Feb. 5, 2020
Can You Hear the Call to Your Purpose?

What do you suppose could be possible if you learned to tune in and listen to that inner urging voice that so desperately is trying to guide you in life? And you stop “shushing” it going about your busy routine? What miracles, what new heights, what...
What do you suppose could be possible if you learned to tune in and listen to that inner urging voice that so desperately is trying to guide you in life? And you stop “shushing” it going about your busy routine? What miracles, what new heights, what new possibilities could be present for you – if only you were able to tune in? This, my friends, is the urgent call of purpose. Answer it.
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There are some people that make their
work just another thing they have to do,
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and there are those that make their
work something that they want to do.
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Welcome to Working on Purpose with your
host Elise Cortez. In our program,
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we provide guidance and inspiration from those
people who have found deeper meaning and
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personal connection to their work life.
It's beyond nine to five, it's working
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on Purpose. Now Here is your
host, Elise Cortez. Welcome back to
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the Working on Purpose Show. Thanks
for tuning in again this week. I'm
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your host, Elise Cortez The Alive
from Dallas, Texas, which is home
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base for me. If you've been
tuning in for a while, you know
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this program is designed to be an
inspirational thought leadership platform that advances the conversation
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on living with passion and inspiration and
working on purpose and as I'm committed to
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helping create a world where people actually
want to go to work. The content
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choices are designed to help equip leaders
inside organizations to make work fulfilling part of
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life so employees thrive, give their
best performance, and want to stay.
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I talk with my guests to draw
on their expertise and share my own experience
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consulting, speaking, and developing workforces
across the globe each week. In these
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conversations, I hope you walk away
with something you can immediately put to use.
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Much of the content we discuss on
this program is a reflection of the
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work I do. So as you
listen, if you catch a glimpse of
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anything I can do to help you
along your own journey, go to my
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website at least Cortez dot com and
use the contact me feature to message me.
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Let's talk about what's going on for
you and how I might be able
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to help. A few possible ways
are the Strategic Visioneering offering. We have
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to facilitate meaningful conversation among all your
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sustainable future you seek for them all. The Vilely Inspired Leadership Program, which
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is offered into Public Format and DALLAS
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passion, inspiration or purpose Discovery, which
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is offered to individuals across the globe
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for their employees. Or you'd like
to share a message and speak for your
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company or conference at any rate.
I'm glad we're connected, and thanks for
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listening. Now onto this week's program
with us today is Katherine Rawlings and Terry
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Spears, who have each co authored
five other books separately. Today we'll be
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focusing on the book they co authored
together. Excuse me, they didn't co
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author, they wrote those separately.
Today we'll talk about the book they co
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authored together. It's called Inner Journey, Stepping Stones into Our Destiny of Love.
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We'll be talking about specific points from
their book. I think beautifully illustrate
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can help guide us on our path
to a more fulfilled and purposeful life.
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Kathy's joining us from Arizona and Terry
is dialing in from Missouri. Kathy and
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Terry, welcome to working on purpose. Thank you at least, we're glad
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happy to be here. It's really
wonderful. I have to have the two
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of you here, and I was
delighted. I was delighted when we cross
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paths, and I realize you can
make for a delightful guests. And I
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have read your book cover to cover, as you could tell by now,
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and so listeners for you to understand, I've prepared some questions that I wanted
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to direct in the dialogue, and
we've decided that we're going to serve them
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up to one of the authors first
and then if the other wants to chime
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in, they can do so.
So just know that that's how we architect
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of the conversation so that it will
flow gently for you. So before we
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get into the contents of the book, ladies, I think it would be
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helpful for all of us and probably
very interesting to understand just how this joint
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book together came to be. So
what's the history and why were you compelled
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to write it together? I'll begin
with that this is Kathy. I've always
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been a seeker my whole life.
I've always quested to find the bigger picture,
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the bigger perspective of life, never
really being satisfied with the answers that
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I got in normal conversations, and
so throughout the years I focused on developing
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that within me. So for the
last forty years I have been receiving divine
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inspiration, sharing it with others,
helping them to understand their wife's issues from
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their bigger perspective. And this brings
us to our current experience in getting together
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in writing this book. About six
years ago, after my meditation, I
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had the most unusual experience that caught
me by surprise. I heard a resounding
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voice and urging an invitation asking me
if I would like to receive divine inspiration
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on talking about and learning about our
higher truths. Now, this receiving was
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not new to me, but this
very clear, direct question was new to
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me, and it was an answer
to my prayers of I was ready to
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expand into more of myself and get
a more direct communication, clear line with
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my creator, my God's source.
So when I heard this, I got
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a thump in my chest and I
sat for a minute trying to digest what
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I had just received. And of
course my answer was a resounding yes.
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So I sat there for a little
while and I wondered how this was going
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to come about. And I heard
very lovely again call Terry, called Terry,
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invite her to participate in receiving divine
inspiration and your lessons together. Well,
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I had not I have known Terry
for years, but we went our
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separate ways, and so I was
compelled to this and reconnect with her and
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share with her what had happened and
see if she was interested in participating the
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nest together. And so I was
looking around for her phone number, and
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I fortunately found it and she answered, and so I told her kind of
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stilling disbelief what was going on,
and she didn't even miss a beat and
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she said yes. And so I
said, okay, this will be as
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I understood it was going to be
like weekly lessons that I was open to,
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just waiting to see what would happen. So at that point, Terry
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and I began our lessons together and
with the two of us, when two
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of more are gathered, it's extremely
powerful in your genuine quest for inner truth
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and answers. Well, that's what
happened. We had an amplified, amplified
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connection and we were able to just
thrive. And of course it was always
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a stretch to understand the material that
was given. And then we started to
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accumulate so much of this powerful information
that we said, what are we going
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to do with this? Why don't
we compile it in a book? And
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so we decided that that would be
a good way to do it. So
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from then we went through our processes. I had resistance to a book.
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We had done four books before,
and it was co authored our four books,
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but and it was all sharing higher
truths that we received higher truths,
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but we both didn't like the reality
of the marketing and the other things that
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went with self publishing. So we
weren't really diligent in this area. So
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we got somewhat disappointed, and then
we kind of just said, no,
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we're that's it. We're not going
to write any more books. And so
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as we decided to write this book, what happened in the interim that was
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so powerful for me was in my
resistance. I was blocking this pressure that
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I had felt. Even though I
knew that we would be writing a book,
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I still was in resistance. But
I had this pressure building in me
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physically, and it was getting so
uncomfortable. My head was boiling inside my
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pineal gland and so on felt like
it was going to burst. I was
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off balanced in my body. I
was not doing well, and the pressure
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was building. Well. I knew
what I had to do. It was
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not something that I was really anxious
to do. So I decided to stop
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my resistance and allow this material to
be given, and then we Terry open
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to receiving she feeling pressure as well. We collectively then received our book,
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and we were so invested in this, and it was four months from the
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time that we began to the time
the book was on the market for sale
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totally completed. Wow, and that
brings you up to our present moment.
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That is an amazing rendition. If
I can just see a couple of things,
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and then I do want to hear
from Terry as well. First,
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what a way to narrate an awful
lot of time and experience in those few
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minutes, So thank you for that. And second, I wanted presence for
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our listeners, Kathy and Terry that
what I heard from that is the importance
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of really listening to yourself and the
divine. I think it's so important.
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I think today's fast paced society,
people don't take the time or the effort
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to still themselves to be able to
listen. So I want to I want
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to call that out. And then
also to the beautiful collaboration that you have
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together. How's what you made of
that collaboration is I've read the book,
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It's beautiful. So I just wanted
to chime in on a couple of those
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things. Thank you, You're welcome. And Terry's what about your perspective?
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Well, thank you as we work
together with our divine guidance, with inspired
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guidance it. We had so much
information that it really felt necessary to begin
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to share what we were experiencing so
that that might actually help relieve some of
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the desperation that we felt humanity had
inc in escalating amounts. So we soon
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knew that we were writing this book
now Inner Journey, and then we understood
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that part of the wisdom of that
was the body, soul, spirit team
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structure pulling that wholeness of our selves
back together, and how that functioned,
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and how that would literally create reusable
stepping stones to achieve this wholeness. And
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so this is our gift to humanity
now that we feel is really in a
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time of great need. I completely
agree with that, Terry, and it's
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a lot of the reason I do
the work that I do is a lot
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of people are living in an existential
vacuum and that seems to manifest into depression
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and reliance on drugs and alcohol and
various other things. And so we're on
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similar journeys, which is why I
wanted to have you on the show.
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So from here, if we can, ladies, I want to give our
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listeners as much usable, actionable intelligence
as we can give them the short time
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that we can. So I've picked
out some different areas, as you know
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from your book, that I want
us to talk about, and if we
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can, I'll drill up the questions
and at the first that's going to answer
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it. If you could be just
brief to talk about what your perspective is
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on that, and then if the
other wants to chime in at all,
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then we'll do that and just keep
going. So let's start with in your
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take charge section, you say that
it's up to each of us to take
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responsibility for our personal growth, and
of course I agree. But I've met
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many people over the years who are
not necessarily motivated to cultivate personal growth.
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It's just not a priority. It's
not their thing, and they don't see
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value in it. So have you
found a way to help encourage people to
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want to grow personally? I don't
know if there is a way, but
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it's a different, different way of
looking at it. We all have a
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sole plan, we all are in
process. We all have our abilities to
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receive and change at the pace that
we can. But a lot of focus
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goes to busy, busy, busy
doo doo do don't take time to even
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know what you're doing to even stop
and feel the preciousness of the moment,
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and we get stuck. A lot
of people are stuck in an archaic belief
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system, old behavior patterns that are
not refreshed with the new inspiring energies that
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are given to us now. So
it's a dying thing. It becomes stressful
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to try to maintain the feelings of
the old. It gives a false sense
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of security when even if it's miserable, that we are conscious of it and
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we know about it, so it
feels safe. But it really is a
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false prophet It really is not what's
happening of the opportunities that are happening now
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for change. So how is someone
penalized by that? They're penalized by losing
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out on the wonderful experiences and being
consciously aware of what's happening in our internal
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changes, our worldly changes, and
we just continue in a status quo.
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It's kind of a miserable lifestyle,
really, But what's the antidote in my
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feeling is to look behind the scenes, look for the bigger picture of what's
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really going on energetically. It might
appear that everything is terrible, non inspired,
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not moving. People are just going
through life spending their time, filling
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their time with nothing being much that's
meaningful. But there is movement because we
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have a master plan of development,
a God given master plan that is not
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of these qualities. These are just
steps along the way of us opening and
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changing to the bigger picture of life. So our concerns for people are extremely
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powerful. Whether there are casual concerns
or deep filled concerns, they are still
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powerful because they send out an energy
of caring and concern, an energy that
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enters into the energetic fabric of the
individual. And so might it might appear
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that people are really in a miserable
place, while their egos and their perspectives
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are in a miserable place. But
people as a whole are perfect beings that
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are going through their changes of life
and their recognitions in their own way.
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So that's useful, Kathy, that's
very useful. Good. It takes away
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that the comparison in any judgment as
well. Hold your thought if you will,
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Kathy, We've got to grab our
first break, and then Terry think
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about if you want to say anything
else to that. I'm your host.
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Alice Cortez moving on the air with
Kathy Rawlings and Terry spears, the authors
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of Inner Journey, Stepping Stones into
our destiny of love. We've been talking
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a bit about how they came together
to conspire to write this book and the
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adventure that came with that, and
we're just getting into the contents. After
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the break, we'll continue the conversation, starting with the energy. Stay with
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us, We'll be right back.
Elise Cortez is a speaker and engagement and
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development catalyst. She designs and delivers
professional development, leadership and engagement workshops and
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can bring her expertise to your organization. She will help ignite meaningful development within
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your workforce that will increase employee engagement, performance and retention. To learn more
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or to invite a lease to speak
to your organization, please visit her at
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www dot Elise Cortez dot com.
She would welcome the opportunity to help get
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your employees working on purpose. This
is working on Purpose with Elise Cortez.
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To reach our program today, send
an email to Elise ali Se at Elise
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Cortez dot com. Now back to
working on Purpose. Thanks for staying with
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us, and welcome back to working
on Purpose. If you're just joining us,
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My guests are Kathy Rowlings and Terry
Spears, the authors of Inner Journey,
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Stepping stones into our destiny of love. Kathy joins us from Arizona and
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Terry is calling in from Missouri.
I'm your host, Elise Cortez. So,
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Kathy, you were just finishing up
something that you wanted to say more
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about about the section there about personal
growth. Did you want to say something
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else? Just very quickly? Is
that right now we have new refreshing energies
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showering the planet. It may not
seem so because of the chaotic events that
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are taking place not only within us
but around us, but this is what's
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happening. Happening, the jawsling up, the new coming in living and managing
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our lives to the best of our
ability is great. We really don't have
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to stress or worry over the outcomes. We do the best we can.
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We're all in different levels of growth, but God has our back and that's
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all we need to concern ourselves.
Swept, got it, beautiful? Terry?
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Did you want to briefly weigh in
on that before I ask you the
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next question? Well, what I
could say is that when we have our
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own crises, these are our turning
points that literally will push us to try
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something different while our body, soul
team, spirit team begins to be heard.
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We come to the magic of literally
surrendering ego, believing that we have
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a choice, expanding inward and literally
reveling in our recovery of spirit guided life,
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and we begin to listen to the
soul's urge as we honor our body's
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needs. That was beautiful, Thanks
beautiful, add Terry, thank you for
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that. And let's go ahead and
serve this question to you, Terry.
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I, for me am increasingly attracted
to the notion of energy, and of
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course you talk about that in your
book and just now, and I've seen
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that so much of life is about
getting present to and managing energy, and
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I've become a tuned to the idea
of vibrational and energy especially and you say
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in the Reclaiming Fragments Fragments of Self
chapter that I quote. As we expand
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and grow on our own inner journey
through daily experiences and choices of action,
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we signal the body to internalize the
qualities of the experiences and harmonize its energies.
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We acquire a new vibration within our
energetic body and create a memory of
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each event. This is fascinating ladies
tell us more alrighty. The memories that
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we create frequently are very painful,
and we stuff them. The anxiety,
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the judgment, the harshness. These
are experiences that are stuffed into files that
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we're waiting to at some point release. So memory from the past guides our
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steps now, often with these unresolved
pains and fears as our director and decision
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makers, so we store them,
pushed away, all flavoring our current life.
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When we do this, life becomes
old and stale as these accumulate unaddressed
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will generally some outer push becomes our
reckoning point where the balancing act of life
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literally tips over, or maybe it
even explodes into a messiness that demands correction.
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Well, here we begin to address
and resolve these old stored hurt spheres
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anguish from our stored emotional files.
These are fragments of ourselves that we literally
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now begin to release and requality fine
into current moment and uplifted feelings where we
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can finally heal into appreciation of ourselves
or others, compassion, self love,
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refreshing our lives with our energies that
bloom now into a much higher frequency of
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feeling rather than the old emotions.
Oh that was a lot packed in there,
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Terry. Thank you for that.
So listeners, you'll probably want to
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keep this episode and download that against
you can hear that that was a beautiful
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rendition. Quickly, Kathy, did
you want to add anything at all to
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that? For we're going on to
the next question. No, okay,
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okay, beautiful. This is just
the yummy stuff I was hoping for,
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ladies. I love it. It's
nice and chewy too, just before dinner
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for me, So it's like a
nice appetizer. Okay. So Kathy,
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this one's for you to start.
So one of the stepping stones for our
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journey, you offer is to acknowledge
the nudging inside that comes forward to guide
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our sharing, a gentle push that
is always with us, you say.
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And I have increasingly felt that nudging
and been obedient to its direction myself and
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know that is why I'm able to
live my purpose through my work and across
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my life today. So that listening
that you talked about before, Kathy,
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was very important to me. But
I also hear other people who connect with
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my message feel very aware of this
nudge, and so my question to you
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is, how can we help people
who can't get feel this nudge get access
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to it. That's a very good
question. We really can't control of that
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aspect of people's growth and my opinion, but we can do encouraging information that
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helps them to understand the changes that
they are feeling in their life. Maybe
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not understanding what is going on,
but usually people do. Sometimes they're very
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acceptive of this, at other times
they're very resentful of it. So sometimes
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it's just a good idea to use
silence with the attitude of sharing and expressing
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our intense desires to help one another. When we do this, we take
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the personality out of the experience and
we are left with the the I don't
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want to say the trauma, but
the experiences of our connection and our our
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learning and caring for another person in
a silent way. The silent way acknowledges
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the power that is given in care
and concern, and so never a word
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needs to be really spoken at a
lot of time because it's just confusing to
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people, and they sometimes resent that
they do not understand. If someone does
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understand but they're just ignorant of how
to do something, then they're open,
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they're ap pliable, they're willing to
learn they're willing to try, and then
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this becomes a very enjoyable time for
someone, and then that serves a bigger
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purpose. But I think our idea
is not to create stress for someone,
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but to create the loving acceptance,
which is very powerful as far as a
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a structure of ourselves and the I
seem to struggling a little bit on this
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because I do want to say that
it's not really the person, it's the
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caring and the experience of the people
that are sharing and care that really make
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the difference. This makes big changes
within us. And I actually got that,
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Kathy. Let me let me quickly
apply that for our listeners. So
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listeners, of what I heard from
that is is the if you're standing in
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a place with someone and you're present
enough to be able to care for them
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and listen to them, you create
a space for them to be able to
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step into at their own their own
pace. That is a beautiful contribution,
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Kathy, and you you definitely opened
up something for us, So thank you
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for that, Terry. You're welcome. I'm going to go on to the
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next question just to keep us on
track for time, because we're it's this
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moves fast. But did you want
to chime in anything there. What I
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would say is that I agree with
Kathy on silence and that our intention of
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love, our intention of caring,
literally the truth of that can pierce the
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chaotic bubble. And so I'm right
there with her on that life will help
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a person pause in their business and
help open them up so that they finally
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do listen to their nudge. And
we all have them. They're like a
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hunch and when we choose to honor
them and acknowledge them, understanding finally that
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this is spirit knocking, then life
gets much easier. Well, that was
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a fantastic addition that definitely took that
down at the pike further. Thank you,
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Terry. So next one for you, Terry, to start this is
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around purpose in general. So on
the chapter what purpose is there to life?
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You say, quote Life's purpose is
life unfolding and changing into a new
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version of what it is and is
our individual purpose as we become aware and
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reached out to share this is a
cycle of life. As a breath goes
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inward and they and the yang the
cycle of life expanding contracting. That's just
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beautiful. So many people listen to
this program wanted to discover and refine their
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purpose. So let's talk more about
this, Terry. Can you say more
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about your perspective on purpose and how
it unfolds. Yes, indeedy life is
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just full of business, and because
I'm still leading a professional life along with
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the life of receiving and being an
author and sharing these messages, I'm an
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example of that. And one of
the things that I've done is just continue
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applying role models that are not necessarily
current for me. So as I have
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lived in this and I began to
examine that and align more with my gifts
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and strength and what I have to
share the clarity cane. When I ask
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for my charity, it literally came
very quickly for me, and so then
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I made space picked the place a
regular time literally for my divine inspiration.
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So purpose became more clear and has
evolved as I have evolved. It's been
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a journey weaving multiple strengths into different
applications with growing rewards. When inner journey
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was coalescing and ready literally to present
itself, my purpose became undeniable, although
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at first I tried to deny it. It's not always convenient, is it?
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Like I don't really want to do
another book. Yeah, but I
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understand this material was so beautiful,
so enriching, and the chaos of the
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world was also escalating. I saw
how it could begin to help. It
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could begin to help. If those
two were give mixed, it would begin
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to neutralize some of that. So
as we continued with our working together,
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Kathy and I working together on this
book, we literally were lifted each day
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in this wonderful wholeness of knowing,
and we were then in sync with our
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purpose, a most exquisite feeling,
wonderful. Wow, it sounds delicious,
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yes, and I do recognize it
as well. Kathy. Did you want
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to chime anything on that briefly before
we go on to the next Oh no,
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we're already okay. Good. You'll
notice listeners that I'm reading from their
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book in part because I just can't
duplicate how beautiful the way they write,
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and because I want to let you
in. That's why I'm doing some of
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this reading, and it helps you
get present to the topics that we're working
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from, So that's why we're doing
it this way. I wanted to talk
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from the chapter on personal purpose,
and you say in that chapter we refresh
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our goals and seek avenues to bring
these goals to fruition. This is the
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natural progression of life where our personal
purposes can way with the wind and continually
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redirect our courses people create and this
is the heart of living our purpose.
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Oh that is just beautiful. So
Terry, you know, would you speak
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to this notion of how we seem
to be creating our passions and our core
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related to our purpose? Absolutely?
And I just want to mention that what
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Kathy just did was literally an example
of authenticity. And one of my journeys
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has been moving from authority into authenticity, releasing what I know and letting myself
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be real and sharing that with another
one. And I very much honor that
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in Kathy, me too, so
speaking to this passions and creating our purpose
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literally, as we allow our passions
to grow within us, as we honor
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that play, that dance with that, we are lifted and this pushes us
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into lifts us into our creation,
the offering that we have, the sharing
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that we have, and this is
how inner journey was created. And sharing
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this exquisite passion literally is our joy
inner journey. This book has given us
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the structure to do this. It
aligned so perfectly with our destiny of love,
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that it has been a total joy
to do this. The higher frequencies
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that we experience as we're working on
this lift us into another pristine reality.
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And this I wish for everyone that
was stunning, Terry beautiful. Thank you.
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With that, let's grab our last
break. I'm Elise Cortez, your
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host. We've been on the year
with Kathy Rawlings and Terry Spears, the
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authors of Inner Journey, stepping stones
into our destiny of love. We've been
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taught talking more about the contents of
the book. We'll continue to do so
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after the break. Stay with us. Alise Cortez is a speaker and engagement
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dot com. Now back to working
on Purpose. Thanks for seeing with us,
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and welcome back to working on Purpose. If you're just tuning in.
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My guests are Kathy Rawlings and Terry
Spears, the authors of Inner Journey,
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stepping stones into our destiny of love. Kathy joined us from Arizona and Terry's
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calling in from Missouri. I'm your
host to Leise Cortez, and I'm here
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in Texas, so to take us
here to the finish, I've got a
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few more things I want to surface
here. So Terry, you say that,
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well, both of you say this
in the book, but I want
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to start with you and we'll continue
on and we'll see if Kathy can join
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us. If she can't, then
you and I will chat and she'll just
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listen. So you say in your
book that our purpose evolves and is designed
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to do so in our life journey. Then later you go on to say,
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pleasantly surprised we face the new and
fresh idea that our soul has an
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evolutionary program, is expanding and growing
in richness. The soul was given to
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each conscious human being as the navigator
of life purposely identified with the master blueprint
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of each person to evolve and personal
abilities to experience changes throughout the walks of
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life. What kinds of things impact
how our purpose evolves? I find that
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just so compelling, and the idea
of our soul ever expansive, incredibly alluring,
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and I'm not sure that I've ever
thought of it being able to evolve,
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as you talk about in your book. Would you say a little bit
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more about that, Let us in
a little bit deeper, if you would.
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Yes, the soul is like a
higher perspective of our physical cells.
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And so as we the human walks
around and has all these experiences, and
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we grow with our feelings that are
generated from these experiences. We heal,
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We come into greater understanding, greater
love, greater compassion, and this literally
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is fed into the soul and enriches
the soul. We keep repeating life,
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We keep continuing through life with more
experiences, more feelings, refining into greater
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understanding, love and compassion, which
in turn enriches the soul. So as
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we refine, our love for all
grows, and literally this oneness, that
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love for all, the connection to
all of life, is very freeing and
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will refine and often will shift our
purpose. So the goal of love and
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love continuing refining is continues to be
our purpose, but the mission how we
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achieve, as how we share this
evolves. And then our body's soul spirit
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taing becomes very active, which is
the greater part of us, rather than
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just our mind and our hearts and
a physical body. We there's more to
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us than that, and this becomes
obvious as we continue through these experiences.
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This book has been wonderful to help
ground the sacred wisdom that we've been given,
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and it lends itself to these kinds
of exchanges of the heart that quicken
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myself but quickens another person along their
destiny of love. So each exchange lifts
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and refines love itself becomes irresistible,
and it's a lure. Using your word,
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it is. And you know,
there are many things I got from
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your book, But for that notion
of the soul really being expansive, I
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think is just is just really such
a fresh idea. I mean, why
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would I think otherwise? But somehow
I guess I was. So you have
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mentioned before the gift of just being
kind and present for other people, but
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you also talk about the gift of
compassion as access to growth. And again,
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we want to be able to presence
for our listeners as much usable information
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as we possibly can. So how
can we use this gift of compassion as
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access to growth? Compassion comes as
we shift from our authority into our authenticity.
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This is a vulnerability that we have
where we are willing to step into
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our feelings. As we step into
old emotions, As we step into the
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pain, the judgment, the fears
that we've had and let ourselves feel them,
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they begin to release. They no
longer hold us captive and in old
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patterns and ruts, and so as
we begin to do this and allow ourselves
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to be authentic in every situation,
then we begin to move into self acceptance
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and self love that grows into unconditional
love. This lifts us in soul growth,
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gifting us with compassion where we literally
begin to rise up and claim the
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gift of love for all around us. We move outside of ourselves into the
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caring of others. This becomes service
service love given love, shared love multiplied
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unconditionally. Thus the soul recovers itself
and holds new potentials of growth, lift
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enlighten body, soul, spirit,
and together we receive that kiss of compassion,
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and this experience changes everything in our
lives. So okay, so that's
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so compelling and rich, and you
know it's so obvious to me, and
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I hope you also, listeners,
just the rich vain that these ladies live
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on by receiving as they do.
You've hinted at this, and I did
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want to ask you a little bit
about this, if you can say something
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briefly about it, Terry, But
how can we grow our soul by being
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authentic by choosing It's a choice.
I have to say that it is a
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choice. We can hold our authority, we can be eccentric, we can
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hold what we have known as our
truths, or we can let ourselves be
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vulnerable and authentic and set aside what
we knew to be able to learn,
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to be teachable, to use experience
to do something different. Okay, so
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that's going to take me into another
place that I was really intrigued with as
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well. I'm going to read this
again because it's beautiful. Listeners, quote
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our soul, the very fabric of
our physical existence is impacted through all of
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our sensory perceptions of life and records
and energy, all feelings, thoughts,
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impulses, and frequency exchanges. If
we don't enrich our soul with the complex
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flavors of our experiences, it can't
enrich us. Would you say more about
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that? That is so delicious and
it spoke to what you just said,
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so I had to call it up
there exactly, this authenticity, this courage
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to feel be honest with ourselves,
stepping into these stuffed feelings. Reaching for
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that authenticity really takes courage, and
so when our bravery is very richly rewarded
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when we do this, when we
allow the fullness of all of our parts
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of our team to come forward,
not just the mind, not just understanding
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it, but letting ourselves feel all
of these feelings and stepping into them,
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letting them begin to resolve and soften, then it's it's as if we have
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shifted gears. It's as if we
know how to finally use all of those
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gears on that stick shift and we
have a smooth ride. That is.
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Your ability to narrate this so that
we can really get access to it is
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beautiful, Terry. That's just it's
a stunning thing. I there's lots of
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things I could comment on that,
but I'll just say one thing really quick.
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This is not related to being authentic
per se, but it is about
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stepping into courage and my own fears, and that is I'm doing a two
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hundred kilometer race in a country called
Bhutan, which is between India and China
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later dismay, and the idea is
to stimulate my emotional, physical, and
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spiritual arenas. I'm doing it intentionally, so I fully expect to be overcome
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with awe, gratitude and just the
connections that come with that. So it
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just just spoke to me when I
read that in your book that I went
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right there as well. Just being
in the country at Bhutan, I've from
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what I understand is very very uplifting
to body, soul, and spirit.
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I'm going to step into it with
that, with that possibility in my wings
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for sure. And now with that, we're almost out of time here,
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so I just want to make sure
because we finish in about four minutes total.
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So if we can just quickly talk
about forgiveness. This is probably so
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important for so many of our listeners, and you say the act of forgiveness
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is one of the most powerful steps
and changing negative feelings into positive feelings.
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Short brief on that one. Yes, forgiveness, It's an eternal truth of
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love. When we release our blame
of another for our own feelings, situations,
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patterns, taking full responsibility for our
reactions, then we are claiming full
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responsibility and we empower ourselves. We
can consciously choose to change and grow,
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for instance, change our need for
an attachment to the feelings of blame.
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As we step into the full array
of feelings and begin to release our pain
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around this, a softening of benevolence
and an understanding of another's point of view
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comes, and compassion grows. Resentment
softens the walls of negativity just melt.
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And this is our gift to ourselves. Compassion rises, forgiveness is complete,
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and a blessing to ourselves, our
soul, and our spirit happens and to
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everyone around us well. That is
an invitation for all of us. Thank
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you for that, Terry. To
close the show here, I would like
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to be able to give the last
word too to my guests. So I
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don't know if Kathy wants to say
anything, but let me say for you,
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Terry, how what would you like
to leave our listeners with? I
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would like to just help anyone out
there understand that Inner Journey is a handbook
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to help us heal our splinteredness back
into holness and to enjoy all the benefits
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of the love, compassion, passion, grace, just to name a few.
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This handbook literally will help us to
escalate our growth as we continue to
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use it. And literally we have
read and reread this material and it continues
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to lift us into greater and greater
clarity of love. Literally, And so
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I just want to thank you so
much, Alise for this sharing. It
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certainly has been our pleasure to share
well. And thank you very much for
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being both who you are and for
being willing to accept the call that you
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each got, and for being obedient
to that, being obedient to purpose.
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It's as I said before, it's
not always convenient. It was it hasn't
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been for me either, but I
wouldn't trade it for anything. It's the
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most amazing experience I've ever had in
my life. But I also recognize that
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it's a journey and it does take
an awful lot of effort and obedience and
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being present to that. And so
I thank you both for the amazing work
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that you've done and that you are
out to help help the world and share
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it with us. So thank you
both for being on working on purpose.
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Thank you so much, Alise God
bless so listeners. If you want to
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learn more about Kathy Rawlings, Terry
Spears and their book Inner Journey Stepping Stones
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into our Destiny of Love, the
best way to find them is to send
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them an email. You can send
them that email to purpose Realized at gmail
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dot com. One more time.
The email address is purpose realized at gmail
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dot com. Last week, if
you miss the live show, you can
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always catch it via recorded podcast.
We were on the Earth na A Lee
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Lafonte Sis from France talking about her
remarkable book and ted talk and journey going
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from a businesswoman extraordinaire, superwoman in
life to paraplegic and then achieving her dream
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of becoming a writer and now inspirational
speaker. I dare say you'll be inspired
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hearing her story. Next week we'll
be on the air with Tony excuse me,
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Tom Holsey, author of the winning
mindset that Saved My life, and
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hear the story that inspired its writing. See you there. Remember that work
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is at least a third of our
life, so let's work on purpose.
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Well, hope you've enjoyed this week's
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It's beyond nine to five, it's working
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I'm glad we're connected, and thanks for
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listening. Now onto this week's program
with us today is Katherine Rawlings and Terry
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Spears, who have each co authored
five other books separately. Today we'll be
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focusing on the book they co authored
together. Excuse me, they didn't co
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author, they wrote those separately.
Today we'll talk about the book they co
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authored together. It's called Inner Journey, Stepping Stones into Our Destiny of Love.
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We'll be talking about specific points from
their book. I think beautifully illustrate
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can help guide us on our path
to a more fulfilled and purposeful life.
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Kathy's joining us from Arizona and Terry
is dialing in from Missouri. Kathy and
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Terry, welcome to working on purpose. Thank you at least, we're glad
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happy to be here. It's really
wonderful. I have to have the two
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of you here, and I was
delighted. I was delighted when we cross
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paths, and I realize you can
make for a delightful guests. And I
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have read your book cover to cover, as you could tell by now,
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and so listeners for you to understand, I've prepared some questions that I wanted
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to direct in the dialogue, and
we've decided that we're going to serve them
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up to one of the authors first
and then if the other wants to chime
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in, they can do so.
So just know that that's how we architect
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of the conversation so that it will
flow gently for you. So before we
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get into the contents of the book, ladies, I think it would be
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helpful for all of us and probably
very interesting to understand just how this joint
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book together came to be. So
what's the history and why were you compelled
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to write it together? I'll begin
with that this is Kathy. I've always
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been a seeker my whole life.
I've always quested to find the bigger picture,
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the bigger perspective of life, never
really being satisfied with the answers that
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I got in normal conversations, and
so throughout the years I focused on developing
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that within me. So for the
last forty years I have been receiving divine
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inspiration, sharing it with others,
helping them to understand their wife's issues from
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their bigger perspective. And this brings
us to our current experience in getting together
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in writing this book. About six
years ago, after my meditation, I
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had the most unusual experience that caught
me by surprise. I heard a resounding
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voice and urging an invitation asking me
if I would like to receive divine inspiration
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on talking about and learning about our
higher truths. Now, this receiving was
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not new to me, but this
very clear, direct question was new to
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me, and it was an answer
to my prayers of I was ready to
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expand into more of myself and get
a more direct communication, clear line with
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my creator, my God's source.
So when I heard this, I got
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a thump in my chest and I
sat for a minute trying to digest what
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I had just received. And of
course my answer was a resounding yes.
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while and I wondered how this was going
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to come about. And I heard
very lovely again call Terry, called Terry,
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invite her to participate in receiving divine
inspiration and your lessons together. Well,
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I had not I have known Terry
for years, but we went our
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separate ways, and so I was
compelled to this and reconnect with her and
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share with her what had happened and
see if she was interested in participating the
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nest together. And so I was
looking around for her phone number, and
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I fortunately found it and she answered, and so I told her kind of
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stilling disbelief what was going on,
and she didn't even miss a beat and
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she said yes. And so I
said, okay, this will be as
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I understood it was going to be
like weekly lessons that I was open to,
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just waiting to see what would happen. So at that point, Terry
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and I began our lessons together and
with the two of us, when two
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of more are gathered, it's extremely
powerful in your genuine quest for inner truth
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and answers. Well, that's what
happened. We had an amplified, amplified
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connection and we were able to just
thrive. And of course it was always
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a stretch to understand the material that
was given. And then we started to
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accumulate so much of this powerful information
that we said, what are we going
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to do with this? Why don't
we compile it in a book? And
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but and it was all sharing higher
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but we both didn't like the reality
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went with self publishing. So we
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we got somewhat disappointed, and then
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so powerful for me was in my
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physically, and it was getting so
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pineal gland and so on felt like
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off balanced in my body. I
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was building. Well. I knew
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not something that I was really anxious
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my resistance and allow this material to
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to receiving she feeling pressure as well. We collectively then received our book,
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and we were so invested in this, and it was four months from the
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time that we began to the time
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totally completed. Wow, and that
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That is an amazing rendition. If
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and then I do want to hear
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what a way to narrate an awful
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minutes, So thank you for that. And second, I wanted presence for
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our listeners, Kathy and Terry that
what I heard from that is the importance
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of really listening to yourself and the
divine. I think it's so important.
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I think today's fast paced society,
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to still themselves to be able to
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to call that out. And then
also to the beautiful collaboration that you have
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together. How's what you made of
that collaboration is I've read the book,
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It's beautiful. So I just wanted
to chime in on a couple of those
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things. Thank you, You're welcome. And Terry's what about your perspective?
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Well, thank you as we work
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guidance it. We had so much
information that it really felt necessary to begin
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to share what we were experiencing so
that that might actually help relieve some of
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the desperation that we felt humanity had
inc in escalating amounts. So we soon
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knew that we were writing this book
now Inner Journey, and then we understood
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that part of the wisdom of that
was the body, soul, spirit team
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structure pulling that wholeness of our selves
back together, and how that functioned,
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and how that would literally create reusable
stepping stones to achieve this wholeness. And
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so this is our gift to humanity
now that we feel is really in a
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time of great need. I completely
agree with that, Terry, and it's
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a lot of the reason I do
the work that I do is a lot
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of people are living in an existential
vacuum and that seems to manifest into depression
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and reliance on drugs and alcohol and
various other things. And so we're on
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similar journeys, which is why I
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So from here, if we can, ladies, I want to give our
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listeners as much usable, actionable intelligence
as we can give them the short time
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that we can. So I've picked
out some different areas, as you know
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from your book, that I want
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can, I'll drill up the questions
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it. If you could be just
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on that, and then if the
other wants to chime in at all,
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then we'll do that and just keep
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take charge section, you say that
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responsibility for our personal growth, and
of course I agree. But I've met
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many people over the years who are
not necessarily motivated to cultivate personal growth.
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It's just not a priority. It's
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value in it. So have you
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want to grow personally? I don't
know if there is a way, but
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it's a different, different way of
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sole plan, we all are in
process. We all have our abilities to
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receive and change at the pace that
we can. But a lot of focus
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goes to busy, busy, busy
doo doo do don't take time to even
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know what you're doing to even stop
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and we get stuck. A lot
of people are stuck in an archaic belief
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system, old behavior patterns that are
not refreshed with the new inspiring energies that
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are given to us now. So
it's a dying thing. It becomes stressful
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to try to maintain the feelings of
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of security when even if it's miserable, that we are conscious of it and
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we know about it, so it
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false prophet It really is not what's
happening of the opportunities that are happening now
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for change. So how is someone
penalized by that? They're penalized by losing
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out on the wonderful experiences and being
consciously aware of what's happening in our internal
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changes, our worldly changes, and
we just continue in a status quo.
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It's kind of a miserable lifestyle,
really, But what's the antidote in my
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feeling is to look behind the scenes, look for the bigger picture of what's
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really going on energetically. It might
appear that everything is terrible, non inspired,
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not moving. People are just going
through life spending their time, filling
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their time with nothing being much that's
meaningful. But there is movement because we
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have a master plan of development,
a God given master plan that is not
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of these qualities. These are just
steps along the way of us opening and
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changing to the bigger picture of life. So our concerns for people are extremely
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powerful. Whether there are casual concerns
or deep filled concerns, they are still
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powerful because they send out an energy
of caring and concern, an energy that
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enters into the energetic fabric of the
individual. And so might it might appear
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that people are really in a miserable
place, while their egos and their perspectives
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are in a miserable place. But
people as a whole are perfect beings that
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are going through their changes of life
and their recognitions in their own way.
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So that's useful, Kathy, that's
very useful. Good. It takes away
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that the comparison in any judgment as
well. Hold your thought if you will,
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Kathy, We've got to grab our
first break, and then Terry think
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about if you want to say anything
else to that. I'm your host.
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Alice Cortez moving on the air with
Kathy Rawlings and Terry spears, the authors
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of Inner Journey, Stepping Stones into
our destiny of love. We've been talking
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a bit about how they came together
to conspire to write this book and the
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adventure that came with that, and
we're just getting into the contents. After
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the break, we'll continue the conversation, starting with the energy. Stay with
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us, We'll be right back.
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Cortez dot com. Now back to
working on Purpose. Thanks for staying with
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us, and welcome back to working
on Purpose. If you're just joining us,
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My guests are Kathy Rowlings and Terry
Spears, the authors of Inner Journey,
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Stepping stones into our destiny of love. Kathy joins us from Arizona and
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Terry is calling in from Missouri.
I'm your host, Elise Cortez. So,
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Kathy, you were just finishing up
something that you wanted to say more
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about about the section there about personal
growth. Did you want to say something
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else? Just very quickly? Is
that right now we have new refreshing energies
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showering the planet. It may not
seem so because of the chaotic events that
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are taking place not only within us
but around us, but this is what's
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happening. Happening, the jawsling up, the new coming in living and managing
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our lives to the best of our
ability is great. We really don't have
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to stress or worry over the outcomes. We do the best we can.
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We're all in different levels of growth, but God has our back and that's
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all we need to concern ourselves.
Swept, got it, beautiful? Terry?
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Did you want to briefly weigh in
on that before I ask you the
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next question? Well, what I
could say is that when we have our
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own crises, these are our turning
points that literally will push us to try
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something different while our body, soul
team, spirit team begins to be heard.
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We come to the magic of literally
surrendering ego, believing that we have
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a choice, expanding inward and literally
reveling in our recovery of spirit guided life,
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and we begin to listen to the
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needs. That was beautiful, Thanks
beautiful, add Terry, thank you for
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that. And let's go ahead and
serve this question to you, Terry.
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I, for me am increasingly attracted
to the notion of energy, and of
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course you talk about that in your
book and just now, and I've seen
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that so much of life is about
getting present to and managing energy, and
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I've become a tuned to the idea
of vibrational and energy especially and you say
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in the Reclaiming Fragments Fragments of Self
chapter that I quote. As we expand
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and grow on our own inner journey
through daily experiences and choices of action,
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we signal the body to internalize the
qualities of the experiences and harmonize its energies.
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We acquire a new vibration within our
energetic body and create a memory of
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each event. This is fascinating ladies
tell us more alrighty. The memories that
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we create frequently are very painful,
and we stuff them. The anxiety,
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the judgment, the harshness. These
are experiences that are stuffed into files that
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we're waiting to at some point release. So memory from the past guides our
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steps now, often with these unresolved
pains and fears as our director and decision
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makers, so we store them,
pushed away, all flavoring our current life.
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When we do this, life becomes
old and stale as these accumulate unaddressed
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will generally some outer push becomes our
reckoning point where the balancing act of life
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literally tips over, or maybe it
even explodes into a messiness that demands correction.
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Well, here we begin to address
and resolve these old stored hurt spheres
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anguish from our stored emotional files.
These are fragments of ourselves that we literally
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now begin to release and requality fine
into current moment and uplifted feelings where we
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can finally heal into appreciation of ourselves
or others, compassion, self love,
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refreshing our lives with our energies that
bloom now into a much higher frequency of
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feeling rather than the old emotions.
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Terry. Thank you for that.
So listeners, you'll probably want to
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keep this episode and download that against
you can hear that that was a beautiful
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rendition. Quickly, Kathy, did
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that? For we're going on to
the next question. No, okay,
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okay, beautiful. This is just
the yummy stuff I was hoping for,
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ladies. I love it. It's
nice and chewy too, just before dinner
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for me, So it's like a
nice appetizer. Okay. So Kathy,
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this one's for you to start.
So one of the stepping stones for our
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journey, you offer is to acknowledge
the nudging inside that comes forward to guide
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our sharing, a gentle push that
is always with us, you say.
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And I have increasingly felt that nudging
and been obedient to its direction myself and
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know that is why I'm able to
live my purpose through my work and across
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my life today. So that listening
that you talked about before, Kathy,
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was very important to me. But
I also hear other people who connect with
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my message feel very aware of this
nudge, and so my question to you
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is, how can we help people
who can't get feel this nudge get access
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to it. That's a very good
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aspect of people's growth and my opinion, but we can do encouraging information that
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helps them to understand the changes that
they are feeling in their life. Maybe
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not understanding what is going on,
but usually people do. Sometimes they're very
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acceptive of this, at other times
they're very resentful of it. So sometimes
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it's just a good idea to use
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our intense desires to help one another. When we do this, we take
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the personality out of the experience and
we are left with the the I don't
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want to say the trauma, but
the experiences of our connection and our our
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learning and caring for another person in
a silent way. The silent way acknowledges
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the power that is given in care
and concern, and so never a word
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needs to be really spoken at a
lot of time because it's just confusing to
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people, and they sometimes resent that
they do not understand. If someone does
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understand but they're just ignorant of how
to do something, then they're open,
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they're ap pliable, they're willing to
learn they're willing to try, and then
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this becomes a very enjoyable time for
someone, and then that serves a bigger
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purpose. But I think our idea
is not to create stress for someone,
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but to create the loving acceptance,
which is very powerful as far as a
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a structure of ourselves and the I
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because I do want to say that
it's not really the person, it's the
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caring and the experience of the people
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the difference. This makes big changes
within us. And I actually got that,
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Kathy. Let me let me quickly
apply that for our listeners. So
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listeners, of what I heard from
that is is the if you're standing in
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a place with someone and you're present
enough to be able to care for them
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and listen to them, you create
a space for them to be able to
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step into at their own their own
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Kathy, and you you definitely opened
up something for us, So thank you
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for that, Terry. You're welcome. I'm going to go on to the
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next question just to keep us on
track for time, because we're it's this
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moves fast. But did you want
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would say is that I agree with
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love, our intention of caring,
literally the truth of that can pierce the
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chaotic bubble. And so I'm right
there with her on that life will help
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a person pause in their business and
help open them up so that they finally
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do listen to their nudge. And
we all have them. They're like a
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hunch and when we choose to honor
them and acknowledge them, understanding finally that
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this is spirit knocking, then life
gets much easier. Well, that was
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a fantastic addition that definitely took that
down at the pike further. Thank you,
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Terry. So next one for you, Terry, to start this is
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around purpose in general. So on
the chapter what purpose is there to life?
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You say, quote Life's purpose is
life unfolding and changing into a new
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version of what it is and is
our individual purpose as we become aware and
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reached out to share this is a
cycle of life. As a breath goes
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inward and they and the yang the
cycle of life expanding contracting. That's just
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beautiful. So many people listen to
this program wanted to discover and refine their
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purpose. So let's talk more about
this, Terry. Can you say more
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about your perspective on purpose and how
it unfolds. Yes, indeedy life is
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just full of business, and because
I'm still leading a professional life along with
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the life of receiving and being an
author and sharing these messages, I'm an
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example of that. And one of
the things that I've done is just continue
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applying role models that are not necessarily
current for me. So as I have
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lived in this and I began to
examine that and align more with my gifts
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and strength and what I have to
share the clarity cane. When I ask
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for my charity, it literally came
very quickly for me, and so then
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I made space picked the place a
regular time literally for my divine inspiration.
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So purpose became more clear and has
evolved as I have evolved. It's been
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a journey weaving multiple strengths into different
applications with growing rewards. When inner journey
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was coalescing and ready literally to present
itself, my purpose became undeniable, although
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at first I tried to deny it. It's not always convenient, is it?
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Like I don't really want to do
another book. Yeah, but I
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understand this material was so beautiful,
so enriching, and the chaos of the
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world was also escalating. I saw
how it could begin to help. It
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could begin to help. If those
two were give mixed, it would begin
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to neutralize some of that. So
as we continued with our working together,
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Kathy and I working together on this
book, we literally were lifted each day
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in this wonderful wholeness of knowing,
and we were then in sync with our
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purpose, a most exquisite feeling,
wonderful. Wow, it sounds delicious,
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yes, and I do recognize it
as well. Kathy. Did you want
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to chime anything on that briefly before
we go on to the next Oh no,
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we're already okay. Good. You'll
notice listeners that I'm reading from their
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book in part because I just can't
duplicate how beautiful the way they write,
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and because I want to let you
in. That's why I'm doing some of
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this reading, and it helps you
get present to the topics that we're working
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from, So that's why we're doing
it this way. I wanted to talk
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from the chapter on personal purpose,
and you say in that chapter we refresh
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our goals and seek avenues to bring
these goals to fruition. This is the
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natural progression of life where our personal
purposes can way with the wind and continually
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redirect our courses people create and this
is the heart of living our purpose.
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Oh that is just beautiful. So
Terry, you know, would you speak
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to this notion of how we seem
to be creating our passions and our core
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related to our purpose? Absolutely?
And I just want to mention that what
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Kathy just did was literally an example
of authenticity. And one of my journeys
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has been moving from authority into authenticity, releasing what I know and letting myself
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be real and sharing that with another
one. And I very much honor that
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in Kathy, me too, so
speaking to this passions and creating our purpose
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literally, as we allow our passions
to grow within us, as we honor
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that play, that dance with that, we are lifted and this pushes us
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into lifts us into our creation,
the offering that we have, the sharing
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that we have, and this is
how inner journey was created. And sharing
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this exquisite passion literally is our joy
inner journey. This book has given us
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the structure to do this. It
aligned so perfectly with our destiny of love,
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that it has been a total joy
to do this. The higher frequencies
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that we experience as we're working on
this lift us into another pristine reality.
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And this I wish for everyone that
was stunning, Terry beautiful. Thank you.
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With that, let's grab our last
break. I'm Elise Cortez, your
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host. We've been on the year
with Kathy Rawlings and Terry Spears, the
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authors of Inner Journey, stepping stones
into our destiny of love. We've been
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taught talking more about the contents of
the book. We'll continue to do so
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after the break. Stay with us. Alise Cortez is a speaker and engagement
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and development catalyst. She designs and
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This is working on purpose with Elise Cortez
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dot com. Now back to working
on Purpose. Thanks for seeing with us,
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and welcome back to working on Purpose. If you're just tuning in.
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My guests are Kathy Rawlings and Terry
Spears, the authors of Inner Journey,
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stepping stones into our destiny of love. Kathy joined us from Arizona and Terry's
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calling in from Missouri. I'm your
host to Leise Cortez, and I'm here
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in Texas, so to take us
here to the finish, I've got a
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few more things I want to surface
here. So Terry, you say that,
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well, both of you say this
in the book, but I want
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to start with you and we'll continue
on and we'll see if Kathy can join
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us. If she can't, then
you and I will chat and she'll just
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listen. So you say in your
book that our purpose evolves and is designed
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to do so in our life journey. Then later you go on to say,
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pleasantly surprised we face the new and
fresh idea that our soul has an
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evolutionary program, is expanding and growing
in richness. The soul was given to
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each conscious human being as the navigator
of life purposely identified with the master blueprint
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of each person to evolve and personal
abilities to experience changes throughout the walks of
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life. What kinds of things impact
how our purpose evolves? I find that
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just so compelling, and the idea
of our soul ever expansive, incredibly alluring,
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and I'm not sure that I've ever
thought of it being able to evolve,
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as you talk about in your book. Would you say a little bit
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more about that, Let us in
a little bit deeper, if you would.
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Yes, the soul is like a
higher perspective of our physical cells.
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And so as we the human walks
around and has all these experiences, and
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we grow with our feelings that are
generated from these experiences. We heal,
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We come into greater understanding, greater
love, greater compassion, and this literally
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is fed into the soul and enriches
the soul. We keep repeating life,
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We keep continuing through life with more
experiences, more feelings, refining into greater
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understanding, love and compassion, which
in turn enriches the soul. So as
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we refine, our love for all
grows, and literally this oneness, that
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love for all, the connection to
all of life, is very freeing and
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will refine and often will shift our
purpose. So the goal of love and
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love continuing refining is continues to be
our purpose, but the mission how we
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achieve, as how we share this
evolves. And then our body's soul spirit
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taing becomes very active, which is
the greater part of us, rather than
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just our mind and our hearts and
a physical body. We there's more to
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us than that, and this becomes
obvious as we continue through these experiences.
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This book has been wonderful to help
ground the sacred wisdom that we've been given,
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and it lends itself to these kinds
of exchanges of the heart that quicken
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myself but quickens another person along their
destiny of love. So each exchange lifts
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and refines love itself becomes irresistible,
and it's a lure. Using your word,
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it is. And you know,
there are many things I got from
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your book, But for that notion
of the soul really being expansive, I
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think is just is just really such
a fresh idea. I mean, why
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would I think otherwise? But somehow
I guess I was. So you have
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mentioned before the gift of just being
kind and present for other people, but
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you also talk about the gift of
compassion as access to growth. And again,
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we want to be able to presence
for our listeners as much usable information
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as we possibly can. So how
can we use this gift of compassion as
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access to growth? Compassion comes as
we shift from our authority into our authenticity.
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This is a vulnerability that we have
where we are willing to step into
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our feelings. As we step into
old emotions, As we step into the
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pain, the judgment, the fears
that we've had and let ourselves feel them,
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they begin to release. They no
longer hold us captive and in old
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patterns and ruts, and so as
we begin to do this and allow ourselves
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to be authentic in every situation,
then we begin to move into self acceptance
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and self love that grows into unconditional
love. This lifts us in soul growth,
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gifting us with compassion where we literally
begin to rise up and claim the
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gift of love for all around us. We move outside of ourselves into the
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caring of others. This becomes service
service love given love, shared love multiplied
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unconditionally. Thus the soul recovers itself
and holds new potentials of growth, lift
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enlighten body, soul, spirit,
and together we receive that kiss of compassion,
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and this experience changes everything in our
lives. So okay, so that's
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so compelling and rich, and you
know it's so obvious to me, and
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I hope you also, listeners,
just the rich vain that these ladies live
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on by receiving as they do.
You've hinted at this, and I did
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want to ask you a little bit
about this, if you can say something
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briefly about it, Terry, But
how can we grow our soul by being
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authentic by choosing It's a choice.
I have to say that it is a
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choice. We can hold our authority, we can be eccentric, we can
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hold what we have known as our
truths, or we can let ourselves be
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vulnerable and authentic and set aside what
we knew to be able to learn,
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to be teachable, to use experience
to do something different. Okay, so
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that's going to take me into another
place that I was really intrigued with as
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well. I'm going to read this
again because it's beautiful. Listeners, quote
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our soul, the very fabric of
our physical existence is impacted through all of
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our sensory perceptions of life and records
and energy, all feelings, thoughts,
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impulses, and frequency exchanges. If
we don't enrich our soul with the complex
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flavors of our experiences, it can't
enrich us. Would you say more about
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that? That is so delicious and
it spoke to what you just said,
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so I had to call it up
there exactly, this authenticity, this courage
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to feel be honest with ourselves,
stepping into these stuffed feelings. Reaching for
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that authenticity really takes courage, and
so when our bravery is very richly rewarded
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when we do this, when we
allow the fullness of all of our parts
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of our team to come forward,
not just the mind, not just understanding
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it, but letting ourselves feel all
of these feelings and stepping into them,
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letting them begin to resolve and soften, then it's it's as if we have
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shifted gears. It's as if we
know how to finally use all of those
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gears on that stick shift and we
have a smooth ride. That is.
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Your ability to narrate this so that
we can really get access to it is
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beautiful, Terry. That's just it's
a stunning thing. I there's lots of
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things I could comment on that,
but I'll just say one thing really quick.
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This is not related to being authentic
per se, but it is about
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stepping into courage and my own fears, and that is I'm doing a two
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hundred kilometer race in a country called
Bhutan, which is between India and China
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later dismay, and the idea is
to stimulate my emotional, physical, and
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spiritual arenas. I'm doing it intentionally, so I fully expect to be overcome
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with awe, gratitude and just the
connections that come with that. So it
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just just spoke to me when I
read that in your book that I went
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right there as well. Just being
in the country at Bhutan, I've from
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what I understand is very very uplifting
to body, soul, and spirit.
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I'm going to step into it with
that, with that possibility in my wings
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for sure. And now with that, we're almost out of time here,
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so I just want to make sure
because we finish in about four minutes total.
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So if we can just quickly talk
about forgiveness. This is probably so
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important for so many of our listeners, and you say the act of forgiveness
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is one of the most powerful steps
and changing negative feelings into positive feelings.
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Short brief on that one. Yes, forgiveness, It's an eternal truth of
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love. When we release our blame
of another for our own feelings, situations,
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patterns, taking full responsibility for our
reactions, then we are claiming full
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responsibility and we empower ourselves. We
can consciously choose to change and grow,
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for instance, change our need for
an attachment to the feelings of blame.
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As we step into the full array
of feelings and begin to release our pain
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around this, a softening of benevolence
and an understanding of another's point of view
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comes, and compassion grows. Resentment
softens the walls of negativity just melt.
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And this is our gift to ourselves. Compassion rises, forgiveness is complete,
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and a blessing to ourselves, our
soul, and our spirit happens and to
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everyone around us well. That is
an invitation for all of us. Thank
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you for that, Terry. To
close the show here, I would like
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to be able to give the last
word too to my guests. So I
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don't know if Kathy wants to say
anything, but let me say for you,
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Terry, how what would you like
to leave our listeners with? I
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would like to just help anyone out
there understand that Inner Journey is a handbook
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to help us heal our splinteredness back
into holness and to enjoy all the benefits
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of the love, compassion, passion, grace, just to name a few.
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This handbook literally will help us to
escalate our growth as we continue to
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use it. And literally we have
read and reread this material and it continues
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to lift us into greater and greater
clarity of love. Literally, And so
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I just want to thank you so
much, Alise for this sharing. It
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certainly has been our pleasure to share
well. And thank you very much for
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being both who you are and for
being willing to accept the call that you
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each got, and for being obedient
to that, being obedient to purpose.
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It's as I said before, it's
not always convenient. It was it hasn't
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been for me either, but I
wouldn't trade it for anything. It's the
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most amazing experience I've ever had in
my life. But I also recognize that
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it's a journey and it does take
an awful lot of effort and obedience and
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being present to that. And so
I thank you both for the amazing work
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that you've done and that you are
out to help help the world and share
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it with us. So thank you
both for being on working on purpose.
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Thank you so much, Alise God
bless so listeners. If you want to
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learn more about Kathy Rawlings, Terry
Spears and their book Inner Journey Stepping Stones
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into our Destiny of Love, the
best way to find them is to send
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them an email. You can send
them that email to purpose Realized at gmail
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dot com. One more time.
The email address is purpose realized at gmail
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dot com. Last week, if
you miss the live show, you can
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always catch it via recorded podcast.
We were on the Earth na A Lee
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Lafonte Sis from France talking about her
remarkable book and ted talk and journey going
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from a businesswoman extraordinaire, superwoman in
life to paraplegic and then achieving her dream
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of becoming a writer and now inspirational
speaker. I dare say you'll be inspired
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hearing her story. Next week we'll
be on the air with Tony excuse me,
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Tom Holsey, author of the winning
mindset that Saved My life, and
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hear the story that inspired its writing. See you there. Remember that work
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is at least a third of our
life, so let's work on purpose.
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Well, hope you've enjoyed this week's
program, be sure to tune in to
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Working on Purpose, featuring your host, Alice Cortez, each week on the
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Voice America Empowerment Channel. This week, find your life's purpose at work.





















































