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What's working on Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder the
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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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at work, to contribute their talents passionately and know their
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lives really matter. They crave being part of an organization
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that inspires them and helps them grow into realizing their
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highest potential. Business can be such a force for good
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in the world, elevating humanity. In our program, we provide
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guidance and inspiration to help usher in this world we
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all want Working on Purpose. Now here's your host, doctor
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Elise Quartet.
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Welcome back to the Working on Purpose program, which has
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been brought to you with passion and pride since February
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of twenty fifteen. Thanks for tuning again this week. Great
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to have you. I'm your host, doctor Elise Cortes. If
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we've not met before and you don't know me, I'm
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a workforce advisor, organizational psychologist, management consultant, logo therapist, speaker
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and author. My team and I at gusta Now help
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companies to unlive it and fortify their operations by building
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a dynamic high performance culture, inspirational leadership and nursery managers
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elevated by activating meaning and purpose. And did you know
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that inspired employees actually outperform their satisfied peers by factor
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of two point twenty five two one. In other words,
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inspiration is pretty good for the bottom line. You can
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learn more about us on how we can work together
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at gustodashnow dot com or my personal site, Atliscortes dot com.
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Getting in today's program we'd had with us Marilyn Vetter,
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who is the CEO of Pheasants Forever and Coil Forever,
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where her professional and personal worlds combined. Pheasants Forever and
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Coil Forever is the nation's leading organization committed to conserving upland,
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birds and wildlife through habitat improvement. Her professional background also
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includes thirty years of strategic leadership, business management, and political
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advocacy in the biopharmaceutical sector. We'll be talking today about
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the roots of a toxic culture, the role of leadership
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and culture, and creating cultures that elevate people. She joined
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us today from Saint Paul, Minnesota, Marland. Welcome to Working
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on Purpose.
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Thank you, thank you for having me. I'm excited about
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our conversation.
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I am too, I am too. I really want to
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harvest and be able to share all these years of
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experience that you've had being able to steward culture and
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you've seen the good, bad and the ugly of course
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in that time. So I want to also just give
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a shout out to Hope Mueller and Jennifer Pastikas who
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brought us together because I got to MC the Thriving
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and twenty five conference. You were also a speaker there
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and that's where this great idea to have you on
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CAMON came to be. So thanks for all of that
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great energy to bring you to us.
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Absolutely, those two ladies are very inspiring and doing so
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much in the workplace. And I love the fact that
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you started with the statistics about inspirational work and that
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it isn't just doesn't just feel good, it does good.
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Right. I love that. Thank you for saying that that's great. Well,
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let's hear since milisters and viewers don't know you as
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I do, let's just hear a little bit about your
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background before you got into what you're doing today, and
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why are you so passionate about what you're doing today.
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So I have, as you said, have been in the
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workforce for a little over thirty years, and my background
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started it's kind of a convoluted web. I started in
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broadcasting and ended up in pharmaceutical sales, and then ended
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up in lobbying, and in the meantime, it's undercurrent in
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my whole life. I had this very strong background and volunteering.
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It's something that our parents established with us very very
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early on, is that you should always give back and
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not just take. So while I did that, I ended
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up on several boards, and one of them led me
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to being on the Pheasants Forever and Quail Forever board,
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and I got to witness an organization that I was
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incredibly passionate about as a member and then got to
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be so much more involved in it, and I got
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to see how the work that they're doing is enriching
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the environment so much more than what people think it is.
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Our name tends to limit people to what it thinks
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we do, when honestly, what we're working on is wild
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places that more people can experience.
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So when the.
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Position for the CEO role came open, I thought, this
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is a great opportunity for me to expose the team here,
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who is an amazing team, very very passionate to what
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a culture can bring them. And I've, as you said,
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had good, bad and ugly. I've been in cultures where
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it was warm and wonderful and I felt supported and
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cared for and heard and valued, and then there's been
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cultures where I felt like I was a widget and
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a number and I didn't fit in. But there are
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so many active things that we can do to enrich
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a culture and build a culture that this was a
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perfect opportunity for me to bring what I've learned to
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a nonprofit sector that oftentimes I think we take people
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for granted and nonprofits because they're doing work that they
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love that they shouldn't have to also work in an
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environment that makes them feel as important as the mission.
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And that's why I was super excited to be able
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to have the opportunity and honor to be part of
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this team.
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Oh that's amazing, Marylyn. Really appreciate that your passion really
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comes through, and I love that because really passion is
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a conveyance of energy. I do want to talk about
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what you have been doing at the organization. We're going
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to save that for the third segment when we talk
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about how we actually elevate people. So we're going to
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talk about the work that you've done there as well.
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But first, what I want to do for this part
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of our conversation is help our listeners and viewers understand
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how they might start to recognize when a cultures, when
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an organization's culture is actually going toxic. First, what's toxic
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and how do we start to recognize that, ooh, we're
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in that kind of a stew you know.
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I think the first hallmark of what toxic feels like
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is when as a participant in that culture and an
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employee in a team where you no longer feel like
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you can make a difference or want to make a difference,
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when you've become apathetic to the organization and feel like
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it's hopeless that I can't make a change, people start
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avoiding their own personal responsibility, and that is the death
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knil of any organization. When people don't feel like they
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can make a difference, they will stop making a difference.
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And I think the number one way you see that
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present itself is when everything goes underground. People stop being candid,
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they stop feeling like it matters, so they don't bring
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up their voice, they don't bring up their issues. And
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once it goes underground, you've really lost the opportunity to
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make shifts. So you have to be able to be
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open and honest and candid with each other. And once
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you've lost that, you know that something big has to happen,
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something big has to intervene, because it really is the
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root of all things. We're going to talk about that
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probably later, about trust and when people feel like they
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no longer can trust to take risks, they stop innovating,
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they stop being creative, and they honestly go silent. And
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when we talked a lot about quiet quitting during COVID,
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I think it's because people felt like this loss of connection,
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and that they did because they lost connection, felt like
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they were no longer connected to the mission and the organization.
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You have to create connectivity, whether it's remote or not,
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and that an organization should should want feedback, should do surveys,
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should ask for the hard things, because once you do
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hard things, you all get better.
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That's gorgeous. One of the things that I know because
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of the work that I get to do when I
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go into organizations where I get the privilege of helping
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them to steward their culture, and really what I love
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doing is helping to activate the meaning purpose, which I
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think is what you've also done. We'll get to that leader.
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But one thing that I recognize right out of the
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gate is I get the benefit as a third party
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coming from the outside of seeing some of those hidden
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or limiting beliefs that are governing the organization that are
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not They're not that the people inside it, the leaders themselves,
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the people that are running organization are not aware of
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these beliefs. So could you talk a bit about how
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limiting beliefs at either the individual level and the organizational
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level create can contribute to creating toxic dynamics.
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You know, I always curiosity for me is as a
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huge driver, and I think that that's in all things,
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not just about learning things, but about how can we
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better our team, how can we better organization, how can
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we better how we deliver to our customers. And when
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we start to limit and we say that this is
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how work will be done, it stifles people's personal investment
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in it. It also makes them feel incredibly marginalized. We
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all have opinions, we all have ideas, and when people
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can't voice those things, when they can't come up with solutions,
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they stop looking for solutions, and that's when the organization loses.
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I think that the most important thing that leaders can
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do is be curious and open and vulnerable, and all
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of those things do not fit in limiting organizations.
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And you know what you were speaking to there when
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you direct people this is how to do the work.
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And there's one particular word in MySpace, the organizational psychology
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space that you're speaking to, and that's autonomy. And we
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know what a strong driver autonomy is for people. I
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have often been just thobsmacked that if I just say
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we want to get here, however you get there, I
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don't care, let's see what you come up with, they
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well surpass what it is we're trying to get to
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with their creativity. So limiting that is just I love
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your earlier death. Now, okay, So now one thing that
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I find interesting, and I was just working with a
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company in February where they were trying to see what
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was under the hood with their culture. I was surprised
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how advanced the toxicity had gotten in the organization and
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the leaders weren't recognizing it. They still couldn't see it.
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So why do you think leaders often fail to recognize
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toxicity when they're in the middle of it, or likely
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the ones that are championing it.
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It's fascinating. Part of it is that lack of awareness.
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Sometimes it's fear. People don't want to admit that there
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are things that could be going better, which we absolutely
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have to face that if we can't face our weaknesses,
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we will never conquer our weaknesses. And I think that's
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oftentimes one of the things that I see in leaders,
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particularly mid stage leaders. You know, once you've arrived at
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that executive level, a lot of times people feel like
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they have conquered enough issues that they feel confident. But
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when people are at mid stage or they have lots
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of folks above them, they tend to be very self
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limiting in about how they attached themselves to success, and
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as leaders, we get hyper focused on metrics, and we
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get so focused on metrics that we think that's the.
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Only measure of performance.
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But if our employees aren't engaged, if they don't feel
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like they are part of the organization or part of
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the success of the organization, then we've missed the best
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opportunities to get the best out of our teams. And
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you know, I think most people want to do.
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The right things, but they get so focused.
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On delivering, whether it's a quarterly earnings report or the
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year in metrics, that they forget that there's so much
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more to the story than that, and people start designing workarounds.
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And I think the other thing that I is that
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people are so averse to conflict. They will do almost
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anything to avoid it. And I find it fascinating, And
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I suppose I was probably guilty of that in my
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earlier stages too, And now I actually relish those opportunities
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where I'm having a one on one with someone to say,
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there is an opportunity for you to be better here.
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How can we address that? When we avoid conflict, we
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steiny people's growth, because if we're not honest with them,
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how will they ever know It's called blind spots for
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a reason, and if we don't address them, then everything
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starts to go underground. People don't feel supported, they don't
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feel like they have an honest, trustworthy leader above them,
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and so I think sometimes leaders get so wrapped in
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either the metrics or protecting themselves that they're afraid to
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be vulnerable. And when we aren't vulnerable, then we're full
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of bravado and and that is we're just not being
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honest with ourselves. Then I really appreciate the depth of