Nov. 11, 2023

To Improve the Quality of Your Life, Relationships and Results, All You Need is “L.O.V.E.”

To Improve the Quality of Your Life, Relationships and Results, All You Need is “L.O.V.E.”

We are each equipped to greatly contribute to the world through our thoughts, feelings, and actions. Yet, many of us are disconnected from this potential, unaware of our influence, and instead impacting the world without mindful attention. We can...

We are each equipped to greatly contribute to the world through our thoughts, feelings, and actions. Yet, many of us are disconnected from this potential, unaware of our influence, and instead impacting the world without mindful attention. We can learn to engage with others through conscious connection and start to respond to life’s challenges, direct the course of our lives, and positively impact the lives of others through our actions.

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W FOURCY Radio. What's Working on
Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder

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the answer to this question. People
ache for meaning and purpose at work,

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humanity. In our program, we
provide guidance and inspiration to help usher in

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this world we all want Working on
Purpose. Now here's your host, Doctor

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Release Cortez. Welcome back to the
Working and Purpose Program. Thanks doing again

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and again this week. It's great
to have you. This show has been

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on air since February of twenty fifteen. It is my pride and joy.

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I'm your host, doctor Elise core
Test, joining you live from Dallas home

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base for me. If we have
not met, chat and you don't know

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me. I'm a management consultant,
organizational logo therapist, speaker and author.

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My team and I at Gusto Now
provide a system to enable companies to enliven

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and fortify their culture and operations by
articulating their purpose and building inspirational leaders and

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cultures activated by meaning, purpose and
shared learning. The system turns your company

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from a flatline EKG to a vibrant
destination workplace where engagement, performance and retention

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are measurably elevated. You can learn
more about us and we can work together

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at eliscoretest dot com and gustodashnow dot
com. Now getting into today's program with

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us is Talia Fox. She's the
CEO of Kusai Global, Inc. Which

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helps her clients to maximize human potential
by leveraging strategic intelligence and helps individuals and

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organizations foster conected cultures and promote conscious
equity. She's the author of the Power

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of Conscious Connection for habits to transform
how you live and lead, which we'll

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be talking about today. She's Joys
today just outside of Washington, d C.

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Tell you, welcome to working on
Purpose. So great to be here,

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Ha Lise, it is so great
to have you. As we were

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saying before we got on air together, you know, one of the greatest

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things about hosting the show is because
most of my guests come through public relations

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people, I meet people I wouldn't
otherwise get to meet, including you.

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So I'm delighted to meet you.
As you know, I've read your book

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cover to cover and because I know
you better than maybe our listeners and guests

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do so far, would you just
introduce yourself and say a little bit about

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where this beautiful love system that you
created came from. Absolutely. So,

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I've been doing this work for almost
twenty years. And what I mean by

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this work is I'm an executive leadership
strategist, so I've been working with organizations

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and my journey for this book started
as a mom. That was I became

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a single mom. I wanted to
lose weight, I wanted to achieve a

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lot. I was studying psychology and
I said, there's got to be a

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hack for our lives. So this
book is really this combination of what I

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learned as a therapist, actually looking
at cognitive behavioralism, which is how do

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you take your thinking and impact your
behavior. I also think about the existential

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questions of what is this life about? And then combining that with the leadership

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skills that you need to achieve something. I feel like I'm onto something here.

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At least I'm hacking our lives to
figure out how to both be happy

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I love the word vibrant and excited, but also to achieve really important things.

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So this journey has been quite a
ride, and in the book,

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I've tried to captivate that and to
share what I know with the world.

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And you did it beautifully. As
as I was saying to you, I

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really appreciate that you really let us
into your life and your connection with your

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father and just some of those beautiful
memories and the things that he taught you

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along the way that if you've infused
into your life and your work too,

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it's really beautiful. Thank you so
much. You're welcome. So as I

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want to do, I like to
read sometimes direct passages from the book just

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because it's so beautiful how you rendered
this, and then I'll ask you to

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comment on it. So you say
toward the beginning of the book, you

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say, quote our behavior and habits
can turn us into zombies, ignoring life,

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rejecting uniqueness, defying problem or denying
problems, and forgetting to look up

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and gain clarity about how we choose
to live. The nightmare is real when

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we are not conscious and connected to
something bigger. Yet, as with all

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nightmares, you can wake up with
a little shift, You can gasp back

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into the light to realize that you
aren't really in danger. You just need

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to experience more conscious connection. And
obviously to me, that's the promise of

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your whole book and your system.
So I mean, that's gorgeous. That

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is just a gorgeous, compelling grab
you in around your neck passage, Dahlia,

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thank you. Yeah, you know, we are in a very interesting

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time, and I think we've been
in this time for several years where it

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just feels like we're not listening to
each other. It feels like a nightmare.

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People feel disconnected. One of the
interesting things about working in with large

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corporations and businesses is I was just
astonished at how much therapy is needed,

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how anxious people are, how sad
this us, and we don't have tools.

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I think one of the issues that
we're having in this world is that

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we think that we should know what
to do, and we think that it's

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intuitive. So the promise of the
book is definitely we don't have to choose

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this nightmare. There are some skills
and there are some habits that we can

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practice that allow us to be present, to be happy, and to achieve

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some really great things. I love
the words that we're used in the beginning

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of this podcast. To elevate humanity
is really really critical here. Agreed.

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You know, it's so interesting.
There's some beautiful, nice overlap and congruence

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with our work. You use the
word zombies. I use the phrase walking

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debt in my first book, and
that really came to be when I'd be

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asking audiences or speaking audiences and I
would pose the question what are you passionate

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about? There'd be this sea of
faces that were struggling looking for the answer,

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and they didn't know what it was. And I could tell they didn't

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have an answer to the question.
And I have been a member of the

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Walking Dead, I know if I've
been a card Carring member, I understand.

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So there's no judgment in this this
is about how do we help?

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So I want to next if we
can just kind of now lay out first,

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because we're going to dive into your
system here, If we can just

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lay out your beautiful love system here, the system of habits that you've created

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that will help transform how we live
and lead talk us through them, please

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absolutely. And just to add on
to what you were just saying, what's

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so critical about passion about waking up
is I'm also a strategist, so I

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have learned that if you have a
system of being, you will have an

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edge and likely be the most street, strategic and smartest person in the room.

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Because we are surrounded by so many
zombies, so there are two to

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this one you'll get really happy.
But the other side is it's very strategic

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around accomplishing great things, moving people, driving change, all of those wonderful

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things. In the Love system,
by the way, it is by not

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by design that it spells out the
acronym love. I actually came up with

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the skills first, and then it
happened to reflect love, and so it

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was so beautiful. I pulled it
together and it was like, oh,

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it's actually love. So the love
system is a set of habits that we

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practice on a regular basis, and
it applies to anything that you may need

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to accomplish. Really, if you
read ten thousand hours of leadership development training

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and books, it would boil down
to these four habits. It's lve,

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listen, observe, align with your
values, and engage and at each of

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these habits is connected to a very
critical leadership skills that changes everything. It's

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so Chris. I love it.
Of course, since we've laid that out

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at the beginning. Now I want
to spend the rest of our time together

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really diving into your system here and
again I just think it's so accessible.

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So one of the things that you
bring to life here that which I think

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is so important. You know,
just being really talking about listening consciously is

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so transformative. And what I always
say in my programs is, you know,

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when you really listen to someone,
you just melt them, because so

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seldom do they get that experience of
really being listened to. And there's something

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you can see it when you can. You know, I've witnessed it when

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I've been in restaurants and out and
I could see the people that are really

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connected powerful through listening. And so
you say you go on to talk about

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it will feel like a magic bullet. I completely agree with that. And

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so you say, you know,
to connect to learn to access miracles.

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There's a few concrete steps that you
can take to actually improve your listening and

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your emotional intelligence. But first you
tell us you have to pay attention to

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how we listen, and you gave
us five ways that we tend to listen.

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Would you walk us through those?
Yes, So we have these listening

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personalities, and part of this is
what I like to look at as a

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leadership strategies or what are the barriers
to listening. Some of us may say

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listening, I've heard this before.
But there's a lot of deepness to this

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listening thing, and we're not doing
so well at it. This is what's

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causing the zombie effect, and this
is what's actually I will tell you give

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me any problem that you have,
and I promise you that there's some level

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of your listening that is impacting that
problem. Finances, relationship, you're not

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getting up, promotion, whatever it
is. There is a listening strategy that

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we can implement to solve those problems, and it probably starts with your personality.

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So there are several different ways that
we have these personalities. We have

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the fact hunter that means you're bias
every time you listen, you're just listening

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for the facts. We've got the
plugger. These are people that are just

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constantly you think, you know,
you have all this knowledge and you're literally

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just listening so that you can uplift
yourself and you can get in there and

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share something, all right. We
have the entertainer listeners, which they're always

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just kind of trying to put on
They want to put on it. They

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want to get a show actually and
observe a show. So we have these

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very specific personalities and I go into
a couple of others in the book that

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really determine how we listen, and
it filters out probably critical information that we

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need not only to make some real
great decisions, but critical information that we

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need to form a more conscious connection
and a more strategic connection with the people

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to whom we're speaking. Mm hm, remind me what the thrill seeker listening

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type is about. The thrill seeker
is when they're listening, they're completely bored

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if you're not speaking in a way
that's very you know, excited, and

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they have to be entertained a lot
of people that are thrill seeking listeners.

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They probably also binge a lot on
Netflix. I'm one of them. I'm

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aware of my desire to thrill seek, but I actually meet those needs for

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myself and when I'm listening, I'm
really listening for that use imp priorities.

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So I have some listening strategies to
overcome what some of the natural tendencies may

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be in our personality. Mm hmm. That's so gorgeous. And I know

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you talk about in your book as
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it's just the power of employing curiosity, right, being generally curious. Years

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ago, what not them? And
I guess that was maybe five years ago.

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He was teaching at Southern Methodist University. I was teaching junior and senior

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level students communication and things like that. And also one of the courses I

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took I taught them was how to
get and keep their first job. So

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the one of the things I had
them doing was I had them out going

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to network and they were like,
oh, doctor c You're not going to

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make us go talk to people that
you that we don't know, are you?

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I said, Oh, I am, I am, I'm going to

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quip you with the ability to go
do so, and they were like,

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you know, it's so nervous and
just the last thing they wanted to do

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was to talk to someone they didn't
know. And I said, you have

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this really powerful tool, it's curiosity, and it was so great, so

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many of them would come back,
doctor C. I mean, these amazing

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people, am like, isn't it
amazing what happens when you actually show up

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and go looking for and listening to
what someone might have to tell you.

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It's so big, you know,
it's interesting. This piece isn't in the

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book. I probably should have added
it, but there are five ways to

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sort of fabricate love for someone to
fall in love with you. And this

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is even you can use this romantically
or in business. One of them's eye

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contact another one or you know,
shared values, heightened experiences. And the

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fourth, the fifth I won't talk
about here because it's not appropriate, but

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the fourth is getting someone to help
you. So actually listening to someone and

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being able to listen for advice,
listen for guidance, particularly those that are

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starting out in their career. That
is a huge strategy to be able to

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form a relationship where people have buy
in, but it can't happen if you're

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not willing to listen. You know
this in the in the book at least

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that there is a tangible dollar amount
that I have seen clients lose because of

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their poor listening. I had the
opportunity to connect someone. They wanted to

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go into motivational speaking, and I
connected them with someone I remember that story,

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Go ahead, Yes, I connected
them with someone that was the person

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to know in this space. This
person only had fifteen minutes. They went

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on and on and on, never
asking one question, and there were so

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many nonverbal cues that you know the
other person was getting antsy. And so

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at the end of this experience,
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I took there and said, you
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because he was so well intentioned,
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the whole time and he didn't get
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meeting already knowing everything that he spent
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to wisdom, and it's the key
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you know, there's another person that
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woman, and literally they made over
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they spent their experience with her.
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of questions and listening. So I've
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disparities just based on this little,
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listening. That's a great example.
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and top this off with the cherry, shall we, Because you provide in

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your book a ninety day listening challenge. What's that? So a ninety day

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listening challenge is a challenge of actually
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us when we engage with people,
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what about that sports game? And
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things like, what's important to you
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goals, what are your values?
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about people that goes beyond just some
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you're working with and people in your
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to your mind, ask, ask
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what am I liking? What are
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the answers that come to you.
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gaining wisdom about people and about yourself. And that wisdom is going The reason

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I call it a miracles because there's
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ideas that come to mind based on
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listening to people. So beautiful,
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I'm your host, doctor Releas Cortez. We on the area with Talia Fox.

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She's the author of the Power of
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Rick, we're going to get into the

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powers of keen observation. Stay with
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author, she helps companies visioneer for
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leadership and meaning infused cultures that elevate
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back to working on purpose. I'm
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I too, am dedicated to helping
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to let work are led by inspirational
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greatness, and we do business better
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researching and writing books. So the
last one I have at came out

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in March of twenty twenty three.
It's called The Great Revitalization, How activating

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meaning and purpose can radically and liven
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leaders to understand today's new playing field, which Talia, you talk about too,

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and then I include twenty two best
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at Leastcortes dot com or find it
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My guest is Talia Fox. She's
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organization's foster connected cultures and promote conscious
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understand the promise of really listening,
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and then after that observation is connected
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Yes, I systems thinking. I'm
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idea of sitting around and looking.
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of the connections I made early on
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going to the gym in the morning
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that's the observation to get that it's
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perfect trainer. You need to go
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much caffeine and if you work too
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connected to whether or not you're going
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kinds of connections are actually more concerned
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what we think should be happening.
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become very strategic about how what you're
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outcomes. I just think that is
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about the system's piece. I also
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and just it's so when you start
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beauty of the interdependence of everything around
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and as you talk about in your
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consciousness, your intelligence, your connection. It's so beautiful. Thank you.

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you kind of packed a lot in
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is that you do this and you'll
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But then you're happier because you're finding
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life to feel great and to look
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and it really changes everything about how
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we plan and structure our world.
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on extra values. That's the V
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first if we can you really distinguish
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value. So let's maybe if you
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values. Yes, so you listen, you observed, so you have all

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this great information and you're smart about
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to say, what is this for? This is that existential question, what

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is this life about? What's the
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the values comes in. So values
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things. One, it does represent
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you say are really important to you, and it represents the value that you

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place on things and other people.
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to be tied in the box.
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of the things that support you onlining
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is what you care about and who
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here's the delicious crossover between what you
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am a logo therapist. I don't
know if you know doctor Victor Frankel's work,

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you know he he's you know,
he created from the existential psychology around

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logo therapy, and he talks about
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chief source of energy in life.
It's our chief source of motivation, et

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cetera. And there's three three principal
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meaning is along our value system.
So what you find meaningful will probably be

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different from what I find meaningful because
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that we can actually live our lives
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more meaning we have, and therefore
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how your work and mind connect.
Isn't that cool? It's so cool?

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And I think that it gets tricky
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because what I think is happening is
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and I love a search for meeting
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to them. Now, we have
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not we're choosing and aligning with that
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to many of us across every aspect
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behavior gap where we intend to be
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tell you I teach classes over the
past twenty years and if you have people

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raise their hand, if you ask
who in here is kind? You'll have

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a thousand people raise their hand because
it stribes. Then I say, what

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evidence do you have that you're a
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the last twenty four hours that was
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do is really start to hold ourselves
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are we choosing to stay aligned and
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conflicts. Right, So if someone
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my kindness is most needed, not
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agree with us and that are you
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That's where I think the value system
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live in lead and get different results
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Tell you in your book when you
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asked you'd go get a cup of
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talk business, and you went,
what do you mean you want me to

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get a cup of coffee? Then
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you went, hang out, what
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and have a really good, productive
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realigned what does that productive business relationship
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you say in the book, once
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he went, you know, realized
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if you had just like gotten mad
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you're a jerk, you wouldn't have
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the relationship that you wanted or the
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impact that organization. So I think
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it speaks to what you say so
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values ought to be a roadmap for
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thanks for bringing up the coffee with
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powerful story. Well, and people
have told me, you know, for

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our listeners. I literally just finished
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business. It was a huge contract, and the CEO he just took his

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hand and showed me away like a
fly, asking me to go get him

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a cup of coffee. And I
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I was raised to speak up for
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say what's important to me and what
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you know, part of this is
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trained in that over the years.
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have high emotional intelligence when you listen
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right, You can control those impulses
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people are triggering you. I was
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idea that at the end of it, I made a decision align with my

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values. I feel like there's a
professional consistency that is so helpful as you

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move and have many different experiences with
different people. Yes, and there's two

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other things I want to say on
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powerful, and the way that you
handled yourself, because you exercise that high

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emotional intelligence, you were in touch
with your emotions, your emotions and your

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values, and you knew what you
were what you wanted to do. There,

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you were able to have an extraordinary
impact. And if you hadn't been

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able to control your response, your
reactivity, your responsibility, as we say

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in local therapy, then you might
have had a very different result. And

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so in the process, what you
did was you gave that CEO some very

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powerful, loving coaching. Yes.
You know what's interesting when it comes to

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values, I think we either think
we have to be a doormat or we

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have to speak up and be direct, but there is actually a more strategic

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way. So what I think was
so important about the story, and I

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shared it in the book, is
that I wasn't just going to let that

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go. I had a conversation with
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value of respect is so important to
me. And what's interesting is not only

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do we get the contract you ended
up after that he never did anything like

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that again, it was ultimate respect. So I set those boundaries, but

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I was able to do it in
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didn't create conflict. We had a
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as we move forward in that relationship, which is the beautiful part of getting

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to work with people and really mattering
in their lives. To the effect too,

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of your capacity to speak up for
yourself. I really just want to

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call out and celebrate the story that
you share in your book about when you

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and your dad go into this restaurant
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years old, and he was going
to just take it on the chin and

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say, Okay, we'll just take
our business elsewhere, and you were like,

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hang on a minute here, I
just sort of think I have something

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to say. I just watched that
in my mind, tell you, and

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I just thought, from an early
age, you just understood who you were

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in the world and what you could
do, and you understood how to speak

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up. And you called the manager
over and said, hey, this is

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what's happened. And not only did
they seech you, I think you say

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in the book they treated you to
the meal. Is that right? Yeah,

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they camped our meal. Yeah,
it's so interesting. As you bring

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up this story, I'm surprised that
it's still it still sometimes makes me a

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little teary eyed, because now I
think eight years old is pretty young.

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the book is that my father I found

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out later on that he was a
literate for most of his life, and

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he has a very thick accent,
and so you know, my home they

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called it the King's English. I
was able to speak and really articulate myself,

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and I also grew up with a
family of speakers, and my grandmother

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was really strong, and my father
was in a situation where he was a

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wonderful, brilliant but there were some
things about him that people did not fully

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respect. He would be ignored,
and yeah, they completely comped our meal.

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But I realized this is kind of
this work. I came by honestly

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because my dad felt ashamed his eight
year old having to stick up for him,

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and then the hostess that denied a
service felt sad and embarrassed, and

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so I felt I did such a
good thing. And I remember, at

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that very young age that I said, I want to do something where we

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all can get some relief right.
I think we're all making decisions. Some

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of them are good, some of
them are not. We get mad at

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each other, we hold grudges,
but I really would love a world where

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we can really thrive, acknowledge our
mistakes, and engage in consistent behaviors that

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connect us and not divide us.
I'm with you. I'm with you.

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Let's go on the road together.
So much fun. Let's do it.

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Okay. So, now we've been
talking about values and what you just said

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there about let's, you know,
come together and connect. I want to

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know if we can bring that over
to what you talk about in terms of

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cultural competence. I just I'm so
and we talked about it before we began

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the show. The world is so
neat in need of connection and stop the

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divisiveness and looking for what's right and
good and other people and how we can

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connect with them. And so you
have something in your book, a strategy

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that you call the Connection Accelerator Method. Can you talk a lot about that.

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That sounds amazing with regard to cultural
competence. Yeah, so it's the

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CAM method. So cultural competence is
your willingness to adapt your behavior to differences

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and to other people so many of
us are in these silos, and we're

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on this zombie routine, and we're
really drawn to people that are us like

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us, and drawn to ideas and
thinking that matches our own thinking. So

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if we're going to drive change and
thrive and even just have fun in the

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world, it's important to develop skills
that allow us to be more comfortable about

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adapting who we are and how we
behave to differences. So this CAM method

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is a process in which you intentionally
expose yourself to different things. And I

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do it in a really fun way. I will go to a movie theater

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and watch a movie that I typically
would not watch or want to watch,

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and I've just been able to learn
so many different things. I will read

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a book by an author that maybe
I wouldn't normally read, And so I

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always ask myself, am I being
drawn to things that are in my lane?

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How do I expand my thinking?
There's a lot of research on creativity

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and innovation. Not only will this
CAM this accelerator method help you be more

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culturally competent, it also will trigger
level of innovation because the more exposure you

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have to various things and ways of
thinking, the sharper your brain is so

440
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everything that I talk about the book. It's that threefold of meaning in life,

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how you can you know, adjust
and be happier. But then also

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there's a lot of strategy behind it
to achieve more and to do all the

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things that I know everyone is interested
in in their own own lives and their

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00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:26.400
own careers. I think that's brilliant
you're reminding me, Talia. I'm working

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with an organization and developing their leadership
team as well, and one of the

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leaders on the team told me something
very interesting about his approach to learning,

447
00:31:33.359 --> 00:31:37.640
which speaks to what you're talking about. He says that he reads, forget

448
00:31:37.680 --> 00:31:40.640
how many books a year, I
think it's thirty books a year, but

449
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he intentionally reads them across the different
genres, and because he's trying to,

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you know, become well versed,
you know, whether it's you know,

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politics or economics. He says,
you know, the hardest one, the

452
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hardest genre for me to read is
romance. I don't want to read romance.

453
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But I just think that is so
brilliant that he intentionally reads across the

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genres thirty books, especially because he
doesn't want to read most of those genres.

455
00:32:04.480 --> 00:32:07.720
So to your point. It's so
so smart. It is my favorite

456
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thing. So the thing I just
got back from Elisa is I was in

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the Swiss Alps with people from literally
ten different countries, and it was exhilarating.

458
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Here we are hiking, and I
couldn't believe it how much we had

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in common. And I just learned
so much about practices and thinking. And

460
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many of us have read some of
the same books, but I learned some

461
00:32:28.279 --> 00:32:31.079
new books. And so in my
life that is one of my biggest strategies.

462
00:32:31.079 --> 00:32:37.240
I'm very intentional about exposing myself to
varat to so many different things,

463
00:32:37.279 --> 00:32:40.079
not just for work and for business
to understand people, but for the joy

464
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of it all. I agree.
I agree, travel is amazing, right,

465
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and it's like got to be the
best drug out there, the best

466
00:32:46.839 --> 00:32:51.759
drug. All right, let's grab
it our last break here, I'm your

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host, doctor Elese Cortez. We've
been on the air with Talia Fox.

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She's the author of the Power of
Conscious Connection for Habits to transform how you

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00:32:59.039 --> 00:33:04.160
live and lead. We've been talking
about her full system of habits here.

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We covered listening, observing, and
values. After the rik, we're going

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to get into engage. Stay with
this will be right back. Doctor Elise

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Cortes is a management consultant specializing in
meaning and purpose. An inspirational speaker and

473
00:33:31.319 --> 00:33:37.759
author, she helps companies visioneer for
greater purpose among stakeholders and develop purpose inspired

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00:33:37.839 --> 00:33:42.759
leadership and meaning infused cultures that elevate
fulfillment, performance, and commitment within the

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workforce. To learn more or to
invite a lease to speak to your organization,

476
00:33:46.079 --> 00:33:51.160
please visit her at elisecortes dot com. Let's talk about how to get

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00:33:51.200 --> 00:34:00.559
your employees working on purpose. This
is working on Purpose with doctor Elise Cortes.

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To reach our program today or to
open a conversation with Elise, send

479
00:34:05.480 --> 00:34:10.639
an email to a lease a li
se at elisecortes dot com. Now back

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00:34:10.679 --> 00:34:20.199
to working on purpose. Thanks staying
with us, and welcome back to working

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on Purpose. I'm your host,
doctor release Cortes. I mentioned to you

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in our last break that I just
want to put out another book, The

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Great Revitalization. I also wanted you
to know that I created an assessment.

484
00:34:30.320 --> 00:34:35.199
It's a three page assessment that you
can actually download from my website to see

485
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:38.880
to what grade you actually have to
the extend that you're actually meeting today's workforce

486
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needs. And interest. It's at
both alascortest dot com and gustodashnow dot com

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00:34:45.320 --> 00:34:47.000
if you are just joining us now. My guest is Talia Fox. She's

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the CEO of Kusai Global, Inc. Which helps her clients to maximize human

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potential by leveraging strategic intelligence and helps
individuals and organizations foster connected cultures promote conscious

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equity. So, all right,
tell you for this last bit here,

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I wanted to get a little bit
further into the engagement before we do.

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00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:09.960
I really want a presence, just
something really beautiful about your book, Just

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again the promise of the structure here
and this idea of how love really harnesses

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the power to engage in the world, your family, your community, and

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00:35:19.199 --> 00:35:23.519
your work. I think what I
know from my work is that people crave

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00:35:23.719 --> 00:35:28.519
connection. They want to know they
matter, they want to know that their

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lives are worthwhile. And so I
really see your system as a way to

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00:35:31.599 --> 00:35:36.519
really catalyze, vitalize and activate that. So I just want to again speak

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00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:39.880
to the promise of your book before
we get into the engage part. Thank

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you so much. Yeah, you
know, it's it's interesting because some of

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00:35:43.719 --> 00:35:46.960
us also are looking for love in
all the wrong places right. We want

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00:35:47.000 --> 00:35:52.079
to feel that we matter. We
want to align with our values. We

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00:35:52.119 --> 00:35:55.880
really want to be happy. We
want to make great choices that reed contentment

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00:35:58.079 --> 00:36:00.920
you know there. We want connection. The thing is we may not be

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00:36:00.960 --> 00:36:06.480
able to get that from everyone in
the world because we are living among unfortunately

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00:36:06.599 --> 00:36:08.679
zombies, people that aren't looking up. And so with this system, the

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00:36:08.719 --> 00:36:13.840
love system, not only is it
a way to step up and really be

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the leader of connection. If you
are the model of how we can listen,

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00:36:19.039 --> 00:36:22.440
how we can observe, how we
can align with our values and engage,

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00:36:22.599 --> 00:36:27.719
you begin to be the accelerator and
the exponential impact on other people,

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and in turn you will get that
love and get your needs met. But

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00:36:31.119 --> 00:36:35.639
if we're constantly trying to get other
people to give it to us, we're

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00:36:35.679 --> 00:36:39.400
off the mark. So we've got
to make sure that we're finding our people

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00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:44.599
and our clusters to be able to
love without the need for other people to

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00:36:45.320 --> 00:36:50.159
be in agreement or to do the
same things, completely agree, completely align

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00:36:50.239 --> 00:36:54.079
on that. Okay, So now
let's hit the last habit here around engaging.

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And I really appreciate that a part
of what you talk about here in

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which we hit upon a little bit
when we were talking about observation, but

519
00:37:01.679 --> 00:37:07.000
you talk about how engaging includes developing
the capacity for asking really good, provocative

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00:37:07.079 --> 00:37:10.960
questions. And I completely agree with
you that the quality of your questions,

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00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:14.519
not the quality of your answers,
as you're distinguished in the book, is

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00:37:14.559 --> 00:37:17.719
really critical. So talk to us
a little bit about engaging and developing this

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00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:23.039
capacity to be provocative in our questions. Yes, so you've listened, you

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00:37:23.119 --> 00:37:27.199
observed, You've got this great information, you know what's important to you.

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So now it's time to go out
into the world and connect. And so

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00:37:30.800 --> 00:37:35.719
the skill that we need is to
increase our capacity to have great social skills

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and to communicate effectively. Part of
that communication is how do you ask questions

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that give you more information, that
engage people, and that create environments and

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communities where we are really connecting in
a conscious way. Right, So asking

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questions like you know, what's happening
here, what's not happening here? Asking

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questions what are the opportunities that we
have together, what are the key goals?

532
00:38:05.079 --> 00:38:08.199
There are so many different things that
we can ask that go beyond just

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those surface questions that allow us to
engage. The key here is that we

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need to be able to practice and
plan how we communicate. And many of

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us communicate just like with the listening, we just have a habit of how

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we communicate. We don't think about
our pauses, We don't have a structure

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00:38:27.719 --> 00:38:30.280
in the book, I give you
an outline and questions to ask. We

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just kind of go out and we
just wing it. It's fine to have

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00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:37.800
those moments, but we want to
take our listening, our observations, and

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our values to actually develop a communication
strategy that's engaging, and our connections will

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be more meaningful and our impact will
be more meaningful. Yes, And I

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00:38:49.599 --> 00:38:52.800
want to take it one step further
because I think this is so great for

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anybody that's listening who is a leader
or aspiring to be a leader. And

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00:38:55.559 --> 00:39:00.800
what you talk about here with regard
to asking the right questions is you talk

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00:39:00.840 --> 00:39:05.599
about how great leaders make rich connections
by being great listeners and curious observers,

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honing their community and inspiring action.
But they when they ask the right questions

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00:39:09.719 --> 00:39:15.440
of their team, they enroll the
team because they're asking them for their ideas.

548
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:19.400
They're not just telling them what to
do, which is not something that

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00:39:19.920 --> 00:39:23.519
motivates or inspires people. And so
that ability to ask those kind of questions

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00:39:23.519 --> 00:39:30.079
and really get people involved and committed
and on board is so so powerful.

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00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:34.039
Absolutely, I call it. You
know, I'm looking at the book here

552
00:39:34.079 --> 00:39:38.239
now. I really have enjoyed writing
this book and just pulling it together.

553
00:39:38.320 --> 00:39:43.320
But I'm thinking about we have a
chapter called the Million Dollar Leader, and

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00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:46.280
in that chapter it's literally about do
you ask the question, how can we

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00:39:46.360 --> 00:39:52.480
leverage our collective skills? What are
we willing to do to reach this goal?

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What are we not willing to do
to reach this goal? How do

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we encourage innovative and creative thinking.
I think sometimes we want to get straight

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to the answers, but we forget
that there is a lot of wisdom and

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connection in the journey right to the
end of the We just want to hop

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to it. Give me your information, give me your brief, But have

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you asked the right questions and have
you really done an assessment as to where

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people are in terms of how motivated
they are, how much energy they have,

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and what. I find that when
you stop to ask these kinds of

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provocative questions, the path and the
strategy changes because you know a little bit

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more about how to go about solving
some pretty big issues that lots of organizations

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have so so so powerful. And
the other thing that we know, of

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course, this show has been on
air for almost nine years, so I've

568
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had a lot of people coming on
and talking about the how leadership is evolving,

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and what we definitely know is that
leaders can't do it alone. The

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world is way too complex. They
need to solicit the input, the ideas,

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that commitment of everybody on the team. And to what you're describing as

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a beautiful way to do that,
Yeah, I mean, I think the

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bottom line is what do you do
when you don't know what to do?

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Right? And you ask questions?
And then the other thing about these provocative

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questions is that many of us are
still relying on outdated information and so we're

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00:41:15.599 --> 00:41:21.079
making a lot of assumptions and until
the question has been asked, it's an

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00:41:21.079 --> 00:41:23.159
assumption until the question has been asked, and so many people it's funny.

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00:41:23.360 --> 00:41:27.960
I talk to clients all the time. This is something I'm going to say.

579
00:41:28.320 --> 00:41:30.719
I would say off record, but
it's on record. The clients are

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00:41:30.719 --> 00:41:32.920
going to hear this. At this
point, many of my clients give me

581
00:41:32.960 --> 00:41:38.039
a whole, you know, a
whole mouthful about their interpretation or assumptions about

582
00:41:38.039 --> 00:41:42.519
the organization. And I secretly tell
my team take it all with a grain

583
00:41:42.559 --> 00:41:45.800
of salt, because they haven't asked
the questions. I really dig in to

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00:41:45.880 --> 00:41:51.719
see where that information's coming from.
And sometimes it's just outdated rumors that have

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00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:54.400
been going around in an organization for
many years, and there's not a lot

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00:41:54.400 --> 00:41:59.480
of teeth in it. They're just
opinions. And so asking these questions really

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00:41:59.559 --> 00:42:02.639
helps us get to reality and gets
the truth so that our strategies will actually

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00:42:02.639 --> 00:42:08.440
work so good and we all need
this kind of help. And the other

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00:42:08.440 --> 00:42:14.800
thing I want to distinguish about your
system that is will be interesting in juxtaposition

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against the next week's show with Ed
Hess. He's talking about really developing your

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person so that you can make it
in today's world of smart technology and remain

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employable, desirable in the world of
work, et cetera. And one of

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00:42:25.960 --> 00:42:30.159
those ways, of course, is
to become more human, right and to

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00:42:30.199 --> 00:42:34.480
become you know, are more emotionally
intelligent, which is a part of what

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00:42:34.519 --> 00:42:37.719
you're talking about as well. So
there's a real there's real utility in this.

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00:42:37.800 --> 00:42:40.199
It used to be when I first
started doing this. Maybe you too

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00:42:40.360 --> 00:42:45.599
is what we're talking about in many
ways would be considered what we used to

598
00:42:45.639 --> 00:42:49.079
be called soft skills and those things
that we don't talk about that at all

599
00:42:49.119 --> 00:42:51.840
anymore. We never refer to the
stuff as soft skills anymore. In fact,

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00:42:52.480 --> 00:42:54.760
I could almost say that what you
and I teaches the hard skills of

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00:42:54.880 --> 00:43:00.559
actually making in today's world today.
Yeah, well, you know, it's

602
00:43:00.599 --> 00:43:06.400
interesting because technology is constantly changing and
because nobody is as smart as we once

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00:43:06.440 --> 00:43:10.159
were because we don't know what's going
to happen tomorrow. These skills of connection

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are really going to be the only
thing that matters because the ability to predict

605
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the future has been hindered. So
you were really smart because you have all

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this experience and so you really could
do a whole lot. But now the

607
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whole game has changed. We don't
know next week what's going to happen,

608
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and so we need that leader that
it's the I kind of start to dance

609
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when I do this, but it's
the it's the foundation of being agile.

610
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The agility is critical, and the
human piece of us is what allows that

611
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agility completely completely align with you on
that. Yeah, one of the things

612
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that you did in the book just
a beginning that I thought was so powerful,

613
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and I want you to kind of
talk about this here for our listeners

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of yours who haven't seen this,
is you have developed this powerful reframing exercise

615
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that you teach and conducting your workshops. And i'll quote from your book,

616
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you say the shift that you're trying
to help people with. The shift is

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the art of reframing our perspective to
get the energy we need to engage practice

618
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speaking about your life in terms of
the things you love, things that make

619
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you happy, and things that promote
your values rather than your misfortunes. So

620
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you have this really powerful exercise that
you take people through on stage. Can

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you share that? Yes, So, just to give some context, the

622
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reason I created the art of the
shift is because adults actually are very sensitive,

623
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and I think we get sad and
our feelings get hurt pretty easily,

624
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and we can get very discouraged.
And I don't think that we like to

625
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talk about how much that discouragement and
the sadness and the disappointment impacts are the

626
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way that we show up and the
decisions that we make at work and in

627
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our lives. We kind of have
this thing. You're an adult, so

628
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you're supposed to be. You're a
professional, you've been doing this for a

629
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long time, and so you're just
supposed to deal with it. But people

630
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aren't dealing with it as well as
one might think. So the art of

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the shift is based on the principle
that if you are energized and you're feeling

632
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good, and you have a different
way of perceiving your life and your experience,

633
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that you are going to engage in
a way that is totally energized and

634
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much more connected. And so what
this is, I take people up on

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stage. It's very popular and I
love it. I actually have people that

636
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call me offline saying can I have
a shift? I just need a shift,

637
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Please give me a shift. I
actually taught my sister how to do

638
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this because I was like, someone
needs to shift me, so she shifts

639
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me sometimes. But what this is
is if you share with me your three

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most important values, that's all I
need to know, and then tell me

641
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a challenge that you are experiencing.
I will almost kind of like that movie

642
00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:54.280
Freaky Friday, jump into your head
and give you a line of thinking that

643
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supports feeling better, feeling more energized, and even support or it's your brain

644
00:46:00.880 --> 00:46:04.639
and getting online that frontal cortex and
probably have talked about that on the show,

645
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so you're not having the amignal attack
getting that frontal cortex online so that

646
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you can begin to think strategically and
clearly about what your next steps can be.

647
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And I've actually seen miracles with this
shift. I've been doing it maybe

648
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for fifteen years, and it is
one of my favorite tools that I use

649
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with leaders and people actually all all
over the world. I do something within

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an identity shift too, that's really
really powerful. So I really really relate

651
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to that. It's just so so
and people can't necessarily do this by themselves.

652
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They need a little bit of you
know, tell you drop in or

653
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divine drop in. So incredible.
All right, we're almost out of time,

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but I do want to give you
just an opportunity just to if you

655
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can share or say in about a
minute maybe or a minute and a half,

656
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I want to just let our listeners
and viewers understand, you know,

657
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what your work looks like. So
when you go into an organization, you

658
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know, can give us an example
of how what we're what was the organization

659
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up against, what are they trying
to accomplish, and how did working with

660
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you and your team actually make a
difference. So we have helped transform really

661
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complex, big organizations. From a
consulting side, we go in and we

662
00:47:10.639 --> 00:47:15.239
do listening sessions. We observe what's
really happening, we see what the values

663
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are, and then we engage the
entire organization in change. And so many

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of our organizations have dealt with a
lot of diversity, equity and inclusion issues.

665
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Many of our organizations have dealt with
actually hemorrhaging people and leaders. And

666
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so this one particular organization that we
use the love system around and developed trainings.

667
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Before they had a ton of conflict. People were quitting, they weren't

668
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sure what was going on. After
they developed communities of practice, people were

669
00:47:45.519 --> 00:47:52.239
signed up and had waiting lists to
engage in learning experiences. There was literally

670
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someone that wrote a letter saying that
if she worked at the organization for thirty

671
00:47:54.559 --> 00:47:59.440
years and she was on her way
to quitting, and she's never been happier

672
00:47:59.719 --> 00:48:02.800
than than the last six weeks.
And it was literally doing I call it

673
00:48:02.840 --> 00:48:08.800
a culture shot of love right going
in and getting to the root of what

674
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matters for people and consciously connecting people, and it really drives outcomes and drives

675
00:48:15.800 --> 00:48:20.760
results really beautiful work. Okay,
so we have managed to get to the

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end of the show already. You
know, the show is listening by people

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around the world who care about elevating
the workplace, elevating the experience of work,

678
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creating those cultures where people are led
by inspirational leaders we do business and

679
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betters in the world. What would
you like to leave them with. I'd

680
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like to leave you with this idea
that happiness and fun absolutely matter, and

681
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for all of us that are dedicating
our lives to helping other people, that

682
00:48:44.039 --> 00:48:46.880
it really starts with us making sure
that you're shifted and you're ready so that

683
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you can see the opportunities that lie
in our experiences with other people. So

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starting with us, Elise, you
and I making sure we're right, and

685
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then we can elevate humanity really important. I'm with you, Talia. I'm

686
00:49:01.079 --> 00:49:05.679
so grateful our pass across. I
loved your book. Thank you for coming

687
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on working on purpose to share your
beautiful perspective, ideas and your foe habits

688
00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:13.599
of love. Thank you so much, Talia. I'm going to grab your

689
00:49:13.599 --> 00:49:16.039
book to Elise. I'm so excited
to know you. Likewise, likewise,

690
00:49:16.079 --> 00:49:19.280
and listeners of viewers are going to
want to learn more about this woman,

691
00:49:19.719 --> 00:49:22.320
Talia Fox, and the work she
and her team do at Kusai. You

692
00:49:22.360 --> 00:49:24.760
also want to check out her book, The Power of Conscious Connection. You

693
00:49:24.800 --> 00:49:28.800
can start just by going to her
website. It's Kusai Training. Let me

694
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spell that for you. It's Kusi
Training Kusi training dot com. Last week,

695
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give you missed the live show you
can always catch to be a recorded

696
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podcast. We were on the here
with Michael Levy, who's the CEO of

697
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work Proud and online engagement and recognition
platform. We talked about the importance and

698
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ways companies can recognize the contributions of
their people and how doing so activates that

699
00:49:49.079 --> 00:49:52.840
their sense of belonging and desire to
contribute. Next week will be on the

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air with Ed has talking about his
latest book, Own Your Work Journey,

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A path to meaningful work and happiness
in the age of smart technology and radical

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change. See you there. Remember
work as one of the best adventures and

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means of realizing our potential and making
the impact we crave. So let's work

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on Purpose. We hope you've enjoyed
this week's program. Be sure to tune

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into Working on Purpose featuring your host, doctor Elise Cortes, each week on

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W four CY. Together, we'll
create a world where business operates conscientiously.

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Leadership inspires and passion performance and employees
are fulfilled in work that provides the meaning

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and purpose they crave. See you
there. Let's work on purpose.