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What's Working on Purpose?
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Anyway?
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Each week we ponder the answer to this question. People
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ache for meaning and purpose at work, to contribute their
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talents passionately and know their lives really matter. They crave
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being part of an organization that inspires them and helps
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them grow into realizing their highest potential. Business can be
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such a force for good in the world, elevating humanity.
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In our program, we provide guidance and inspiration to help
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usher in this world we all want Working on Purpose.
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Now here's your host, doctor Elise Cortez.
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Welcome back to Working a Purpose program, which has been
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brought to you with Passionate Prize since February of twenty fifteen.
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Already.
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Thanks for tuning in again this week. Great to have you.
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I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortes. If we have not
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met yet and you don't know me, I'm an organizational
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psychologist and local therapist, speaker and author. My team and
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I at Gusto Now help companies to enliven and fortify
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their operations by building a dynamic, high performance culture and
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inspirational leadership activated by meaning and purpose.
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You'll learn more about us on how.
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We can work together at gusto dashnow dot com or
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my personal site at lascoretes dot com. Getting in today's
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program we have with us today. Joc Amram He's a PhD,
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a distinguished psychologist, an executive coach catering to CEOs, entrepreneurs,
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and other influential teacher leaders, and a pioneer researcher in
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the field of spiritual intelligence. Prior to psychology and executive coaching,
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during a thirteen year period, he founded and served as
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a CEO for Individual Inc. And Vallasert, two highly successful
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tech companies that he led through successful IPOs. He's the
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author of Spiritual Intelligent Leadership, How to Inspire by Being Inspired,
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which we'll be talking about today. Our conversation includes coverage
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of the potency of spiritual intelligent, intelligent leadership, it's business impact,
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and a discussion of many of the core aspects of
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being a spiritual intelligent leader. He joined us today from
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Santa Cruz, California, Doctor Imron, Welcome to Working on Purpose.
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Thank you and thank you, Doctor Lees. May I call
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you Lese?
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Please do yes, please do absolutely yeah, see, I will
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thank you. I'm so happy to meet too. I'm always
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grateful that you're a pr person has found us United
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US and I, as you know, read your beautiful book
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cover to cover. I want to just commend you on
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bringing this beautiful contribution to the world. I align with
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so many of the points you made it, as you
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now know through our LinkedIn exchanges. So I think we'll
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have a really good, yummy, juicy conversation about it.
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I am delighted and excited to be here with you
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and this opportunity. I'm enjoying your smile and I'm feeling inspired.
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I'm glad and I will tell you the same thing
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that I told you before we got an air. I
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despairs repeating uh listeners and viewers. Yosi has embarrassed me publicly,
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as happened sometimes with my guest. I often read my
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guest books when I'm out, either on an airplane or
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when I'm exercising at the gym. And there were so
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many points when I first opened your book. You see,
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I was on the on the bike ipsid. Yes that's right, Yes,
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that's that's it, and I'm underlining and everything else that
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I know. People at the gym are like the weird
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old lady on the bike is at it again. She's
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lost it anyway, So I have you to thank you
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for now. People sure that I'm crazy.
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I'm honored.
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I thought you just since the work you do, you know,
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with inspiration, et cetera. But I have to we have
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to surface for our listeners and viewers.
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What who haven't read the book yet.
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Let's talk just a bit about on your background before
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you found your way into coaching CEOs today. I just
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think it's important for them to understand just a bit
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of the high points of your journey that got you
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into the space shom in today.
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Okay, I'll try and cover that, you know, just a
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year and a half. It's a little more than that,
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but I won't reveal this is my deepest secrets. But anyway,
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I was born and raised in Israel, and like all
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young men, was drafted into the military at age eighteen,
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into mandatory three year service. I was a pacifist at
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the time. Luckily it was quiet time. It's horrific what's
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going on there now? And I was a shye introvert,
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math and science oriented kind of kid. And to my surprise,
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I found myself thrust into leadership and had the fastest
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promotion record in the history of my regiment, won all
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these awards. But despite my success, the command and control
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model of leadership in the military, which is necessary in battle,
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really chafed at my soul and I was to some
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days see if I can build an organization based on
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different principles and values that inspire greatness and bring out
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the best in people and helping them actualize their potential
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both as individuals and then in a team and in
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a community environment. And that's kind of what led me
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to come to the US and study engineering and business,
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and from there, as you mentioned, I was the founder
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and CEO of two companies that I had the good
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fortune of taking public. Now in one of them, I
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know I was very focused and driven, and it was
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my lifelong passion. I was working seventy eighty hours a
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week over a six to seven year period, and then
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the Internet came in. It was a big threat to
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our business model, and I started to get depressed and
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frozen with fear and how it's going to affect our
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business and how we're going to reinvent ourselves and can
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we do that? And that was very stressful time. I
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persisted and pursue, and fortunately the company became a high
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flying Internet success and we went public. Our stock was rising,
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and I was stressed out and I was trying to
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relax and one day I was getting a massage, and
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while laying on the massage table, I had this transformative
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experience where all of a sudden, I felt like my
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body was made of consciousness. Everything was made of one enormous,
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fast field of consciousness that I was just part of.
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And the floor that I looked up through the phase cradle,
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looked like it was in me, and it kind of
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blew the circuits of my mind. I experienced what people
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would call a spiritual awakening, but it was so disorienting
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an experience that it threw me into a manic episode.
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I was having all these downloads about the future of
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the Internet as the network of networks that connects everything
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across time and space, and I wanted my company to
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be the leader in bringing that future about. And I
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was initiating several projects because it was like such an
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open field opportunity. But it was just I was ungrounded
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and I wanted everything done yesterday, and my team couldn't
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keep up, and the board thought I was crazy, told
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you I was crazy, people, and so they put me
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on a voluntary leave of absence quote unquote, pushed out
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of the company I started, and our stock price guy
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collapsed and it was headline stories in the Wall Street
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Journal New York Times. It was a lot of shame
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and embarrassment because the people that used to seek my
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company stop returning my calls and my emails, and I
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was kind of relegated to being this weirdo that lost it.
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But you know, slowly I kind of picked myself up
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and I went into therapy, and ultimately that experience changed
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the direction of my life. I went and got a PhD,
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became trained as a psychologist. By then, I was also
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had the good fortune of being an angel investor, helping
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other entrepreneurs as their first investor and going on their
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board and helping mentor and coach them and building their company.
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And I wanted to work with them deeper, and I
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wanted to understand myself, and I wanted to know whether
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this experience of oneness and spiritual awakening was real or
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was it delusional? And that all led me to kind
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of discover this concept of spiritual intelligence was not coined
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by me. It was coined by Dana Zohar a number
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of years earlier. But I wanted to study it scientifically.
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I knew about emotional intelligence and all the research that
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was done to show how it helps our well being
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and improves leadership and so on, and I thought, wow,
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that would be a beautiful parallel if there was such
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a thing as spiritual intelligence. But if you're going to
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study something academically, you have to know defind it precisely,
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and measure it so you could see what effect it was.
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But that didn't exist. So I set on a path
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to define it. And so that started me by interviewing
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seventy one teachers across all the world spiritual tradition, whether
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they were Buddhists or Daoist or Muslim, or Christian or
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Jewish or Hindu, and discovered that there are common virtues
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across all the world's traditions. Service, purpose, compassion, integrity, trust, humility,
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forgiveness are common virtues. And this was very exciting because
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it says, regardless of our theology of or cosmology, there's
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something fundamentally similar. And then from there I worked with
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a colleague and we developed the first academically validated measure
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of spiritual intelligence. And once I had that, I could
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go study. My original question is does a contribute to leadership?
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So I did a study with forty two CEOs and
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two hundred and ten members of their staff and showed
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that spiritually intelligent leaders lead team with higher morale, greater commitment,
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and lower turnover. And I was controlling for emotional intelligence
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to see how the two compliment or relate to each other.
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So emotional intelligence contributed and spiritual intelligence contributed. If I'm
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going to get nerdy, I'll say emotional intelligence explained forty
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one percent of the variant, spiritual intelligence explained forty six
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percent of the variants, but combined they explain sixty seven
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percent of the variant, so that says that they each
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have a unique contribution, but they have a synergistic multiplicative
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effect together and that was kind of what started this
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whole journey. And since then, this measure of spiritual intelligence
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has been used by other researchers and validated in other
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contexts and translated into over a half dozen languages, and
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it's been shown that it contributes to satisfaction of life,
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quality of life, mental health, resilience, productivity at the individual
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and the group level. And it's even been shown that
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leaders with higher spiritual intelligence produce financial better financial results
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for their business units. And so anyway, I'll pause. This
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brings me to hear now.
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In view all right, Well that was incredible, you see,
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and I want to just go back to a couple
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of things because I really want to listeners and viewers
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to understand that they given what you just shared, which
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is incredibly powerful and incredibly alluring and clearly demonstrates your
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prowess in this field and your impact in this field,
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I do want to take you back to just you know,
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this spot where you were you described it when you're
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on the massage table, but I want to situate it
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and that you really say you say in your book.
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I felt an ache in my heart for greater and
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deeper fulfillment.
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I didn't know what that was, but I knew it
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could only be found through exploring my inner sect. And
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I want to bring that home because what I know
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you see is that when I'm speaking to audiences, when
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they feel that sort of emptiness, that's what they're reaching for.
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It is something that speaks to meaning and something greater,
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et cetera. So I want to just have you go
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back a little bit there to situate that for our
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listeners and viewers, and then I would like you distinguish,
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if you would, the difference between inspirational leadership and an
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inspired leader.
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Okay, great, So yeah. I mean, you know, in some
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ways I was, you know, at the height of I
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was physically healthy, I was wealthy, my company went public,
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I was worth millions of dollars. But there was this
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crisis of meaning you're talking about and fulfillment, and there
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was something that was hungering. And that's why I was
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reading all these psychology books and spirituality books, and something
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clicked while I was on this massage table trying to
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relax that said, no, we are part of this one.
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Feel there's no separation. We we kind of think we're
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these skin encapsulated egos walking around separated. I'm looking at
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the plants here on my desk, and there's trees outside,
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and there's you thousands of miles away. But in reality,
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you know, my inhale is the exhale of the plant
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producing the oxygen, and my exhale it's inhale. And there's
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no way I could have built this computer, or my
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clothes or my food on my own. So we're all interdependent.
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We're part of this web of life that we come
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out of and sustains us. We're like single cells in
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this organism. Now we have individual identity, just like any
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cell in my body has an individual identity, but as
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a role has a function, it's unique to it. Whether
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it's embedded in the kidney or in the liver and
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