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What's Working on Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder the
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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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at work, to contribute their talents passionately and know their
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lives really matter. They crave being part of an organization
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that inspires them and helps them grow into realizing their
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highest potential. Business can be such a force for good
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in the world, elevating humanity. In our program, we provide
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guidance and inspiration to help usher in this world we
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all want Working on Purpose. Now, here's your host, doctor
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Elise Cortez.
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Welcome back to Working a Purpose program. Thanks for tuning
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in again this week.
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Great to have you.
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This program has been brought to you with passion and
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pride since February of twenty fifteen. I'm your host, doctor
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Elisee Cortes, and if we've not met before and you
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don't know me, I'm an organizational psychologist and LOCO therapist,
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speaker and author. My team and I at Gusto now
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help companies to inlive and fortify their operations by building
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a dynamic, high performance culture and inspirational leadership activated by
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meeting and purpose. You can learn more about us and
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how we can work together at Gusto dashnow dot com
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or my personal site at least Coortes dot com. I
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have a very special surprise for you for this for
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this evening's conversation. Is this going to be your early
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Christmas present?
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We have with us today.
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Richard Barrett a globally recognized thought leader and values based leadership,
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cultural transformation, personal development, and the metrics of personal, cultural,
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and societal well being. He is the President of the
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Academy for the Advancement of Human Values, the founder of
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the Barrett Values Center, leader of the Global Humanity Awareness Initiative,
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the developer of the Barrett's Culture Analytics for organizations and
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global well being. Indicators for Nations, also a fellow of
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the World Business Academy, a former values coordinator at the
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World Bank. He's also a founding member of the the
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twenty Values Task Force for the G twenty. He has
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written numerous books, one of which is What My Soul
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Told Me, which I also read. Richard A hearty welcome
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to Working on Purpose. I'm so delighted to have you
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on well.
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Thank you so much. It is a pleasure to be
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talking to you all the way from London.
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Thank you for joining me. And as I told you,
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when I first reached out to you, I learned about
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you and your work Richard through my mentor Land Secreton,
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who has written also about about twenty two books or so.
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And when I heard what you were doing, especially around
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around your soul, work, consciousness, etc. I was like, I
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really want to talk to this man. So thank you
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for saying yes, good.
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To be with you. What can I say?
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And I love how part of what was so enticing
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about getting to talk with you. I love how you
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talked about showing up for a speech in the Netherlands
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years ago, and you you hadn't really been in touch
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with the organizers, and so you didn't really know what
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they wanted you to talk about. So you just ask
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one I think one person in the audience what what
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do they want to hear about? And then from that
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you just consulted your soul and delivered a fantastic talk.
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So I thought we could do the same here.
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Let's get starting.
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So so the soul, of course I've read now I've
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now read Soul centered Living from Survival Service and of
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course what my soul told me and part of the
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new leadership paradigm. And I have never had anybody so
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beautifully explain how our souls come to us. So let's
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just start there, shall we.
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Well, yes, well, let's just start with a little correction.
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You don't have a soul, no you.
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I am mitule yes, thank you saying that, And that
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is that's.
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A game when you actually realize that, because it means
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that you have a point of reference for everything to
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do in your that you want to do in your life. Well,
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who is the you that wants to do it? Well,
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the soul incarnated into your body, let's put it that way,
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with a few ideas about what it might want to
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do in your life. And as long as you stay
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in touch with that, you will have a lot of
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plain sailing that is insane. It will be totally smooth,
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but you'll be on the right track in terms of
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meaning and purpose and the things that you talk about
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in the introduction to this program. HM.
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Well, and I appreciate that you also said something I
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recognized when when I was reading your book, something about
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you know, if you can get your your if you
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don't align your ego with your soul, then the soul
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willfully express itself.
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Yes. Well, you know, the ego is very helpful in
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many ways, and it develops during the first twenty years
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because of your life, and it's identifies with the body,
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and it lives in a particular culture or experience and
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a family setting, and it has needs, and the needs
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are to survive or feel safe and to feel secure.
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So during those twenty years, that's what you're focusing on,
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That's what the ego is focusing on. And then depending
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on where you live and your parents and all and
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the culture you're brought up in, and you're going to
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learn how to be in that world and get your
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needs met. Now, it may be quite difficult. Not every
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is born to self actualized parents. They may have very
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difficult lives, and they learn what I call maladaptive beliefs.
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They learn that, you know, it's hard to be to survive,
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or it's hard to be loved, or they may have
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a parent advisation you'll never amount to anything, and so
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it's hard, it's hard to be to get everything in place,
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and so the ego develops fears, and it's those fears, which,
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let's put it this way, rock your boat during the
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next few years of your life. And it's the fears
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that prevent the soul from showing up because the energy
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of fear cannot mix with the energy of love. The
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energy of love is the energy of the soul, and
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the fears of the ego get in the way. So
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the first job to do, as soon as you begin
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to realize that you can self actualize and you can
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self realize, is to identify what these fears are that
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are holding you back and try to master them and
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or get over them. Not easy, but mastering your fears
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is the first step in leading yourself. We're talking about
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leadership here as well, and so leading yourself is, well,
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how am I going to lead myself if I can't
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get in touch with my essence, and my essence is
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my soul, and my soul knows why it came, what
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its mode of self expression, is, what it wants to do.
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And so you have to try to get over those
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fears to allow that space or self transformation in order
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to become what eventually would become one with your soul.
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As I said what my soul told me, eventually you
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become one with your soul. But there's a journey in
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the journey starts being with being aware of your soul
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and connecting with your soul, and befriending your soul, trusting
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your soul, and finally becoming one with your soul.
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A couple of things that sporked from that, Richard. One
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is that I believe that you referenced David hawkins work
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in your book, his Map of Consciousness.
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Yes, yes, yes, yes, it's I'm very into consciousness. Yeah,
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very much, and I'm writing book right now about becoming conscious.
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Yeah, there's very much a topic of interest for me too,
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and I had come across this work. In fact, I
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now read two of his nine series of books. I am, yeah,
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I am, I'm in the I'm in this Richard. That
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you can see why I reached out to you. I'm like,
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I have this man on and when your next book
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comes out, we'll have to have you come back on
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and talk about that. But so the idea of what
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you mentioned before, fear and love can't coexist. That I
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appreciate that he and on his map of consciousness, fear
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is like on the scale of you know, zero two,
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a thousand, what is it like one hundred and fifty
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or something like that, and love is it like five
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hundred or something. Is that correct?
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Yes?
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Yes, So then the other thing I would love for
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you to do for us, Richard, is if you could
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un generate as you did in the book. You talk
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about if I have this something about you know, our
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our soul thrust itself onto our physical beings. So you
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talk about like the third and the fourth dimensions or
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something like that. Could you explain that?
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Yeah? Okay, So we think we we believe at the
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ego level that we live in a three dimensional material,
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physical world, you know, and because that's our experience one
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that we're born, that's the world we live in. But
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actually the soul lives in an energetic world, and an
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energetic world, in a higher order, higher order world than
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the physical world, and so and the energetic world. You know,
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you cannot die. The soul cannot die, whereas the ego,
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because it's attached to the body, believes it can die. Now,
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where does the ego come from. Well, the ego is
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the creation of the soul, actually, and it the soul
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creates the ego within a few months of your I'm
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going to say, of being born, but actually in the womb.
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And and as.
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You as you move into the world as a baby,
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you begin to find separation.
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Now, the soul lives in a world of total connection
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and love, and you enter into a world of separation
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and fear. Now, depending on how well you're looked after
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by your caregivers and parents, that can be an easy transition,
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but for many people it's not an easy transition from.
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And so the soul creates this psychic entity called the ego,
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to act as a buffer from the pain of separation.
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Nows the ego can also create psychic entities, and we
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call them alter egos. So this is not too far fett.
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We know about alter egos. And so the soul creates
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the ego, and the ego creates alter egos when it
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cannot deal with what's going on. It develops another person,
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another thing. You have to be pretty pretty out, shall
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I say, in difficult circumstances before we start creating all
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the egos. But anyhow, the soul creates the ego, and
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then the ego doesn't know it's the creation of the
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soul and good about his work of protecting the body,
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which is the vehicle of the soul. And so in
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that sense, the soul is happy to have the ego
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look after is like physical life. But let's not forget
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that the soul actually is in the energy fuel, and
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that energy fuel is a higher dimension of consciousness and everything,
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everything in the world is energy so gradually, so that's
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when so the ego begins to develop fears which build it,
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which which because of the separation, and it's very difficult
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for the soul and the ego to blend together in
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their motivations. If the motivations of the ego are fear
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motivisions of the soul a love driven anyhow, that's the
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journey that we're all on. And really that blending depends
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on two things. One where you're born to self actualized
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parents who are who are not too directive but help
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you to grow and develop in your own way, and
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to what extent are you able to overcome the fears
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that the ego develops in getting its survival, safety, and
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security needs. Now, if you can do those that and
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then you begin to self actualize, and from self actualization
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to self realization or self actualization is different from self realization.
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Self actualization is becoming all you can become in the
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cultural framework of your existence. You self actualize and you
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become the best version of yourself. But within that framework
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of existence, self realization teach you to a whole different
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level where you finally unite with the soul and all
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of the all of the important things, well the things
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that were important when you were self aptizing actualizing. Now
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you're being to look look at and say, no, that's
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not so important to me. Now, I'm not that interested
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in being you know, all of this wealth. I'm not
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that interested in being the best at that. I want
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to find out who I am at the deepest level
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of my being and find empathy and compassion in the world.
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So it's that's the journey of the soul. And yeah,
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there is so you know, pull marks of the ego
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for doing his job, but not too driven by fears. Okay,
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So otherwise you're going to have to overcome that before
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you can really self actualize and self realize.
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So part of where I've come to in my own journey,
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Richard along this line is I have really come to