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this world we all want Working on
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Release Cortez. Welcome back to the
Working and Purpose Program. Thanks doing again
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and again this week. It's great
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Test, joining you live from Dallas home
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My team and I at Gusto Now
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are measurably elevated. You can learn
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at eliscoretest dot com and gustodashnow dot
com. Now getting into today's program with
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us is Talia Fox. She's the
CEO of Kusai Global, Inc. Which
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helps her clients to maximize human potential
by leveraging strategic intelligence and helps individuals and
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organizations foster conected cultures and promote conscious
equity. She's the author of the Power
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of Conscious Connection for habits to transform
how you live and lead, which we'll
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be talking about today. She's Joys
today just outside of Washington, d C.
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Tell you, welcome to working on
Purpose. So great to be here,
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Ha Lise, it is so great
to have you. As we were
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saying before we got on air together, you know, one of the greatest
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things about hosting the show is because
most of my guests come through public relations
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people, I meet people I wouldn't
otherwise get to meet, including you.
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So I'm delighted to meet you.
As you know, I've read your book
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cover to cover and because I know
you better than maybe our listeners and guests
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do so far, would you just
introduce yourself and say a little bit about
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where this beautiful love system that you
created came from. Absolutely. So,
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I've been doing this work for almost
twenty years. And what I mean by
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this work is I'm an executive leadership
strategist, so I've been working with organizations
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and my journey for this book started
as a mom. That was I became
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a single mom. I wanted to
lose weight, I wanted to achieve a
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lot. I was studying psychology and
I said, there's got to be a
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hack for our lives. So this
book is really this combination of what I
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learned as a therapist, actually looking
at cognitive behavioralism, which is how do
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you take your thinking and impact your
behavior. I also think about the existential
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questions of what is this life about? And then combining that with the leadership
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skills that you need to achieve something. I feel like I'm onto something here.
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At least I'm hacking our lives to
figure out how to both be happy
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I love the word vibrant and excited, but also to achieve really important things.
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So this journey has been quite a
ride, and in the book,
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I've tried to captivate that and to
share what I know with the world.
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And you did it beautifully. As
as I was saying to you, I
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really appreciate that you really let us
into your life and your connection with your
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father and just some of those beautiful
memories and the things that he taught you
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along the way that if you've infused
into your life and your work too,
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it's really beautiful. Thank you so
much. You're welcome. So as I
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want to do, I like to
read sometimes direct passages from the book just
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because it's so beautiful how you rendered
this, and then I'll ask you to
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comment on it. So you say
toward the beginning of the book, you
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say, quote our behavior and habits
can turn us into zombies, ignoring life,
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rejecting uniqueness, defying problem or denying
problems, and forgetting to look up
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and gain clarity about how we choose
to live. The nightmare is real when
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we are not conscious and connected to
something bigger. Yet, as with all
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nightmares, you can wake up with
a little shift, You can gasp back
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into the light to realize that you
aren't really in danger. You just need
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to experience more conscious connection. And
obviously to me, that's the promise of
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your whole book and your system.
So I mean, that's gorgeous. That
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is just a gorgeous, compelling grab
you in around your neck passage, Dahlia,
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thank you. Yeah, you know, we are in a very interesting
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time, and I think we've been
in this time for several years where it
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just feels like we're not listening to
each other. It feels like a nightmare.
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People feel disconnected. One of the
interesting things about working in with large
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corporations and businesses is I was just
astonished at how much therapy is needed,
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how anxious people are, how sad
this us, and we don't have tools.
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I think one of the issues that
we're having in this world is that
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we think that we should know what
to do, and we think that it's
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intuitive. So the promise of the
book is definitely we don't have to choose
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this nightmare. There are some skills
and there are some habits that we can
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practice that allow us to be present, to be happy, and to achieve
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some really great things. I love
the words that we're used in the beginning
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of this podcast. To elevate humanity
is really really critical here. Agreed.
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You know, it's so interesting.
There's some beautiful, nice overlap and congruence
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with our work. You use the
word zombies. I use the phrase walking
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debt in my first book, and
that really came to be when I'd be
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asking audiences or speaking audiences and I
would pose the question what are you passionate
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about? There'd be this sea of
faces that were struggling looking for the answer,
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and they didn't know what it was. And I could tell they didn't
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have an answer to the question.
And I have been a member of the
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Walking Dead, I know if I've
been a card Carring member, I understand.
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So there's no judgment in this this
is about how do we help?
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So I want to next if we
can just kind of now lay out first,
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because we're going to dive into your
system here, If we can just
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lay out your beautiful love system here, the system of habits that you've created
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that will help transform how we live
and lead talk us through them, please
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absolutely. And just to add on
to what you were just saying, what's
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so critical about passion about waking up
is I'm also a strategist, so I
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have learned that if you have a
system of being, you will have an
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edge and likely be the most street, strategic and smartest person in the room.
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Because we are surrounded by so many
zombies, so there are two to
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this one you'll get really happy.
But the other side is it's very strategic
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around accomplishing great things, moving people, driving change, all of those wonderful
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things. In the Love system,
by the way, it is by not
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by design that it spells out the
acronym love. I actually came up with
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the skills first, and then it
happened to reflect love, and so it
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was so beautiful. I pulled it
together and it was like, oh,
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it's actually love. So the love
system is a set of habits that we
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practice on a regular basis, and
it applies to anything that you may need
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to accomplish. Really, if you
read ten thousand hours of leadership development training
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and books, it would boil down
to these four habits. It's lve,
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listen, observe, align with your
values, and engage and at each of
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these habits is connected to a very
critical leadership skills that changes everything. It's
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so Chris. I love it.
Of course, since we've laid that out
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at the beginning. Now I want
to spend the rest of our time together
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really diving into your system here and
again I just think it's so accessible.
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So one of the things that you
bring to life here that which I think
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is so important. You know,
just being really talking about listening consciously is
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so transformative. And what I always
say in my programs is, you know,
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when you really listen to someone,
you just melt them, because so
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seldom do they get that experience of
really being listened to. And there's something
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you can see it when you can. You know, I've witnessed it when
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I've been in restaurants and out and
I could see the people that are really
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connected powerful through listening. And so
you say you go on to talk about
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it will feel like a magic bullet. I completely agree with that. And
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so you say, you know,
to connect to learn to access miracles.
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There's a few concrete steps that you
can take to actually improve your listening and
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your emotional intelligence. But first you
tell us you have to pay attention to
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how we listen, and you gave
us five ways that we tend to listen.
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Would you walk us through those?
Yes, So we have these listening
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personalities, and part of this is
what I like to look at as a
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leadership strategies or what are the barriers
to listening. Some of us may say
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listening, I've heard this before.
But there's a lot of deepness to this
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listening thing, and we're not doing
so well at it. This is what's
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causing the zombie effect, and this
is what's actually I will tell you give
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me any problem that you have,
and I promise you that there's some level
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of your listening that is impacting that
problem. Finances, relationship, you're not
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getting up, promotion, whatever it
is. There is a listening strategy that
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we can implement to solve those problems, and it probably starts with your personality.
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So there are several different ways that
we have these personalities. We have
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the fact hunter that means you're bias
every time you listen, you're just listening
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for the facts. We've got the
plugger. These are people that are just
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constantly you think, you know,
you have all this knowledge and you're literally
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just listening so that you can uplift
yourself and you can get in there and
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share something, all right. We
have the entertainer listeners, which they're always
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just kind of trying to put on
They want to put on it. They
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want to get a show actually and
observe a show. So we have these
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very specific personalities and I go into
a couple of others in the book that
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really determine how we listen, and
it filters out probably critical information that we
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need not only to make some real
great decisions, but critical information that we
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need to form a more conscious connection
and a more strategic connection with the people
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to whom we're speaking. Mm hm, remind me what the thrill seeker listening
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type is about. The thrill seeker
is when they're listening, they're completely bored
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if you're not speaking in a way
that's very you know, excited, and
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they have to be entertained a lot
of people that are thrill seeking listeners.
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They probably also binge a lot on
Netflix. I'm one of them. I'm
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aware of my desire to thrill seek, but I actually meet those needs for
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myself and when I'm listening, I'm
really listening for that use imp priorities.
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So I have some listening strategies to
overcome what some of the natural tendencies may
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be in our personality. Mm hmm. That's so gorgeous. And I know
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you talk about in your book as
well, and I do too, But
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it's just the power of employing curiosity, right, being generally curious. Years
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ago, what not them? And
I guess that was maybe five years ago.
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He was teaching at Southern Methodist University. I was teaching junior and senior
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level students communication and things like that. And also one of the courses I
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took I taught them was how to
get and keep their first job. So
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the one of the things I had
them doing was I had them out going
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to network and they were like,
oh, doctor c You're not going to
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make us go talk to people that
you that we don't know, are you?
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I said, Oh, I am, I am, I'm going to
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quip you with the ability to go
do so, and they were like,
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you know, it's so nervous and
just the last thing they wanted to do
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was to talk to someone they didn't
know. And I said, you have
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this really powerful tool, it's curiosity, and it was so great, so
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many of them would come back,
doctor C. I mean, these amazing
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people, am like, isn't it
amazing what happens when you actually show up
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and go looking for and listening to
what someone might have to tell you.
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It's so big, you know,
it's interesting. This piece isn't in the
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book. I probably should have added
it, but there are five ways to
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sort of fabricate love for someone to
fall in love with you. And this
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is even you can use this romantically
or in business. One of them's eye
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contact another one or you know,
shared values, heightened experiences. And the
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fourth, the fifth I won't talk
about here because it's not appropriate, but
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the fourth is getting someone to help
you. So actually listening to someone and
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being able to listen for advice,
listen for guidance, particularly those that are
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starting out in their career. That
is a huge strategy to be able to
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form a relationship where people have buy
in, but it can't happen if you're
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not willing to listen. You know
this in the in the book at least
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that there is a tangible dollar amount
that I have seen clients lose because of
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their poor listening. I had the
opportunity to connect someone. They wanted to
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go into motivational speaking, and I
connected them with someone I remember that story,
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Go ahead, Yes, I connected
them with someone that was the person
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to know in this space. This
person only had fifteen minutes. They went
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on and on and on, never
asking one question, and there were so
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many nonverbal cues that you know the
other person was getting antsy. And so
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at the end of this experience,
I asked this person I was coaching that
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I took there and said, you
know, how do you think it went?
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And they were like, it went
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because he was so well intentioned,
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the whole time and he didn't get
any information. So he went into a
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meeting already knowing everything that he spent
fifteen minutes sharing. So it's the portal
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to wisdom, and it's the key
to being able to even innovate and that
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you know, there's another person that
I hooked up with, this exact same
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woman, and literally they made over
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they spent their experience with her.
They spent the entire time asking a ton
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of questions and listening. So I've
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disparities just based on this little,
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listening. That's a great example.
Okay, so then let's just go ahead
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and top this off with the cherry, shall we, Because you provide in
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your book a ninety day listening challenge. What's that? So a ninety day
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listening challenge is a challenge of actually
intentional questions and conversations. So many of
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us when we engage with people,
we ask questions, how's the weather,
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what about that sports game? And
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things like, what's important to you
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goals, what are your values?
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about people that goes beyond just some
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you're working with and people in your
personal life. The other thing is listen
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to your mind, ask, ask
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what am I liking? What are
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the answers that come to you.
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gaining wisdom about people and about yourself. And that wisdom is going The reason
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I call it a miracles because there's
this organic, natural epiphanies that happen,
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ideas that come to mind based on
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listening to people. So beautiful,
talk about changing somebody's lives. All right,
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And with that, let's give our
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I'm your host, doctor Releas Cortez. We on the area with Talia Fox.
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She's the author of the Power of
Conscious Connections for Habits to transform how
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you live and lead. We've been
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cycle, that is listen. After
Rick, we're going to get into the
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powers of keen observation. Stay with
this will be right back. Doctor Elise
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meaning and purpose. An inspirational speaker and
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author, she helps companies visioneer for
greater purpose among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired
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leadership and meaning infused cultures that elevate
fulfillment, performance, and commitment within the
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workforce. To learn more or to
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back to working on purpose. I'm
your host, doctor release Cortes, as
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I too, am dedicated to helping
create a world where people realize their bit
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to let work are led by inspirational
leaders that help them find and contribute their
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greatness, and we do business better
in the world. I keep writing books,
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researching and writing books. So the
last one I have at came out
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in March of twenty twenty three.
It's called The Great Revitalization, How activating
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meaning and purpose can radically and liven
your business. And I wrote it for
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leaders to understand today's new playing field, which Talia, you talk about too,
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and then I include twenty two best
projreices to be able to fold into
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your culture to help you achieve that. You'll learn more about this book at
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at Leastcortes dot com or find it
on Amazon if you are just joining.
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My guest is Talia Fox. She's
the CEO of Kusai Global, Inc.
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Which helps her clients to maximize human
potential by leveraging strategic intelligence and helps individuals
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organization's foster connected cultures and promote conscious
equity. Sounds really good to me.
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Okay, So now that we've covered
listening and really helped our listeners and viewers
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understand the promise of really listening,
well let's not talk about observation. Yes,
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So the first step, of course, is working on your listening,
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and then after that observation is connected
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Yes, I systems thinking. I'm
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idea of sitting around and looking.
It's about looking for connections. So one
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of the connections I made early on
at Least was that there's a connection between
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going to the gym in the morning
and getting enough sleep. Right, So
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that's the observation to get that it's
not finding the perfect diet or finding the
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perfect trainer. You need to go
to bed, and if you drink too
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much caffeine and if you work too
much. All of these things are actually
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connected to whether or not you're going
to feel good and healthy. So these
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kinds of connections are actually more concerned
about outcomes than they are about our opinions
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what we think should be happening.
So observation is really this whole opportunity to
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become very strategic about how what you're
choosing on a regular basis is impacting your
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outcomes. I just think that is
so so powerful, especially when you talk
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about the system's piece. I also
studied that for my doctoral work as well,
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and just it's so when you start
to recognize just you know, the
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beauty of the interdependence of everything around
you, it's so compelling, so alluring,
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and as you talk about in your
book, it just it elevates your
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consciousness, your intelligence, your connection. It's so beautiful. Thank you.
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Yeah, you know, And what
I love about this book when I told
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you kind of packed a lot in
a small book. But the whole idea
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is that you do this and you'll
be so smart innovative and strategic at work.
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But then you're happier because you're finding
all of these other ways in your
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life to feel great and to look
up and see how interdependent we are,
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and it really changes everything about how
we live and how we lead and how
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we plan and structure our world.
Completely agree, Okay, so we go
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on extra values. That's the V
in this we want. I want to
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first if we can you really distinguish
values in your book, really specific about
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value. So let's maybe if you
can first start there of how you're distinguishing
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values. Yes, so you listen, you observed, so you have all
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this great information and you're smart about
the information. And so now we've got
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to say, what is this for? This is that existential question, what
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is this life about? What's the
meaning behind it? And this is where
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the values comes in. So values
in the book, the V represents two
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things. One, it does represent
both your values, so those things that
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you say are really important to you, and it represents the value that you
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place on things and other people.
And so I know that we like things
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to be tied in the box.
With the V, We've packed in all
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of the things that support you onlining
your behavior with what matters most, which
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is what you care about and who
and what you care about. Okay,
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here's the delicious crossover between what you
do and what I do. So I
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am a logo therapist. I don't
know if you know doctor Victor Frankel's work,
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you know he he's you know,
he created from the existential psychology around
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logo therapy, and he talks about
three principal sources meaning. Meaning is our
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chief source of energy in life.
It's our chief source of motivation, et
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cetera. And there's three three principal
sources. And the way that we experience
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meaning is along our value system.
So what you find meaningful will probably be
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different from what I find meaningful because
we have different values. But the more
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that we can actually live our lives
around actualizing or activating those values, the
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more meaning we have, and therefore
the more energy we have. And that's
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how your work and mind connect.
Isn't that cool? It's so cool?
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And I think that it gets tricky
right in this world that we live in,
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because what I think is happening is
that once people understand that meaning right,
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and I love a search for meeting
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to them. Now, we have
to hold ourselves accountable, but whether or
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not we're choosing and aligning with that
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to many of us across every aspect
of our lives is we're experiencing the intention
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behavior gap where we intend to be
a particular way. You know, I'll
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tell you I teach classes over the
past twenty years and if you have people
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raise their hand, if you ask
who in here is kind? You'll have
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a thousand people raise their hand because
it stribes. Then I say, what
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evidence do you have that you're a
kind person? What have you done in
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the last twenty four hours that was
kind? And so what we need to
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do is really start to hold ourselves
accountable. What are our values? But
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are we choosing to stay aligned and
committed to those values no matter what?
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And the thing about values is that
we actually need them in the face of
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conflicts. Right, So if someone
is being rude to me, that's when
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my kindness is most needed, not
when we're in a group of people that
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agree with us and that are you
know, from our same neighborhood rights.
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That's where I think the value system
can really help us change the way we
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live in lead and get different results
and relationships. And you illustrate that beautifully.
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Tell you in your book when you
talk about meeting with the CEO who
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asked you'd go get a cup of
coffee for him before you sit down to
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talk business, and you went,
what do you mean you want me to
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get a cup of coffee? Then
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you went, hang out, what
value? What are my values here?
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And you checked in with your values. Then you could sit down with him
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and have a really good, productive
conversation about the business. And then you
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realigned what does that productive business relationship
look like anchored in respect? And as
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you say in the book, once
you laid it out like that for him,
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he went, you know, realized
the error of his ways. But
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if you had just like gotten mad
and stomped off and said, you know,
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you're a jerk, you wouldn't have
one gotten the probably the contract to
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the relationship that you wanted or the
results that you want you'll be able to
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impact that organization. So I think
that is such a really compelling example and
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it speaks to what you say so
beautifully in the book about how your your
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values ought to be a roadmap for
your behaviors. Absolutely, you know,
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thanks for bringing up the coffee with
the CEO. That actually was such a
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powerful story. Well, and people
have told me, you know, for
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our listeners. I literally just finished
a Harvard fellowship. I was growing my
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business. It was a huge contract, and the CEO he just took his
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hand and showed me away like a
fly, asking me to go get him
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a cup of coffee. And I
felt really diminished in every way. And
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I was raised to speak up for
myself and I had to stand there and
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say what's important to me and what
am I committed to? And then,
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you know, part of this is
about the listening and observation. I've been
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trained in that over the years.
So my emotional intelligence tends you. You
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have high emotional intelligence when you listen
well and you can you can control yourself
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right, You can control those impulses
and so really it's so hard though when
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people are triggering you. I was
really triggered in that moment. But the
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idea that at the end of it, I made a decision align with my
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values. I feel like there's a
professional consistency that is so helpful as you
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move and have many different experiences with
different people. Yes, and there's two
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other things I want to say on
this topic because it's so so, so
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powerful, and the way that you
handled yourself, because you exercise that high
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emotional intelligence, you were in touch
with your emotions, your emotions and your
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values, and you knew what you
were what you wanted to do. There,
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you were able to have an extraordinary
impact. And if you hadn't been
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able to control your response, your
reactivity, your responsibility, as we say
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in local therapy, then you might
have had a very different result. And
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so in the process, what you
did was you gave that CEO some very
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powerful, loving coaching. Yes.
You know what's interesting when it comes to
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values, I think we either think
we have to be a doormat or we
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have to speak up and be direct, but there is actually a more strategic
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way. So what I think was
so important about the story, and I
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shared it in the book, is
that I wasn't just going to let that
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go. I had a conversation with
him and shared my perspective and why the
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value of respect is so important to
me. And what's interesting is not only
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do we get the contract you ended
up after that he never did anything like
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that again, it was ultimate respect. So I set those boundaries, but
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I was able to do it in
a way that was definitely more strategic and
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didn't create conflict. We had a
conscious connection and even became later on friends
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as we move forward in that relationship, which is the beautiful part of getting
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to work with people and really mattering
in their lives. To the effect too,
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of your capacity to speak up for
yourself. I really just want to
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call out and celebrate the story that
you share in your book about when you
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and your dad go into this restaurant
and are denied service, and you're eight
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years old, and he was going
to just take it on the chin and
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say, Okay, we'll just take
our business elsewhere, and you were like,
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hang on a minute here, I
just sort of think I have something
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to say. I just watched that
in my mind, tell you, and
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I just thought, from an early
age, you just understood who you were
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in the world and what you could
do, and you understood how to speak
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up. And you called the manager
over and said, hey, this is
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what's happened. And not only did
they seech you, I think you say
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in the book they treated you to
the meal. Is that right? Yeah,
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they camped our meal. Yeah,
it's so interesting. As you bring
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up this story, I'm surprised that
it's still it still sometimes makes me a
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little teary eyed, because now I
think eight years old is pretty young.
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the book is that my father I found
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out later on that he was a
literate for most of his life, and
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he has a very thick accent,
and so you know, my home they
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called it the King's English. I
was able to speak and really articulate myself,
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and I also grew up with a
family of speakers, and my grandmother
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was really strong, and my father
was in a situation where he was a
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wonderful, brilliant but there were some
things about him that people did not fully
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respect. He would be ignored,
and yeah, they completely comped our meal.
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But I realized this is kind of
this work. I came by honestly
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because my dad felt ashamed his eight
year old having to stick up for him,
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and then the hostess that denied a
service felt sad and embarrassed, and
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so I felt I did such a
good thing. And I remember, at
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that very young age that I said, I want to do something where we
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all can get some relief right.
I think we're all making decisions. Some
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of them are good, some of
them are not. We get mad at
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each other, we hold grudges,
but I really would love a world where
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we can really thrive, acknowledge our
mistakes, and engage in consistent behaviors that
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connect us and not divide us.
I'm with you. I'm with you.
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Let's go on the road together.
So much fun. Let's do it.
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Okay. So, now we've been
talking about values and what you just said
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there about let's, you know,
come together and connect. I want to
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know if we can bring that over
to what you talk about in terms of
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cultural competence. I just I'm so
and we talked about it before we began
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the show. The world is so
neat in need of connection and stop the
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divisiveness and looking for what's right and
good and other people and how we can
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connect with them. And so you
have something in your book, a strategy
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that you call the Connection Accelerator Method. Can you talk a lot about that.
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That sounds amazing with regard to cultural
competence. Yeah, so it's the
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CAM method. So cultural competence is
your willingness to adapt your behavior to differences
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and to other people so many of
us are in these silos, and we're
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on this zombie routine, and we're
really drawn to people that are us like
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us, and drawn to ideas and
thinking that matches our own thinking. So
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if we're going to drive change and
thrive and even just have fun in the
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world, it's important to develop skills
that allow us to be more comfortable about
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adapting who we are and how we
behave to differences. So this CAM method
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is a process in which you intentionally
expose yourself to different things. And I
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do it in a really fun way. I will go to a movie theater
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and watch a movie that I typically
would not watch or want to watch,
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and I've just been able to learn
so many different things. I will read
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a book by an author that maybe
I wouldn't normally read, And so I
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always ask myself, am I being
drawn to things that are in my lane?
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How do I expand my thinking?
There's a lot of research on creativity
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and innovation. Not only will this
CAM this accelerator method help you be more
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culturally competent, it also will trigger
level of innovation because the more exposure you
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have to various things and ways of
thinking, the sharper your brain is so
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everything that I talk about the book. It's that threefold of meaning in life,
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how you can you know, adjust
and be happier. But then also
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there's a lot of strategy behind it
to achieve more and to do all the
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things that I know everyone is interested
in in their own own lives and their
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own careers. I think that's brilliant
you're reminding me, Talia. I'm working
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with an organization and developing their leadership
team as well, and one of the
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leaders on the team told me something
very interesting about his approach to learning,
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which speaks to what you're talking about. He says that he reads, forget
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how many books a year, I
think it's thirty books a year, but
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he intentionally reads them across the different
genres, and because he's trying to,
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you know, become well versed,
you know, whether it's you know,
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politics or economics. He says,
you know, the hardest one, the
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hardest genre for me to read is
romance. I don't want to read romance.
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But I just think that is so
brilliant that he intentionally reads across the
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genres thirty books, especially because he
doesn't want to read most of those genres.
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So to your point. It's so
so smart. It is my favorite
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thing. So the thing I just
got back from Elisa is I was in
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the Swiss Alps with people from literally
ten different countries, and it was exhilarating.
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Here we are hiking, and I
couldn't believe it how much we had
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in common. And I just learned
so much about practices and thinking. And
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many of us have read some of
the same books, but I learned some
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new books. And so in my
life that is one of my biggest strategies.
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I'm very intentional about exposing myself to
varat to so many different things,
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not just for work and for business
to understand people, but for the joy
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of it all. I agree.
I agree, travel is amazing, right,
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and it's like got to be the
best drug out there, the best
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drug. All right, let's grab
it our last break here, I'm your
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host, doctor Elese Cortez. We've
been on the air with Talia Fox.
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She's the author of the Power of
Conscious Connection for Habits to transform how you
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live and lead. We've been talking
about her full system of habits here.
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We covered listening, observing, and
values. After the rik, we're going
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to get into engage. Stay with
this will be right back. Doctor Elise
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Cortes is a management consultant specializing in
meaning and purpose. An inspirational speaker and
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author, she helps companies visioneer for
greater purpose among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired
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leadership and meaning infused cultures that elevate
fulfillment, performance, and commitment within the
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workforce. To learn more or to
invite a lease to speak to your organization,
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please visit her at elisecortes dot com. Let's talk about how to get
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your employees working on purpose. This
is working on Purpose with doctor Elise Cortes.
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To reach our program today or to
open a conversation with Elise, send
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an email to a lease a li
se at elisecortes dot com. Now back
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to working on purpose. Thanks staying
with us, and welcome back to working
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on Purpose. I'm your host,
doctor release Cortes. I mentioned to you
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in our last break that I just
want to put out another book, The
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Great Revitalization. I also wanted you
to know that I created an assessment.
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It's a three page assessment that you
can actually download from my website to see
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to what grade you actually have to
the extend that you're actually meeting today's workforce
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needs. And interest. It's at
both alascortest dot com and gustodashnow dot com
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if you are just joining us now. My guest is Talia Fox. She's
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the CEO of Kusai Global, Inc. Which helps her clients to maximize human
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potential by leveraging strategic intelligence and helps
individuals and organizations foster connected cultures promote conscious
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equity. So, all right,
tell you for this last bit here,
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I wanted to get a little bit
further into the engagement before we do.
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I really want a presence, just
something really beautiful about your book, Just
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again the promise of the structure here
and this idea of how love really harnesses
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the power to engage in the world, your family, your community, and
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your work. I think what I
know from my work is that people crave
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connection. They want to know they
matter, they want to know that their
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lives are worthwhile. And so I
really see your system as a way to
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really catalyze, vitalize and activate that. So I just want to again speak
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to the promise of your book before
we get into the engage part. Thank
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you so much. Yeah, you
know, it's it's interesting because some of
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us also are looking for love in
all the wrong places right. We want
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to feel that we matter. We
want to align with our values. We
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really want to be happy. We
want to make great choices that reed contentment
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you know there. We want connection. The thing is we may not be
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able to get that from everyone in
the world because we are living among unfortunately
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zombies, people that aren't looking up. And so with this system, the
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love system, not only is it
a way to step up and really be
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the leader of connection. If you
are the model of how we can listen,
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how we can observe, how we
can align with our values and engage,
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you begin to be the accelerator and
the exponential impact on other people,
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and in turn you will get that
love and get your needs met. But
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if we're constantly trying to get other
people to give it to us, we're
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off the mark. So we've got
to make sure that we're finding our people
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and our clusters to be able to
love without the need for other people to
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be in agreement or to do the
same things, completely agree, completely align
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on that. Okay, So now
let's hit the last habit here around engaging.
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And I really appreciate that a part
of what you talk about here in
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which we hit upon a little bit
when we were talking about observation, but
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you talk about how engaging includes developing
the capacity for asking really good, provocative
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questions. And I completely agree with
you that the quality of your questions,
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not the quality of your answers,
as you're distinguished in the book, is
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really critical. So talk to us
a little bit about engaging and developing this
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capacity to be provocative in our questions. Yes, so you've listened, you
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observed, You've got this great information, you know what's important to you.
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So now it's time to go out
into the world and connect. And so
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the skill that we need is to
increase our capacity to have great social skills
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and to communicate effectively. Part of
that communication is how do you ask questions
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that give you more information, that
engage people, and that create environments and
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communities where we are really connecting in
a conscious way. Right, So asking
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questions like you know, what's happening
here, what's not happening here? Asking
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questions what are the opportunities that we
have together, what are the key goals?
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There are so many different things that
we can ask that go beyond just
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those surface questions that allow us to
engage. The key here is that we
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need to be able to practice and
plan how we communicate. And many of
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us communicate just like with the listening, we just have a habit of how
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we communicate. We don't think about
our pauses, We don't have a structure
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in the book, I give you
an outline and questions to ask. We
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just kind of go out and we
just wing it. It's fine to have
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those moments, but we want to
take our listening, our observations, and
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our values to actually develop a communication
strategy that's engaging, and our connections will
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be more meaningful and our impact will
be more meaningful. Yes, And I
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want to take it one step further
because I think this is so great for
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anybody that's listening who is a leader
or aspiring to be a leader. And
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what you talk about here with regard
to asking the right questions is you talk
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about how great leaders make rich connections
by being great listeners and curious observers,
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honing their community and inspiring action.
But they when they ask the right questions
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of their team, they enroll the
team because they're asking them for their ideas.
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They're not just telling them what to
do, which is not something that
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motivates or inspires people. And so
that ability to ask those kind of questions
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and really get people involved and committed
and on board is so so powerful.
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Absolutely, I call it. You
know, I'm looking at the book here
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now. I really have enjoyed writing
this book and just pulling it together.
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But I'm thinking about we have a
chapter called the Million Dollar Leader, and
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in that chapter it's literally about do
you ask the question, how can we
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leverage our collective skills? What are
we willing to do to reach this goal?
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What are we not willing to do
to reach this goal? How do
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we encourage innovative and creative thinking.
I think sometimes we want to get straight
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to the answers, but we forget
that there is a lot of wisdom and
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connection in the journey right to the
end of the We just want to hop
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to it. Give me your information, give me your brief, But have
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you asked the right questions and have
you really done an assessment as to where
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people are in terms of how motivated
they are, how much energy they have,
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and what. I find that when
you stop to ask these kinds of
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provocative questions, the path and the
strategy changes because you know a little bit
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more about how to go about solving
some pretty big issues that lots of organizations
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have so so so powerful. And
the other thing that we know, of
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course, this show has been on
air for almost nine years, so I've
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had a lot of people coming on
and talking about the how leadership is evolving,
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and what we definitely know is that
leaders can't do it alone. The
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world is way too complex. They
need to solicit the input, the ideas,
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that commitment of everybody on the team. And to what you're describing as
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a beautiful way to do that,
Yeah, I mean, I think the
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bottom line is what do you do
when you don't know what to do?
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Right? And you ask questions?
And then the other thing about these provocative
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questions is that many of us are
still relying on outdated information and so we're
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making a lot of assumptions and until
the question has been asked, it's an
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assumption until the question has been asked, and so many people it's funny.
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I talk to clients all the time. This is something I'm going to say.
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I would say off record, but
it's on record. The clients are
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going to hear this. At this
point, many of my clients give me
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a whole, you know, a
whole mouthful about their interpretation or assumptions about
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the organization. And I secretly tell
my team take it all with a grain
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of salt, because they haven't asked
the questions. I really dig in to
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see where that information's coming from.
And sometimes it's just outdated rumors that have
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been going around in an organization for
many years, and there's not a lot
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of teeth in it. They're just
opinions. And so asking these questions really
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helps us get to reality and gets
the truth so that our strategies will actually
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work so good and we all need
this kind of help. And the other
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thing I want to distinguish about your
system that is will be interesting in juxtaposition
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against the next week's show with Ed
Hess. He's talking about really developing your
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person so that you can make it
in today's world of smart technology and remain
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employable, desirable in the world of
work, et cetera. And one of
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those ways, of course, is
to become more human, right and to
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become you know, are more emotionally
intelligent, which is a part of what
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you're talking about as well. So
there's a real there's real utility in this.
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It used to be when I first
started doing this. Maybe you too
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is what we're talking about in many
ways would be considered what we used to
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be called soft skills and those things
that we don't talk about that at all
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anymore. We never refer to the
stuff as soft skills anymore. In fact,
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I could almost say that what you
and I teaches the hard skills of
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actually making in today's world today.
Yeah, well, you know, it's
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interesting because technology is constantly changing and
because nobody is as smart as we once
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were because we don't know what's going
to happen tomorrow. These skills of connection
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are really going to be the only
thing that matters because the ability to predict
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the future has been hindered. So
you were really smart because you have all
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this experience and so you really could
do a whole lot. But now the
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whole game has changed. We don't
know next week what's going to happen,
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and so we need that leader that
it's the I kind of start to dance
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when I do this, but it's
the it's the foundation of being agile.
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The agility is critical, and the
human piece of us is what allows that
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agility completely completely align with you on
that. Yeah, one of the things
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that you did in the book just
a beginning that I thought was so powerful,
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and I want you to kind of
talk about this here for our listeners
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of yours who haven't seen this,
is you have developed this powerful reframing exercise
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that you teach and conducting your workshops. And i'll quote from your book,
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you say the shift that you're trying
to help people with. The shift is
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the art of reframing our perspective to
get the energy we need to engage practice
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speaking about your life in terms of
the things you love, things that make
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you happy, and things that promote
your values rather than your misfortunes. So
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you have this really powerful exercise that
you take people through on stage. Can
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you share that? Yes, So, just to give some context, the
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reason I created the art of the
shift is because adults actually are very sensitive,
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and I think we get sad and
our feelings get hurt pretty easily,
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and we can get very discouraged.
And I don't think that we like to
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talk about how much that discouragement and
the sadness and the disappointment impacts are the
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way that we show up and the
decisions that we make at work and in
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our lives. We kind of have
this thing. You're an adult, so
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you're supposed to be. You're a
professional, you've been doing this for a
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long time, and so you're just
supposed to deal with it. But people
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aren't dealing with it as well as
one might think. So the art of
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the shift is based on the principle
that if you are energized and you're feeling
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good, and you have a different
way of perceiving your life and your experience,
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that you are going to engage in
a way that is totally energized and
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much more connected. And so what
this is, I take people up on
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stage. It's very popular and I
love it. I actually have people that
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call me offline saying can I have
a shift? I just need a shift,
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Please give me a shift. I
actually taught my sister how to do
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this because I was like, someone
needs to shift me, so she shifts
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me sometimes. But what this is
is if you share with me your three
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most important values, that's all I
need to know, and then tell me
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a challenge that you are experiencing.
I will almost kind of like that movie
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Freaky Friday, jump into your head
and give you a line of thinking that
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supports feeling better, feeling more energized, and even support or it's your brain
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and getting online that frontal cortex and
probably have talked about that on the show,
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so you're not having the amignal attack
getting that frontal cortex online so that
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you can begin to think strategically and
clearly about what your next steps can be.
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And I've actually seen miracles with this
shift. I've been doing it maybe
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for fifteen years, and it is
one of my favorite tools that I use
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with leaders and people actually all all
over the world. I do something within
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an identity shift too, that's really
really powerful. So I really really relate
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to that. It's just so so
and people can't necessarily do this by themselves.
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They need a little bit of you
know, tell you drop in or
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divine drop in. So incredible.
All right, we're almost out of time,
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but I do want to give you
just an opportunity just to if you
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can share or say in about a
minute maybe or a minute and a half,
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I want to just let our listeners
and viewers understand, you know,
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what your work looks like. So
when you go into an organization, you
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know, can give us an example
of how what we're what was the organization
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up against, what are they trying
to accomplish, and how did working with
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you and your team actually make a
difference. So we have helped transform really
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complex, big organizations. From a
consulting side, we go in and we
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do listening sessions. We observe what's
really happening, we see what the values
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are, and then we engage the
entire organization in change. And so many
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of our organizations have dealt with a
lot of diversity, equity and inclusion issues.
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Many of our organizations have dealt with
actually hemorrhaging people and leaders. And
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so this one particular organization that we
use the love system around and developed trainings.
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Before they had a ton of conflict. People were quitting, they weren't
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sure what was going on. After
they developed communities of practice, people were
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signed up and had waiting lists to
engage in learning experiences. There was literally
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someone that wrote a letter saying that
if she worked at the organization for thirty
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years and she was on her way
to quitting, and she's never been happier
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than than the last six weeks.
And it was literally doing I call it
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a culture shot of love right going
in and getting to the root of what
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matters for people and consciously connecting people, and it really drives outcomes and drives
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results really beautiful work. Okay,
so we have managed to get to the
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end of the show already. You
know, the show is listening by people
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around the world who care about elevating
the workplace, elevating the experience of work,
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creating those cultures where people are led
by inspirational leaders we do business and
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betters in the world. What would
you like to leave them with. I'd
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like to leave you with this idea
that happiness and fun absolutely matter, and
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for all of us that are dedicating
our lives to helping other people, that
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it really starts with us making sure
that you're shifted and you're ready so that
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you can see the opportunities that lie
in our experiences with other people. So
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starting with us, Elise, you
and I making sure we're right, and
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then we can elevate humanity really important. I'm with you, Talia. I'm
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so grateful our pass across. I
loved your book. Thank you for coming
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on working on purpose to share your
beautiful perspective, ideas and your foe habits
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of love. Thank you so much, Talia. I'm going to grab your
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book to Elise. I'm so excited
to know you. Likewise, likewise,
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and listeners of viewers are going to
want to learn more about this woman,
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Talia Fox, and the work she
and her team do at Kusai. You
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also want to check out her book, The Power of Conscious Connection. You
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can start just by going to her
website. It's Kusai Training. Let me
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spell that for you. It's Kusi
Training Kusi training dot com. Last week,
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give you missed the live show you
can always catch to be a recorded
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podcast. We were on the here
with Michael Levy, who's the CEO of
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work Proud and online engagement and recognition
platform. We talked about the importance and
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ways companies can recognize the contributions of
their people and how doing so activates that
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their sense of belonging and desire to
contribute. Next week will be on the
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air with Ed has talking about his
latest book, Own Your Work Journey,
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A path to meaningful work and happiness
in the age of smart technology and radical
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change. See you there. Remember
work as one of the best adventures and
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means of realizing our potential and making
the impact we crave. So let's work
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on Purpose. We hope you've enjoyed
this week's program. Be sure to tune
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into Working on Purpose featuring your host, doctor Elise Cortes, each week on
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W four CY. Together, we'll
create a world where business operates conscientiously.
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Leadership inspires and passion performance and employees
are fulfilled in work that provides the meaning
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and purpose they crave. See you
there. Let's work on purpose.