June 30, 2021

Circles: Women Creating Sanctuaries of Care

Circles: Women Creating Sanctuaries of Care

Come along with us in this conversation as we discover the new consciousness weaving its way through communities of women, connecting, caring, and uplifting each other. Activated through the power of circle, there is increasing evidence of an emerging...

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Come along with us in this conversation as we discover the new consciousness weaving its way through communities of women, connecting, caring, and uplifting each other. Activated through the power of circle, there is increasing evidence of an emerging culture of community-minded activists and artists collaborating to create the change we all desperately need. The feminine soul is rising, and she is running for office and changing policy to create new communities connected through caring. Enter the embrace in a brave new world.

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What's working on purpose anyway? Each
week we ponder the answer to this question.

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People ache for meaning and purpose at
work, to contribute their talents passionately

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and know their lives really matter.
They crave being part of an organization that

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inspires them and helps them grow into
realizing their highest potential. Business can be

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such a force for good in the
world, elevating humanity. In our program,

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we provide guidance and inspiration to help
usher in this world we all want

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working on purpose. Now. Here
is your host, Doctor Elise Cortes.

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Hi are welcome back to the Working
on Purpose Program. Thanks for turning it

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again this week. I'm your host, Doctor Release Cortes. Don't you lie

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from Dallas, Texas, which is
home base for me. If you don't

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know me yet, I'm a management
consultant specializing and meaning and purpose, organizational

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logal theory, therapist, inspirational speaker, social scientist, and author. You

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can learn more about me and how
we can work together at Atleastcortes dot com,

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Orgustodashnaut dot com. Let me thank
my partner and sponsor work Proud.

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We are a perfect collaboration. Everyone
wants to know they matter and that the

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of their company. Learn more at workproud

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dot com. With us today,
who is Susan Lucci who is passionate about

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encouraging women to reconnect to their essential
nature and bravely turn up their soul shine

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to bring more of their authentic selves
into the world. She has a Purpose

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Guide and has developed the Circle model
to bring women together through the ancient archetyct

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to facilitate more soulful conversations and create
more engaged communities. She has a chapter

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in the book Purpose Rising, the
global movement of transformation and Meaning, which

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is how I originally came across her
and then ask her to come on the

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show. Today, we'll be talking
talking about the state of purpose in the

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world, learn more about the circle
work she does and explore the movement she

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sees emerging the culture of care.
She joined us today from Chicago. Susan,

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Welcome to working on purpose. Helloly, So I'm happy to be here.

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It is so great. You know, it's so great when when I

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read someone's work and then I reach
out and that kind of starts stalking you,

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right, So then I reached out
to you on LinkedIn and I found

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you in the Global Purpose Leaders group
and you really couldn't get away from me.

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So thank you for finally saying yes
and coming on. Thank you for

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stalking Why not? I've met so
many amazing people doing that and I haven't

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gotten arrested once yet. It's great
yet. Yeah. Well, I just

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love how you describe your journey to
purpose. We want to start there,

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since we're going to situate this first
part of the conversation around the purpose in

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the world, and I just want
to start because purpose is one of those

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kind of things that kind of we
get it reveals itself to us, is

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one way to see it. And
one of the things that you say in

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your work is you say, your
first interpretation of your purpose was as a

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lawyers advocating for other people. But
there was something particular about that experience that

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really started to help you resonate with
your purpose. Let's start there, all

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right, great? Uh, yeah, that that seemed to be what I

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was here to do. As a
little girl, I was in my dad's

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law firm, and as the oldest
child, was always gently prodded to speak

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up for others and stand up for
allies on playgrounds. So I've been doing

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that for decades now and really took
a lot of pleasure out of out of

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speaking up for people who could not
speak up for themselves and whether that was

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then negotiating for them uh in law
firms and and also some of my coworkers

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speaking out for them when they needed
to be represented in that kind of thing.

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So I love that word advocacy.
I still do that in lots of

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different ways today, but at the
heart of it is that word voice,

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you know, the Latin word vocal. So about that and helping people to

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really activate their potential by finding their
voice is where it has evolved into.

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From that point, I want to
echo that price you just said right there,

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and it's so beautiful activate their potential. Oh, talk about exercising agency

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in the world. That is so
beautiful. Yeah. The way I hold

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purpose is if you think about an
acorn becoming an oak tree, and it's

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all potential that becoming that happens between
the seed and the firsting open and all

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of the moving through the environment to
become an oak tree. And each of

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us have that same intelliquy, that
same potential in us, and it is

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shaped a lot by our environments.
But there's also that acornness or that a

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leastness, that soonness of each of
us that I think is the fun revelatory

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process that you referenced. I love
how sad. Yeah, that potential and

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it's within us, and it's also
between us, right, so even more

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is activated between us in our conversation. Absolutely in this conversation what we're gonna

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talk about a little bit later with
your circle's work, for sure. So

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now I want to drill down a
little bit deeper here, which I think

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is so interesting what you did and
some of the reading that you started with

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me, or some of the writing
that you shared with me. I think

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it's interesting that you started to reflect
somewhere in your life. I'm not sure

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where this happened, but you go
on to depict that your monassory teacher and

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mister Rogers I love that play to
eat you rolls and helping you discern your

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purpose. So now I want to
This is great for our listeners and viewers

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who are many people listening because they're
trying to discover their purpose, right,

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that's why they're here. So how
have you come to understand your purpose to

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day and its expression going back through
those experiences and those people, Yeah,

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really really through moments. Those are
actually two more recent reveals to me in

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the last I would say four or
five years. And there was a day

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we will talk more about circle,
but sitting in circle where I came out,

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and I had a memory of being
a little girl sitting on a taped

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on a rug where the circle was
taped and just looking left and right,

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and there were children of all different
colors rare in my in my then upbringing,

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but I was there. I was
two years old sitting on this circle

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with Miss Jennie, who has since
passed but remained in my life for many

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decades. And she called me the
Center Room baby. Was the Montessory Center

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Room in Cincinnati that my mom and
her twin sister founded, and she called

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me the Center Room baby because I
was the youngest that had ever gone.

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I wasn't even two when I was
going. But the culture we had there

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that was so inclusive and so diverse
and learning about other cultures. At one

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point I thought we were in Peru. I mean, the way she could

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just help us really embrace other cultures. And I grew up in a very

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strict My mom was very strict and
very she really betted, you know,

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anything that we that we took into
our bodies. But also TV was very

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limited, but mister Rogers Neighborhood was
a show. And watching the film that

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was made a couple of years ago
really reminded me of that deep love to

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be neighborly and how that even from
a very young age, we would shovel

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the snow on our neighbors driveways before
we shoveled our own snowa It just was

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part of my family culture growing up
to be neighborly. And if I bring

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that all the way forward to COVID, I would say connecting with new neighbors

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was one of our survival mechanisms here. So I really treasure along with the

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diversity that mister Rogers stood for and
how he was talking to the mailman and

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inviting people in and so many radical
edgy moves for the time. So that's

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that's something I could I could then
learn and watch that movie and it just

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broke broke open in me that memory
of how deep my love for community and

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inclusive community went. I can virtually
guarantee you, Susan, that you have

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just opened something and listeners and viewers
who heard you say that, including me,

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because I was also very attractive to
mister Rogers, and I now I

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recognize it. It is because I
align with his whole value and notion of

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the goodness in the world and aspiring
for goodness and being kind. And so

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there's something listeners and viewers. What
I'd encourage you to do from what you

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just share it is consider what did
you gravitate to when you were younger?

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What did you watch? Why did
you was? What was there for you?

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So that share was beautiful, Susan, and wholly unanticipated. Thank you

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very much. Well, so here
we are in a world it's twenty twenty

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one and you really can't go anywhere
without hearing two words in one day,

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meaning and purpose. And so there
seems to be really an obsession with purpose

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these days, and there's a lot
of confusion as both you and I know

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about what that actually means. There's
overuse and under use of that word,

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but there's an elusiveness to it as
well. So I'd love your perspective as

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somebody who is a purpose guide is
how what do you see about this?

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Is? Are we obsessed with purpose? What's going on with this? Well?

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I think we are bothered by a
huge, huge expectation around purpose.

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I myself went through this too,
where I thought that to be on purpose,

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to know my purpose meant I had
to change the entire world and that

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it was all squarely placed on my
shoulders, and if I wasn't doing something

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about it that had impact and could
be measured and value, then I was

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just not purposeful. And I have
since heard that from a number of clients.

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Is, but that's not purpose.
But that's not big enough, that's

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not impactful enough, that's not changing
the world. And so I've like,

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Wow, we really need to bring
this down to its essential nature, which

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is in your tagline an ache for
meeting. And to me, the moments

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that I have felt most embodying my
purpose have been when I was needing that

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ache for meeting in the world and
doing something with it and moving it into

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the world, or being a presence
that was drawing that in or connecting with

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other people. So I think our
minds. I've gotten a hold of that

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word purpose, which is an ancient
concept as far as I can tell,

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Aristotle was teaching about purpose and it
is essential to our nature as human beings.

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And then somehow along the way it
got taken off, probably through you

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know, consumer capitalism, that it
had to be saving the world. And

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so I think, I think covid. I think our times now have really

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helped us land this to embody it
that we are meaning makers. We are

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we are Homo sapiens, those who
know that we know, and I think

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that is what gives us the juice
of life is when we make meaning.

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And the older I get, the
more I'm reminded that it's up to me

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to do that. You know.
I've been through a lot of education as

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you have too, and read a
lot of books. People can teach you

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things, but when you make meaning
for yourself, that to me is the

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most alive. I feel me too. That's my jam, meaning and purpose.

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I love it. I've been doing
it, you know, and it's

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my ache. Right to your point, what one of the paths to purpose

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is by really exam what ails you
your whole life? What have you learned

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by being obsessed with something that has
bothered you. And I was bothered about

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the lack of meaning and purpose and
that's why I do what I do today.

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So yeah, it's amazing and that
brings us to where we've been for

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the last fifteen sixteen months, this
whole COVID thing. And one of the

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things that you and I talked about
in our exchanges is how COVID and the

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quarantine has created some perfect conditions for
a purpose journey. I want to hear

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more about your perspective on that.
I have my own, but let's hear

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yours. Yeah. Well, it
is interesting that in some zoom calls,

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of the many zoom calls, I
was on, look at the rectangle that

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we're in as our cocoon, right
as this alchemical cauldron for are activating our

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purpose. But when I guide someone
through a purpose journey or a company of

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them on their journey, it's months
long. The way that I was taught,

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and about two thirds of the way
through, we actually create the conditions

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where they can separate, They can
leave home, get out of the ordinarry

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the daily be immersed in nature as
much as they are comfortable and really slow

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down to the speed of the soul. And so if I look at even

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those three parts, I mean that's
what COVID did. I wasn't many weeks

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into it when I was like,
oh my gosh, here we are.

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We are completely separated from each other, from what we call normal, you

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know, this daily way of living
we are. The quiet around here,

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even in Chicago, was just so
beautiful, the stillness. I noticed people

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just getting outside no matter what.
We had a really terrific winter in Chicago,

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three feet of snow, but we
were all getting out. There was

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something really interesting about us being in
nature and then having that time to reflect.

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I noticed a lot more conversations about
what matters. Mokest we started talking

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about what's essential. Essential workers have
always been on our planet, in our

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cultures, right, nurses and teachers. Suddenly it's like, what's essential.

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We're cheering for them, We're tying
white ribbons around what's essential the big question

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on a purpose journey. So I
was like, here we are right the

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middle of a purpose crisis slash opportunity
and sharing that moment together, and I

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don't think we've yet unpacked exactly what
has been happening. No, it's continuing

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to unferral. I want to go
back quickly because you say so many great

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poetic things. I love the way
that you use language, and I really

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am getting a senensusan that I think
it comes from something really deep, not

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just in your person, but that
you're connected to across the world and in

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our collective past. That's kind of
what I'm getting from you. It's really

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beautiful. It's really beautiful. It's
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which is such a great thing.
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said is that it allows us to
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just my perspective on it is thinking
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we're creating workplaces where we actually want
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actually thrive and do business and betters
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whole routine was stopped, which was
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will. But then now here we
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new perspective of what life and work
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resignation. I've written some articles about
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that really entails that it Depending on
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that anywhere from thirty three to fifty
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to change jobs in twenty twenty one. That's due to pent up demand for

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change, not feeling like they're growth
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not feeling appreciated in their current role, and lots of things needing a

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change in life, right, and
so they people are changing locations where they

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live. There's all this charre that's
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on this notion of the change in
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are deciding to live. Yeah,
the big shift the quit and it is.

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on our door two weeks ago,
we're actually in the process of selling our

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house. So wow, I'm part
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for hire, looking for people to
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business has fifty job openings right now, So I'm really immersed in this and

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curious about it. It's in the
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asking these big questions and we woke
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I've heard that from a lot of
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working, and at so many different
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maybe from the constraints of what I
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that they're coming out with spring,
I'm hopeful. And I'm also seeing more

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intentionality and because of this, I
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because of the purpose journey here coming
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have seen a lot of death,
Alice. I mean, I know you

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lost your folks right before. I
love my mom. During COVID six hundred

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thousand deaths just in America more around
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right here. We got to see
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that'll waken something deep in us that
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I want, Here's the kind of
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the kind of work I want to
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employers are really listening. I think
we need some wage adjustments for starts,

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but I think the workability of our
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this demand. So I think it's
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of all of it. So for
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I think it's a really hard time. You know, I have a lot

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before we're going to go back to
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a lot not great about normal,
you know, so beautifully beautiful? Is

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that? I agree. I think
it's a great opportunity and it's very scary

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for people that don't like change and
adaptation. You're right, and the great

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resignation alsod just how unnatural the way
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part of what's written that in that
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crazy the way we actually have been
working really is? The crazy commutes,

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sitting in a cubicle, you know, long meetings, what are we doing

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here? So yeah, so much
we could unpack on that, But I

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also find it to be very exciting
and helping companies through this crisis is part

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of what I've been really up to
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Oh, that's beautiful. I'm so
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Yeah, I just it's just so
I'm having more fun than I was

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supposed to have, which we talked
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so don't tell anybody. Let's rub
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it's really great as people are listening. You know, I think we're listening

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because we're coming out of this place
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human quality that I didn't experience a
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I didn't experience a lot in the
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a great opportunity right now. Let's
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That's beautiful, Susan, what a
great way to take us into our

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first break. Emilie Cortes your host
Bruniara Susan Lucci. She is a soulful

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facilitator, circle convener and purpose guide. We've been talking a bit about purpose

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in the world. After the break, we're going to get into her circle

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work that she does. Stay with
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Elise Cortes is a management consultant specializing
in meaning and purpose and inspirational speaker and

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author. She helps companies visioneer for
greater purpose among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired

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leadership and meaning infused cultures that elevate
fulfillment, performance, and commitment within the

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workforce. To learn more or to
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employees working on purpose. This is
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on purpose. Thanks for starting with
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As I watch the pandemic continue and
we look for ways to help companies

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support their employees handle anxiety, stress, depression and feeling disconnected while also helping

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to lift and inspire them with ongoing
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Wellbeing webinar learning series called Grab your
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it out there if you're just joining
the program. My guest today is Susan

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movement of transformation and meaning. It
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host, doctor LESE. Cortes.
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I want to talk about the work
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first I want to situate really how
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which I think is really interesting and
I am that many listeners are also going

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to resonate with this. But you
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raising three children, you longed for
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ache of so many other successful women
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it came from that ache and that
listening? All right, great? Well,

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yeah, I think it was because
I finally started sleeping through the night

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again after having big four years,
and I started reading again, and actually

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the book that Da Vinci code fell
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the sacred feminine, which is part
of this journey. And then we moved

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and bought a house, and this
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already been laid off once as a
lawyer. My husband was laid off three

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different times as a lawyer and investment
maker. So here we were three children

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in this house and it was looking
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law firm, and my soul was
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like, oh, so I'm out
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kids are getting in school, I'm
starting to read again, and I started

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joining book clubs, thinking oh,
this is how I will be able to

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start having conversations, bigger conversations than
about the diapers and you know, all

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the things of raising children. And
I just wasn't satisfied in the level of

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conversation. So I found myself just
even out and bumping into strangers and I

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can ask these big questions that were
stirring in my soul. And as it

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would turn out, there was another
book. This time I danced by Tamma

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Keats that came to me and I
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and I had thirty women come one
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she did one coaching call. And
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bubbling in me and in my journals
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of the women from that night wrote
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going to do next? So we
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month, and it was great because
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reading. It was all sacred feminine
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bringing it in. I was playing
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listen to one person at a time
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matters. And it was really incredible, like transformational almost from the beginning that

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people and the women in that group
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they were younger, going back to
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incredible in that year what happened.
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you should do this, and I
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conversation and I do it uniquely by
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work and then also the power of
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been a lawyer and raised my kids. I had women come that had had

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had professions, worked in the corporate
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care of parents, and they were
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turns out that us slowing down,
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focusing on ourselves and me holding this
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to ask these big questions, and
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remembering who we are and sharing it
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gosh, Alise, I just heard
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we've been in situations where we've harmed
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or we didn't support each other because
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were practicing was this way of like, what if we uplift each other?

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dreams and our concerns and brainstorm together
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this like activation place, and before
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five of these a week with women
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we all have nine year old girls. Shouldn't we know this stuff when

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we're little. So then I started
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nine year old girls and practicing.
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art form that was just coming through
me as an archetype. To light a

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candle in the middle, to set
intention, you know, to meditate a

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little bit slow down so I could
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in here. It's just was magical. So I'm so grateful for that whole

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confluence of events. And maybe the
listeners are thinking too. Sometimes life just

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hands you this perfect storm. And
I could have gone back to a law

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firm, and something inside of me
that ached for something more said no way,

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no way. Well, what I'm
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one of the things that I can
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you and said it before, is
when I listened to you and I read

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what you shared with me, I
am very present that you have a unique

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vantage point, which I believe comes
through your ability. It's your purpose lens

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right, what you see in the
world that needs doing or that you can

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do. I really feel like you
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way that most of us aren't,
and it is part of your unique being

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and fabric, and that is what
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connecting us back through you know,
generations millennia. That's what I get when

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I talk with you. It's not
just Susan, you kind of you're sort

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of like, not just a mouthpiece, because there's much more to you than

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that. But I really get that
you're standing on you know, millennia of

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hearts, minds, and souls that
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and so we get the benefit of
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about, Wow, what does that
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hundred circles in eleven years and all
these ranges that getting the benefit of that,

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I can't even imagine that. Susan, what's that like? It really

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feels It's so beautiful. So every
time you can really have a conversation like

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this, like you just illuminated another
aspect that I hadn't really articulated or put

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together before. So thank you for
that it's so fun, especially when purpose

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peaks get together. What it feels
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is just complete and under joy It
just feels like opening to something that's way

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bigger than me. That's why my
website is too big for words, because

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even though I love words like you
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them, editing them. Circle experience
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I do really enjoy the preparation of
bringing in other voices and weaving them together

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because I think that part of that
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I think part of a purpose journey
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I think we need each other to
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it is helpful to bring in like
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It's just incredible, Like wow,
this is so present today in this moment,

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and I think that's part of that
remembering that there's something really essential here

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that I too, am part of. And so that often when we come

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to circle, the first piece that
I'll see them as their shoulders lower is

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they look around. They say I'm
not alone, and that feeling of I'm

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not alone that we all crave that
that ache to belong and so I think

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it's it's more than just these women
in this circle. It's like we belong

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to all these eons of humanity that
have been questing for purpose and meaning,

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that have been questing to make a
difference and seekers, you know, of

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which I am another one, and
then just holding holding open space for that.

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Yeah, I'm guilty, Yes,
I'm right there with you. Another

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word that I'm thinking of it for
you is conduit. You're you're you're a

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spokesperson, and I think that maybe
that's the reflection of your being an attorney

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and a lawyer, But then I
think of you as being a conduit to

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all this this this you know,
millennia of wisdom and tradition as well.

399
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That's that's another word that I'm taking
up for you. So it feels it

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very much feels like that in my
body, really good. I have been

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called a force of nature, So
it does feel like a conto it for

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and even when I teach people my
circle model, I will never trademarket or

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copyright it because it comes through me, and early on I committed I have

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it in my journal that it will
be organic. Whatever this is it will

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be organic, can continue to evolve, and I'm just here to shape and

406
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shepherd and hold that however it wants
to. And so to me it's still

407
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it's still also advocacy. It's just
I'm not I'm holding space for others to

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really voice. And also this,
this shared consciousness, this what I call

409
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the we space, is what I
feel like I'm really a conduit too,

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and that's where we are wiser,
right, where all the potential potency lies.

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And also I think like you're saying, our ancient roots are history that

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we're connected to here m well,
and you're speaking out of transformation, right,

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So there is it's an elevational process, but in so doing it has

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to there's transformation involved in that bit
about what you're facilitating, transformation, connection,

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wisdom, consciousness. I mean,
it's there's so much happening. And

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the other thing that you just said
that's so beautiful and listeners and viewers is

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just so important that she you said, whatever this is, and so right,

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a lot of times, what is
bubbling up from within us, which

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is uniquely us, This is our
unique contribution to the world, and it

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is, in my view many ways
your purpose that is something that only we

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can do, and it's kind of
like just being obedient to that which is

422
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coming out of us and letting and
being of service through it. Absolutely,

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and when I guide people, it's
comes so naturally to us that often we

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don't credit it, we don't value
it, right, that's right. You

425
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look around, right, it's like, Oh, this is what everybody's coming

426
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to me for. And so I
think that's a big part of the journey.

427
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I know that's a big part of
the journey, is that I'll often

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have people say, you mean,
I get to just be me and that's

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a huge insight and it always happens
at a certain moment in the journey,

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and I love it. I'm like, yes, and what does it feel

431
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like? What is that like?
Now we get to know that? And

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I agree with you that it's it's
deeply encoded in our DNA that we now

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know carries both the trauma and also
the genius you know of our lineages.

434
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M hm mm hmm. So you've
been talking about facilitating these these groups even

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in your home and in the afternoon
and such, but you've also done this

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on a bigger, grander level for
many organizations. Just one I want to

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talk about. Uh, but this
whole idea of bringing humans together, and

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I know that you've done this for
large forms like One Earth Film Festival,

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which must have been amazing. So
how do you convene a group and facilitate

440
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something like that at a film festival? Oh gosh, it's so it just

441
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changes the game. In this film
fest, we just completed our tenth year

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and we're virtual and it's it's way
more even that than the sustainability. I

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should actually connect you with that leader
to have on here, that thought leader.

444
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She's amazing love to But what what
we what we've learned is that it's

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one thing in that case to watch
a film and feel like, oh good,

446
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I see something. Here's how important
soil is. But if we can

447
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then turn to each other, which
is that model is really turning to each

448
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other and beginning to unpack it what
resonated? Starting with our senses, what

449
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did I see? What did I
hear? What did I feel? What's

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touched me? And then begin to
move We move them along the arc of

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activation and would end in our model
if you imagine a room filled with hundreds

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of people and then they can't get
out of the room until they meet with

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all of our strategic partners who are
going to help them then find the exact

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way to activate this awareness that they've
just had this connection they've made to the

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planet, other people, and then
to move into activation. So that conversation

456
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piece is really at the heart of
it. And mostly we watch movies and

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just leave the theater, right,
and this model is about being really being

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together, and sometimes we have the
filmmakers and the directors. You really get

459
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to learn what's involved in this so
that you can care to really open up

460
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that part of I think that makes
us human and makes us actually want to

461
00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:04.960
do something we can't not right to
tap into that field. So holding those

462
00:32:04.960 --> 00:32:09.720
spaces is really fun because there's so
many people there and you know, there's

463
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a microphone, but I'm just again
playing with the energy of that room.

464
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And we've seen those the groups swell
over the years that I have facilitated that,

465
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and so then a certain kind of
energy builds in the room, right,

466
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this enthusiasm, and you're moved.
Actually you can feel that move part

467
00:32:25.279 --> 00:32:30.319
of movement right that we are actually
going to move people to take action,

468
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to care more, to do whatever
part resonates with them. I think that

469
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would be amazing. You know,
it's one thing to go after watch a

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movie and go to a coffee spot
and have a cappuccino and talk through what

471
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you get from the movie or have
a glass of wine afterwards, but to

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convene a group and have it facilitated, that would be really yummy. So

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I'm in for the next one.
Yes, we have an amazing team of

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facilitators and every year we still revisit
the training. You know, is this

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the essential model? Is this?
Because it's worth so deliberate about it,

476
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and there's a lot of history even
to that model that we use. So

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I've been so fortunate to do that
in an activist kind of way that people

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can really feel good because that topic, like the environment, right our climate

479
00:33:14.440 --> 00:33:17.079
crisis, can be so heavy and
it can be so overwhelming that that you

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00:33:17.119 --> 00:33:22.400
don't know what to do. So
we're flipping that right and empowering people.

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And so some people like to write
and do the advocacy, some people like

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to march, but there's also all
kinds of other things that you can do,

483
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and so let's do it together.
Then you feel you realize like my

484
00:33:31.799 --> 00:33:37.079
little action is going to be part
of these bigger actions and we emphasize that

485
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quite a bit too power, right, Yeah, so powerful to connect to

486
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something like that, that is great. So glad to have you and share

487
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you with my listeners and viewers.
I Alice Protess, your host. We

488
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are in the air with Susan Lucci, who is a soul for facilitator,

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circle convenor, and purpose guide.
We've been talking a bit about the work

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00:33:52.839 --> 00:33:55.559
she does with circles. After the
break, we're going to talk about the

491
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movement she sees emerging in the world. Stay with us, We'll be right

492
00:33:59.400 --> 00:34:05.839
back. Doctor Elise Cortes is a
management consultant specializing in meaning and purpose and

493
00:34:06.000 --> 00:34:12.079
inspirational speaker and author. She helps
companies visioneer for greater purpose among stakeholders and

494
00:34:12.119 --> 00:34:19.039
develop purpose inspired leadership and meaning infused
cultures that elevate fulfillment, performance, and

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00:34:19.159 --> 00:34:22.800
commitment within the workforce. To learn
more or to invite Elise to speak to

496
00:34:22.840 --> 00:34:28.800
your organization, please visit her at
Eleasecortes dot com. Let's talk about how

497
00:34:28.800 --> 00:34:39.159
to get your employees working on purpose. This is working on purpose with doctor

498
00:34:39.199 --> 00:34:44.760
Elase Cortes. To reach our program
today or open a conversation with Elise,

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00:34:45.159 --> 00:34:52.000
send an email to Aleise Alise at
Elisecortes dot com. Now back to working

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on Purpose. Thanks for staying with
us. Welcome back to working on Purpose.

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I mentioned in the first break about
the Grab You augusta well being webcast

502
00:35:04.880 --> 00:35:07.840
learning series. The content of that
program is adapted from part one of my

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recently published book called Purpose Ignited,
How Inspiring Leaders ignite passion and Elevate Cause,

504
00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:15.440
which is really all about awakening leaders
to their passion and their purpose and

505
00:35:15.440 --> 00:35:20.199
helping to transform them too. Insirational
leaders who create a workplace where people actually

506
00:35:20.239 --> 00:35:22.440
want to come and will thrive.
If you're just joining us, My guest

507
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today is Susan Mucci, who,
among other things, is the co founder

508
00:35:25.480 --> 00:35:30.480
and circle tender of Feel Real,
a benefit corporation devoted to co creating brave

509
00:35:30.559 --> 00:35:34.320
spaces for people to engage in real
time, face to face, meaningful conversations

510
00:35:34.320 --> 00:35:37.679
online. He's calling in today from
Chicago. I'm your host, Doctor Lee's

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Cortes. Okay, so for this
next part of the conversation, let's just

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really dive into this. This is
where I really recognize, Susan, that

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you really are up to something in
the world, and I want to be

514
00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:52.880
able to read a small passage from
what you sent to me about what you're

515
00:35:52.880 --> 00:35:55.159
shaping into a book, because I
want the readers to understand and get present

516
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to the way you use language.
Right, So I'm going to read this.

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So this is from an introduction that
you're working on for your book.

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It's to me, it's just tittilating, she says. Read along with me

519
00:36:06.519 --> 00:36:10.440
to discover for yourself the new consciousness
weaving her way through communities of women connecting,

520
00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:14.880
caring for, and uplifting each other. Wander along with us as I

521
00:36:14.920 --> 00:36:20.119
share stories evidencing the emerging culture of
community minded activist and artists creating the change

522
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we desperately need. A feminine soul
is rising up, and she is marching

523
00:36:23.079 --> 00:36:29.239
and running for office and changing policy
and creating new communities and impacting culture as

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she reclaims her sovereignty a new way
of being human is bravely and boldly revealing

525
00:36:32.920 --> 00:36:37.440
herself in the heart of our country. I'm in, Susan, this book

526
00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:40.119
coming out. When's it coming out? You're a part of it. You

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are part of this movement that I
see for sure. You know, when

528
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I was writing that part of the
book, I was also rereading Rachel Carson

529
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Silent Spring, which her wake up
call came from almost a dystopian although it's

530
00:36:55.599 --> 00:37:00.119
not that unrealistic, but it was
a very here's what's going to happen we

531
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keep using toxic chemicals, and so
I kept thinking, what if? What

532
00:37:02.840 --> 00:37:08.440
if? What's missing is us seeing
a possible future that we that we already

533
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are becoming. And so that's that's
what came to me to write that.

534
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And as I was writing it,
I also know women that are doing all

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of those things, right, So
I think what I'm fascinaed by is there

536
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is a movement, there is an
uprising of women around the planet, and

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it just hasn't been named or noticed
in its entirety. So what if we

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make that visible? This this culture
of care that is being created and co

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00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:42.119
created all over the planet. And
I saw a lot of that during COVID.

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How many people are holding circles,
for example, I met a lot

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of facilitators and I was just blown
away, Like here, I thought I

542
00:37:46.840 --> 00:37:50.679
was holding up my piece of this
guy doing circles, and there's there's people

543
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around the globe doing circles. So
I and the other piece about this culture

544
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of care that I feel like I'm
seeing to like Paul Hawkins saw this blessed

545
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unrest with nonprofits forming a movement.
And if I bring it back our conversation

546
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from the first part about purpose,
like really what is purpose? And a

547
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lot of what's written about purpose is
about desire and passion and like following what

548
00:38:15.079 --> 00:38:19.599
you love and following your bliss,
you know, Joseph Campbell's piece. And

549
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what I have learned is that,
especially with women, often we are most

550
00:38:23.559 --> 00:38:29.480
on purpose when we're following our heartbreak, when it's actually and I'm not talking

551
00:38:29.480 --> 00:38:32.320
about the our thirteen year old first
boyfriend that we broke up with. I'm

552
00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:37.880
talking about our deep heartbreak that we
can't not do something about that need in

553
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the world. So when I saw
women just like, oh gosh, do

554
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I have anything else to give?
You know? And I could just feel

555
00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:49.000
into the potentials, like all right, we got to get up to this,

556
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you know, and we've got to
support this and nurture this so that

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we can do that. And so
that's what a lot of my book is

558
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about and the challenges. I know
as a little girl, I was told

559
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don't wear your art in your sleep. It's dangerous. And in fact,

560
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I at one point I was graduate
spoking for a legator in bad case,

561
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and oh my god, did they
break my heart? And I came home

562
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because I love babies, and I
came home at night and it got to

563
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the point I thought, this is
too I'm too emotional. I cannot do

564
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this work. So I got into
the more corporate type work as well.

565
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Decades later, I have since come
to really appreciate and respect that our wearing

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our heart on our sleep is exactly
what's needed, and it's our superpower to

567
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really take our vulnerability, our compassion, all of these beautiful gifts of our

568
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heart that move us in the world, that make us do that work that

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we can'tnot do. And so I'm
really I've seen that. And that's what

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my book is about, is that
the culture of care comes through, especially

571
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this feminine energy, women waking up
to their heartbreak and just doing something about

572
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it, caring for each other,
running for office. It's incredible the numbers

573
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of women. I stopped after I
interviewed dozens of them. I thought,

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oh my gosh, how am I
going to capture all of these? There's

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so many, so I can't wait. This is so this is so great.

576
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Susan I just it's so interesting and
intriguing and compelling to listen to.

577
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It's not just listening to you,
it's being with you as you say,

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your your energy that's conveyed so much, and your passion, your conviction.

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It's it's this is fascinating. I
really don't want to let you go from

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my listeners and viewers, by the
way, so we'll be on for maybe

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a few more hours. You just, you know, get dinner ordered and

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we'll call it good. But one
of the things that you said, just

583
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in your as you're starting to articulate
some of these new thoughts here is you

584
00:40:35.760 --> 00:40:38.039
do talk about this new kind of
presence and power that's rising up on the

585
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planet, and you say it's uniquely
and fiercely feminine, and you and we

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and you talk specifically about how it's
embodied in our team climate activists. To

587
00:40:46.599 --> 00:40:51.400
Gretaumberg, I'm not sure how to
say her last name, but she brings

588
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so much insight and courage and in
her truth telling that's inspiring massive acts of

589
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protest and people coming along with her. And I think that's such a great

590
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example of what you're talking about.
Yeah, right, and so wonderfully surprising.

591
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I think for most of us to
be how old is she? What

592
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is she to do right? But
in her ferocity, how she can just

593
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right, and we have seen it
moves people right, and so I think

594
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there's juice there. I often will
say that we have not yet on this

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00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:28.679
planet experienced Mama Bear's roar. A
whole group of women coming together, and

596
00:41:28.760 --> 00:41:30.400
we care about our planet, we
care about our children, we care,

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and just like that, really taking
that energy that fierce Mama Bear roar.

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And even though she's not a mother, I just think Greta. Greta embodies

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that right. She speaks from that
place and calls us into it, because

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it's very much then a week place. It's not the hero's journey model of

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I am Greta and I am running
this right. She's very clear with us

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she'd rather be going to school and
doing what kids do right, but because

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nobody else is up to this,
she has to. And so I see

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that in many different ways and shapes. And I think Shannon Watts, who

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started the Mom's Demand sense around the
gun laws and stuff like that, she

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talks about this too. I met
with her after an event here in Chicago,

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and I was talking to her about
that like, what is this power

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of women coming together because and it
comes from our hearts, what we care

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about, what we can no longer
stand to let happen in our communities.

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So this is, this is so
powerful. And I've been having so many

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really amazing conversations around if you will, the speakot of the dial or around

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the mic about these things. And
so this is really important that we talk

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about this next point and this whole
point of this new balancing energy that you're

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talking about that's rising up all over
the planet. And you say it's in

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response to toxic masculinity, oppressive patriarchy, and you're really talking about bringing more

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of a yin to an excessive yang. And this sacred feminine archetype can be

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embodied in both men and women,
of course, And what this is really

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important listeners and viewers. This is
the point that I want to make here.

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This energy is not against men.
In fact, this is this uprising

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is not against anything at all.
You're taking a stand for life, and

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it's the harmony that uplists others.
And it's really important that we talk about

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this because I think sometimes when we
either talk about what's happening for men or

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what's happening for women the other side
starts to feel picked on or what about

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us? And you're not saying that, you're talking about something what I would

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consider to be much more pure here. Yeah, it's absolutely what are we

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for? What do we care about? And uplifting that. A lot of

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us, a lot of the women
in circles, a lot of the women

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I purpose guide, have made it
in the masculine world, right. We

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have been lawyers and doctors and survived
in the corporate world. Now and there's

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something else, And I do see
this. I think there's plenty of books

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to be written about men and the
sacred masculine and that coming in and then

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the balance of the two. For
sure, what I have been seeing here

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is uniquely feminine, you know,
in women's bodies coming into their community,

634
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what they care about. But it's
it's very much the pro you know,

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the what do we stand forward and
moving in that direction. And it's also

636
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not not like this driven achievement type
way. It's it's a whole different in

637
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fact, sometimes we're just stepping back. Sometimes it's about the presence. Mostly

638
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it's about uplifting and centering other people, other people whose voices have not been

639
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heard other people who don't have access
to resources or systems that were that were

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really shepherding and working towards. So
it's very much communal, you know,

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and about groups. It's very collaborative, working together. It's very co creative.

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Even though an idea might come through
something I say or you say,

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it's about now, what do we
do together? Who needs to be part

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of this to create the kind of
world we want to live in. So

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I think we've learned the limitations of
the anti movements right, even energetically,

646
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they just do something very different.
If I talk to you, and you

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and I can have a whole conversation
about what I am against and when I

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do not, but that will not
energize. You'll notice a very different energy

649
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in me. So I think these
are the kind of conversations that I like

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to hold and have, Like what
do you stand for? What do you

651
00:45:15.679 --> 00:45:19.199
want your life to stand for?
When it's over? You know? What

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did what were you for? What
did you learn during COVID that you can

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bring out of that now and give
to the world because it's needed right now,

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you and I could complete your other
sentences, Susan, I just give

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a presentation today work of saying something
almost exactly like what you've been saying.

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And by the way, I did
actually get moved to tears at once at

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one point because I was reflecting on
something that inspired me. And so when

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we get inspired, sometimes we get
moved to tears and to your point where

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your emotions on your sleeve. And
so I like being in that world.

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That's the world I want to live
in. So to that point, I

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wanted to ask you about what is
your vision of the world as embodied in

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00:45:55.400 --> 00:46:00.360
this movement toward a culture of care? What does that look like? Well,

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a little bit like what you read
earlier at the beginning of my book.

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And then I go what I want
to do is to go on in

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if this is a book or I
don't know what it's going, how it's

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going to come out into the world, but that it is stories of people

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00:46:12.360 --> 00:46:17.000
acting in the world every day from
embodying their purpose to make it so that

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people can start looking around and going, oh, yes, my neighbor does

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that, Oh my husband does that. That they can see it and then

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we inspire each other. Something I
have really witnessed is that we can't become

671
00:46:28.079 --> 00:46:31.960
ourselves by ourselves. I do a
lot in my own self awareness and development

672
00:46:32.000 --> 00:46:34.880
journey, and I got to the
point where I was like, you can

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00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:37.400
no longer sit on this cushion,
girl, you have got to get into

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the world. That's what I missed
most about COVID is bumping up against the

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world. That's where I learned the
most about my purpose, where of opportunities

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to give right so we, when
we humans, can really embrace that that

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all of this othering is holding us
back from the truth, which is belonging

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and becoming beloved community and that means
all of us that the circle has to

679
00:46:57.880 --> 00:47:00.880
be. You can go right back
to miss Janine on that circle in Montssory

680
00:47:01.199 --> 00:47:06.599
or mister Rogers. It's until we
are all part of this and as equals

681
00:47:06.599 --> 00:47:09.159
in a circle model, right,
we are equals. Even if I'm facilitating,

682
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I am right here with you.
I'm going to be vulnerable with you.

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I don't hold any access to anything
greater than you. And so it's

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happening. I mean, in our
families, in our communities, we are

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we are being I think this better
version of ourselves, which is that we

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move from what we care about.
We've also learned so much about our emotional

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intelligence and Heart Math. I love
the Heart Math Institute. What they're discovering

688
00:47:31.480 --> 00:47:36.840
is, yeah, our brains are
fabulous, but our hearts, wow,

689
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five thousand times more that energy.
So this is just a one to have

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potential and it's best activated when we
come together, when we come together around

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something we care about, such as
like the kind of world we want to

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live in, and there are conditions
like COVID that are going to pressure us

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00:47:51.440 --> 00:47:52.440
into that. I think the climate. You know, we see that,

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we just set a tornado in Chicago
two days ago. We see this climate

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and there are we're talking like what
are we going to do? How are

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we going to come together to really
survive this right and to nurture each other

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and live the lives that we want
to live together. Oh my gosh,

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Susan, that is a great way
to finish the show. We are out

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of time and you have been spectacular. I'm certain that our listeners and viewers

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don't want to give you up.
So you've got to find You've got to

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find her and connect with her.
So, Susan, thank you for sharing

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your heart, mind and soul with
us today. Thank you, Elise,

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It's been a pleasure listeners and viewers
you want to learn more about Susan Lucci

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00:48:30.239 --> 00:48:32.079
and the work she is doing as
a circle tender and purpose guide, start

705
00:48:32.079 --> 00:48:37.760
by visiting her website at Pursue Your
Purpose dot co. Again, that's Pursue

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00:48:37.760 --> 00:48:42.480
your Purpose dot coe and again thanks
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companies build a platform where your workforce
receives meaningful feedback and thanks for their work

708
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from people across your company. Last
week, I you missed the live show,

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00:48:49.920 --> 00:48:52.800
you can always catch it be recorded
podcast. We were on the air

710
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:57.519
with Bob Graham and Yuhenya Douran of
Nama Stay Direct, talking about how this

711
00:48:57.639 --> 00:49:00.920
nonprofit came to be as an expression
of Bob's promum mus to himself to go

712
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fifty to fifty at fifty, meaning
spend fifty percent of his life toward work

713
00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:07.719
and making money and the other fifty
percent towards service by the time he was

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fifty and I'm now on that board
that as well, so thirty five years

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later, his work lives on in
this dynamic organization and that is dedicated to

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empowering watermall and business owners and entrepreneurs
women specifically with business education and micro loans

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to transform them from poverty to at
least middle class. Amazing group. Next

718
00:49:27.440 --> 00:49:30.519
week, we'll be on the air
with Charles Antis talking about his refusal to

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stray from being a cheerleader for good
while also stewarding a very successful roofing business.

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See you there. Remember that work
is at least or third of our

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life, So let's work on purpose. We hope you've enjoyed this week's program.

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Be sure to tune in to Working
on Purpose, featuring your host,

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00:49:50.079 --> 00:49:54.440
doctor Elise Cortes, each week on
the Voice America Empowerment Channel. Together,

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we'll create a world where business operates
conscientiously, Leaders inspires impassioned performance, and

725
00:50:01.800 --> 00:50:07.960
employees are fulfilled in work that provides
the meaning and purpose They crave. See

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00:50:07.000 --> 00:50:09.320
you there, Let's work on purpose.