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What's working on Purpose? Anyway? Each week we ponder the
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answer to this question. People ache for meaning and purpose
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at work, to contribute their talents passionately and know their
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lives really matter. They crave being part of an organization
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that inspires them and helps them grow into realizing their
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highest potential. Business can be such a force for good
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in the world, elevating humanity. In our program, we provide
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guidance and inspiration to help usher in this world we
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all want working on Purpose. Now, here's your host, doctor
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Elise Cortez.
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Welcome back to the Working and Purpose Program, which has
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been brought to you with passion and pride since February
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twenty fifteen. Thanks for tuning in this week. Great to
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have you. I'm your host, doctor Relise Cortes. If we've
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not met before and you don't know me, I'm a
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workforce advisor, organizational psychologist, management consultant, logo therapist, speaker and author.
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My team and I at gusta Now help companies to
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enliven and fortify their operations by building a dynamic, high
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performance culture, inspirational leadership, and nurturing managers activated by meaning
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and purpose. Many organizations are not aware of how critical
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not just for their own effectiveness, but also to avoid
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burnout and keep them fulfilled so that they can and
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that they can also measure and monitor the experience of
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operational imperative. So much opportunity there. You can learn more
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about us and how we can work together at gustodashnow
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dot com or my personal site, Atliscortes dot com. Getting
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into today's program we have with us today, the author
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of the New Science and Momentum how the best coaches
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and leaders build a fire from a single spark, which
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is the focus of our conversation. We have Don Yeager.
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He's a twelve time New York Times bestselling author, longtime
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associate editor for Sports Illustrated, and one of the most
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in demand public speakers on the corporate circuit. He is
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the host of the highly rated Corporate Competitor podcast. Also
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with US Today is retired General Bernie Banks, who now
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serves as the director of Rice University's Door Institute for
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New leaders and is a professor in the practice of
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leadership within the university's jesse A. Jones Graduate School of Business.
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Bernie retired from the United States Army in twenty sixteen
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as a Brigadier general after having successfully led West Points
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Department of Behavioral Sciences and Leadership. In his final assignment.
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He has led military units ranging insights from ten to
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three thousand plus people. Additionally, he has engaged with organizations
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around the globe regard in their leadership development efforts. In
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other words, have two amazing powerhouse houses with US Today.
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Don joins US Today from Tallahassee, Florida, and General Banks
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from Houston, Texas. Gentlemen, he hearty, welcome to Working on Purpose.
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Thank Thank you so much, Elise, Thank you It's wonderful
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to be here.
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Isn't it great to be on the other side of
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the mic on?
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You know?
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It's just fun? Right?
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Oh? Great?
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Right, well, let's kick this thing off by celebrating this
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beautiful book you put into the world. I absolutely loved it,
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as I told you before we got on air. Huge fan,
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I want to dive into it.
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I was really intrigued.
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By how you talk about in the book, even just
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the spark for the book, how it came to be.
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I think that that's a really fun thing to kick
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off with. So one of you tell us about how
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this book came into to be present for us.
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I'll jump in. Yeah, many of many of you, many
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of your listeners might remember that there was a Super
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Bowl played a few years ago in which the favored
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New England Patriots had fallen behind the Atlanta Falcons twenty
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eight to three. In fact, midway through the third quarter,
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the odds makers gave New England a point six percent
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chance of winning the game. At that stage, you know,
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Atlanta was a ninety nine point four percent the odds
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of winning. And then suddenly little things started to happen,
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things that hadn't happened previous in the game, Tom Brady,
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the least mobile quarterback in the NFL, suddenly ran for
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a first down and little things started to pile up.
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And what happened was that the Patriots began to change
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the momentum of the organ of the game. And before
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it was over, someone will remember the greatest comeback in
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the history of the Super Bowl. No team had ever
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come back from more than fourteen points down, and the
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Patriots came back to win in overtime. And the very
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next day I came in to my office, opened up
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the whiteboard where all the creative team were gathered in
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the conference room, and just wrote the words, how does
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a moment turn into momentum? How does that happen? How
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do you?
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How do you?
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How did what? How can we explain what happened last night?
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If people are trying to understand, could that happen to
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us in our organization? Could we be the Atlanta Falcons
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and maybe give up a great lead? And over the
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course of the next eight years, I partnered with General Banks,
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one of my great friends for many years, and we
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began interviewing the most amazing leaders in the planet. We
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began going into the field and polling Americans adults on
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what they believe about momentum, because we wanted to explain
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what we could about the about you know, the dynamic
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that that allows that to happen in organizations. And what
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we found was some really incredible detail. And I know
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we'll get into that with you a lease, but but
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it's it's it's a It was an amazing journey. I
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think both Bernie and I we were sad we had
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to cut it short. We would have gone five more
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years interviewing people because we were so into it. But
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you have to stop at some stage and right, and
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I'm grateful that you enjoyed it.
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I do understand that, and I absolutely love that. I
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wish I would have been there in your back pockets
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for the whole trip. I would have been.
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Cheering you on and ask this too.
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Okay, So one of the things that I think I
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really gravitated to that I think is pretty core to
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what you write about for Momentum, which we'll get into next.
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But I think I want to situate first role of
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mirror neurons and of course the concept of flow. If
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you can situate and kind of explain how mirror neurons work,
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why they're important, and of course white flow is related
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to momentum.
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Yeah you want me to take it? Yes, okay, good,
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So I'll tell you. One of the first things we
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started thinking about was, you know, there was some pretty
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famous work done about thirty years ago by a researcher
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in Santa Clara, doctor named me Hi, and his last
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name was so long I couldn't pronounce it.
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I've always said it chisholm Ahley, but I'm sure that's
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not right.
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It's something close, probably as close to that. He told
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me to call him doctor c. Yeah, I got it worked,
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Doug great, which is what Mike Krzyzewski does to coach
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k but the uh. But me Hi actually agreed kind
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of in the early stages of our research to sit
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down with me, and it turned out to be one
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of the very last interviews he got a chance to
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do before he passed away a few years back. But
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in that dinner with he and his wife, I proposed
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to him that flow as as he defined it, which
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is the ability to believe I'm in I'm in flow. Right.
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We've heard that phrase used before where suddenly you look
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up and you don't realize that that it's it's quitting
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time because you've been so engaged in your work, you
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love what you're doing so much that you don't see
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the clock. You're writing and suddenly it's two in the
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morning and you have no idea. That's flow. But what
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we wanted to propose was that when a group of
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people get in flow, that's when you create momentum. Right,
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it's group flow, which is different than what he studied,
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And by the time dinner was over, he was fully engaged,
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he was excited, he was cheering us on, encouraging that.
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This was exactly the extension of his work from thirty
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years earlier and couldn't have been happier to offer us
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advice and counsel. So flow is that ability for an
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individual to be moving towards something special. Momentum is when
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a group of people are doing exactly that, when a team,
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an organization, a company are moving together in a lockstep.
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And so with that, the next thing that really kind
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of came out was this idea about mirror neurons. One
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of the ways that doctor c encouraged me to look
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at this concept was that there's a fair amount of
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research done right now on mirror neurons, which is the
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ability for two people to feel something similar even though
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only one of them actually experienced it. Right, I'll just
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put it really simply. It's like if you and I
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work at the same place a lease, and you complete
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a masterful sale, something really big. Instead of being jealous
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that you were the one to complete it, I actually
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I'm as happy for you as if I had completed
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it myself. And that's and that is when mirror neurons
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are flowing in very simple ways. Some people talk about
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it like when you go into a room and somebody
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yawns and suddenly other people start yawning. That's that's the
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action of mirror neurons actually taking and physiologically playing itself out,
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even though neurologically it was me who yawned, and then
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suddenly you feel the need to. And so mirror neurons
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are when that group of people moving in flow together
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are actually capable of celebrating each other as opposed to
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finding jealousy amongst one or the other, because you are
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going to get credit for this moment as opposed to me.
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And so those two elements of the project were ultimately
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very important in our understanding and our description for others
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of how momentum can become a collective.
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Effort beautifully explain. Yeah, that's okay.
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It's a really important concept I think for listeners and
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viewers to get as we go along here, very very powerful.
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And by the way, I'm proud to tell you that
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in the ten and a half years that I've hosted
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the show, not one says my guest yawned on the show.
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So therefore I didn't yon either. Don't even start, don
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You're not going to be the first one.
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So now we've done all that, let's talk about what
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is momentum? Why should we care about this?
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Yeah?
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I think the build off of what Dodge has shared,
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I like to think of it as a belief with
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respect to do we think things are working for us
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or against us? Quite simply, you know, going back to
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this notion of flow, is the flow head in the
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right direction? Is the flow head in the wrong direction?
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Do we feel like we're swimming with the current or
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against the tide? You know? And so it is a belief,
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it's a mindset, it's a mindset, and that mindset, it's
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important for leaders to be intentional about how they shape
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the mindset and beliefs of their other teams. And so
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in the research that we conducted and the interviews that
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we were privileged to take part in, we examined how
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leaders across four different verticals, business, sports, politics, and the
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military went about creating momentum throughout their careers. And the
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stories they shared were fascinating.
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All right, love just some of the descriptors you have
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in your book, and there's just so many great things.
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I ran out of the ink when I was highlighting
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your book. But I like how that momentum has been
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described as a competitive energy tsunami. That sounds good to me,
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a great exaggerator, which is what John Maxwell said, and
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a force multiplier. I mean, doesn't that sound pretty good
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If you're trying to get a team to a win,
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and you're trying to do something in turn a company around,
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or you're performing a military operation, that all sounds pretty
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good to me.
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We should all want that, would we? I mean, would
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that wouldn't wouldn't the opportunities for us to be successful
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be greater if any one of those things things were
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true within our team?
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Yeah?
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And I like what you also said when we talk
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aboutmentum you say in your book and I quote you say,
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we start with the premise that momentum exists and can