's a whole

640
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different effects. Sometimes we're just stepping
back. Sometimes it's about the presence.

641
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Mostly it's about uplifting and centering other
people, other people whose voices have not

642
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been heard, other people who don't
have access to resources or systems that we're

643
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that we're really shepherding and working towards. So it's very much communal, you

644
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know, and about groups. It's
very collaborative working together. It's very co

645
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creative. Even though an idea might
come through something I say or you say,

646
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it's about now, what do we
do together? Who needs to be

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part of this to create the kind
of world we want to live in.

648
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So I think we've learned the limitations
of the anti movements right, even energetically,

649
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they just do something very different.
If I talk to you, and

650
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you and I could have a whole
conversation about what I am against I do

651
00:45:06.480 --> 00:45:08.559
not, but but that will not
energize. You'll notice a very different energy

652
00:45:08.599 --> 00:45:12.400
in me. So I think these
are the kind of conversations that I like

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to hold and have, Like what
do you stand for? What do you

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want your life to stand for?
When it's over? You know? What?

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What did what were you for what
did you learn during COVID that you

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00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:27.039
can bring out of that now and
give to the world because it's needed right

657
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now. You and I could complete
your other sentences, Susan, I just

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give a presentation today were of saying
something almost exactly like what you've been saying.

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And by the way, I did
actually get moved to tears at once

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at one point because I was reflecting
on something that inspired me. And so

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when we get inspired, sometimes we
get moved to tears and to your point

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00:45:45.920 --> 00:45:49.320
where your emotions on your sleep and
so I like being in that world.

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That's the world I want to live
in. So to that point, I

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wanted to ask you about what is
your vision of the world as embodied in

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this movement toward a culture of care? What does that look like? Well,

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a little bit like what you read
earlier at the beginning of my book.

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And then I go what I want
to do is to go on in

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if this is a book or I
don't know what it's going, how it's

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going to come out into the world, but that it is stories of people

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acting in the world every day from
embodying their purpose to make it so that

671
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people can start looking around and going, oh, yes, my neighbor does

672
00:46:20.719 --> 00:46:22.000
that, Oh my husband does that. That they can see it and then

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00:46:22.039 --> 00:46:28.079
we inspire each other. Something I
have really witnessed is that we can't become

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ourselves by ourselves. Actually a lot
of my own self awareness and element journey

675
00:46:32.280 --> 00:46:35.280
and I got to the quint where
I was like, you can no longer

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sit on this cushion, girl,
you have got to get into the world.

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That's what I missed most about COVID
is bumping up against the world.

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That's where I learned the most about
my purpose web opportunities to give right.

679
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So we when we humans can really
embrace that that all of this othering is

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holding us back from the truth,
which is belonging and becoming beloved community,

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and that that means all of us
that the circle has to We can go

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00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:02.320
right back to Miss Janine on that
circle in Monastory or mister Rogers, it's

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until we are all part of this
and as equals in a circle model,

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right, we are equals. Even
if I'm facilitating, I am right here

685
00:47:10.039 --> 00:47:14.480
with you. I'm going to be
vulnerable with you. I don't hold any

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access to anything greater than you.
And so it's happening I mean in our

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families, in our communities, we
are we are being I think this better

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version of ourselves, which is that
we move from what we care about.

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We've also learned so much about our
emotional intelligence and heart math. I love

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the Heart Math Institute. What they're
discovering is, Yeah, our brains are

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fabulous about our hearts. Wow,
five thousand times more that energy. So

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this is just an unto potential and
it's best activated when we come together,

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when we come together around something we
care about, such as like the kind

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of world we want to live in, and there are conditions like COVID that

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are going to pressure us into that. I think the climate. You know,

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we see that we just set a
tornado in Chicago two days ago.

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We see this climate and there are
we're talking like what are we going to

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00:48:00.760 --> 00:48:05.519
do? How are we going to
come together to really survive this right and

699
00:48:05.559 --> 00:48:08.360
to nurture each other and live the
lives that we want to live together.

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Oh my gosh, Susan, that
is a great way to finish the show.

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We are out of time, and
you have been spectacular. I'm certain

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00:48:16.079 --> 00:48:19.559
that our listeners and viewers don't want
to give you up. So you've got

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to find You've got to find her
and connect with her. So Susan,

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thank you for sharing your heart,
mind, and soul with us today.

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00:48:24.639 --> 00:48:29.119
Thank you Alas, it's been a
pleasure. Listeners and viewers who want to

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learn more about Susan Lucci and the
work she is doing as a circle tender

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00:48:31.079 --> 00:48:36.679
and purpose guide start by visiting her
website at Pursue Your Purpose dot coo.

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00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:40.000
Again, let's Pursue your Purpose dot
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if you missed the live show,
you can always catch it recorded podcast.

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We were on the air with Bob
Graham and u Hanya Duran of Noma State

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Direct, talking about how this nonprofit
came to be as an expression of Bob's

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to himself to go fifty fifty at
fifty, meaning spend fifty percent of his

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life toward work and making money and
the other fifty percent towards service. By

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the time he was fifty and I'm
now on that board that is well,

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so thirty five years later, his
work lives on in this dynamic organization and

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that is dedicated to empowering guatemal and
business owners and entrepreneurs, women specifically with

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business education and microloans to transform them
from poverty to at least middle class.

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Amazing group. Next week, we'll
be on the air with Charles Antis talking

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about his refusal to stray from being
a cheerleader for good while also stewarding a

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very successful working business. See you
there. Remember that work is at least

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a third of a life, So
let's work on purpose. We hope you've

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enjoyed this week's program. Be sure
to tune into Working on Purpose featuring your

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00:49:49.760 --> 00:49:53.320
host, doctor Elise Cortez, each
week on the Voice America Empowerment Channel.

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Together, we'll create a world where
business operates conscientiously, leaders hip inspires impassioned

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performance, and employees are fulfilled in
work that provides the meaning and purpose they

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crave. See you there, Let's
work on Purpose.